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Help me out anons how do I fucking kill this vidya addiction? Its like my mind is being torn apart because its telling me it wont be good for my education (studying to be a dentist) but at the same time it feels good playing with friends.

For a replacement I've been looking at learning how to draw whether that be weebshit, realistic stuff or maybe just scenery I dont mind. Maybe even playing piano would be cool. Any kind anons out there battling addiction as well? Pls help out
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It aint easy. I managed to quite online games completely. I haven't played any online game for 2 months today. The thing was that i stopped hanging with a few of the people i used to play the most with, so that helped me stop entirely. Wish you luck though, i don't have many useful tips, just saying it's possible. I still play singleplayer games but nowhere near as often as i used to play WoW and CS GO. Back then i could literally play all day, 14 hours in a row, now i play a couple hours of singleplayer (role playing games) a day at most.
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>>16900157
Sell all of your consoles. If you have a computer capable of playing games efficiently, sell it and buy a computer/laptop with a shit processor and/or video card, so it's not enjoyable to try and play video games.
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>>16900536
I don't recommend this hard approach, it's better to improve your discipline, than completely restrict the source of your issue. A man needs to be able to control himself.

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Would I be absolutely retarded to quit grad school?


I'm in my 3rd year of a 2 year masters, and just... Everything I wanted to do didn't work out, but my advisor claims I have enough for a thesis. But I hate what I'm doing, I have zero interest in it. It's not that I'm stupid, I've aced every class I ever took without effort, I just can't make myself write this shit. It seems so pointless. And I'm in geoscience so the market is fucked and I have no hope for a job with this degree and honestly it doesn't really apply to much else besides a very narrow field.

I just... Should I somehow force myself to just fucking finish? I'm rapidly running out of time, no more funding and my savings are dwindling... I'm also depressed, and stressed out, and suffering from severe anxiety. But I'm terrified I'd be throwing everything away for stupid reasons. Also I don't want to disappoint my family and friends and everyone that assumed I'm so smart and would do great things. I can't stand the guilt of that, of being a fucking failure when I've always been successful at everything.


I just don't know what the fuck to do. All I know is I've made some apparently shit choices and am not at all happy where I am now. But I've come so far already...


Alternately how the fuck can I get rid of this apathy and motivate myself? I have to do something.


I know this comes across as whiny but I'm just completely I don't even know, like just fuck my shit up...
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>>16900145
>3rd year of a 2 year masters
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>>16900161
Yes, and?
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>>16900145
I'm fully aware that a lot of my problems are my own fault for fucking around and not working harder and sooner.
I'm just wondering if I have put myself in an untenable position at this point and might as well call it quits, or if I should bust my ass and try to fix my fuck ups.

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I asked her out and she still hasn't responded, it's been 6 hours. I'm done the stress is killing me.
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>>16900096
>asking someone out over text
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You fucking moron.

The answer is "NO"

MOVE ON
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Its a no OP. Move on with our life.

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My mother is giving me the option to go to college or get kicked out. There are no trade/tech schools near me and she refuses to help me get into a trade. I don't want to go to college, so how can I support myself?
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I went to a CC directly after HS and dicked around with random gen. eds. with no goals in mind. Grades suffered, dropped a bunch of courses, mom kicked me out of the home. Moved in with a best friend and worked a shitty min. wage job. Realized the life of a min. wage cuck is not the life for me so I saved money and bought a car+insurance and decided to go back to school, more motivated than ever.
Mom took me back with 1 rule, nothing lower than a B.

I'll be graduating with a 3.8 in Information systems + finance minor next year.

/endblog
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>>16900091
You get a job, you mong. Start applying right now before all the students get out of school and take all the summer opportunities. You'll get some piece of shit fast food or retail gig, but it'll pay your bills assuming you find a place with a couple of roommates.
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Is your mom paying for college? If she is apply to a cc. And use the fall semester as extra time. When u fail just tell her it isnt for you. During the time your supposed to be in classes go find a job and work on finding roommates

Hey /adv/, I need some advice.

So lately my girlfriend has drifted away from her friends, due to a variety of reasons. One of which being her friends are really close to her ex boyfriend so they hang out together all the time, and since my gf and her ex are not on good terms, she doesn't get included. Her other best good friend went off the deep end, and none of her other friends live in the state anymore. She's been getting very lonely and down. We talked about it and she is happy that I'm there for her but she wants girl time, y'know? So I just don't know what to do. I spend as much time with her as I can because I don't want her to be lonely, I want her to have fun and be able to hang out with some of her friends. But most of them are being dicks and I don't know how to help her.

Thanks in advance.
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just kill her, why put up with the pressure to find her some friends when you could just chop her head off? I personally would probably go for an axe execution but if you want you can do it samurai style. Remember it's the coolest thing you could do and any consequences don't matter because it's worth it.
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>>16900080

Tell her to get a social hobby. Just make sure that hobby isn't barhopping or stripping.
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>>16900124
Dude if youre gonna bait do it right. You gotta be more subtle and make it slightly believable. You make Pegasus look like a mastermind

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How does one get a job in IT or Coding ?
I've been doing it as a hobby from Khan academy and W3Schools online for about a year now.
What would the steps be need to land a job?
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Even if you had a computer science degree, what matters is a portfolio of your works that you can show to prospective employers
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>>16900070
Get your certificates.
Get some experience, just work on your own networking set up and school yourself on networks, infrastructure, and maintenance.
I know it's difficult to just throw yourself into outside experience but it's crucial to build a portfolio of things you've done and your own works.
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Step 1. Apply for a job of your choice

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I need advice on looking for employment in another country before moving there. Also what's finding a job like in Canada?
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Job market is shit here in Canada. Government applications even have you require to put down if you are a minority or not they pick race over qualifications. Also a lot of jobs will put you on the spot at a job interview and get you to do an IQ test but legally they are not allowed to.
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>>16900378
Your best bet is to look for jobs all over the world and just move to wherever has a good job market for the field you want to get into. It all depends on what kind of job you want.

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so my gf just texted me about her wanting to break up since she feels dissapointed... I really like and love this girl, i was lucky that she was the one to ask me out. She said to me that she wanted to take it kinda slow so i decided to not push her to do anything that she didnt really agree to (not talking about rape you lewd weirdo).

She is talking about a breakdown i had the day it was our anniversary, i was just kinda pissed not at her but well other life stuff, so the anniversary didnt go quite well.

other than that it has been going really well even though we are talking it pretty slow.

i just dont know what to do... what to say... i might just end it all... nothing else in my life is doing so well... she was the only thing i had going other than my art, and we all know how shitty most artists have it unless they are very gifted n shit.

pls i dont know anywhere else i can ask for help on this, is it even possible to like cancel a break up? idunno anymore.
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Here is the text just for good measure...
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>>16899980

Alright anon, I think I can help you out here.
This happened to me about a year ago and I did everything wrong, everything, and through
constant and /adv/ threads I know what you should do.

First off, say are you sure about this, is this really what you want, and after you get that answer, drop her.

You both seem to have a issue, you with your life shit, her with her anxiety.

You are your most important person and you need to get whatever you need under the rug. I was depressed, and it affected me way more than I ever thought it was and it ended a good relationship.

Second, she has issues as well. It's more than likely bullshit, "m-muh anxiety," is really you fucking stress me the fuck out. It's stupid, but it boils down to that. She wouldn't break up with you over superficial shit like a anneversary, there is something else you are doing.

Third, to maybe save face, or some special spark of a relationship. No contact. Just say," If this is how you feel, okay." Leave it at that and no talking to her. Work on yourself and just look the other way. Maybe three months down the road you check up on her, but to be honest block her out and actually work on yourself

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I'm getting kicked out in a week. I don't have a driver's license. Any advice?
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>>16899974

If you're going to be homeless, get a gym mebership. Free shower. There you can storage your stuff and maybe get some sleep.
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>>16899974
get you license. Not that it would help if you dont have a car.
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More importantly: Do you have a job?

If you can get some money, I guess it's time to find someplace else to live. I suggest going someplace with public transport or an environment with all of your basic needs in walking distance.

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What are the odds of someone spending over 5 grand on a household decorative item i.e. bedding, a rug, etc? If I had $8000, I'd be able to afford comfort and something to look forward to, which would be enough to keep from killing myself.

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Also, would it be more likely to sell if the item was handmade?
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none

used items go for little to nothing, that's the only reason strangers buy them. if you have to ask they're probably not valuable.
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>>16899995
It's not used, it's new and handmade.

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sup guys its me, anon, again (killme4thisjoke.jpg)

I have a short question.

im talking about that muscle we compress when we close the anus, that muscle that allow us to suddenly stop urinating.

im a wizard lvl 70 with max stats, so, I was wondering, do you guys actually compress that muscle while you're having sex? do you just relax your entire junk while still have the erection and use that muscle in the final moments? I find myself pressing the shit out of that little fella just to stop myself from finishing off my opponent ell the time, i mean, i press it 97% of the time even from the start. Is that wrong? I guess it is?

would you guys give me a protip? Im lost here.

thanks anons.
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Man,i was asking myself the same question. F Cause i have to focus on not compressing it
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That's your pubococcygeus muscle

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In the past 10 years I've prided myself by keeping my computer relatively clean and have never had a severe virus bother me. Suddenly, I keep getting a CTX virus popping up, and my computer is soft locking about once every 20 minutes, but I can still move my mouse. After about 30 seconds, everything goes back to normal.
I can't seem to get rid of it no matter what I do, but what bothers me is that I can't figure out how I got it in the first place. I rarely use Email, and I don't download movies or games off the net or use torrents. Could someone else's computer on my network have somehow sent it over or something?
Anyway, anyone have advice on how to get rid of this virus? Starting to get nervous.
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Full reinstall is the safest option. It's less scary than it sounds.
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Could be another device on the network but you should also consider security flaws in some software accessing the net could be at fault too. Just do what the other anon said and reinstall your OS. You should do that every now and then anyways.
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>>16899918
google the virus and how to remove it. Its not really that hard.

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I want to upload a video I edited and was wondering if someone has experience about using copyrighted music. I have seen tons of videos like this existing that can fall into the humor parody and nobody touches them.
However I have also seen many videos being removed.

I know for sure that my video/audio footage is not copyrighted BUT I use some music overlayed from an anime OST. Not looking for moneys out of this, it was just a quick thing to sharpen my editing skills.
Will it make any difference if I uploaded as unlisted?
Will it make any difference if I upload it as a specific category like entertainment or something to avoid detection?
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I used to run a youtune channel, 600 subs in so nothing too big.

From what I know the recent changes to youtube(like youtube red) kind of made the copyright bindings tighten a bit. Seriously, my 1 year old vid was forced to change music since I dont own the music. (It was k-on heart goes boom btw).

So yeah, if youre gonna upload a vid, make sure in you settings the vid will be put to unlisted or private, then leave it for a few hours ( or a day) and check if it triggered youtubes copyright bullshit. If it does, change music, if not tou're good to go.
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>>16899909
look up some youtube videos of people explaining how fucked up the copyright system is on youtube

there's a guy who uploaded a black screen with no sound playing and people still manually claimed copyright on his video. it's currently a major flaw with the youtube system, people can make false claims and literally steal ad revenue. even if their claim fails or they don't renew it they get to keep any money they leach so it's become a bit of a copyright troll industry in itself.

as for the anime music, it depends on the right holders or any trolls. some Japanese studios have been more hostile against youtube and might issue a takedown notice. I'd look up the specific song you want to use and see if there are old youtube videos with the song. if there are you're probably safe from a permanent takedown.

for detection, youtube has automated the audio side of things. if the song is in their database and they detect it then whatever the right holders want done with the song will happen. they might put ads on the video, etc.
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>>16900150
>>>16899909 (OP)
>for detection, youtube has automated the audio side of things. if the song is in their database and they detect it then whatever the right holders want done with the song will happen. they might put ads on the video, etc.
This is pretty much why I suggest putting the vid first as unlisted or private. Helps you adjust immediately

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I signed up two days ago, never used it before and recently started looking to date again, so of course I signed up with Tinder.

I just have a hard time believing all of these girls are actually real and looking to date. Are they all prostitutes? Cambots? Any insight anons?

Pic related
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Most are cam whores
I had one decent conversation with a girl on there once
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>>16899912
So, its like Ashley Madison.

Thats lame. Why does everyone give it so much buzz?
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>>16899937
Don't know. I guess it's where you live. Like if you're in Texas you'll probably get a bunch of pigs

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HELP WITH FIRST TIME SEX: 22/M with 26/F girlfriend

So where do I start. I will say i had a lot of fun and had a really really good time just being with her, but i thought sex would feel better, maybe I suffer too much from deathgrip or I did something wrong.We had talked that maybe today would be the day we first had sex. I didn't tell her it was my first time (yeah I know) but that I hadnt in a really long time. Told her to tell me what she liked and what she didn't and to not fake anything so I wouldn't get bad habits (hopefully this will be a long relationship so we have time to improve).


So she came to my house, saw that I was nervous as hell just thinking that today may be it so we just started making out to push out the nerves. After a while I started touching her all over bit by bit, but she didn't want me to go for the main plate, so we just went to bed, got undressed and continued there. She told me my dick was too big and that she didn't know if it would fit, I laughed because I always considered my dick somewhat small (around 5,5-6 inches? Haven't measured it in a while)


Then I asked her if I could go down on her (first time too) and was really surprised by how good she tasted and how wet she already was. I started kissing the legs and ended up sticking one on her while licking her. She didn't seem to enjoy too much the finger and it seemed to me that she wasn't liking that much that I went for the clit that soon(or the area, since I couldn't see that much ), so I went with my plan B of opening her labia and just licking her slowly from bottom to top with a flat wide tongue. She seemed to love it and soon I was just sticking out my tongue and it was her who was grinding it and moaning. That was a totally glorious moment for me, but I had been down there more than 10 minutes and my tongue was exhausted. I held on as much as I could and the she told me to go up and kiss her. I don't think she came, but if she didn't it was definitely close.

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Then I went to finally stick it in her, grabbed a condom and went missionary on her. For the life of me, I couldn't find her hole, even though I was just down on her and had sticked a finger without problem first try. Whatever, we laughed a bit and she grabbed it and put it in her a bit. She asked me to do her slowly, so I pushed in a bit, then back, then a bit further and back again and then I pushed in all I could and stayed for a couple seconds.


Forward it a bit she asked me to go harder, I felt her vagina was really warm and cozy, but I felt kind of if only the head of my dick was inside her, and as if I pulled back to push hard again it would definitely go out. We changed positions to spooning and she loved it when I grabbed her around her neck and pushed her down against my cock by the shoulders and I yet again I didn't feel as if I was going balls deep ( the head of my dick is a bit bigger than the shaft, so that may be why?) , just as if I had half my cock inside her and if I pulled too much it would fall out and if I pushed all the way in it wouldn't go that much in. She came and told me we could do anything I wanted, so I told her to try doggystyle next because I always heard it was one of the positions where you can have more penetration. It was just the opposite, it felt as if my dick was too short or our position was not good enough but our meat was pushing and my dick wasn't reaching too far.

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She then told me the condom was dry and that it was hurting her so I went for another, but I had problems staying fully hard so after a bit of thinking we decided to do it without condom (she is on the p ill, we were tested some time ago and I had already eaten her pussy, so...). We went back to spooning and had some fun, but the feeling with and without condom wasnt that much different. I could definitely stay harder and everything was hotter, but still had the same problems with not feeling like it was all the way in and not stimulating enough for me, I guess from years of self masturbation.


Then she rode me for a while and it was the best I felt all night, but still didn't even come close to cunning. Finally she grabbed my dick and after resigning to the fact that I would not come (told her it didn't matter and that it would come eventually after more practice) she used my dick kind of like a vibrator to stimule her clit and came again.Then we hug each other for the rest of the night while I kissed her and touched her everywhere gently until we felt asleep.

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As I said I had a lot of fun and loved to be with her, kiss her, grab her, do her slow and hard. The thing as I said is that it didn't feel like I was close to cumming even once (although it did feel good, warm, and loved to have her liquids all over me) and that I felt like I would have more range of movement between the head and a full thrust, so sometimes I felt like I was not moving too much just so it didn't go out (which happened a ton of times). Also I felt like I just couldn't fuck her in certain positions like doggystyle or her on her tummy with her legs closed, not sure if because I'm small (even though she told me that I was wrong about my size) or because I was doing something else wrong.


This took a while to type and I know it will take some reading, but I had to ask the things and didn't want to really talk about it with the people I know (aside from her which we will). So thank you and every tip will be welcomed.

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