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I'm dropping out of uni tomorrow. Any advice?
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>>16898131
Give us back story, anon. What happened?
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>uni
Well since you're in Europe you won't have 20k in loans to immediately start paying off. Get a job, find something you enjoy besides you're previous major, be prepared to be looked down on constantly
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>>16898131
accustom yourself to /r9k/ my friend.
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Verbal and text communication 2016-03-10 05:45:25 Post No.16898120
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Verbal and text communication
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I feel like talking and texting are limited. I feel like their is a giant heap of things to do to have a certain outlook. I'm starting to see how people play a certain a game to get what they want. For example, I see my coworker gets upset at certain things said and my other coworker does this. I feel like if people have an end goal, anything will be done to get that end goal. My friend wants to be friends with a girl, but needs to relate to her. I set myself up for him. I get in an argument with her on purpose, so he can step in and agree with her. She likes guns I say I hate them. I really don't have an opinion though. My friend jumps in and says how guns help and shit. She sees this and has someone to side with, a friend. It's a weird fucking game of setups life is. Plus I adjust my tone and use body motion.
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>>16898120
cheers for the blog update
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Hey /adv/
I've recently been having thoughts of harming others. Really they're more like day dreams. I don't mean fantasies though. I don't want to hurt anyone, but I'll catch myself zoning out and imagining myself hurting or killing things. For instance, I was chopping bamboo with a machete with a coworker a few days ago, and machete in hand I imagined taking it and slamming it into the back of his neck. I saw it happen like I was actually doing it, but I snapped out and went back to work.
I think I need help guys. I just don't want to be monitored by doctors. I don't want anyone knowing that could keep me from living my life and pursuing my future like I plan on doing. I've seen a few psychiatrists before for minor depression issues, and didn't appreciate any of their attitudes. I just wanted to have a conversation, but they only offered solutions to problems I had barely discussed with pity in their eyes. I don't want help from that /adv/.
Who do I go to? Surely someone on here has been in a similar predicament, or at least has plenty of experience with psychiatric help. I'm almost afraid I'll hurt someone when I don't even realize it.
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Just curious; have you ever killed an animal? Like a bird or a frog for example.
Also have you ever watched videos of accidents / people getting hurt?
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>>16898123
Couple weeks ago I went hunting for squirrels. The plan was to get some meat for a few meals I was planning. Fresh and natural and all that. I've done it before.
I ended up just killing a cardinal though. Shot him 3 times before he died. I only felt frustrated because I'm worried about my mental well-being. I didn't feel bad for the bird.
As a kid I would shoot and kill squirrels, chipmunks, and birds with a pellet gun. Never touched any of them with my hand though. I always threw them over my fence into the woods with a shovel. I only ever actually used the meat from a squirrel a few months ago. It felt good having that killing be worth something. Only done it once though.
I browse gore threads a few times a week. I have a folder on my computer with plenty of it, mostly car-related incidents.
Yep.
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She puts multiple heart emojis after every text, and all her friends have been treating me different by being nicer and wanting to hang out with me when they didn't even know who I was a month ago, is it time? Should I ask her out? But I'm scared because she is a dime
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>>16898101
Yes, ask her out. You want to, right?
Do it faggot.
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Eat dat pussy
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What are you two, like 14?
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What do you advise this guy to wear? 2016-03-10 05:32:36 Post No.16898080
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What do you advise this guy to wear?
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Guy on the left. Swimwear, underwear, jeans, pants, shirts.
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>>16898080
Dat ass
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you could fucking bounce a quarter off that ass
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I want to fucking die, how do I stop that feeling?
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Well, by killing yourself of course.
Or you could tell us what is troubling you.
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Have you tried doing anything differently to normal?
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Find something worth living for.
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/adv/ I need your help. One last advice.
I'll greentext:
>be fatty 6'5" 360lbs mediocre facial aesthetics
>start exercising. become 265lbs become classified chubby but under clothes
>join university applicant chat
>chat with one girl whos applying to the same thing as me
>were hitting it off really cool
>i have adopted a lot of normie traits throughout the years tho
>we agree to meet up on spring break since were going to the same city and our hotels are close
>(our chat is really flirty and shes 80% down to fuck. not saying it straight because girls don't wanna seem like sluts)
Now everything seems cool and fine now but I have this fear that shes gonna reject me the minute she sees me. I know my way well around texting but just like every other person I will be scared in person.
The reason I fear she will reject me is that I may be a catfish. Most of my pictures are taken by my photographer friend and the snapchats I send I am often wearing a sweatshirt or the snap excludes my body.
She, on the other hand, is fairly attractive so she may perceive me out of her league.
Have you been in the same situation? How can I avoid a situation like this? I am just clueless about what is going on and would appreciate any bit of analysis you can give me.
for the record, I am a virgin. (kissed a drunk (probably on ecstasy as well) girl in a rave and that's it.) thanks /adv/
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Bump. This is what I look like in good clothing
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Might as well go for it, what is there to lose? I went on a tinder date a couple weeks back. I didn't know how it was going to go and I was scared of messing up. I also just got out of a very long term relationship of 3 years. It was a fun experience and I would do it again, but I'm not in the mood to date atm.
You look like a normal guy to me, I don't see why she would be turned off.
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>>16898156
Lol faggot you don't look that bad. Keep lifting and fuck that hoe.
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When's a good time to swooce in and get the rebound off a breakup?
It's been three weeks and he ex is now with another chick and she is still hung over him.
Is now a good time to swooce in? I figure maybe because her ex has a new gf and she wants someone with her? Idk.
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I think it's best to be careful with this. The timing is important.
I recommend plotting a course.
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>>16898039
God damint /adv/ you have some good taste in YTP.
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yeah if her ex has a new girlfriend already then you're probably good to go
Girl I dated for 2 years broke up with me a month ago and is already basically in love with another guy. Ive been feeling so shitty lately and im still friends with her but it hurts. She says she loved me but I feel like if she did it would have taken her longer to get over me. What do you guys think? wat do?
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>>16897998
You aren't friends. You're just clinging on to your cheating fucker of an ex and she's putting up with you purely out of guilt for cheating on you. No one can move on that fast unless they already had something lined up. Stop contact 100% so you can focus on healing yourself mentally.
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I've been with (and easily gotten over) tens of women but the _image_ of my last gf won't get out of my head and it's driving me up the goddamn wall. Don't miss her bitchy personality, it's all her body, let me list this shit out:
>Average face. White with a little native american. Thin arms, narrow shoulders and super thin waist. Flat stomach.
>LONG legs, big soft thighs, super wide hips, gigantic yet firm ass. Breastfeeding-sized nipples despite having c-cups, a real mouthful
>Like 160lbs.
>Basically i guess what I'm describing here is a fertility goddess incarnate. Shame she liked to get drunk and cheat on me because I miss having this bounce around my house.
I'm afraid I can never find skinny women attractive ever again but I don't care because since her I love this type so much. Her body made sex so interesting and fun and passionate. I've cuddled with all kinds of women but she was by far the best to cuddle with, I really can't put into words how sexy AND comfortable it was to be able to wrap my entire body around a big sexy ass (I'm a skinny fucker). When i was laying on my back and she held me with a big warm soft thigh over my midsection... holy fuck. Anyway I'm not trying to write an erotic novel here but it does feel better to let this out.
How do I meet/where do I find more women like this? (I don't like black girls.) Is this body type common or uncommon? Am I a shallow piece of shit for looking for my next gf based totally on this body type?
Fuck man
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>I'm not trying to write an erotic nove
Well damn Anon, you almost did though. Left me with a semi.
>Am I a shallow piece of shit for looking for my next gf based totally on this body type?
Honestly yes, i think so. Who knows, maybe there's a girl out there with a body type that gets you going even more than your previous gf? Or maybe you're just infatuated with her still, you could just give it some time and let the feelings fade away.
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>>16898023
>maybe you're just infatuated with her still, you could just give it some time and let the feelings fade away.
But that's the freaky part, it's been like 5 months, I was 100% glad she was gone for the first 3 or so but the past several weeks seems like I just miss her more and more, like I forget all the drama and bullshit and only remember the amazing shit that happened in my bed with her interesting body. Wtf ?
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>>16897995
Her legs freak me the fuck out. But to each their own. Everyone has a type they like.
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I want to get help but I don't want to be put on medication. Can anyone help ?
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Go see a counselor/therapist and not a Psychiatrist. The former helps you sort out mental problems, the latter medicates mental disorders.
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>>16897928
I'm scare though...what if they just send me straight to a hospital ...
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>>16897939
Speaking as someone who sees a counselor regularly AND is also on medication for depression and anxiety, I can tell you that (1) the only situation that they're going to do that in is if you literally say "When I leave this session, I'm going to kill myself/others." Even if you say you're feeling suicidal, they're not going to commit you. At least, in my experience they won't.
During my first session, she asked me if I felt suicidal, and I said "sometimes." He response was "I'm sorry to hear that. Do you think you're in danger right now?" if you answer "no" then the counselor will help you sort out the feelings. If you answer "yes" then you actually do need to be in a hospital.
Don't be scared. It's one of the best things I've ever done for myself.
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I'm a 24 year old male currently just testing the waters with this girl I'm interested in. However the topic of sex hasn't really come up yet, and my sexual history is a little weird. I was chronically sexually abused as a kid and was a male hooker for awhile. After coming to a point of healing; my sexual pallet is very limited, sensitive and extremely vanilla (Not that I can't be passionate) . How do I bring this up in an organic manner without it seeming like sex is all I'm interested in? I just know if she's not on the same wavelength sexually I won't be able to cope w/o hitting the pipe again.
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Wait until sex is actually on the cards. Don't bring it up yet, because she might not want sex with you.
If you do both want to fuck, you don't have to tell her everything. Just say you want to go slow, etc. I'm sure if she said the same thing to you, you would respect it.
Only if things are getting into a serious relationship should you consider telling her about your history.
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>>16898029
I'd like to bring it up before things get too serious and before initiating sex, so I don't get too hurt. I've come to use sex as a means for intimacy and sensitivity.
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>>16898185
>I've come to use sex as a means for intimacy and sensitivity.
Well, there's the main issue. Maybe you can try to become more familiar and comfortable with verbal communication. It would make you less reliant on sex (which you're worried about because of your history) and more able to talk about things (which you struggle to do and rely on sex instead). It seems a vicious cycle.
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Advice for Head problems 2016-03-10 05:03:24 Post No.16897914
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So I have been having this dull pain in the back of my head on the left side near my ear. I noticed it around beginning of December and figured it was nothing. February came and I still had it. I decided to go to a doctor and he said I had a Sinus Infection and a Muscle Strain. Gave me some antibiotics and some Muscle Relaxers and within the first few days I noticed a slight change. By the end of the medication I barely felt the pain and the only time I really noticed it was when I leaned on that side of the head. Recently (this week in particular) I've been getting headaches on my left eyebrow. While having this headache I start to feel that pain in the back of my head again. I usually take Advil and the front headache is gone but I can feel a little tickle in the back part.
The pain ranges from 3 to 5 but mostly feels like 3. Its in the back of my head a little above my ear. I only really notice it when I lay on that side of my head or when I get a headache or apply pressure in the area it hurts. I'm able to function fine and I haven't noticed any big changes to me (other than the headaches this week)
Should I give it a week or so or do I need to go see my doctor again?
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Maybe you're sleeping in a weird way. You could try changing your pillows. Or sleeping on your back maybe?
You should talk to your doctor again. But don't believe the "pills solve everything meme". Imo if he just gives you some pills don't take them, that won't solve your problem in the long run.
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>>16897930
Yeah he gave me 3 different types of pills and I only took the antibiotics.
The other problem is my friends and family get mad at me when I bring it up since I don't look wrong to them
What would you do if you only had a year to live? And what's the point in working toward anything if you're going to die anyway (whether it's a year or not)?
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>>16897899
I am living for the people around me.
That's it.
Death would be much less stressful.
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> what's the point in working toward anything if you're going to die anyway
What, were you expecting to live forever? People die, countries die, planets die, even the sun will eventually stop burning. Nothing lasts forever, make the best out of the time you have.
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>>16897899
First thing's first, I'd never come back to this website in that time. Take a trip, act reckless and see what happens. There'd be no worries about the future so anything goes.
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Senioritis Stage 4-Help 2016-03-10 04:58:26 Post No.16897882
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I'm a senior in high school, I have 2 quizzes tomorrow, and it's already 11 and I haven't studied at all. How have you dealt with similar situations or senioritis in general? Thanks
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>adderall
>accept failure
Pick one. Unless you have a gifted memory you're fucked
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>>16897893
Where can I even get Adderall?
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College is a scam unless maybe you're going to be a doctor or lawyer. You grades don't really matter because otherwise you can get into really any community college (if you want to actually pursue higher education) and get a useless degree in anything.