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>>16898984
The best way to never forget a language is to immerse yourself in it.

For example on your social media change your language settings to French and follow French accounts. Keep listening to radio if possible and music. This usually helps if you are still learning.

>>16898992
I prefer English media though. Never got into French pop culture.

>>16898984

Listen to French music, French podcasts, French films, French novels or short stories to begin with.

>>16898947
Fuck off

>>16898947
If you have autism you might as well just not try. It won't work.

Your dick is going to die.

OP, what happens when you get an erection? It is just trapped in there? Genuinely curious

>>16898930
>I am probably going to have relations in a few days

No, sport, I do not believe.

First, for the obvious, and I am praying this girl asks you to talk dirty. Second, it is going to extremely painful, for you.

Sounds like an attention whore, she only values having your attention.
Give up and move on

>>16898925
Give up you fucking retard, do you seriously need us to tell you this? Can you even fucking dress yourself in the morning? Get the fuck outta here

>>16898925
There are so many possible factors at play here it's not funny. And you've barely told us anything.

>seems to like you
What makes you think she might like you?
>kinda meh
On the spectrum of meh, where does her meh sit?
>just give up?
What are you doing now that you might want to give up?

Plus.. Consider that she might be totally distracted by something else on her mind when she 'seems' to be doing these things.

>>16898911
I'm in the same boat. In a lot of ways I'm still lost. I grew up without a father, but I at least had a lot of male friends who I hung out with. It didn't teach me shit though. They were white trash douchebags. From what I've learnt, I think a lot of the traits of being a man are innate. The key factor I think is ambition. Ambition to succeed, in whatever it is you're doing. Find your strength, and work at it until it's yours. I never had a lot of ambition growing up, and I've come to terms with the fact that I was, for the most part, a cuck. I would chase women, thinking that a relationship was the key to success. Nah. Women are a byproduct of success. And they'll go just as easily as they came.

I'm not good at much, but I know where my strengths are, and I'm throwing out as many lines as I can for the biggest possible return. Investing, business, app development, writing, science even. Anything I can to prevent my inevitable suicide.

You're young man. You've got plenty of time. Just don't chase girls like they'll solve all your problems. They don't. And they're boring as fuck.

Pro-tip from somebody who did, did, and did: there's no secret advice or stuff you're meant to know.

What you're feeling might be the lack of a definitive authority figure. You don't have a concrete and established standard to hold yourself to, so you're not sure where to aim.

>>16898921
I don't like women like that and for the longest time I thought I was gay, until I met a gay guy and realised I don't feel any special about guys either.

>>16898922
You're true about authorities. There have been none ever since I had the "adults are people too" epiphany as a teen and ever since there's really been nothing and nobody to obey.

Not healthy til you can disconnect from feelings. It's natural to back off now.

you either relentlessly keep hitting on her or drop it completely
why would you want to be a doormat for her

>>16898948
Kinda has a point, if you stuck around, she might just be normal about it but you yourself should feel like a bit of a bitch for hanging round after she's just turned you down.

I say this only because you got deeply invested before asking her out. If you casually asked her out like you were just trying your chances and she said no, then sure you can still be friends. But not if you fell in love before asking, then you're kind of a loser if you don't cut things off.

eventually we got back together and we were the perfect couple from then. but jon didnt take it too well. now me and my gf have been dating for a year. but jon will not go near her and me. and he wont talk to me about it. and we dont hang out anymore. and i desperatly want him back. he says i hurt him alot for dating her again behind his back. how do i get my soulmate back? without breaking up with her obviuosly.

tl;dr cunt

*unseperatable not unrepeatable

>>16898893
You should keep practicing until you can do it

>>16898919
I feel like giving up though. I know people who can speak Spanish fluently yet they can't roll their Rs and Hispanic people can understand what they are saying.

>>16898920
Don't give up, have you tried watching videos on how to learn it?

>>16898892
Don't, dude. I'm in a similar boat and I'm glad I didn't do it. It will just make you look weak and if she treats her friends like this, she's not worth it.

>>16898892
>but one day about half a year ago

dont. I did the same thing and it just made everything worse, trust me.

Don't do it. That's reputation-killing levels of creepy.

If she had rejected you gently, I would say that you might be able to contact her once your feelings had cooled and you had ZERO remaining romantic interest. But it sounds like she rejected you pretty strongly, and that means Never Again.

I'm sorry, OP, but she's gone. Let her go.

Take a class in interpersonal communication.

it's called branch swinging btw. There is no signs if you're the one being swung away from really, aside from the obvious ones like "there is this guy at work"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MxB4phU_UqQ

>>16898874
she has a pretty close guy friend now and our relationship is sorta going downhill.. they do hang out frequently but she assures me hes a platonic friend and I dont have any reason to believe that they're up to anything.. It worries me cause they used to "talk" before he hooked up with her friend. Any advice?

touch her boobs and see how she reacts

>>16898859
>Developed feelings for a fellow male friend, never felt this way before
>end up telling him after we had a great night out together
>nothing changes
>eventually says he feels the same but doesn't want to be in a relationship
>over the next few weeks I'm really upset over it cause I don't see why we can't be together
>tells me he doesn't like me anymore
>huge falling out
>back as friends a few days later, now we talk a lot less but still hang out, I don't know how he feels anymore and I'm too afraid to bring it up ever again in case everything fucks up again

Yeah one of my friends was interested in me at one point. Thing is that she had sex with four guys before, while I was a virgin. That just turned me off and I politely rejected her.

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>>16898855
that feel when your child is gonna be raised by someone else.

why exactly do you want her to leave him? This is the perfect situation, you spread your genes without the cost and effort. And why do you want a cheating cuckold to become yours anyways?

>>16898855
She doesn't love you, she's just a shitty person. You should get her out of your life.

That's going to be way harder if you have a kid with her.

I'm curious, let's say the kid is yours. What's your plan?

Get job, get license, and then get car.

>>16898847
yeah i know but what about grill?

>>16898848
fix yourself first then worry about others

it's easier than ever really, seeing that dates are a waste of time for guys and generally guys are reluctant to go on them anymore. The real money is with getting sex-only dates and fwbs.

Either way continue lifting, and drop setting women as a goal. Getting women is an indicator of progress, not a goal to work towards.

>>16898846
>seeing that dates are a waste of time for guys >generally guys are reluctant to go on them anymore
Fucking redpillers. Ignore this bullshit. There is no evodence that guys are reluctant to go on dates in any numbers, and the idea that dates are a waste of time for guys is born out of truly epic levels of insecurity.

But it's true that it is, to some extent, easier than ever to get a date. I can't say whether or not you're a pathetic sack of shot -I just don't know- but there's probably something wrong with your approach.

Te;; us about your approach. Where do you typically go to meet women? How do you go about asking them out? How do they react? Have you ever continued pursuing someone who told you no?

>The real money is with getting sex-only dates and fwbs.
Says someone who has never done eirher, in no small part because that's all he wants.

>>16898877
>Says someone who has never done eirher
if this were true I wouldn't be so reluctant to go on dates.

also nice one: every man who doesn't want to spend his time, energy and money just for a chance to hear a girl fart through a walkie talkie = misogynist

dates are a waste of your time man, all it is is a job interview, were you interview to be the guy she settles for after railing double digit chads. A girl will know if she fucks you or not within seconds really. The only dates I do is tinder dates, but those are shorter and just verification nobody is fat or a serial killer.

That being said, I do enjoy spending time with girls, but in a setting or activity I would otherwise also do alone or with friends.