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>all apartments are ridiculously overpriced
>impossible to find roommates who aren't coked out psychos
How do people who aren't rich survive in this country? I completely understand why so many people are struggling in this country now.
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>>16910099
Save, prioritize, good paying job. Making $40k a year. NoVA enough to survive and then some. Sometimes I do get into situations but I pull through. Also more of that there lady if you got some
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What's NoVA?
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My parents are rich and bought me a place and fully support me while I go to school, so I can't really complain, that's how I survive. But most people I know who live together were friends with their roommates way before the moved in together. And it's often about 3 people sharing a 1 bedroom apartment. Sorry to hear about your struggle though, I blame corrupt politicians though. A small one bedroom apartment in my city now costs 500k and an average shitty house is 2 million dollars. It's just not right. Even if you work your ass off full time, average people will never afford a decent house.
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Would Kid Icarus be an okay name to give my future soon son?
I love that game so much and the name sound unique. What do you think /adv/?
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>>16910096
no. Icarus might be good for a middle name. "kid" is not a good name.
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Name.
Name him Dovahkiin "Vault Dweller" Sephiroth.
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Thank you, for reminding me that /adv/ isn't really a place to look for serious advice when its needed, OP.
Why the fuck is this shit on /adv/?
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The thing is because I don't have much personal space where I live everytime I fap I end holding the ejaculation, usually ends holding semen in the phimosis and I go to the bathroom to throw it away. And in really rare times it feels like only a drop of semen ends inside the wrong tube, and it causes really strong itching sensation, usually I end having to force a second ejaculation and/or urinate to make this irritation stop.
I just wanna know if someone already felt the same, because now I feel a little paranoiac, afraid if I'm the only one who felt this or if this can cause anything bad in the future
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>>16910019
Your semen is probably getting forced into your bladder. Peeing will force it back out.
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>>16910019
You're meant to ejaculate ejaculate, senpai.
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>>16910036
if I could find a way to do it in bed and not dirtying the place..
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Is there a good place I can read about STDs, and maybe sex a little?
Like how the various kinds are transmitted and how to avoid it. I know almost nothing. I don't know why they didn't teach me this, maybe it was because it was a Catholic high school, I don't know.
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>>16910016
Have you tried google?
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I imagine planned parenthood or other family planning websites would have comprehensive information on this stuff.
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>>16910016
http://www.sexinchrist.com/
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>21
>Just broke up with grill started using tinder
>Matched with grill
>funny conversation at start, then it leads to us talking about fucking real quick
>exchange numbers
>"oh btw I'm a virgin"
>"No way. How long have you been on tinder?"
>"Since november, just haven't talked to anyone as good looking/funny as you"
I snapped her and everything bros, its a real girl. But I'm getting some serious odd vibes. She seems pretty, decently smart, all that shit. How the fuck is she still a virgin at 22? Either A: she is religious (doubt, she basically just begged me to fuck her), or B: she is fucking nuts.
I'm sort of in shock right now. What do?
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Oh, and I'm not even particularly good looking. I mean I'm no slouch, but I'm positive she gets much better guys talking to her on a daily basis on tinder.
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>>16910012
Post body pic
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>>16910008
shes probably not as hot as you describe, and you're probably ugly too.
god dammit I hate ugly people
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I'm so fucking confused as to who I am. The best way to describe it is I see where I am now (and not feeling like I'm truly living life) and a lot of roads open that I could take. I don't know which to take, which to not, what I should focus on that is really 'me'. I don't know and it's driving me nuts. How do I know if I'm authentic? How can I tell? Will I feel comfortable when I'm myself finally?
I second-guess everything and feel like I can't ever figure out which direction to go with my life and which hobbies to pursue.
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>>16910002
Seek professional help
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>>16910006
that's what everyone says...
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>>16910002
OP, what kind of answer are you even expecting?
That's something you have to deal with yourself. You're not special, everyone has to deal with this on some level.
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My dad is mentally ill. He has schizo-affective disorder, OCD, ADD, and he sleeps maybe 3 hours a night. I'm at my parents house alot because my mom's been sick and has had a hard time taking care of my dad and the house.
Lately he's been having mood swings, and hasn't tried to control them like he used to.
He'll snap at me out of the blue, and I don't really know how to deal with it. It pisses me off enough where I'll usually just go back to my own house. This will piss him off and make the next time I see him uncomfortable (he holds a grudge and has always had a hard time seeing the error in his ways).
I know the right thing to do is to ignore it and remind myself that he's mentally ill, but I have a hard time doing that when my temper is flared.
How do I deal with my this?
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>>16909999
Is he on meds?
You should try to explain things to him.
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Once I got to college, I've had a decent amount of women flirt with me. Some have told me I'm cute, others have flat out told me they were into me.
I can't carry a conversation though.
>Not nervous
>Not shy
It's just that anything I say, the way I phrase it comes off extremely confrontational or uninterested. And I don't know how to fix it. I only really speak when spoken to or in a interesting conversation when it comes to strangers. Like I said, I'm not shy, but if I have nothing to say, I don't bother saying it.
>Concert a few nights ago
Random girl came up to me before the main show started, and asked me if I was a girl, what shirt I'd buy
>Well I don't know. I'm not a girl, I've never thought about it too much *laughs*
Oh
>I'd probably go for that one, the one with the blue and pink
(jokingly saying) Are you just saying the pink one because I'm a girl?
>No, I'm saying the pink and blue because I think it looks good.
We finally got on a good conversation, she offered me a few beers, we talked throughout the show and I had a good time. While I felt we had a pleasant interaction, I imagine she might have felt awkward about it, despite her outgoing mannerisms towards me (Brushing up against me, smiling, etc) Because the conversation would die at points but she kept trying to get me to talk.
I really wish I had more to say, but I just never think of it in the moment. I only think of stuff after the fact and then kick myself for not thinking of it at the time.
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>I only really speak when spoken to or in a interesting conversation when it comes to strangers.
what's going through your mind when you're listening to the other person though? are you thinking about what they're saying or are you thinking about what you want to say next?
usually when I can't think of anything to say, I will try to think back to something the person said earlier in the conversation and ask them more about it. even if it's something I'm only mildly interested in, and even if it's a super general question like "so you mentioned you do yoga, how long have you been doing it" or "what type" or something like that. just to get the ball rolling again.
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I asked her about her going into nursing, and her thinking about going back to college for it (She's 25, I'm 19, we even talked about the age difference too). Be both went back and forth talking about stuff. I was mainly asking about her though, about if she was just here for the venue because she's local, or if she came here for the headlining band. She kept trying to get the ball rolling in the conversation.
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Was in a thread saw this pic reminded me of this girl I liked. Never asked her out cause honestly I was afraid too. Not gonna Lie I've dated a good amount of girls so I know to ask them out but with this girl it was different. She made me feel sick when I was with her wanted to do bad shit with her (Not fucking but like stealing and smoking weed on school property and shit)
>Pic Related
I don't know why this picture just reminds me so much about her
Sucky thing is that she's dating this guy out of school already and now I don't know why I can't date anyone else shes always on my mind. Always see them hanging out on snapchat and shit and I get so happy sometimes when she says they get into fights and shit and I think i have a chance. What's wrong with me /adv/?
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>>16909980
Nothing at all.
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Well what should I do then? Just forget about it she isn't a crush to me I think i love her Idk man. What should I do?
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>>16909987
Just wait like a few months and the intense feelings will die down. It might help to cut contact if it really is tearing you up inside.
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I'm about ready to an hero. What's the cleanest way to kill yourself? I can deal with a little pain, but I want it to get the job done properly and have very little clean up for other people to worry about.
I don't like pills. I've tried them before: Popped about 20 packets of Benadryl when I was 13, fell asleep after 10 minutes. Woke up 5 hours later, best sleep of my life. I'm 21 now and in TX, I can buy a gun legally, but again I don't want to make a huge mess. And I don't want to go vegetable from anything. I want a sincere, successful suicide.
Please save your 'u must live' posts. I don't want to be talked out of suicide. I've been suicidal for 8 years, now, in addition to having other bullshit problems and I'm ready to cut the cord. I don't want my life to get better, I just want to die. I've been craving death for a long time, now.
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>>16909969
Old age.
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>>16909976
C'mon, let's not be a smartass.
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we all have a little voice in our head saying i should die or i should kill myself
but will you actually do it? heres your reply for ur thread
if youre serious just use google and kill your damn self without announcing it on 4chan
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I'll start off by clarifying, I guess; I'm not very intelligent. I mean more like I'm completely average, in terms of grades and all I usually get low to mid Bs even if I study. I don't have any particular talents or affinities for certain academic fields either (It's sort of funny since my cousins on both sides are valedictorians and doctors and all that shit and me and my youngest brother are dumber than a sack of bricks). I want to say I'm reasonably sharp outside academics, but everyone wants to think that, so that's probably pointless.
Anyway. Basically, I have absolutely no idea what I want to do or where I should go with my life. I'm a college freshman now, and have to declare a major by the end of the school year. I have no dream job, no ambition, no real talents, have to force myself to study, few friends and connections even after a whole semester, and I'm lost. I guess it might have been a better idea to wait to know what I want to do before going to college, but I was hoping to discover that. I'm utterly hopeless in STEM fields as well, especially com sci (dropped that last semester after a terrible second midterm), I thought I should mention.
Anyway, I know a lot of this is on me for being unambitious and all. I don't intend to try and cover any of that. But I'd really like some advice on where I should look towards from now on, how to change myself, and what paths are realistically open for me career/future-wise.
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You should probably quit college and wait until you have matured a little. Go traveling, work a few jobs, then go back to school when you've decided on a career.
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>>16909971
I might consider this. Also bumping for more advice.
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>>16910201
if you intend on staying in school because your parents expect you to then just take classes that sound the least bit interesting to you.
You're a college freshman after all so you probably have to work through GE's and other shit so just try to fulfill those to begin with. If you take a class and find the subject matter to be fairly interesting to you then research more into the major/field (look up prospective jobs for that major and whether the degree you want to pursue requires higher education to make a living) and take more classes in that major.
Believe me when I say that you are not alone when it comes to feeling this in college. I was in a similar situation to you, I came into college undeclared and had to declare a major at the end of freshman year. Plenty of my friends entered into college with intended majors only to change their majors after their freshman year so don't feel like you need to stick with one thing.
Sure, things are easier if you already know what you want but so many people don't (it's hard for an 18 year old to know what he/she wants to do for the rest of their lives).
Goodluck
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So a question about breasts: When a woman is topless its usually pretty easy to tell if they are artificial or natural, but when a woman has a bra/bikini top on and/or a shirt, are there and subtle signs to tell if her tits are natural or fake?
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>>16909953
*any subtle signs*
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One way i know is to see how big her shoulders are compared to her chest area. If they seem disproportionately small like they aren't big enough to carry the weight then they might be fake.
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I think my dick is probably normal by most people's standards. Maybe not. 5.5" long, as an average, and 4.5" girth. So, on the smaller side, but not unusually small. I've made girls cum
But it just -looks- small to me, and it drives me cray-cray. Its become this really deep-seeded insecurity for me over the years, to the point that I have a fetish for small penis humiliation
anyway, i just want some assurance that i don't suck at life
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You're perfectly average. I'm smaller than you and you don't know how much i want to castrate all the big guys in my campus.
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do girls tell u your penis is small
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>>16910414
Yes, i've been told that before. I've also been told it's big.
so, moral of the story, girls like to manipulate men. Not a good resource for the truth for pretty much any question, at least not when they know you personally.
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I know right? Guys with big dicks piss me off, and it seems like -everyone- other than me has a big dick.
Have you ever been on a dick rate thread on /soc/? They're all hung. I think it's because big guys don't have a problem taking a picture of their dick and posting it on the internet, and all the average guys like us feel inferior, so we don't. We should start a coalition of men with small dicks who post pictures of their dicks and post them on the internet to even the numbers, and preferably tip them, so femanons and such don't get a misrepresentation of the average dudes' dick. Then we'll automatically be better in bed too because reasons
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I have asperger's and severe social anxiety that makes me prone to being constantly tense and acting like a nervous retard in social situations. Am I pretty much doomed to never find love? Every date I go on ends awkwardly and I never hear from her again. Meds don't seem to help very much.
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OP, you'll get better. I don't know how autism affects things, but for social anxiety, you'll get better with practice. Keep trying even if you have failures. Therapy and self help books helped me a bit. It can take years, and improvement may be so slow that you can't see it yourself, but it'll happen. You don't have to throw yourself into dating if you're still uncomfortable around people. You can start small by making friends first, if that feels easier. You can start as small as saying hi to people. I observe what others say to each other and pretty much steal their conversation topics.
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>>16909940
Crawl before you walk. Don't leap into dating, which is stressful even for alphas. Work on loose, general social situations, like hanging out with a few friends. The more comfortable you get with that, the easier you can move into one-to-one situations, and then to dating.
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>>16910376
I agree with this... Try to make some normal friends before you go for a girlfriend.