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>>16918938
>she likes my selfies in Instagram
how the fuck did she find your instagram?

>>16918938

You are insecure.

You may wear to much make up.

You seem bother by a shit talking 7 th grade girl that is equally as insecure as you are.

She may not like you girls are like that if you threaten their self esteem.

Lady don't you have better things to worry about.

Go out have some fun suck on a dick and enjoy the night with your clown make up.

probably her hormones kicked in and she is bisexual or something and has feelings for you

Bump. Should i spend all my cash on weed?

If u keep acting like an insecure faggot she will.

>>16918879
Listen to your gut feeling. Trust me on that one. Now that you know, get done sleep. Nothing you can actually do about it.

>>16918922
I hate people like you. If someone isn't happy in a relationship they should simply leave. I hate the people who condone and justify cheating.

Inb4 le self-fulfilled prophecy meme.

If you're alone, it's because you isolate yourself. The power to change your situation is solely intended your hands.

>>16918853
Wow, 4chan really does collect the unwanted trash society doesn't want.

>>16918853
Hey, it's ok. What do you want to talk about? Music, games, movies, literature...really anything goes. Just something to take you away from those feelings.
Just talk, I'll be here to listen.

>>>/wsr/

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I like these threads, here's something

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>>16918876

>>16918810
It is possible to make someone happy. But if someone has a mental health issue that is a result of a physcial problem(eg: chronic pain) it is not easy to make them happy using the common methods.

It's more like mental problem , some peoples aras her at work

>>16918810
>My GF tried sucid I've try to help her and make her smile , didn't work as well

It's difficult to tie a good knot.

>>16918776
I can't help but feel betrayed and cheated on. I admit I was taking things slow and even when we were first having sex I didn't consider us to be "together", but the fact that she would give herself up so easily to so many people - even knowing that her dad molested her - really bothers me. The fact that she slept with someone after we first met - a date that SHE WANTS TO USE AS OUR ANNIVERSARY - bothers me, and it especially bothers me because her and I had sex later that night right after she fucked some other guy.

Is this something that goes away with time? I can't help but feel bad, but I guess I am so weak willed that I still want to be with her. I know she loves me, I want to trust that she is telling the truth now, but every time I turn my back there is another lie.

>>16918776
>>16918779
She's obviously fucked up from being molested by her father. It's a shitty situation, but it's definitely within your best interests to break up with her.

>>16918789
There's no doubt she was fucked up. She tells me that I have helped her out of a ditch, that I helped her become a good, loving, caring person again; that she no longer feels worthless and accepts her mistakes as being in the past and learned from them. She assures me that she has never cheated on me, and to be honest I believe her. But she did fuck a bunch of people the first time that she ever met them, and also fucked two guys (her fuckbuddy and myself) within 20 hours of each other, and I don't know if I can ever just "be cool" about it.

She really is crazy about me, I know she sees me as the person to have children with, as a provider, etc. It's a good feeling, and I find her very attractive physically and in-touch with each other's personalities.

She doesn't want to go out drinking, she smokes a small amount of weed but only at our apartment, she doesn't do drugs or anything like that. If I met her today, I would have no doubts about her, but knowing what I know, I can't help but think differently. I do not want to feel this way. I want to be happy and forget about this, but it's hard as fuck to do.

Relationshipless anon reporting in. I've hooked up with a few girls, but I've never dated anyone. I would definitely focus on finding someone you like as a person if you're looking for more than just casual sex.

>>16918794
Yeah, that's what I think too. But I must say that I consider myself kinda ugly so I'm afraid that I won't find much others girls.

>>16918775
Unless you're a 29-year-old neckbeard, there's time and hope, so don't feel like you need to hurry, especially if you're at least moderately competent talking to people.

Stop saying you're in love with people who don't want to date you, first of all. Putting someone on a pedestal before you even have their number is, at no point in time, going to help you. You're going to get emotionally involved before they know your name, come off as too desperate and creepy, and set yourself up for having to get over someone you never knew.

That isn't to say you can't love someone quickly, but unless it's a friend you've harbored a crush on for months or years, don't say you're in love with someone you aren't dating. You love the idea of them, not them proper, and it's going to be a kick to the nuts.

Look around and ask out people you can stand dating. Don't have too low of standards, for you'll then end up with someone you dislike which is an entirely different can of worms; don't have too high of standards, for then you'll die alone.

Just go in confidently, calmly, and with realistic hopes - for there's other girls, and you don't need to marry this one - and you should do okay.

Give talking to individual people more time. If you think someone is attractive and they seem interested in you, at least go on a date before dropping them. It's practice if nothing else, and just because you aren't immediately infatuated with them doesn't mean it's a lost cause. If you lose interest completely though, just move on to the next person.

Also, don't date just for sex. It's honestly not really worth it. Casual encounters are better than a loveless relationship with some okay sex.

>>16918727
the only way to make friends at that age is through hobbies, other friends, or work

since you're married with kids you wont have time for anything but work friends

welcome to adulthood

>>16918727
Neighbors
Kids' friends' parents
Volunteer work
PTA

What kind of movies and music u enjoy

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>>16918682
"haha jk"

>>16918682
finish the job

>>16918682
Say "...by choking on my cock."

Then she'll say "I can't choke on that little thing."

You'll both share a laugh and all will be forgotten.

Buddhists tell a tale about a man who asked the Buddha how to fit spirituality into his busy life. In response, the Buddha produced a jar full of rice and three large turquoise beads. He asked the man to put the beads into the jar, and the man couldn't do it. The jar was too full, and he could not push the beada down into the rice.

Then the Buddha emptied the jar into a bowl, put the beads in first, and then added the rice. And all of it fit, even though it was the same amount of rice as before. The man was enlightened.

Even to this day, some Buddhists repeat this exercise. They fill a jar all the way to the brim with rice, then empty it, add three large turquoise beads, and put all of the rice back, and everything fits. Having done all this they keep the jar as a reminder.

Life is like this. Our ability to first make time for the things that matter most is limited: after all, there is only so much room in the jar. But even within those constraints, a little organization and prioritization can go a long way. Even all of the rice can still fit in the jar, if only we organize and prioritize properly.

If you want to make a jar like this for yourself, it's not difficult. Any craft store will have a suitable jar and beads, and any grocery store will have dry rice. I recommend buying the rice first, so that you will have a sense of what size jar you need.

>>16918702
That seems physically impossible.

>>16918661
>I just want to stay at home and some me time on my days off and after work

Well what do you tend to do with this "ME TIME" of yours?
Are you just mindlessly spending most of your time on computer (or any other device) browsing the internet, watching videos or playing video games?

Try to cut that stuff from your life for a few days and you'll quickly notice how much free time you actually have and how much time you're actually spending staring the screen.
Many of the normies actually barely touch their computers or play games thus they have way more time to add more substance to their lives in form of activities, social interactions and experiences.

As computer programmer who spends a lot of his time in front of a computer screen I am slowly getting to the point where I'd rather spend rest of the day away from computers.

Porter isn't so bad but those names, you have to be trolling.

>>16918563
Do it better knock the bitch out though.

>>16918563
You should he blinded, deafened, and have your bocal cords clipped so you no longer interract with society.

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>>16918477
>like he's been living at the gym

> he only ever used to play music in his room when no one was home)
> called me a shallow pig for messaging him "now that she looks better"

I feel like this was adapted from a male copypasta and OP didn't change all the pronouns

better in /int

You sound like Peggy Hill
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7cmWlZXSH44

>>16918515
>/int
Isn't /int/ for people to troll? I don't want people to tell me to go away because I am a girl.
>You sound like Peggy Hill
I think you are implying that I sound terrible

yeah i could understand it

>>16918428
Will you enjoy the next 20 years

Serious question, completely totally and for reals:

How do you sleep at night?

>>16918438
I'm enjoying the first eight,(got an 8year old and a 3 year old)

Dude, first of all you're an ass and second of all this shit will be found out soon with a resul of both girls ditching you and leaving you single.

>>16918445
Girl A is generic relationship, I'm 100% emotionally disposable. It's like dating a brick wall.

Fuck your morals.

>>16918455
Then why the fuck are you still with her? Isn't one just enough?