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Should you break up if your gf is raped 2016-03-25 22:08:56 Post No.16957527
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Should you break up if your gf is raped
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My bf said he would hypothetically break up with me if I got raped. We're pretty serious & I don't date people unless I legitimately think I'll marry them. I understand his thinking I'll never be the same person after being raped, but I also don't want to end up marrying someone who'll ditch me. That would suck ass. I think if there were kids in the equation he'd take them or reconsider, so I'm not worried about being a single mom and having the rest of my life literally ruined, but I'm worried quitting my job to have a jillion babies with him could eventually fuck me over. So am I dating a savage in disguise or is this understandable given the caveats? What do you think, /adv/?
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>>16957527
I think his opinion would change if you were married and had kids together. Honestly, on some level I would blame myself for not having been there to do something about it. So I guess I can see how it might ruin a relationship. Best not to worry about a tomorrow that may never come. That's why stuff like this is better left unsaid most of the time.
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>>16957527
Your boyfriend is a retarded manchild and you should end it now that he's shown his true colors.
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>>16957787
That's an interesting conclusion. Care to explain your reasoning?
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>get matched with some girl on tinder
>just text her hi there
>2 days later still no reply
>get matched with another one
>just write hi
>she unmatches me 2 hours later
I'm fairly new to this Tinder thing, am I supposed to write a love letter in my first message, or what is going on?
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Say something funny, ask a question, something food related works best with women.
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You have to put on a clown show to get these bitches' attention.
Personally, I find the entire process insufferable, so I've opted out of the whole tinder/online dating thing.
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>>16957253
This. They think someone opening with 'hi' is weak game.
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I have a pig-like nose and I hate it, it looks really bad in profile pictures. Any tips on how to change it without surgery.
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>>16956741
-Have the local gym/dojo/martial arts studio use you as a punching bag
-Jump off of a 10-story building face-first
-Kiss a wild animal with rabies
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>>16956741
You know that's why rhinoplasty is for! Accept that no.
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>>16956766
Ah yes, I forgot that one:
-Headbutt a rhino
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Is 4.5 years too long to wait to ask a girl out?
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Yes.
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>>16956028
Is that a general rule or is that always?
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>>16956029
General rule. If the girl is 13.5 years old, 4.5 years is the minimum you should wait.
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How can I roar really loud, like a lion? Not a crackling pre-pubescent scream that's annoying, I'm talking about something that can be described as a mighty rorar. The ideal situation would be this:
A huge feline predator gets all growly and fangy and in that attack stance they do, and roars at you to make you scared of how much he's gonna fuck you up. Only you roar back even louder and more intimidating, and he just fucks off.
How can you out-roar a lion? Is it humanely achievable?
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Pavarotti could do it.
But you might need some mechanical aid
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>>16958776
smoke crack
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Why is it that in the conversations I have about thinks I say so much and they have so little to say? I'm passionate about what I'm talking about and trying to figure things out and they just have basic responses. Not saying I'm better or that they're worse because of it though, I'm just confused.
I'm just the one asking the questions, I let people know what works for me, and they just give short answers, like okay, yes, no. And I know you're going to say "they don't want to talk, don't like you" but these people in question are asking ME if I want to do things. Its just when it comes time to do them im like "what do you want to do? when do you want to hang out? etc. and I get no effort from them back it seems. What am I doin rong?
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Maybe you smell??
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You're probably insufferable
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>>16958768
I feel this sometimes too. Maybe we're assholes.
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Too stupid for my family 2016-03-26 03:49:00 Post No.16958725
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Or existing all together..
Keep posting here but advice never satifies me..
Both parents have degrees, both sides of senpai. have degrees. I wish I was smart enough to go through with becoming a graphical engineer and work with programming actual game engines.
Problem stars with this, I am too weak minded, and too attached to tech, videogames, porn, self evaluations, and the scenarios I brew in my head.
Additionally I feel no attachment to any country being that I am a guest in US under the DREAM Act.
>inb4 go back to mexico
Raised in Texas since 2001
I am part of the lower middle class in US, and have few friends, who are also in college because parents.
I honestly do not what they would do if I fail, my back up plan is work with anything related to film editting, but then again.. Not enough resources to do either.. Even though I have a mid teir comp it is prebuilt and brother has controlled all media related shit except for music.
I am told I am slow, good writer/political debator... Hate it, hate everything that involves either.
Not good at math, do somehow I want to be good at programming..
What do if fail...?
I wish I could jump ship and move to a remote island where the only thing I would need to do is survive.. But again.. Not enough resources..
I need to flee, not sure how..
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>>16958725
>Both parents have degrees, both sides of senpai. have degrees.
Am I just really damn tired or does this make no sense?
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>>16958729
Not sure why that happened.. It was supposed to say both sides of the family...
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>>16958732
I don't even use autocorrect.
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Where the fuck do creative people younger than 20 hang out? I'm barely 18 & awkward as fuck due to a stutter, but I make tons music & art. Everyone at shows & art shows are either in their 20's or boring as fuck, help.
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Nothing wrong w/ ppl 20+, I'm just not really attracted to people more than a year or so older than me.
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>>16958717
There's nothing wrong with talking to people in their 20's. As long as you don't act like an immature idiot, it shouldn't be a problem. Similar interests can bring people of different generations together. You might even learn a thing or two from them.
t. 19 year old drawfag who was in the same situation
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>>16958750
yeah! most of my friends are 20+ and they're all really cool ppl. I haven't met anyone who I've been remotely attracted to since I finished highschool & started hanging out in the art & music scenes.
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I'm a little worried I'm getting addicted to prostitutes. In January I was really sexually frustrated and in a 2 year dry spell, so I decided to bite the bullet and paid $160 for a prostitute. It was a bad experience - only lasted 15 minutes, she was older and less attractive than in her backpage pics (I'm in the US). I told myself I'd never do it again. Then a few weeks later in February I was on a work trip. I got drunk on two separate nights and got hookers to come to my hotel room, paid $180 and $120. The first one I fucked without a condom, so I could have AIDS for all I know. Again, neither of the experiences was good.
Last week I was in Thailand on vacation, got drunk and fucked a hooker since they're all over the place. This one was much cheaper and better, even did anal with her.
Now I'm back home and horny, and find myself wanting to go on backpage. Once you realize how easy it is to pay for sex the temptation is always there, and it makes you feel powerful. I have a decent job and live with my parents so the expense isn't enough motivation for me to stop. I don't really feel bad about it yet, but I might someday if I have a wife kids eventually (I'm 24 now).
Any advice? Should I keep doing this, or just try and get laid the old fashioned way? I've never been good with girls so it's not at all easy for me.
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Hey man, fucking hookers is ok. Getting addicted is not. How does it make you feel powerful? You haven't spent that much.
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Dude. Just get fit and spit some game at bars and clubs. Tons of girls will sleep with you. It isnt 100% like hookers but its way cheeper. Also if uget a really horny gf thats like free sex all the time
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Please stop. The real experience is getting you. Also you can actually be under a spell....
Stop. The only thing this can lead you to is becomming a bum and being sexually frustrated.
There is always a cache
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/adv/ I want to apply for a master's degree, I'm an architect and I want to know what are the best schools or career paths that you know of. I'm not sure if I want to do an Mba or keep in line with just architecture or a related field. These are the three options so far:
>MSc in Advanced Sustainable Design - University of Edinburgh (1 year)
>Master of architecture - Studio One - Berkeley California (1 year)
>MBA - Yale (2 years)
I'm pretty sure I can land any of these, and money is not a problem because I will get scolarship. What are your thoughts? Also show us what is your favorite building.
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Do you agree that brutalism is the best form of architecture in the modern world?
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>>16958563
i like brutalism, but i get why people find it cold or rough.
for this day and age tho...I don't think so
>inb4 current year
Anyone else on here have body dysmorphia?
That would include anorexia, but I mean -- thinking you have a huge nose when no one else thinks so kind of thing.
How do you deal with it?
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>>16958517
My best friend does. But I'm pretty damn sure he has BPD and made it up as a manipulation strategy at this point
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>>16958526
What does he say is the problem?
I had it really really bad for about a year and a half but I realize I always had this tendency but it got to the point where I had legit hallucinations and stuff... I am interested how other people experience the disorder
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>>16958526
NPD*
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Graduating in a few weeks (Business Management) and I have no clue what type of jobs I should be applying for.
All I know is that I would like a job where I sit around at a desk and do stuff. I have a lot of work experience but it is all shitty jobs like restaurant and retail work.
What are some good jobs where you just sit around at a desk most of the day?
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You should've used your time in school to build relationships. You know what they call "networking."
I can give you a job. You can sit at my desk and do "stuff." It pays zero dollars but it fits your criteria nicely.
Really though, You are limited only by the appetite of your ambition.
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>>16958466
im graduating ahead of all my classmates since i took summer semesters. those contacts wont be useful for another 8 months.
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I really hope you know what you're asking for OP when you want a desk job cause I work a desk job at an investment firm. holy shit do I want to just blow my fucking brains out.
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Will hunching over to use my PC damage my back? I've been doing it for about 5 years now.
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>>16958439
Of course it will.
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>>16958439
yes. start working on your abdominal muscles
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Yes. Do some strecthes and get some life
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At work today, we were shooting the shit in someone's office and ended up Facebook creeping on people we're interested in. Mine was someone I've met a time or two but don't see often. When we got around to her, it turns out one of my coworker's close friends is friends with her.
My coworker offered to try to make a connection and try to have us all hang out, but I declined, since I'd rather do my own legwork and it seemed very jr. high. But I don't have many leads on hanging out with her... did I fuck up and give up a good opportunity?
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Yes and yes.
It's not too late, though. Talk to your coworker and tell them you've changed your mind about it.
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>>16958525
Yeah, I know it's not too late, but the guy that knows her is a dude, and she's a babe. The last thing I want the coworker's friend to do is say he's not going to help, and then tell this girl I'm asking about her.
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Maybe you can get the thing arranged without your coworker's friend knowing.
If you choose not to ask for her, do you have a better plan?
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Moms real sick in the hospital for a month. 2016-03-26 01:45:52 Post No.16958362
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Moms real sick in the hospital for a month.
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She might die, I don't know what I will do if she does. I don't know if I can take it. I have nobody to talk to about this so I am posting on an Internet message board. FML. How did you guys deal with and cope with your mom passing?
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If you don't want to deal with it then die before she does. Or grow a spine and relies we all outlive our parents and the wheel in the sky keeps on turning
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>>16958380
I'm thinking of following her when she does.
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>>16958380
I wouldn't want to go first because that would just hurt her.