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ah, she was just bantering. nothing to go mad over. but the fact that she told you is suspicious. as if she intentionally want's to make you jealouse. maybe she thinks you aren't as interested in her anymore?

>>16960455
You should kill that cop.

She simply in her own words thought it was funny and just a joke, I've been drilling into her all night and she been saying sorry and crying. Me on the other hand , I just don't think it's right . Call it jealous , protective . I don't know. she didn't see it as a complete problem.

>>16960435
Anyone in the military who gets married is a retard.

>>16960507
They arent married, but they're "officially" together

>>16960430
>reasoning with her about how much of a two-faced liar she is?

Nope. You should tell her that's why you don't trust her, though.

Trust me, she remembers 100%.

>>16960495
>Nope. You should tell her that's why you don't trust her, though.
how can you even say this to a girl like that without her causing a bitch fit?

i have talked to her about her problem with bitching behind her friends' backs because she has a habit of doing that. she accepted it's a problem but mostly sulked about how i'm being unnecessarily mean to her.

i mean i guess i'll just keep that in the back of my mind from now on and just don't trust what she says anymore.

but it's seriously having me reconsider our friendship. i don't know what to do, she's pretty much my only friend.

>>16960430
What is going on is typical teenage girl behavior, but in someone who really should be beyonf that.

Surely you remember being 13 and haviong a different Best Friend almost weekly, with last week's Best Friend now your sworn enemy for some imagined slight, and last week's sworn enemy beginning to look attractive.

And surely you remember the "If you are her friend you can't be mine" syndrome.

Most women outgrow it in their teen years. Your friend hasn't.

>>16960404
I will guess you're at least in your mid-20s and will be dating women about your age.

They know they're not going to be meeting many virgins out there and that the men they date will have some history - divorce or something.

So your son won't be as big a shock as he might be to a 17 year old girl. Meanwhile, being a single father suggests maturity, responsibility and caring that many women will find attractive.

So, while I wouldn't suggest introducing yourself as "Hi. I'm Anon. I have a son" there is no reason why it shouldn't come up in the first meeting.

Depends on if you are male or female.

If you are a black male and dating some sheboon its not a problem, the country is littered with niglets with no parents and i imagine she has a brace herself.

If you are a white respectable male and the kid is looked after then its no real problem, if you are a loser then its a future problem.

If you are a white female with a kid, depends on how it happened etc, and what sort of background you have.

If you are a white female with a half black kid, then forgetaboutit. No respectable white alpha will touch you with a barge pole.

It all depends you see, you need to give us more information.

>>16960360
Don't. Embrace it.

>>16960360
Sublimation

>>16960360
Baby steps. Build a habit of not fapping until you literally feel like your head is going to explode from a headache and your balls are just collapsing upon itself. Try to not browse porn when you're bored and pick up a new hobby like drawing to fill the empty spot on that fap schedule.

Sleeping on it is also a viable tactic when the urge is not too taxing

>>16960348
Move on.

>>16960348
The worst pain one can handle.

>>16960331
Masterbate until 90% of women are completely uninteresting next to your fantasies.

>>16960331
Chances are that you are giving off desperation signals.

Here's how to stop:

Stop looking for a girlfriend. Start looking for friends of any gender. Do things, join clubs, hang out with co-workers. Forget about romance for a while and just enjoy a social life.

You'll relax, and being relaxed and more natural, you'll stand a good chance of attracting the attention of one of your friends-who-happens-to-be-female.

>>16960534
I will try this. It's very difficult though because I don't really like hanging out with guys. Somehow the conversations always end up going to who fucked what last night and obviously I can't contribute.

Be happy for him. Jesus.

If it was a passing comment, just be happy for him and get over it.

If it's something he brings up constantly, he's being a prick, and you should tell him that his tendency to brag bothers you.

>>16960327
this... thanks

>>16960257
this is bait. It would be plausible if you were asking this in person, OP, but you typed this all out coherently on a message board. No one as internet savvy as you is that clueless about sex. Try again with something more believable.

>>16960272
OP here.

Not bait. MY girl just informed me that her last menstrual period was yesterday btw. And the pill I made her drink is Ferrous Fumarate.

>>16960257
Are you like eleven years old? Because the lack of sexual education and knowledge that you're displaying really can't be comfortably explained in any other way.

you might as well do it and get used to the drama because you're the kind of person who destroys everyone who has the misfortune to get involved with you.

>>16960237
>Daddy


Glad to hear you're being a good girl, princess.

>>16960237
>bi or pansexual
go back to tumblr

Pick things you're interested in and stick at them. Make it a goal to try something new every week or every other week until you find something you genuinely enjoy, but don't get discouraged if it takes a while. Sometimes (especially when you get older) you have to work at your interests.

Im not a girl but I stopped playing vidya and watching anime several years ago to focus on my career. I got into guns and competitions as well as went back to boxing. Read on the side and tinker with electronics/computers. Think arduino and bash.

Still no gf though but these things help pass the time and provide a wide variety of goals that I can work on.

Do it like this Jim Carrey movie 'Yes man' and just say yes to every opportunity that unfolds to you. No matter if it sounds stupid at first, just give it a try with no exceptions!

I'm not sure how it works for other people, but for me, I love me because I'm greatly loved. My husband, my dog, my bff, my parents, my family.

But that comes with its own pitfalls--like people pleasing.

Start with a dog. The love they give makes the world bloom.

I love me cause I've learned things I like about myself.

It's so easy to focus on the negatives and things you hate about yourself. For example, completing a piece of art I always thinks it looks awful, but I also realize I spent a lot of time working on it. First thing I do is show it to a friend who I know will give me positive feedback.

Obviously you can't do the same thing in every situation but if you are sitting there thinking "I'm so stupid" there could be something to counter that (ex. you're really good at carpentry or something)

I think the more time you spend by yourself, attempting to do something productive, or at least focus on the positive aspects of yourself (which can take a while to find and agree upon) the more the love will come.

Loving yourself is coming to terms with your flaws, and becoming something you are proud of, while living without regrets.

>>16960165
What number would have been acceptable?

Honestly unless you're hanging around church girls, 7 is a pretty average number for a 20year old.

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>>16960165
OP
She can still count them on her fingers
If it's like 13+ by 20 she's used goods

Don't fuss over it

The results of progressivism and feminism.
You're so afraid of hurting feefees that you mentally become an eunuch. But your dick disagrees.
I don't know what to tell you because the same thing happened to me. Even though rationally I know it's stupid and wrong, when I find a woman sexually attractive I feel like expressing it would be wrong. It's fucked up.

>>16960144
Do women ever feel this way?

>>16960189
I don't know. While female sexuality is more celebrated in this feminist era, slut shaming still exists.

She came clean and it was only kissing which is good...

But she crosses a bunch of boundaries willingly, she's still very much responsible for what happened.

I'd say stay with her with the condition that she drops clubbing/drinking without you...and that's only if you really want to forgive her. If you don't even give a shit, it might be a good hint that it's already over.

If it doesn't bother you then it's not an issue. Don't let other people tell you how to feel about it.

>>16960139
It's not that I don't give a shit I think it's that I immediately knew it was out of character for her. She also said she wouldn't be clubbing or drinking without me in part of her first text so I mean that's good.