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Saw many women growing old single without children and miserable. Giving birth to a child you want (when your parents/friends help you raising it) drastically changes everything though.
/adv/ which is creepier: having a one-night stand with a normal stranger (maybe paying him for unprotected sex) or asking an acquaintance/friend? Guaranteeing that there would be no responsibility from the male side?
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>>16959438
Uhhh the premise itself is the creepy thing. You want to circumvent a sperm bank and just personally jack someone's semen to create a child (potentially without their knowledge).
You are fucking creepy yourself and I'm god damn terrified for the next guy you sleep with.
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>>16959438
An anonymous one night stand far away from where you live. With a guy you're really physically attracted to.
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>>16959444
We'll if you don't want kids don't stick it in there. Simple as that and nothing to be terrified about.
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As the title says, I want to ask out a girl, but I've got some bad depression. I'd obviously tell her about it, but I think that if I told her about it and later asked her to be my gf, I would be lowering my chances. My friend thinks I should talk to her about it and ask her after she's had some time to think about it, so that she's not being blindsided.
What do? I'm not even sure how to talk about it with someone like this
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>>16959391
Depression is not first date conversational material. It's not even second date material. If you're still depressed by the THIRD date, it's some problem beyond basic human interaction that more basic human interaction can't help. Have you ever made a date with a psychological therapist?
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If she won't accept you for you then you shouldn't want to be with her
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>>16959412
If it matters, we've hung out regularly for the past couple weeks, and probably hanging out tomorrow. It's not really aiding her out, I suppose I meant asking her to be my girlfriend. I actually felt pretty happy when we started hanging out and going places, but I recently had a bit of a crash and have felt like utter shit for the last couple days. I've gone to the school's walk in counselor, and I'm just waiting for the referral paperwork to go through so I can hopefully start regular sessions.
>>16959495
I suppose I'm just scared, my last relationship ended because we both had problems with depression that came back to bite us despite trying to ignore them. I really like this girl, I don't want to ruin any chance I have by telling her about my problems too early
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Light headeduty after masturbating
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so I was masturbating for 3 hours today and afterwards when I went to the bathroom my vision went fuzzy and my balance was screwed up. I've already masturbated once or twice this morning if that has anything to do with it. What gives?
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>>16959355
You stood up too quickly.
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>>16959360
It didn't feel the same as that though
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your blood was trying to go back to your head.
Also, perhaps you were focused on a single entity, and you're trying to refocus?
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I think i'm addicted to pornography. I watch or read some from of pornography or erotica every day multiple times a day. Often i don't even masturbate or when i do i don't enjoy it. I have found myself watching porn in public, at work, and in rooms full of people. Luckily i am careful enough to not get caught. I dont want my life ruined by porn. Pic semi-related.
What do?
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Pick up a hobby.
Find tv shows you like, books, games, anything.
If that doesn't work after a while, see a therapist.
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I'm a chic with the same problem man it sux I look at it 4 hourz everyday I luv gay porn & I'm a sex addict 2 with Chlamydia & gonnoreah I don't have advice just wanna let u kno u ain't alone man :/
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>>16959483
you type like a retard.
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Been through this situation with two different girls now. Friends with benefits, not actually committed relationships.
>Not using condoms, both of us think that it ruins sex completely
>She isn't on any other contraceptives, I'm just pulling out
>Me: "If I ever get you pregnant the least I can do is tag along to the abortion clinic and be there for you, I know that shit is hard to go through"
>Her: "Who says I'd have an abortion? I might want to keep it. It's my body"
>Me: "Ehm, yes it is your body and the choice is only yours, but don't you think it's impulsive and selfish to give birth to an unplanned child and probably fuck up your life, my life and the child's life a lot?"
>Her: "No. It's my body, I can't believe you patriarchy blablabla"
So...are all women this batshit insane? It's not like that escalated into an actual fight and it never resulted in less sex or any demands to use protection either. I've just been rolling with it so far but it kind of sucks that you're playing russian roulette every time you have sex because women can't think rationally. I know abortion is a fucking horrible experience but it can't be worse than the alternative.
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>she isn't on any other contraceptives, I'm just pulling out
Rip
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The fact that she told you she'd keep the baby and you still keep using a method as unreliable as pulling out makes you sound more batshit insane than she is. All the best to your future family OP
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abortion isn't birth control you fucking idiot. use a condom or enjoy ruining your life
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Today I went to a social meeting in my city regarding some interests of mine (/tg/-tier stuff). I've been living in this place for a couple of months and I know no one, so I'm using all chances I can to meet new people.
Thing is, I went there and immediately figured I had no idea what to do. People were playing board games, roleplaying games, and I didn't have the slightest idea on what to do. The event's organizer welcomed me, invited me to play things, and my first reaction?
>Uh, I think I will look around and see if I can infiltrate somewhere, okay?
I ended up playing a couple games before the convention wrapped up, and I waited to see if I could sneak with a group or something to not leave alone (the place was new and it was dark already so I couldn't take any chances). I realized I had felt alone the whole day and even more at that moment. I made no new friends, barely one acquaitance (not the organizer) who doesn't even seem like a trustworthy person, and I would have left alone if not for two guys who happened to go at the same direction as me. And I felt too different from them too, especially when they started talking of "going out with some girls" - something I don't do at all, I'm more of a homebody. I left them at a bus stop before I boarded the train back home.
(to be continued)
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>>16959279
The whole day I was fretting of whether getting into a group or something, trying to find an empty spot or a chance to ask for people but I was way too damn shy to do anything at all, and the few games I played was because I actually got to hear a guy was prepping a game right next where I was sitting. Otherwise I walked around and checked on the games and people, and felt really awkward doing that - which I did just because I had nothing better to do.
What the hell is wrong with me? I don't want to end up alone, but the whole process of meeting people is bothersome and I fret way too much.
On the other hand, and as a second issue, I used the moment to check on the girls and something odd stroke me - as much as I would adore having a girlfriend, I cannot see anyone as a gf material despite their physical attractiveness. Even attractive girls don't look like someone I'd like to be with, there was a cute girl but something about her put me off, I don't know what was it. And each time I walk on the streets it's the same thing really, every single girl has a "something" on their first impression that puts me off. I wonder what could be wrong with me.
Any advice, please?
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>>16959280
Well you took a huge step just by going to that convention.
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>>16959302
... This is social anxiety, isn't it?
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Language + exchange opportunities 2016-03-26 05:46:57 Post No.16959072
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Language + exchange opportunities
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Does learning a language at uni increase your chances of being selected for a language exchange trip?
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>>16959072
Two people apply for a trrip to, say, France
One knows French, the other doesn't.
All else being equal, who's going to be accepted?
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>>16959635
this
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It depends on the program. In Erasmus, for example, apparently they don't even ask you what languages you know.
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A childhood pen pal of mine just moved from a bumfuck region with terrible Wifi to an area with good Wifi. How often can I message her without things becoming strange/weird/creepy/whatever? We happened to develop similar interests and to be obsessed with the same anime. None of my irl friends like the same anime.
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I talk with online friends every night. So long as you're not messaging her every hour it should be fine.
If eventually she stops responding as quickly, then maybe you're messaging her too much. But you should be able to know when you're being too clingy.
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>>16959296
But look at this: http://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/16933414/#16933453
Some people also say that online friends are not "real" friends.
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>>16959307
That's their opinion.
I've kept a friendship online for 5 years and we still talk and game every single night.
Another one for 3 years and we talk every night, and sometimes about very personal stuff.
Who cares if they're a "real friend"? The point of online friends is having someone to talk to about anything. If you get along well, great. If you both after a few years realize you want to be together, work it out.
It's important to have friends IRL, of course. Online friends can never replace "real" friends you can actually hang out with.
Having both friends online and IRL is completely fine. Talk to whoever you like to talk to.
Is it reasonable to expect a guy who's obsessed with video games to a fault to be a decent boyfriend if we dated?
Don't get me wrong, he's sweet and smart and he makes me laugh. But all he does is game and read lore. He legitimately has no other significant interests.
He writes his in game name on tests in class. He constantly yells in gamer lingo. It's at least half of what he talks about. Honestly it's pretty cringy, but I still like him.
I have a bunch of hobbies and a lot of them are outdoorsy. I'd like some company sometimes. I just want to know if that type of guy is likely the be like "lol sorry babe I'm busy" all the time when he's just sitting in his room in his underwear playing League or if it could maybe work.
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Game name on tests in class is dump worthy. Nothing else seems unusual.
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>>16958990
Haha he was proud of that one. Wouldn't stop telling people about it.
Really? I know a lot of guys are super into vidya, but he's the only one I know of that has no other hobbies at all. He used to, but he dropped them to game more.
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>>16958969
>He writes his in game name on tests in class
>He constantly yells in gamer lingo
That is cringy as fuck and this is coming from someone who probably plays a little too much vidya. Maybe try to get him into other hobbies or activities, if you care about him that much. Maybe you can find common ground somewhere.
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I've been with my gf for 5 years. She was a virgin and is totally in love with me. She lives her life just for me and does everything she can to make me happy. She's a little clingy but she's hot and takes good care of me.
I recently met a girl who I developed feelings for over working in close contact. I feel me and girl B would also make a good couple and we're very compatible.
How fucked am I? You can't control your heart and right now I'm contemplating on ending my relationship for the other girl. My gf would be devastated and I think that's the only thing stopping me.
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>You can't control your heart
bullshit
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>>16958879
If you're unhappy in your current relationship, end it and move on. However if this is some the grass is greener on the other side of the fence thing, just forget about it. The grass is never greener. Nor would it be wise to throw away what you have if you are content with how things are.
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>>16958934
I've thought about the grass is greener scenario but I've never felt this way about anyone, including my current gf. II'm happy with my gf but I think I'm just going through the motions of life.
Does this soul mate love of my life shit exists or am I just being a piece of shit
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I recently inherited half of my dad's money (my sister inherited the other half). My older brother though, was left out of the will. Him and my dad never got along. He made a lot of bad decisions and it impacted my father in a lot of ways and he pretty much disowned him. But now that he has passed away, my older brother is asking my sister and I to buy him an apartment and help him out because he has financial troubles.
I am conflicted. I've never had a problem with my brother. I've always loved him. Part of me wants to help him, but it's not my money and it wouldn't be my fathers wish. I know this. My father disowned him, and I know he also has substance problems. I have no idea what my sister and I should do here. Any advice? I don't want him to be homeless. I have spare rooms and he could move in with me but I don't know how he would react if I said I don't want to buy him anything or give him money.
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>>16958866
How much did you inherit?
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>>16958873
Why does it matter?
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>>16958876
it doesn't just curious. Fucking tell me
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So, me and my gf often hang out with her sister and bf since we live close to each other. We've known each other for almost a decade by now.
Last night, the sister came over to hang out with us and at some point my gf fell asleep. I kept hanging out with the sister and we just ended up talking to each other and reminiscing about our past almost all night into the morning hours.
My gf wakes up 6 hours later to find us both still awake and got furious that we were up all night talking. The sister ended up leaving after that, while I had to fight/explain what the fuck I was doing until she kind of accused me of emotionally cheating.
So, is it cheating??
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Nope.
>emotionally cheating
kek
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>>16958681
dont bullshit me now and dont bullshit yourself either
what were you thinking about during the conversation? did you reach the conclusion that in a perfect world it would be you and her sister together instead?
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>>16958681
Haha, emotional cheating is the biggest bullshit ever and that's close to insta-breakup territory for me. You can't govern who I fucking talk to. And unless we're swapping bodily fluids, I ain't cheating.
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Is it better to be extraordinarily picky in finding a relationship, or settle for someone and be aware in the back of your head that they're really not what you want?
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How can you find true love with out trying out different relationships?
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You will never , ever find exactly what you want. Or what you think you want.
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>>16958661
Well, I've been in different relationships, I've dated many women. My last girlfriend was sweet and loving, but boring in my perspective, and like a 6 or 7 out of 10. I broke up with her.
I know looks aren't everything, but part of me feels like I need to be with someone that gets the attention of everyone in the room when she walks in. And someone who doesn't just want to sit in the house and watch Netflix, cook a sensible meal, and cuddle. That's boring.
But at the same time, I question if I'll ever find what I want and if I'm just fighting a losing battle with that mindset. I don't want to waste anyone else's time, though. I'm pretty shallow, but not intentionally mean.
There is a strange dog in my house, and I don't know how it got here.
...what do I do about this? All I can imagine is that it walked in while I was getting the mail and I didn't notice. I've been home for 4 hours and didn't hear her at all. She seems nice but has no collar or anything. She's just kinda sniffing around.
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>>16958547
who the fuck buys a book about Wikipedia?
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Dude. Wikipedia is free online. Come on bro
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Idk yo. Do you want him?
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Guys liking/messaging me on dating sites
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Recently I've been getting a ton of male attention on OkCupid and POF. The thing is, I'm a guy, and my interests are solely listed as women.
I'm not homophobic, it's a compliment, but I'd like to stop getting messages given that I'm not interested, or at least figure out what's going on. What should I say/do to deal with this?
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"seeking women"
"I'm straight, sorry"
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>>16958426
"I'm straight, sorry."
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You are probably set as a Woman and not a man like all the other retards on that site