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It is simple, this man wicked me... I am in love with him with passion, he doesnt want to be with me anymore, he promised me a lot of things, he propose me and then change his mind, he is 20 years older than me, he lives in another city. long story short i cant move on... i cant he was my life and i feel empty.. please help me
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Let the poor guy live, find your own love inside of you, don't bother him with it
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I don't want to be that guy, but... Have you checked he isn't married?
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Shit sounds fresh. Time will help, then try meeting other people, you own age.
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Yay Vitamix. You are mine :)
What to make? Recipes??
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>animals with next to no brain power, save pigs
>my friends
Fuck off hippie, we are at the top of the food chain for a reason
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>>16995345
My best friend is made of meat :(
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>>16995032
I bought a $10 blender at a charity shop.
It does everything yours does.
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If one would pursue the dream of becoming a model, how would that person start? I live in a small town in sweden so there's no connections here.
I know i would qualify for the job. I get comments from people all the time that im beautiful and that i should be a model but im a bit insecure, but im also afraid that when i turn 30 i'll regret that i did atleast try
Does anyone have experience in the work field?
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>>16994938
Get some decent photos taken. Send them to model agencies and see if they respond. BEWARE: If at any point someone asks you to pay money or pay for new photos or anything like that, they're scammers. A legitimate agency won't take money from you until they start getting you paying jobs.
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Did not intend to sound egoistic
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>>16994944
Thanks. Should i be retoutching the images or use heavymakeup or should i go for natrual look as im most comfertable with? If i do succeed i feel like im ending up with alot of makeup anyways
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I think I might have a serious deep-rooted fear when it comes to relationships, sex, and women.
Although I have the common anxiety issues, I don't have problems with self-esteem (I think) and do well in public speaking. I'm fairly fit, and have been called attractive multiple times. I fit in pretty well socially (exceptional amongst guys) and in groups I tend to be one of the funniest and active.
However, I can't really grasp the concept of me being romantic or sexual with women, like it is something that is completely taboo. I mean I've had many girls show pretty heavy interest in me but I always become avoidant, pretend to be oblivious and cold when it happens. I've even had dreams in which I end up cucking my own self from ready and willing partners, basically Ive never had a real wet-dream. Even just touching them accidentally makes me jump and pull back as if I hit them with a bat or something.
Consequently, I have no understanding of how relationships, boundaries (as anything outside of a handshake feels like I'm trespassing), and flirtatious communication work.
I'm not entirely sure what is wrong with me or if this is result of bullying or whatever but if anybody can offer insight or help please reply.
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I'm not a guy, but I was a lot like that all the way until I was finished with high school and in my 20s.
Did your parents have a good relationship? Mine didn't, and I think that had a negative impact on me, and made me very afraid of anything past friendship.
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>>16994844
My parents are quite the opposite, they've been together for over 20 yrs and get along great.
I've never seen them "express their love" however, they kiss but I cant imagine them being sexual with one another.
Additionally, they have never had "the talk" with me. Maybe this is where this where it is rooted?
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>>16994860
Hmm I couldn't tell you. It might not be "rooted" in anything specific, it might just be something you have that you've got to conquer.
I know it sounds cliche, but perhaps you haven't met the right person for you yet. That was definitely true for me. I didn't have any kind of attraction, romantic or physical, for anyone until I met and grew close with my now significant other.
Have you ever had a very deep, platonic friendship with a girl?
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I have a tonsil stone in one of my tonsils and I used one of those dental sticks you use to scrap plague off your teeth to try and remove it. I missed and I drew a tiny bit of blood right beside where the stone is.
Am I going to get infected or die of shock between now and when I go to the doctor tommorow?
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>>16994810
TSS is 'toxic shock syndrom' and comes from tampons that cause infection in a woman's baby factory and can lead to death or sterilisation.
Most people don't realise TSS also stands for 'tonsil stone syndrome' which can result in a serious bacterial infection following an unsuccessful attempt at dislodging a tonsil stone. The likelihood of such as infection is anywhere from 0.0001 to 0.0003%.
With those odds I'd be very worried. At least 6,500 globally will die from this each year.
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>>16994824
Theres a million of different ways you can go into shock faggot.
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>>16994826
How dense can you get?
I have a gambling problem. I'm 31 and I've struggled with it since I was 19 playing online poker. I ran myself into $35K credit card debt and $0 to my name by the age of 23. I would gamble every penny the day I got paid and would live off something like $18 for two more weeks.
Wasted many years of my life working my ass off paying off all my debt while still gambling every extra penny. Debt gone. My life isn't quite as hopeless. I try to pay all my bills first. I have a good paying salary position (at a casino). I have a 401(k), borrowed a grand from it to gamble... lost. Every bit of extra cash I have gets blown in the casino. It has been like this every week for so many years. 12 straight I guess.
It's tough. It's ruining my life. I end up in desperate situations where I'm stuck. I'm intelligent, good looking, charismatic, but nobody really knows how I'm dying on the inside.
Tonight I blew $320 in about an hour. The amount is irrelevant. It was more than I had to lose. I'll be living off of about $28 for the next 12 days. I'm used to it.
When I think about how much $ I've blown in the last 12 years. Hard to put an exact amount on it. All of it..
It just kills all my time, prevents me from being able to do anything. I know I just need to stop, but that clarity mostly only comes through after I've already fucked things up.
Any advice? Looking for something a little deeper than "stop gambling."
tl;dr Gambling addict doesn't learn. 31 and wasting life.
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what's your craps strategy?
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>>16994796
Buy in $400. Another $400 for backup.
Nickel yo parlay about half the time on the come out.
5 on the line with 5-10x odds. 6 and 8 $12 each, or $32/$34 inside. Power press. Get it up to green and collect. Press if it hits again, or same bet/1 unit if I'm being a pussy. If things get hot we'll get to black on 6/8/4. No hardways. Hop the point a lot when I'm playing bc I'm a psycho.
I typically stop when everything is gone.
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>>16994786
One of the only ways you're going to beat this is to lose access to your money and have a money manager look after it for you.
Your salary goes into an account you don't have access to. The manager uses it to pay your bills and home delivered groceries. You get a minimal amount of cash and not enough to make gambling tempting.
You don't get any credit cards or loans without the manager's approval. You can get yourself put on voluntary credit stop which will help with this.
Without cash you lose access to playing. You don't seem the kind to resort to crime, as it is now when your run out of dosh you self limit.
It will be hard and to help the manager must keep giving you rewards, like travel for example, paid for from the proceeds of not gambling.
Other than this.... you'll be trapped in the same cycle.
By the way, these money managers are often called a 'spouse' but if you're not married then an accountant or book-keeper may be able to help you.
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This girl I've met only recently is very flirty despite having a boyfriend. She has given guys in our group massages, is very touchy with us, tons of compliments to everyone, and uses words like "baby" and stuff like this in text. When her boyfriend is around, he gets very uncomfortable when this starts happening and usually withdraws or pretends like it's not happening; he's visibly affected and his body language shows it. It's also worth noting that she is a very good looking girl, far better looking than him; she's absurdly attractive.
What's up with this girl? She's 20, but also very smart for her age, so I'm not really sure why she does this or if she is aware that what she is doing is bad. Is she just very friendly, or is there some subtlety here that I should be aware of?
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how the fuck am I supposed to know, I don't know her
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>>16994762
its a manipulation tactic
she is clearly unhappy with her bf, and now she is testing to see which of you fucks will be her next toy
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>>16994762
Some people are just naturally touchy-feely. It means nothing to her, and she'd be amazed if you told her it's flirty. Whether her BF likes it is his problem, not yours.
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job interviews take weird turns?
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so all throughout school ive been taught to be formal, have good rapport, ask questions, etc etc be respectful during job interviews
i generally do well in job interviews but ive noticed one thing: a lot of times they turn to very casual and friendly conversations instead of dry and formal interviews
for example i had an interview with a really qt lab manager, and at one point we started talking about research while we were both in school and had a friendly banter about schools and lab work and stuff, completely separate from the interview itself
a similar thing happened with another woman who was interviewing for an auditing position, we started taling about things tangetially related to the position, but not about the position. this went on for quite a while.
this has happened before with other male bosses too. im not a charmer at all.
anyway is this a good thing or bad thing? most of these were really small companies. should i keep doing what im doing when applying for future, larger companies?
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>>16994715
if you pay attention you'd notice you didnt have much of a choice. they ask questions. you respond. you can put down personal tidbits but they are generally the ones who control the flow and let you elaborate on things if they so choose.
you go in formal, but if they open up to personal and genuinely seem interested / ask more its a godo thing.
people hire people they get along with. people they think would be a fun addition to the work place. especially small ones where they know everyone but even bigger companies the guy doing the hiring will give you extra points for being relatable.
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>>16994728
>people hire people they get along with. people they think would be a fun addition to the work place. especially small ones where they know everyone but even bigger companies the guy doing the hiring will give you extra points for being relatable.
This. If you get to the interview stage, they know that you can do the job. They're just finding out how well you'll fit in
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>>16994715
I'm an HR person in a big corporation.
You don't realize that they already have some idea of your professional qualifications from your resume and education. A BIG part of the interview is to discover whether you're "our sort of person" - whether you'll fit in with the company culture and way of doing things. To put it baldly, whether we'll be able to stand having you at the next desk every day.
So those weren't digressions, and the fact that you and the interviewers got along casually is a big plus for you in the process.
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i have been the funny guy my whole life
whenever i open my mouth to say something i am expected to say something funny
from my peers to my past and present educators i have been the funny guy
but i loathe myself and it is beginning to show
i only have a genuine laugh or two every couple of months
people have started to ask what's wrong
so i say something stupid or whatever and they laugh or smirk or something and drop it
i know they don't want to actually hear what's wrong and even if they did want to i wouldn't be able to tell them because i don't even know what's wrong
and so i continue to be the COMEDY MASTER and no one seems to suspect a thing
i'm really starting to hate seeing their stupid little faces perk up whenever i raise my hand to answer in class, they look back and start to grin prematurely before i even say anything
honestly i don't know where this is going
mostly just venting i guess
tl;dr whiney depressed shmuck
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Polish some of the other facets of your personality.
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a little vague but i guess this is the best answer there is
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At least people hold you to high standards senpai
Realistically would you rather be someone that people will remember, or some faggot people will laugh at in 10 years
I was the comedian to, and the best moments of highschool were me being the funny kid and fucking around having a good time.
Cherish it man, you'll look back and just remember how good it really was.
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I'm in need of some advice,
I have so much hate and negativity built up in me that I tend to come off very hostile(I just tend to be very blunt, and rude, don't really care if I offend people). I don't know why that is, but I feel like everything in this world that I see bothers me (Especially my family and siblings). I tend to spend most of my time alone, and don't really have much friends(obviously because of the way I am). I guess to make this short and simple, how can I be more at ease, and think more positively?
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Therapy. I'm serious. This is something that we can't help you with, you need a professional.
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>>16994686
I see, thanks for the response. Anything else you can recommend that I can do to think more positively?
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Someone to talk to might help. :)
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Anyone else feel like they are either outgrowing 4chan or have already outgrown it? I know a lot of people have said the age of the community has stabilized, but the discussions/arguments I've been reading the last month or so are a lot less substantive than I remember.
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>>16994592
It's because 4chan isn't the same, anon. Different mods, different owner, different userbase. The times have changed.
There are other chans, but I can only think of a handful that are still active, even less that are decent.
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>>16994619
Then where do you go?
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>>16994806
To your mom
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The stronger you become.. 2016-04-04 05:38:43 Post No.16994567
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The stronger you become..
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>..the more dangerous the world gets.
I don't know who I can confide in any more. I have recently hit a new level of enlightenment and growth in my life, but it feels like everyone in my life is experiencing the opposite.
I want to help them, but even my friends are showing signs of extreme spite and jealousy towards me.
What can I do?
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>>16994567
Leave them all behind.
Don't be afraid to let go of people in your life, for their relationship with is temporary. People come and go out of your life all the time. But becareful which bridges you burn and at what time.
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>>16994567
Just kill as many Blacks as you can.
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>>16994572
One of them I have already cut off and he is being a border line stalker.
I've caught him spying on me at work and he made a big scene when at a comic convention recently.
He basically ran into the convention without paying and tracked me down, just to ask me "SO ARE WE COOL DUDE!?!"
Security literally tackled him took him away, and I have not seen him since..
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Can no masterbation cause your knee? 2016-04-04 05:09:10 Post No.16994509
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Can no masterbation cause your knee?
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Can no masterbstiin cause your leg?
Im paranoid about losing my right leg.
I have been seeing peoole walk with a bad knee
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>>16994509
Um
No
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Masterbating cause ankle not knee stupid head
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#NOFAPCULT
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I need advice on a weird romance thing.
So I am in an open relationship with my boyfriend and since he wasn't around, I hooked up with some guy. Now, this guy is pretty good looking and I'm like, average. But this guy acts like I'm the second coming of Christ and loves my cock and all. I mean, this dude wants to marry me. He's sane, he just worships me. He asked me to go to Japan with him next month.
Now, I don't want to ever talk to him again. He doesn't have my real email but he has my phone number. How can I get rid of him? I kinda don't want to hurt his feelings but if need be I will. Can I just block him from texting/calling?
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No, you need to be brutal and quick about it. Just say that the guy is cool but you feel you two are on different wave lengths. Wish him the best and tell him to stop calling you. Done.
Ask him if he gets it and then hang up.
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Loves your cock? are you a faggot? lol
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>>16994481
Yes
1.) Save up to move to NYC and ask her out for a cup of coffee
2.) Save up and move to San Francisco to discourage people from throwing themselves of the Golden Gate Bridge and help those in need
3.) Do nothing and fade away on hammock, collecting disability for mental illness
4.) Cave in and get a low paying go nowhere job just to help support the economy and die alone
5.) Pursue a college degree in applied arts or STEM
6.) Stay where I am but try some assemblance of all the above
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People come on here and ask the dumbest questions imaginable that have the most obvious answers, and people pile in their threads.
I post some real shit that isn't about people crying over "do they like me or not" bullshit and it gets passed over.
What asshats with zero understanding of importance and priorities.
Here is how to solve all the other threads:
If you have to ask if they like you, then they don't like you.
If they cheated on you, then they don't like you, they're using you.
There, that's 100% of all other threads.
You asshats suck.
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>>16994346
What do you want to do most
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>>16994346
what kind of stupid fucking question is this
you're asking 4chan to determine the rest of your fucking life you stupid doublenigger