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>>16992572
this website is 18+ only
please return when you grow up

Depends on your girl.
I never kept track of how long me and my bf were together in that exact kinda way, going on 5 years-ish and we never really do anything other than be like "huh I think this was the week we met" and maybe have sappy romantic sex. Neither one of us was watching the clock at 1 month, and for me and my taste, having a partner who did would be a huge red flag. Probably because I'm not in high school.

But to each their own. You know your gf best.

>>16992572

get her a single rose to show her you care.

>>16992534
Contact the people who you were with and ask them.

Also, source on pic?

>>16992600
No clue on the source, found it on /mu/ a while back.

also, I sorta did. I went to my neighbors' room the next day hoping that if I brought up not being able to find them one of them would say something.

I have this horrible feeling that I tossed them out with the empty bowl of ramen somewhere. Its super illogical and I'm skeptical but the bowl is missing as well so the two must be linked.

bump in some slight hope that an anon has a surefire technique

>>16992513

call them and explain the situation. record the call. record all calls. thats a thing.

say
>i gave my 30 days notice
>you guys fired the landlord
>its not my fault she/he did not pass that information along to you
>but considering she/he got 'fired' im not surprised they didnt bother going through the proper steps.
>im not paying

not much they can do. truth is many people move and never even give a notice, and there isnt much the company can do about it. its worth more money than not to hunt you down most of the time.

if they do send some legal notice of payment, thats when you lawyer up.

>>16992513
>>16992517

one note, if you can contact the original landlord and get a recording of him saying you did turn in the notice and he just didnt do his job, that'd help your case.

also, if you have your contract take a look at waht the legal deifnition of '30 days notice' is in that. as that could screw you over.

>>16992521
This. Contact the original landlord and record the call.

>>16992474
That's a hard one op without knowing more info like what is the connection with her boyfriend and you, you guys friends you good friends or just know each other

Also trust me on this it's never good to keep her around just to try something later for two reasons the first is what if they never break up, and two can you handle emotionally her talking about the guy. I had a crush on a girl and I found out that she had a boyfriend on valentine's day from her sending me a funny text he sent her for ValetInes, in short it shattered me and I cut contact right away to prevent that from happening again

make her cheat, or leave it alone, you only have 2 options

>>16992558
He is this junior guy in one of my guided study classes, we never really spoke to each other.

Yeah I guess I agree. Like what if they marry each other, damn.

It's my senior year so I don't really have anything to lose since school is over in 3 months and I'll never be seeing them again.

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youre ugly

>>16992178
Do you actually listen to the criticism though? Unless is making fun of your or calling you names, that's one thing but if you're over-sensitive over anything, therapy could help. It all depends on what really crushes you the most when met with the critics. Is it about you? hobbies?

>>16992186
whenever people make of of me

just make a fucking thread on /soc/ and if not anyone else then I'll rate you and try to give advice

>>16992162
I'll join in if must be

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Here. Show us your pics, OP, I want to see them.

>>16992076

you made this same thread earlier. just ask her out and go.

sincerely, if i were that girl, i would flat out reject you. ive pulled this shit many times before and i know how it feels. Spare her time, OP

>>16992076
Talk to her face to face, as if you were a real live person.

>>16992059

for what reasons?

the best option you have really is calling the venue and trying to get contact information of crew, assuming by professional you mean he was hired by the band itself to take photos of them . you should be able to call around and at elast get the name of hius business then go from there.

you could also start googling the names of the two concerts, with the dates and locations and whatnot and when photos start popping up try tracing them back to him

it's very likely he'll be credited in the photos or be there the same night next week if not both. this is only requires some stalking 101 level techniques, get it together.

>>16992059
lol whore

Raw food is more difficult to digest for your organism. When I'm sick I always focus on house chores to and excessive extent just.

You move, you live. (Actually sweat up kind of help).

>>16992039
eat meat

>>16992039
how long have you been a vegetarian? It takes the body more effort to digest raw veggies. How much protein do you consume? Where are you getting that from? Do you take any supplements? It is allergy season, some people get sick in different ways

>>16992018
Go out and start a fight. You'll lose, but that's okay. once you learn that getting your ass kicked (it happens to all of us at least once) isn't the end of the world your whole life will change.

stop trying to be your bro

Set goals and work towards them. Make promises to yourself and keep them.

>>16991857
>I know losing it is the easiest way, but that would mean quitting my job (for which I busted my ass 8 years before...) and I really LOVE MY JOB.

No it doesn't mean that.
Just eat less, and you will lose weight as well.

Cut your calories to 1500 ckal a da for a while. and little workout will be more than enough.

PS: The noom app is a good way to count em.

>>16991926
>Cut your calories to 1500
Don't do this, OP. Work out your BMR, multiply it by 1.3, and then subtract 500. Replace any additional calories lost through exercise at a 1:2 ratio.

OP serious question, will you hire me? I'm a network engineer trying to get into infosec but struggling.

>>16991822
>death anxiety

I have this problem as well.

I'm always afraid I will die the next day, and I'm not strong enough to defend myself from an attack or slip away from an accident.

I've been like this for over 15 years, and its not stopping.

>>16991845
Every stupid, embarrassing and idiotic thing I do feels like I'm being a horrible parasitic piece of shit who isn't allowed to be near people at all.

I feel like this every day but I don't want to, I can't help it. I need to suffer more and more every day just for being born.

>>16991822
I've had death anxiety throughout most of my life. Began when I was around 6 or 7. Many times it got to a point where I couldn't function. Fucked up my grades, fucked up relations I've had, etc. I tried getting help several times but nothing worked.

Someone recommended meditation (vipassana/mindfullness) a couple of years ago. I cringed at the proposal because it sounded like some New Age bullshit. Tried it because why not. Haven't had any death anxiety since.

Don't know if it will work for you, but it was the only thing that worked for me. Good luck.

>>16991802
>I feel like because I am black I won't be able to explain these things away and no one will hire me even after interview

Depends on the business.
If you aren't a thug in your overall behavior, language, clothing style etc. only conservative companies will take issue.

If you go towards young, trendy businesses and play the cards right IF it is brought up in an interview ("Im a bit of a hippie. But I get my work done anyhow, and here are references that show it very well, may I show you ...") they won't care, and it even might give you "liberal" friends in smaller businesses.

Don't be afraid.
But manage your image VERY carefully to fall either in the apple-hipster who wanted to be edgy OR in the hippie Category after you are out, not the thug style.

Then you will be fine.

Depends on your business/ area of work of course. In the worst case you will have to change to a different one.

Meh.

Could be worse.

>>16991873

Thanks for the reply, much appreciated

I'm no thug, though I have empathy for people who live that life. I like a Young Thug or Future record just like anyone else.

but nah I grew up in a white middle class environment, I know how to "talk white" and all that stuff. I dress normal, skinny/fitted jeans or chinos, white converse, a button up, etc.

You're kind of getting at what like ex-girlfriend told me. To make this part of my image. I've always been a left wing kind of guy and stuff so I guess this cements the fact that I should seek work/employment opportunities with like minded people.

Again, thank you for your response.

>>16991895
No problem.

Yep, basically make it part of your image.
And don't worry too much. The past is the past, make the best out of it, and don't be anxious about it.

It will all turn out well.

>>16991796
Hobbies will come to you naturally
I love learning new languages

Hobbies are mainly a waste of time and money, man. I'm not saying that's bad, time you enjoyed wasting is time well spent, my point is that a hobby doesn't have to be constructive. I think you need some goals, rather than some hobbies, but who am I to say that, right?

The only hobby I have other than the usual ones (Tv shows, reading, videogames, gym) is skiing and I've been doing this until as long as I can remember, my parents loved it and they made me learn how to sky when I was like 4.

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I ended up joining a little group of people who play with scale RC cars. Might sound a little childish at first but most of these are in their 20's or 40's. You build, paint and model these little things and meet up with others to drive them. Realism is key so you end up spending a lot of time fiddling with your car to make it look and handle like the real deal. You learn a great deal about mechanics, fabrication and modeling and you make new friends. There's probably a group nearby if you look for it.

>>16991787
Lower your standards. Accept that you might not be model prize either. Learn how to talk to girls. Do that by learning how to talk to people. Can you do that? Good now add flirting.

I live in such a small town that I'm known around here and I can't just ask someone for sex.. Ya know??

There nothing wrong with being a virgin if you haven't met the right girl yet.