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As the title suggests. Im searching for a place where i could just take a plane, take the bus, hike, and just start living there far away from civilization. Along the cost and islands would be preferable. I have considered phillipines so far. My budget is fairly decent. I am of legal age. This is not about why i want to do this.
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SE Asia in general isn't the worst idea, but I wouldn't stray too far from civilization. Weather disasters and insect-borne illness happen a lot in that area and you'd need help when they strike. There are some pretty chill places in Indonesia too.
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Cool idea until a hurricane / typhoon / tsunami comes.

Also you should learn how first symptoms of missing certain minerals / vitamins looks like. because McDonald may give you obesity, but living on some island can be much worse nutrition vise. Also tropical mosquito can give you super powers.

Maybe buy a Pocketbook, some solar panel and 64GB epubs to occupy yourself.

Good luck on your strange quest :-D
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Cambodia maybe.

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there's a girl I like really much and have been talking to past 2-3 months, we kissed, hugged, got jerked off etc.. but she told me she gets very "attached to people" and that she still has feelings for her ex even though they broke up like 4-5 months ago..

Is it worth it to pursue this girl? I really fucking like her and all that, but a part of me is thinking that I will just end up getting hurt and wasting my time in the end, since she wont have feelings for me? ( More than "I like you" ).

Any tips on this? How do I act.
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anyone?
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>>16996324
OP don't do that to yourself find someone who only wants you she needs to get over her ex before she is suitable to be in another relationship
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>>16996428
that's the problem, it almost felt like im a relationship with her already before we talked and shit happened and etc.. now I just don't know.

You are probably right though..

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I have a phone interview coming up tomorrow regarding an IT position at T.Rowe Price.

I have never done a professional interview before and I have never done a phone interview.

Does anyone have any phone interview tips?

What questions will they ask?
What questions do I ask them?
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Ask about vacation time, sick pay, how long the work day is, shit like that. Sorry, I couldn't help myself, they are probably going to ask about hypothetical scenarios or times you "led a team to a goal" or got something done with limited time.
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research the star interview format
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>>16996323
No, no, do not ask about anything regarding benefits or how long the work day is. Do not do that.

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So, bit of back story. Was in 3rd year of 5 year masters engineering course and completely fucked an exam, plus its resit (mix of hating that subject and not getting it). My advisor of studies tells me that I can either resit that class with just the end exam, or I can resit the class with attendance, where I'd have to attend lectures, Labs an class tests.

Now last year the mark distribution for the class was 60% exam, 30% for two class tests and 10% labs however he said that if I did resit with attendance, while I would have to attend the labs and tests to make sure I understood the content, only the mark i got in the final exam mattered.

So I decided to do a resit with attendance as I wanted to make sure I understood the content, plus i got a part time job as well to cover expenses. Good call as the lecturer who taught it last year got fired and this years lecturer has overhauled the course big time. Fast forward to january 2016 and the second class test, worth 15% (if it counted) is coming up, however due to a mixture of me feeling depressed (not medical diagnosed, just felt like shit) and admittedly laziness, I didn't attend it, so got 0%.

This week my lecturer emailed me saying something unrelated about labs and I asked him to clarify whether my labs counted for anything and he told me that actually, they did, then emailed me the next day saying that, unless I could provide evidence or an excuse, that I would be going into this exam with a 15% penalty on my marks due to not attending the class test.

So what I'm asking is what excuse, that I have no actual evidence for, can I give for not attending a class test two months ago or reporting it at the time? I need every advantage I can get in this exam as I really need to pass this or I'd have wasted 4 years of my life and lord knows how much of mine and my parents money
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Pay the guy off.
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Have some fucking foresight you lazy piece of shit. If you keep taking every day as it comes you're going to keep blundering into 100% preventable issues like the one you're in.

Also you need to explain why a single course is determinate for your entire 4 years of schooling, let alone a single test. You also seem to be implying that you didn't attend class unless you were forced to, unless I misunderstood? Instead of making excuses how about you motivate yourself?
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>>16996469
how do i motivate myself?

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Im about to buy some sneakers and I can't figure out if them being black would fit faded jeans.

Picture related, those are the shoes and the jean color is the actual color.
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>>16996247
Ask this in /fa/ don't trust /adv/
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>>16996247
They probably look better with some white vans.
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>>16996258
/fa/ does not care unfortunately

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How much does it cost for STD testing? I heard they do a sliding scale based on your income.
I'm an unemployed college student and won't be using insurance.
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>>16996174
>and won't be using insurance.
why?
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>>16996178
So my mom won't find out.
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>>16996185
you're over 18, its illegal for them to share any medical information with your parent

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what does kissing others lips feel it?

is it THAT good?
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the intimacy is what's nice, not the physical act in and of itself.
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the lips are irrelevant
a girl being attracted to you though, nothing comes close to it.
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>a girl being attracted to you though, nothing comes close to it.
Seriously, this. As long as you're into her.

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How do I get more authority at my job in confrontation with women much older than me?

I'm a project manager and have to get the operators to do some measurements for me. With the male operators it's not a problem, they just do what I ask them to. But with a certain group of female operators I'm having trouble. I asked them to measure 20 samples per day and they only measured fucking 5 today. Lazy bitches.

Why do the male operators listen to me and do what I say but the bitches don't? I honestly have no idea. The males just do their job and extra stuff that I ask of them they don't mind (it doesn't even take long) but the women are just lazy as hell.

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Just start building the paper trail. Contact them every day that they fall short with
- what they were supposed to do
- what they actually did
- a reminder of how to do the work
- an offer to provide clarification and answer any questions
- a summary of what's expected of them going forward

This basically ends in termination, but they think they're protected by threat of sexual discrimination. The paper trail shits all over that.
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>I asked you to measure 20 samples. Do you have the other 15?

There ya go.
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I'm interested in project manager jobs. Would you mind telling me what it's like, do you like it, etc? Maybe with an email I could use or some such?

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At what mixture of age and experience should you know what you enjoy in life and what you want to do?
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Early 20s, after at least a couple years of fully independent living.
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>>16996064
What if I'm past that?
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>>16996078

then you have to play a little catch up, but there is no physical limit to when you cant learn waht you enjoy.

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What's the best way to put a stop to a friends with benefits situation? Fade out? Formally? Long story short, I hooked up with a girl one night, we fuck every once in a while, she wants to start communicating more in between fucks. She's nice but I'm not interested, and in fact, I wanna stop having sex with her, too. I feel like maybe I should apologize for having led her on; that was my bad.
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>>16996037

i go for the fade out. but if at first you dont succeed, lie lie again.

assuming she doenst know your personal life too well just say 'sorry hanging out with my gf that night'.

its brutal but it sends a direct message.
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>>16996051
She's mutual friends with a good friend of mine. She hangs out with our group from time to time. She knows I'm single.

Maybe I should tell her I'm seeing someone else?
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>>16996081

>maybei should tell her im seeing someone else?

that is literally what i said to do

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Do the following steps and post your results in 24 hours in order to calibrate how much physically attractive girls find you

>download tinder
>make all your profile pics of you smiling. It can be at different events but the focus MUST be your face or body
>write very little in your info but make sure to mention your height
>swipe until the limit in a span of 24 hours.
>Don't interact with any of the girls
>delete account and app

I'll make a new thread in 24 hours, post how many matches you have and the attractiveness on a scale of 1 to 10 the girls you matched with
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>>16996015
Bumping for interest
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Bump for interest

Will try
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>>16996015
I can't do this to myself, I am already too depressed. (You) for qt Tomei.

My old fwb has a girlfriend but recently he reached out and started sending me some raunchy texts, pics and vids, I sent some back as well. We were all set, so I thought to meet up until his buddy told him not to blow it with his girlfriend.
As far as I've heard she kinda sucks.
How can I lure him away? We're still sending pics and shit. ( I know some people are going to freak out, but I also know there's a fair amount of guys and grils who've done this..that's who I want to hear from)
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Fuck pics and vids, that still gives him the chance to think about the situation. Gotta act on his impulses, pop up at his house or some shit.

Seeing your ass on a screen isn't as tempting as in person.
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Get in a car crash homewrecking cunt
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Lmfao, that's all you'll ever be, the side bitch. Nasty fucking cunt.

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So apparently taking pictures in public is illegal? Some woman got furious with me about taking one of my art shoots i do throughout the day. She threatened to call the cops. What do? I don't like dealing with the cops, what if she lied or something and I get arrested?

Pic related, one of my many art shoots.
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It varies from place to place and circumstance to circumstance.

In my town, state and country, I can photograph people in a public park as long as the subject of the photograph isn't chosen in order to harass and the use of the photographs isn't commercial.
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Normally I would say let the cops come. But your pic is crotch-level, fairly close up, and only of young girls. So yeah, it's pretty creepy.
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>>16995982
Is this all copy pasta? All these threads are fucking identical to each other.

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I asked this before and the thread died quick with one half assed reply

I have these friends for about a year. They never call me, text me, include me in their group convos, or anything at all. They do interact with me from time to time on Facebook

I was told to find new friends. How in the world I can do that when I'm already out of college? Bars don't help. People in my gym aren't up to chatting with strangers. Coffee shops have people that often don't want to be bothered

I'm already doing my own thing. I just don't have friends to truly call them friends. The kind that actually care about you and want to talk to you
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>>16995923
Fucking bump

Please guys
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>>16995923
>find new friends
it is harder once you get out of school, and it's not always possible to make friends at work, but here are other ways:
meetup.com
volunteer work
community ed classes
taking up a new hobby for which there is a local club or association, then joining that club
joining a church, meditation group, etc.

>The kind that actually care about you and want to talk to you
just remember that it takes an equal amount of effort on your part as on theirs, and you'll be fine. also remember that it can't be forced. for every group of people you meet, you will make several acquaintances, a casual friend or two, and possibly a close friend if you continue to keep in touch regularly.
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>I'm already doing my own thing.
Talk to the people who are at those things too. If, as with the gym, that's difficult then do new things. Keep trying things. Use sites like Meetup for ideas and groups.

When you make new friends, you should also change this overemphasis on "call ME, text ME, include ME." Be the leader. You call them, you text them, you decide who does and does not get included. Make the plans yourself.

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I have never practiced self harm but am seriously thinking to start because the resulting damage will give me enough time to achieve the goals I care for.

I know it sounds ridiculous, but if I swallow something I am allergic to or if I cut myself badly... this would give me enough time to get out of a professional predicament.

Of course this will make me a fake and a liar... because it is calculated goal-oriented action.

However therapy is kicking in and my mind is trying to slow me down in this.

I know 4chan is what it is. Seriously when you end up on 4chan asking advice about this... well... chances are anons will say "go.kill yourself and stop whining".
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Apparently, I have succeded to talk myself out of this shit.
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Don't be idiot. We live in a capitalism. If you need proof of not being able to do stuff, just go to doctor and use power of money to get a resolution you seek.

Hurting yourself sound like a bad idea.
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>>16995808
>Don't be idiot. We live in a capitalism. If you need proof of not being able to do stuff, just go to doctor and use power of money to get a resolution you seek.
>Hurting yourself sound like a bad idea.
So should I use money to get time to earn money.

I need $ 9,000 which I don't have.

I need a reason to suspend my course, leave this country (suspension = no visa) earn the money and resume.

They don't let me do this 'for financial reasons'. They just let me do this 'on compassionate grounds'.

So I am pretty much fucked.
I can walk away of course. But this is tantamount to throwing in the bin my past 4 years of study.

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