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Hey /adv/ I'm secretly into amputee girls. Where do I find one of these cyborgs? Also, without coming off as a creepy fetishist. I am one. Just don't want to seem as though I am. You understand.
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DID YOU JUST COME FROM /b/???
There was an exact same thread
Gtfo to syria youll get lucky there
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No, now I must find it.
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Paralympics Rio 2016
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Does long distance work? 2016-04-05 11:16:47 Post No.16998997
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Do long distance relationships work or is it just a myth?
I'm talking country-wise/across the globe distance not just an hour ride away.
It seems for me that the only girls I get interested in and actually connect with is online, irl no one is interested in me neither do I get to meet many girls. Whereas, online I've spoken to people through mutual interest and things "hit off" at first and have always tried to do my best to make things work but it was never really mutual just ultimately the person leaves or my worries get the better of me making things hard despite my 100% commitment, they never really evolved into "relationships" neither was the people as serious as I was when I look back on it. It's just been a continuous cycle of hurt but there's no one who actually takes interest in me locally.
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>>16998997
>Do long distance relationships work or is it just a myth?
It works when one or both partners are willing and able to move to "upgrade" it to a physical relationship.
This doesn't have to happen immediately, and it shouldn't be done at the cost of job prospects/etc, but it should be a goal in mind. The moment you "go official" and tell people "i'm in a committed relationship with X", you should be able to describe your plans to be together physically as well.
If you know it's never going to happen (and be realistic, no bullshit dreams or fairy tales) then don't waste each other's time.
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>>16998997
If there is a Chance, don't do it! LDR comes always with problems
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I don't have a problem dating girls my age (I'm 22), I've had 6 partners over the last 3 years. The problem is:
I'm into older gals. Girls my age aren't really all there. But I don't know how to go about dating them. I'm not talking about old ladies, I mean late 20s early 30s. The kind that has a job and lives on her own.
Where do I even look?
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The internet?
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>>16998995
> make a fake profile on a dating site
> message em
> ask their kik or number
> tell them you lied about your looks when they ask for a selfie
> tell them you did it because you were self conscious about your looks around older women
Works 50/50.
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>>16999012
I guess what I'm asking is what dating site is the best for this?
I'm not self conscious about my looks.
Other methods involving more truthin' than lyin'?
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How can I become HD
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blahblah u must just talk to her bro blahblBOOOPPah sympathy n btw brah just believe in urself
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>>16998847
Wow thankyou bro I feel much better now
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i think goku just tossed a spirit bomb at you.
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Going Red when talking to multiple people or a group 2016-04-05 10:46:47 Post No.16998813
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Going Red when talking to multiple people or a group
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Growing up I didn't really fit in. I got in with the gamer crowd kind of people, was that creepy weird silent kid you hear about who shoots up the school on the news.
I was the same through college. I was a little bitch. However now, I am almost 21, and I have changed a lot. My job forced me to kind of evolve, and I've become a lot better with people. But I still go red in the face when I address groups of people. Today it happened, but I wasn't nervous or anxious at all really, it just happens. I can't stop it. This girl pointed it out in front of everyone, and made fun of me for it which kind of made it a bit worse.
I just want to know if there is any way I can stop it?
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I still do it too. Bumping for interest.
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I was the same. I still get like that at times.
I taught for 2 years. I have done numerous NUMEROUS presentations for my previous work. Still, some times I get red, some times I'm confident.
My advice: just keep at it.
Put yourself out there. In uncomfortable position to talk to people in that way. Eventually, with practice, you will get better.
BUT. Until then. Breath deep. Keep your chin up. Smile. Keep your arms out. Those things WILL in fact help your brain to think that you are good. Trick your mind.
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>>16998813
It's ok anon, most people will politely ignore it. If someone comments on it tell them you know but can't help it, they say something to try and make you more comfy.
I have no problems with speaking in public, but that doesn't mean I secretly laugh at people who get nervous about it. As that would actually concern the majority of people.
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I'm 26 years old and I've been dating a girl for about two years that told me when we first started dating that she has had a number of sexual partners before me.
They were all when she was pretty young and she even made a sex tape with one guy (she told me early on that he kept it for awhile then she made him delete it).
So the problem is..... I love the shit out of her.
She makes me laugh, she supports me in everything I do, she comes to all of my shows (I'm a struggling musician), stays up with me when I'm practicing; she's kind and honest and the smartest person I've ever met. She's also way too hot for me and because of these things I never gave her sexual history a second thought.
We play games together, we take trips together, we party together, we work out together; we're completely inseparable and when she looks at me and smiles I melt inside. She makes me happy, like, really happy.
So I'm honestly wondering, am I missing something here? Everyone on this board keeps telling me that the dicks she had before me is supposed to disqualify her from being wifey material but I'd be super stoked to marry this woman.
I'm waiting any day to start feeling like the stupid cuck piece of shit she settled down with after her "slut phase" but up to this point I've only managed to feel super lucky to have her.
So whats going on here? Am I actually fucked without realizing it? Is my happiness a lie? What fucking gives???
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>>16998807
>Everyone on this board keeps telling me that the dicks she had before me is supposed to disqualify her from being wifey material but I'd be super stoked to marry this woman.
4chan is overrun by people with low self-esteem. If you don't feel bad, then don't worry about it.
>So whats going on here? Am I actually fucked without realizing it? Is my happiness a lie? What fucking gives???
You're letting people with different standards get to you. Stop it. If you're happy, and she hasn't done anything to wrong you, don't destroy a good thing.
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>>16998820
>You're letting people with different standards get to you.
I mean, they haven't so far but after SO MANY people say the same thing I start to wonder if I'm missing something, know what I mean?
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>>16998831
>but after SO MANY people say the same thing I start to wonder if I'm missing something
Again, certain types of people, typically ones with relationship issues or weird hang ups, tend to congregate here. People have no reason to complain about their amazing relationships, so you won't really see them on here unless they pop in to give others advice (and then they're immediately called names to invalidate anything they have to say). We're a jaded lot.
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How do I help a virgin that I'm seeing come out of their shell in terms of sexuality? We're of opposite gender, so it's nothing to do with orientation, but rather that he associates sex with degrading a woman, and seems ashamed that he has sexual desires, although I know that he isn't asexual.
For context, he was raised in a female dominated environment with no father figure, and he's 24 years old, your stereotypical /v/irgin that rarely leaves the house (although he does have a part time job at the local corner shop).
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kek i like this picture
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i have the same issue as that guy,
bump out of interest
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Maybe you can ask her? Sit down, cuddle, and then ask, gently.
She will have the best understanding. Hopefully she could be forthcoming.
Bf is hooked on porn. He's been hooked for 8 years, we've been together for 2. Sex is pretty shitty and great other times. We don't have enough sex because he faps and is not in the mood when I come home.
Anyway, I am doing shitty things now. I met someone online and we have cyber sex, he makes me feel good and tells me how great my body is etc, things my boyfriend doesn't do. Is this cheating? Should I tell my boyfriend?
Also, my bf and I have talked about this issue for better half of the time we have been together and it's just not changing. I am pretty kinky and willing to try it all, he is not, he is pretty vanilla and just wants his cam whores and hand.
Idk what to do. I love him but yeah.... I have been kind of cheating and wondering if I should tell him.
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>>16998789
Well to be honest even if you tell him I doubt he would care since it sounds like he clearly wants other unattainable girls more than you.
Just dont worry too much about it
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>>16998789
>Is this cheating? Should I tell my boyfriend?
Yes and yes. If you have to hide something like that from your boyfriend, then you know it's wrong.
>Also, my bf and I have talked about this issue for better half of the time we have been together and it's just not changing.
And it's not going to in the future, so I don't know why the hell you think sticking around is a good idea. Relationships can't run on love alone. Find someone that's compatible with you. Move on.
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>>16998794
Okay so I shouldn't be honest about this thing with him?
>it sounds like he clearly wants other unattainable girls more than you.
Exactly... Which is why I don't really feel bad... It's a weird feeling not to feel guilty about it. I only feel guilty for hiding it because I feel like I am lying to him.
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>Move in with partner.
>We both work a fair bit. I work 3-4 days a week for 9-hour shifts, and she works a standard nine to five sorta deal full-time.
>I tend to do most of the housework, i.e. clean the floors, vacuum, clean bathroom/toilet, take trash out and clean the kitchen.
>She stacks the dishwasher and cleans the litter box for the cat. That's it.
>Fine, she works more, it is okay.
>On weekends she goes out to socialise/get pampered and what not, and I spend one of the days we could be spending together cleaning or doing errands at home.
>Ask her nicely, "I would appreciate it if you would help me with cleaning on weekend." This was after a discussion she had re: our moving in being successful and how her sister keeps her relationship with her partner going through compromise on chores etcetera.
>Flips shit at me and says I am being negative. Tells me she wont adhere to a roster or even do the vacuuming of one room a week to stop it tracking to all the other rooms I do.
I am now at home, drinking wine listening to jazz and not sure what to do. How do I deal with this? I know a lot of you will say, "Dump her" and suggest a more traditional partner, but I genuinely find this one nice and lovely, albeit unreasonable re: this issue. I also like her independent financial status (I earn less than her, but pay my own share of bills and my own way) but I do not see how to negotiate this one.
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Welp?
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>>16998763
If you're working a lot less, then it's clear that you'll be the one to do more at home. If you had similar hours/work days, then it should even out. When I wasn't working, I did everything at home. All the clean up, laundry, cooking, lunch, etc. Then when I got a job, and I was still working less days/hours, it was still on me. If I had 2-4 spare days, why shouldn't one of them go to cleaning? But now that our hours/days are similar, we share chores equally and he cooks on some days.
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You are misrepresenting the time, however. I have 1-2 days free during the week, which I am doing a lot of errands and other practical stuff for myself as well (I study as well and have family commitments). The weekend I would like to spend together, and not spend 1 day just on chores that would be really a breeze if she chipped in on one day a week. I am happy to do the rest.
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Hey /adv
I have a friend that's studying math at uni/college however he's a unsure about career options seeing as the only ones he knows of are research and teaching
He doesn't want to go into engineering cause he believes that is the main job of people who are half good at maths
Any advice you can give him /adv?
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>>16998724
Go for it.
I mean if he is serious and not just do math because it sounds cool then this is the site he should be spending time on instead of wasting his time on 4chan
http://math.stackexchange.com/questions/tagged/soft-question?sort=votes&pageSize=15
This specific tag caters to your type of question.
And then when he is mature enough (i.e. people start paying him to do math) go to this site
http://mathoverflow.net/questions/2358/most-harmful-heuristic/2370#2370
Good luck and don;t come back.
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>>16998724
without going into the 'math phd, any job you want, 100kk salary starting out' meme, there are a number of opportunities open.
financial shit is what pays the best, then it's comp sci, and there are doors open for enterpereurship too. just, don't ever expect an 'easy' jig like a code monkey, he's training to be the one that makes and understands models, he's going to be the one that exploits them to make shiploads of money for his employer. if he can't do that, his degree is worthless.
engineering will, on average, have a more structured career path, and pay more consistently. but, he'll be an engie, and that's a big hit on quality of life, one you can never really recover from.
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>>16998724
actuary
banking
finance
stocks and bonds
accounting
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How to find motivation? 2016-04-05 09:34:00 Post No.16998722
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I've been floundering in college for a few quarters now, and starting to realize that I'm really not cut out to get the rest of the way through and that I'm really not that good at the things I need to learn. I really have no motivation to do anything anymore, including the things I love, and just feel like a tired empty lazy excuse for a human that is wasting resources others are spending on me. The desire to kill myself has been growing incredibly strong and it's getting harder to convince myself not to. How can I find motivation to continue not just in college but in living?
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>How can I find motivation to continue not just in college but in living?
You don't.
You just put up with it.
Tolerant with it.
Thinking about choosing to kill yourself or continue to live everyday.
The nightmare will never end till the day you die.
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>>16998726
>The nightmare will never end till the day you die.
Then why shouldn't I just make the nightmare shorter?
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>>16998729
Because passing your nightmare off to people who know you and who are probably quite happy is a serious dick move. No rational human being does that, so swallow your irrationality and keep living your shit situation, because yes that is one million times a better choice.
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Hey /adv/
I've been having these (recurring) nightmares for a while now, about 7 months. They're generally about my ex-girlfriend and us getting back together. They are a very nice illusion while dreaming but I feel drained as soon as I wake up, which is why I prefer to call them nightmares.
But lately, I've also been having nightmares about other things such as my grandfather dying or my sister's relationship ending, or dying in general.
Do you know of anything that could lessen or cease the nightmares, without consulting a psychiatrist? I'm quite hestitant to go there. It's also worth noting that I've been doing a lot of drugs, mostly psychedelic, for the last few months and I am aware that they make nightmares more frequent. I try to lessen my intake.
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5-HTP
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>>16998677
>Do you know of anything that could lessen or cease the nightmares
Yes, change your life entirely.
Like changing everything.
Leaving the country, leaving everyone you knew.
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>>16998682
I have a study to complete in my country. It is however mandatory for everyone following the course to go abroad for two periods of 6 months to do internships and studies.
I was thinking to go to South Africa around this time, but only for two weeks. I don't think a holiday will fix this.
how many 1mg lorazepams does it take to kill my self?
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somebody fucking tell me.
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All of them just take all of them
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no because id only get fucked up.
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Best way for me to become more in tune with peers? 2016-04-05 08:39:53 Post No.16998620
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My Interests are confined to games and TV shows only, and since these are the only two topics I really know about I come off as unintelligible since I cant chime in on many common topics like music, sports ect.
Im 20, whats the common dialog of 20 yo's?
Also Since i have been anti socal for the past year, I think I have lost some of my wit. are there any methods I can follow to become more articulate?
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>>16998620
No, you permanently run on a different track to your peers. Shouldn't have spent 15+ years on vidya.
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Uh...reddit frontpage stuff I guess. And talking to actual people
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>>16998620
Talking to people is the most important. Those at the highest echelons of social ability don't relate to each other about the game or anything. They just talk, and it doesn't have to be about anything.
>>16998639
This guy's dead wrong, tons of people these days relate over vidya and TV. It's good to have other interests though so just find someone who likes that shit and then find some other interest to get into from them (or on your own) and go from there. The more you interact the less you'll have to rely on specific interests.
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Thinking of becoming a nurse, would it be looked down on or seen as underachieving since it's more of a professional school and I didn't go for med school? Mostly people who barely made it out of high school apply of it.
I already have a university diploma, but in a different field. All of my family take a dim view at this sudden choice of changing careers. Anyone here who is a nurse could tell more about how it is? I'm thinking of working in a laboratory or some psychiatric ward.
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Think real fucking hard about it OP. A nurse is a not just a job. A million people apply but few get to retire from nursing. Why? Because if you don't actually want to be a nurse, you will end up absolutely hating the job and anything related to nursing. I'm 24, ex nurse and I'm looking into alternatives. Ill start fresh next year.
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>>16998628
>will end up absolutely hating the job and anything related
Isn't that the case with most of the jobs? The demanding ones at least and which you get into without liking anything about it...
Is nursing so bad? Especially as a 20-something. I'm too old for med school nor do I have the brains for it anymore.
What alternatives are you looking into?
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>>16998643
Nursing is bad because if you're not ok with 15hr shifts that are high stress and shit everywhere you should probably not do nursing.