What would you do if you had a girlfriend you love that had hip pain that prevented you from having sex with her? She has a hip disorder which has gotten gradualy worse, and I fear it will get to the point where we won't be able to have sex at all. She's only 19 and I'm 22, I fear I'll be stuck in a sexless relationship. She could go without sex completely, but I need the intimacy. I don't know what to do.
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A sexless relationship is more like a good friendship. Maybe with more makeouts and cuddles than the usual relationship. Unless you can make up with sexy methods that don't involve just you pounding her (I mean, that's really not the only thing two people can do together) then you're probably better off searching for someone else.
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>>16993709
I've been thinking about that, but I don't know if I could bring myself to break up with her. I don't know if I could hurt her like that. But at the same time I feel like I'm to young to be having to deal with that issue. When we go out I look at other women and wish I was with them instead sometimes because they don't have this issue, even though I love her.
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>>16993731
If you're often wishing you were with other people you'd be doing her a favour by leaving. I don't doubt that you love her but you clearly don't love her enough to be happy. Let her find someone who does love her enough to not want to leave, she deserves it.
And you also deserve to be happy within your own relationships.
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Okay, so I've had a ingrown hair "down there" that will not go away. Fed up, I've decided to go to the doctor.
But do I call the gynecologist or dermatologist? Do gynecologists deal with ingrown hairs? Do dermatologist deal with the skin of lady-parts? Who do I call? Besides, the Ghostbusters. I don't think this is the time to call them.
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>>16993579
where on the labia is it? Tucked inside? On your vulva?
If it's anywhere "inside" your labia, gynecologist. They are better equipped to handle the delicate stuff down there.
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quit being a wimp and dig that shit out. anything sharp and clean will do.
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Just pull/squeeze it out?
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I have chronic depression and I've had fatigue for the past 6 months.
I went to a clinic and got bloodwork done.
My hope was that it was thyroid issues or diabetes, or a vitamin deficiency despite my carefully selected supplements.
It's none of the above.
This means it's all in my head.
I'm forced to basically get on antidepressants or live a life not worth living.
I'd rather die than take prozac or whatnot. For a few reasons.
My state is medical marijuana legal, not recreational.
I have no interest in weed other than to try anything to get rid of these problems, I've been offered it at parties and by supervisors at work, turned it down every time.
How could I convince my doctor to prescribe this? I don't want her to turn it down for thinking that I'm just interested in getting blazed because I'm a teenage shithead.
Tldr how do I convince a doctor to give me weed for medical purposes.
Pic related. We're with stupid.
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try not smoking nigger cabbage
love the pills m9
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>>16993484
Weed is a bandaid, antidepressants are/could be a permanent solution.
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Pills are considerably more effective than weed. For one thing, weed is a depressant.
Try the Prozac first, and if meds don't work (which they usually do -- they have clinically proven efficacy), there are other options.
I'm currently on Luvox (an SSRI) and getting my brain shocked twice a week.
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So I noticed an issue I have when I talk with girls, I always would feel like I had a good talk with them and it went well, but then I get into my head and start thinking really shit thoughts like, oh she was just being nice don't talk to her again she will hate it, or she only talked to you out of pity dont bother her. Like no matter what I always feel that way, I was talking to a girl at my store i work at and it was going well but then she asked me to get something for her and when I turned around this guy we worked with just walked in and started to talk with her and in my mind I thought oh she probably made an excuse to make you leave so this guy she likes more then you can talk with her, like I dont know why I think like this because its fucking me over trying to find a girlfriend
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>>16993478
Why do you think you deserve a girlfriend?
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>>16993478
You're paranoid. Like actually phsychologically paranoid. Seek professional help.
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>>16993500
I don't deserve one I just want to have one, someone to care about and someone who loves me
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I consider killing myself or think about how great it would be if I died in an accident, every working day. Should I seek psychiatric help? Will it actually help me?
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>>16993471
Have you considered donating whole blood in advance for the tax you're likely to put on the bloodbank when you inevitably fuck up your suicide attempt and need upwards of several litres of blood to recover?
Get your good parts out before you fuck up someone else's day.
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Seek therapy, seek help from family and most importantly seek Christ
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Look to friends, family, mentors, hobbies, passions, anything that peaks interest. Psychiatric help can work wonders.
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I attend school with Hayley I'm in 2 of her classes and I sit close to her during lunch in the cove, I have mutual friends with her. Lets start off easy she's is or is turning 19 very soon and she's still in grade 11 she's lied to this guy named Dom who is 20 years old a druggie and lives in his moms basement about her age so for the longest time he thought she was 16, which is completely fucked up, the funny thing is, is that Dom dosn't want to date anyone he's honestly just using her for sex which I can see from just talking to her friends about it he dosnt love her and he goes around telling everyone their just friends but she talks about fucking him, another thing about Hayley is she's a pathological liar like I think she needs proffesional help she goes around spreading rumors about this one girl I dont know her very well but i've caught her crying in the bathroom a few times. This Hayley chick is ruining her life she goes around spreading rumors calling this girl pregnant and her family crazy from what I heard is Hayley is this girls ex foster sister, everyone Hayley talked to she had to let them know that she isn't in the home anymore and how crazy all the people are in that house, to top it off Hayley hangs out with the dirtiest person in the school Kristin Woodward looks like a guy but she is a comeplete whore and druggie she was suspended for the entire month of march probably drug related cause her and Hayley both been to school drunk before and im not believing anything Hayley says if she hangsout with the local slut who also deserves to be posted on here I follow them on IG and Kris on snapchat she's with a different guy each week or girl she probably has STD's and she's always shit talking Hayley and talks about how she only needs Hayley tell she turns 18. which brings me to another fact that everyone uses Hayley for booze and smokes all the kids who sit in the cove always ask her for smokes and booze. shes always spreading rumors and lies
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>>16993456
How do you deal with this? Why do you even give 2 flying fucks? What the fuck? Sage.
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I just dont want to be the next person she targets she's crazy and a horrible person please help
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>>16993456
any other pic of her ???
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What are these on my skin? They're like small red dots covering most of my body. They're not itchy, very hard to see unless you really try, arent elevated so you can't feel them. I just feel weird looking at my body and seeing them. I have allergies but since i'm young i've never been to a doctor since so far all they do is cause sneezing. Not sure if this is an effect of that. Here are a couple of pictures.
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Leg
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Ankle.
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Literally nothing. It's a white person thing.
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Vape fell in a urinal, can I catch anything? I washed it a couple times.
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>>16993333
Stop vapng loser
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>>16993355
I know..... but am I safe? Urine is sterile right?
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>>16993360
kek
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So, this is dumb. The girl I liked was a few months out of a long term relationship (4 years) when I told her I had feelings for her. She said she didn't want anyone, just wants to be single. She didn't have the guts to outright say she didn't want me and strung me along for a while, but that's beside the point.
My stupid brain keeps making me feel like shit whenever I see/hear/perceive something about her single life because it makes me think 'she didn't want me, she wants that instead (casual sex, getting stupid drunk, clubbing hookups)'.
Of course, it felt shitty to be rejected, but it's shittier to think that this girl would rather choose a sad, self-destructive lifestyle over what could have been something awesome for both of us.
I was a little delusional, but I'm not autistic. There was enough there between us for me to confidently act on my feelings, but now, with me trying to break off those feelings, I'm having trouble healing my hurt pride over that aspect of it, that she found single life more attractive than what I had to offer.
Whisper me sweet nothings, /adv/. Help me set this straight in my head: why do people want to be single and promiscuous? I respect that people have different preferences, but for some reason it makes me sad to see her doing the things she does; sad for her (even though she wants it) and terrible about myself.
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if she got into a relationship with you after only a few months out of her last one, it WOULD NOT HAVE WORKED. even a little bit. she wants to forget about her old bf and find herself again. she would be comparing you to him, thinking about things he did differently, etc. she made the right choice by not doing that to either of you. it's her right to decide what to do with her life, she rejected you, get over it my dude.
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>>16993329
Fuck, it's just hit me hard. Yeah, I did a dumb thing. I don't want to descend into self-pity and I'm trying not to be bitter about it because I understand as best I can where she's at and I do care about her.
I only posted this thread to appease that neurotic little part of me that stops me from letting go completely and encourages that self-pity, those feelings of shittiness. I want to be able to deal with that.
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U dont spill ur feelings on a girl. Thats feminine as fuck. And u gotta let her emotional wounds heal.
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Sorry if this one's a bit tl;dr, I just felt compelled to really detail the whole situation.
Part 1:
So there's this girl i've been hanging out with for the pat year or so. She's a very busy person between college and her work, but the few times we managed to hang out were some of the most enjoyable experiences i've ever had with a girl. (and i've dated quite a few times prior to this) Things started with not much more than a physical attraction and the fact that I briefly knew her during high school, but I quickly joined the club she was trying to start and over time my affections grew. We hung out several times and before long I grew more serious about my feelings for her. But unfortunately i'm really prone to getting drowned in my negative thoughts, I lack initiative, and I get depressed easily. I never found the "right" opportunity to properly ask her out. After a while she started declining my invitations to hang out more and more often, accumulating to me "giving up" on her and the club I helped her foster for about a month. I didn't speak to her during that time.
But eventually I decided that I was done running away from the issue, so I called her up and asked once more to hang out. She accepted, and on that night I told her everything about how I feel about her. She was surprisingly accepting of everything, though she ultimately declined. She said she WAS interested at one point but was put off over time, a part of the reason being my lack of initiative. Despite that, I was pretty happy since we finally started hanging out regularly again, there was no awkwardness between us despite what she now knew, and I held out hope that if I played my cards right then I might be successful in earning her affection.
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Part 2:
But just yesterday, the club which we started (that now had a good 10 or so members) went on a trip to a math conference at a university in LA and the beach afterwards. The beach trip was fun as hell for the most part but at the end of it, one of her male friends got pretty drunk and her and I decided to help him to the car. While walking, he started talking to her about how one of his friends was really into her, and wanted to ask her out.
Without a second thought she gave him full approval to have his friend ask her out, and they started talking about the guy (who she'd apparently dated before). Even though I was right next to her and she KNEW how I felt about her.
I went home alone, slept for 14 hours, and now that i've woken up I simply can't be bothered to do anything. At all. Not even play video games, draw, watch movies or whatever. I've never felt this upset over a girl.
She's going to graduate in a few weeks when the semester ends and move on to university while i'm still at community college. She's immediately going to be asked out by that guy her friend mentioned on Monday and she's going to accept him. When she graduates she's going to get embroiled into the university life and i'm guaranteed to be forgotten.
She's probably the closest thing to my ideal girl that I will ever meet, on every level. Her looks, her personality, her positive-but-not-naive disposition, her hobbies. Everything was just SO ideal for me. I've genuinely never met any other girl that i've found more attractive.
And she's going to get a boyfriend and completely forget about me within the next few weeks.
I'm at such a loss right now. I really just don't know what to do with myself and this situation.
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Damn I feel bad for you dude, I think you're just going to have to take it as a learning experience. Next time you have to take the initiative if you feel that strongly about a girl, I've been in a similar situation as well.
You can alternatively try asking her out. But she said that line about how she was interested but then lost it when you didn't try anything. I've talked to a lot of females and they always say once they lose interest, it's gone and it's impossible to get it back. So that might be too late.
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>>16993452
Yeah, if I'd asked her out when I first decided that I liked her a lot (which was after a series of several dates (movies, hiking, etc.)), things probably would've gone better. But I was too obsessed over doing it at the "perfect" time, which of course, never came along. And now I just kind of feel like an asshole.
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Will I get Ripped Off? 2016-04-03 23:11:05 Post No.16993281
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Doing taxes.
Should I do it online? Either TurboTax or H&RBlock.
It should be free, since I made way under $62K, but are there any hidden fees I should know of?
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>>16993281
Also, no, I don't have health insurance, and I'm aware that there's a fee for that. Tried to get coverage in Fall, didn't qualify.
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>>16993281
bump
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>>16993322
Pro-tip: If you say you couldn't afford health insurance for the entire year in the turbotax app you won't get any deductions.
Have fun.
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DO I HAVE PREJUDICE AGAINST HOMOSSEXUALS/BISSEXUALS? 2016-04-03 23:02:48 Post No.16993261
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DO I HAVE PREJUDICE AGAINST HOMOSSEXUALS/BISSEXUALS?
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Sorry for the walltext, but I needed to say it all. If you don't want to read everything:
TL;DR: Homossexual/Bissexual people don't bother me except when my gf says she might be bi. Do I have prejudice?
I have some gay friends and it does not bother me the slightest. Actually, I have a lot of friends in common with one gay guy, but I'm the only one who knows he's gay because he knew I would not treat him differently or anything (but the rest would).
The thing only bothers me when it is about my girlfriend. She thinks she might be bissexual but she's not sure. I don't really know. Sometimes I'm sure she's not but sometimes she sounds like straight pussy eater.
It really bothers me but I don't know if I really have prejudice. I think what really makes me sad is that sometimes she looks like a totally diffrent from me and I don't really want to date someone like that.
I had a gf in the past who went nuts and totally changed. She "became" lesbian, started using drugs, went to art school, became a feminist and the list goes on. She really became someone else and maybe that's what I fear.
I'm very confused right now. I've been struggling with it for a long time. And I'm a guy who usually get over things like this really easy and without any help.
Have someone ever had similar experience?
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Its natural. More competition. I felt the same when my ex told me she was pansexual
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>>16993274
I feel bad about it though. Like, I wanted to don't really care about it. She says she wants to make out with a girl to know if she's bi or not (if we break up).That really makes me sad. Is it just me being jealous?
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>>16993261
She also have smoked pot before and she says she would like to do it sometimes. That also bothers me and that's one of the reasons I think it's me being afraid of she becoming a very different person.
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What is intelligence /adv/? What makes you find someone is intelligent, for example?
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My normal reply is that intelligence is subjective and isn't easily defined.
But, to /seem/ intelligent is another story.
To seem intelligent, you should be articulate and confident in your words. Avoiding common logical fallacies would be a must. You'd need to be able to speak about political ideas without getting emotionally involved, and most intelligent people recognize the complexity of things and realize that there is no one answer to any social question.
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>>16993095
Also people who call themselves intelligent usually aren't
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>>16993129
How do you support that point of view? What makes you determine that someone isn't intelligent?
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How can I be successful?
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>>16992994
depends on what you want to be successful at.
>EVERYTHING
by listing those 'everythings' you want to be successful in and deconstructing what it takes to be successful in them and going from there.
thats the best we can offer without specifics.
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>>16993009
Hmmm....
How do I stop being so addicted to the internet?
Do I simple have a bit of a compulsive attitude ? I have like 9 tabs open all the time....
Please I need advice.
I need to Help and I can't if I keep coming back here and shitpost all day.
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>>16993037
the biggest thign about the internet is that its a sloth based addiction. if you wree too busy you just dont do it.
the big question is, if you werent on the internet, what would you be doing?
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Girl I've been dating for last 5months has always been weird about kissing/touching her neck. Said she was choked when she was younger and it kind of triggers her if someone touches her throat. Last night while in a sexy session, she put my hand on her throat several time and I choked lightly. Do you think she was secually abused or that she trusts me?
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>>16992981
>triggers
you are not welcome here
>>>/tumblr/
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>>16992996
I couldn't think up a good word, agitates? Becomes taken aback?
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>>16992981
it sounds like she was abused, definitely do not choke her even if its lightly and even if she wants it, or it upsets her if you dont. she's doing it to hurt herself.