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How can I fix my life? 2017-08-12 03:33:45 Post No.18613611
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Have made a few poor decisions in life overall and am now a 21 year old virgin NEET. I feel I have squandered every opportunity in life by dicking around and now I'm left with a shitty resume and no college degree. Assumed I wouldn't need to further my education because I wanted to get into writing and filmmaking, but I've never done anything to get into either of those.
I just want to not be a jobless hermit/virgin for too much longer, but I don't know how to have the drive to do anything. I don't write everyday, don't exercise, don't go outside(unless it's to drink), barely make time to actually watch/study films. What should I do?
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>>18613611
either do it, or don't. there is no magical third option that motivates you. Lets be real, if you don't have the 'drive' to do something as simple as watching films, you don't have the drive to do something else that will give you the motivation to watch films.
we've had this EXACT conversation before, and no there have not been any break throughs in psychology since then.
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>>18613613
The magical third option is suicide.
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Going to a Faraway college 2017-08-12 03:32:54 Post No.18613607
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Going to a Faraway college
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sup /adv/, i'm considering transferring from my current college in MO to one in NY, how would I go about moving in and out? I do not have a car and my mom can't drive for long periods of time so driving is out of the question. Also I'm originally from Chicago so that's where I would be moving from
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Train. Amtrak has pretty good service. I've also done the bus. A little ghetto but honestly, mostly good people on there. I was surprised how much folks would take care of others on the bus
As opposed to the rich fucks I work with, sad state of affairs. Poor are looked down on, but treat each other better. Anyway, I'd go for train and bus secondary
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hey /adv/ i have a problem.. >i started my senior year of high school and i have been avoiding my ex gf like a dog does to a vacuum<
should i keep doing this or face my problems and talk to her again?
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elaborate anon
does she want you back? does she miss you?
are you avoiding her because she wants to get back with you or are you simply doing it because that's the right thing to do? (it is the right thing, never talk to ex gf's)
In regards to what you should do, do you
>want to get back with her despite already breaking up once due to flaws
or
>ignore the bitch and became a pure testosterone alpha male and fuck every pussy you see without a relationship
seriously though its not uncommon to have these thoughts. just ignore them.
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realize this is fucking high school and your social interactions here literally do not fucking matter, especially if you are going to a college that is more than two hours away from your town.
jesus, do you need other people to make every decision for you? "should I avoid someone or talk to them?" well, do you fucking *want* to talk to them or not? that should be your only deciding factor.
fuck off with this petty underage bullshit
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don't go out of your way to avoid her, you're graduating in a year and literally none of this matters after that.
Should you talk to her? I don't know, did you break up because someone did something shitty? If so, then probably not, but don't make a point of it or anything. I bet there's a shitload of people you don't end up talking to
Trying to get back together with an ex is generally a terrible idea by the way, so don't do that.
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Hi /adv/, I've just turned 21 last month and I've never had a gf before. I need some advice on how I'm supposed to proceed with this.
>Be a student of Computing faculty in my university
>University's performing arts faculty had a collaboration with an external performing arts group abroad
>They called me to be there as the guy who handles the multimedia and computers
>Good opportunity for my portfolio so why not
>Met all sorts of people, including the folks from my uni but never met due to different faculties
>Have crush on girl from the uni's performing arts faculty as we were on the bus
>Didn't have the balls to talk to her,
>Arrived at location
>2 weeks went by
>Performance was great, turns out they loved the stuff I did, was singing praises about how great the multimedia was, even gotten compliments from the audiences
>Wasn't expecting them to like it THAT much
>Everyone knew me by then as the guy who worked magic and will most probably ask for me again
>Came back to uni
>Asked my new bros from the faculty if they know her and tips to woo her
>Found her facebook
>Single
>photos
>pics of her with a guy from the external performing arts group, seems real tight
>Fuck it, message her anyways
>Still unread since last night
And now since the performance is over, I have no reason to go back to the faculty, which means I'll probably not be seeing her outside of social media.
What do I do? Should I just give it up and look for someone else? I feel like a moron for letting go 2 weeks of opportunity just like that, I blame my autistic social ineptitude.
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>>18613590
Just keep doing gigs with them and maybe someone else will want to spend more time with you.
Talk to the other performers and faculty more.
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should've fuckin talked to her in person dude, dm'ing only works if you're using tinder or something (which you might wanna try)
but yeah i'd say that if she knows you sent that then fuck it, find another girl that you like and confront her in person like a fucking man.
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>>18613699
They'll call me back, I'm sure of it. I'll see what I can do then, and try not to repeat my autistic mistake. Thanks.
>>18613700
>should've fuckin talked to her in person dude
Yeah I know, which is why I'm banging my head up against the wall rn. I'm a fuckin moron.
I'll wait for her to reply my dm first an see if it works out. Maybe I'll cook up some bullshit reason to give the faculty a visit. If it doesn't, I'll be sure to do better with someone else. Grateful for that, anon.
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i want to stay up all day until like 9pm to reset my sleep cycle
however the risk is high since i might fall asleep during the day and fuck it up even more
i've been sleeping at 7 and waking up at 4pm college is coming back soon and i need to be physically ready
Is this a good plan or should i just force my self to sleep at the right hours even if it doesnt work for a few days ?
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its kinda the same either way, you risk just falling asleep at a bad time.
if you can get someone to join you on this mission, you'll have more luck. easier to stay awake with others. I've done what you're doing on my own several times.
what you need to do is just grab some starbucks energy drinks, a big ole can, and take it when you would normally fall asleep (7am). then you'll have enough caffiene in you to survive the day. Whatever you do dont lay in bed. always be sitting in your computer chair. the discomfort will keep you awake.
over stimulate your brain. For instance, on one screen have a TV show on that you are binging. not a comedy, something iwth a long ongoing story, as this will keep your brain wired and wanting more and more. on the other screen, have a video game. nothing TOO easy, but nothing TOO hard. I find that older games like sonic the hedgehog 3 work out well.
and if you can have someone join you even better.
Are you a bad person if you show favoritism to one sibling over another? I have two sisters and one of them is just simply an unpleasant person to be around. She has an attitude all the time, and always starts arguments with me, and just doesn't want to get along with me even though I try to. My other sister is a super sweet and chill though and adores me. It's not like I go out of my way to favor one but when I try to do things with the unpleasant one, she complains or blows me off. I end up doing things along with my other sister and having a great time then my other sister gets pissed at me. It makes me just not want to try anymore and I end up just spending time with my nice sister instead.
At what point do you just say it's not worth it anymore and focus on the person that appreciates all you do for her?
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>>18613543
How about instead of being passive aggressive you just fucking talk to her?
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Absolutely not. Sometimes siblings just suck and don't deserve anything. Just don't bother anymore.
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Sounds like a certain ecchi anime
You should treat them with equal amounts of affection
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Sometimes my room is messy but everything is organized so I can find it, but a bad habit is to throw my clothes to the floor. Lately I heard noises at night and I saw mice running through the corners of the room. Eventually annoyed me, so I look through some boxes and I found some potato chips that I forgot to eat or throw, and also a few mice, I don't know if it's a nest (I hope not) but tomorrow I'm gonna do a deep cleaning and put some traps. Any tips? and this might be enough to get rid of them?
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Look up a walk the plank mousetrap. Other than that quit being a slob
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I really want to get out of my area but I have practically no life skills whatsoever. How do I start planning or preparing to move to a different state or I guess just figuring out how to live in a city I don't know by myself.
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its pretty simple really. depends how much you want to bring and such.
>practically no life skills
first and foremost tell us what you think are 'life skills' specifically the ones you lack. well go from there.
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>>18613501
I can't hold down a job, anywhere I have worked I've gotten fired relatively quickly because I lose all interest in maintaining it. Even beyond that I sucked at practically everything job related. I wasn't really strong or having great strength or skill for the manual jobs or possessing the ability to talk or be engaging to customers. Worse yet all the jobs I did have I got because I happened to be friends with people who worked there, and so I don't really know how to look for a job in the first place. I don't really know how to do anything I consider to be "adult stuff" to the point I can't even describe what I think that even means.
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>>18613515
so beyond the job stuff you've basically decided there's some secret adult activity you're just not clued in on. get rid of that garbage.
if you can't think of what it takes to just live a normal life, then that thing doesn't exist. at the end of the day it comes down to just these basics
>be able to maintain a job
>be able to pay your bills on time
>budget your food accordingly
>bathe
everything really branches off of those.
>i dont even know how to apply for a job
well first design a resume. google 'resume templates and as you look at them think of what information you'd fill yours in and find the one that makes your information fill up the most.
>go to monster.com and apply for every job within your skill level
as simple as it sounds, just go and do that. also just type in 'apply for jobs online' and see what pops up. dont be afraid of craigslist, there's lots of good and legitimate jobs there, thats how i got my job and now im an office manager. yes craigslist has an unsavory reputation for some things, but its just a modern pin board / classifieds section. anyone can post, so there's some bad stuff on there, but because everyone can post everyone uses it, so its the best place for people hiring to post as well.
finally
>go down all the major streets and walk in, ask if they're hiring
most will say no. thats fine, leave a resume if they'll let you. some will have legit job apps you can fill out. others will tell you to apply online. do it all.
once you get a job hold it down for a year. when you have, you are now sure you are stable and can move out (plus will presumably have some savings to make that easy).
cont.
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I don't know if anyone else has this, but sometimes a situation will come up where a person who is regularly present isn't. In those situations I will become that person. It isn't a thing I think about, it is just something that happens. I take on their mental state(even if I don't truly know what that is), train of thought, personality, and most shockingly their physical abilities. This is on top of my multiple façades or fake personalities that I switch between to hide my true nature. Am I some kind of freak?
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>>18613493
let me guess, making it into high school soon? try saving an actual image instead of a thumbnail next time you underage faggot.
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>>18613504
Nope, but I like your moxie.
Just doing some late night browsing after a rather shitty day at work. Thought I would see if anyone had similar experiences. Sorry if I seemed like a 13yo edgelord that no one understands.
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>>18613493
You're insane "I take on their physical abilities"
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Magic mushrooms online? 2017-08-12 02:31:29 Post No.18613479
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Thinking about buying online. I'm in the US. Explain how this is stupid. Thanks
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>>18613479
spores or shrooms?
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>>18613492
Shrooms buddy, I'm trying to trip and can't find a guy to buy from D:
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>>18613505
don't buy online unless you know how to use the darknet and PGP. if you can do that, it's extremely reliable in the US.
I am decent person, not a chad, kind of a normal fag but a normal fag, and I engage in a variety of hobbies. However my social life is lacking, in that I would like to get out more. Should I try tinder? Pic related, sort of...
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Meant to say "kind of a normal fag but I lurk" but a typo is a typo, whatchya going to do?
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So I met this girl about a two months ago and she asked for my number (I hadn't considered asking her, which I now regret looking back). I've been out of town ever since but we've been texting frequently, mostly flirting the whole time. Things have gotten pretty rough in her life and we talk about that sometimes. lately our conversations have been of a lesser quality and she seems more distant. When I get back we'll be going to college together on almost a daily basis but I don't know if she wants to see me. She's been unable to message for the last five days and I'll be back in a week. I just want to know where we stand in this whole thing, and whether or not I should just move on. Any personal experiences of girls trying to "let you down easy" would be appreciated for comparison.
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I've had a blockage in my intestines for a while. its hard to eat anything and i can't get it out.
I've gotten a few pieces out, that have been white/light colored, and i could until recently get out liquid feces.
I've been trying a lot of things to get it out.
foodwise i've been
>drinking caffinated coffee, something i usually don't do because it gives me diahrea, >eating very little, mostly the occasional pretzel stick and some soup.
>swallowed a tablespoon of vegetable oil.
Not foodwise, i've been
>taking a prescription laxative for 2 days now
>using the bidet attachment on my toilet to put water into my colon, then holding it for as long as i can and letting it out slowly to hopefully get some of it out. this is what got the little pieces out that did come out.
>leaning over the back of the dining chair to put pressure and hopefully break up whatever is stuck
>blowing my nose while on the toilet.
can you guys give me any further advice on what i can try? I've spoken to my doctor and he doesn't have any other ideas.
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>>18613448
do you drink? having white shit isn't indicative of an intestinal blockage, it's a sign of a liver problem. go to the doctor.
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>>18613448
I used to be a raging alcoholic to the point where I would drink a bottle of vodka for weeks in a row and I would have white shits.
It's a sign of malnutrition, but could also be other things. You should see a doctor.
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>>18613460
i do not drink alcohol. I messaged my doctor and he said to keep taking the laxatives and see him next week.
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Idk if I should ask in /fit/ 2017-08-12 02:15:32 Post No.18613446
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Idk if I should ask in /fit/
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Newfag here unsure how much community's are but I'm trying to get my life together my girlfriend broke up with me over some petty shit and well I want to get some muscles I'm not unfit or anything I just don't work out does anyone know any resources I should look at or anything I'v been thinking of doing sit ups and push ups and doing a few reps of 15 or so of each my diets not unhealthey and if I worked out I think it would be great as long as I stick with it I just don't know where to start and all that so what do /adv/?
I never really paid to much attention in PE all I know is I increase the weights and such gradually
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Christ, OP. Have you tried goddamn google?
Try Starting Strength or some beginners PPL.
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>>18613446
read the sticky on /fit/ senpai
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>>18613446
muscles wont get you women unless you have chad genetics. Workout for your health and for strength/aesthetics. read the sticky on /fit/ and then gtfo
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What is the point of having crushes on women? 2017-08-12 02:15:06 Post No.18613445
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What is the point of having crushes on women?
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What is the fucking point of having crushes on women? i am 24 and I still experience crushes on women.
For example, one woman at my job is probably one of the more attractive women I have seen in terms of looks and personality. She isn't a jerk. She is a good writer. She is tall with nice long brown curly hair and a nice smile.
A part of me is thinking "What the fuck is the point?" I won't be able to talk to her because dating people you work with is.. apparently stupid. I have never done it but I assume its stupid to do such a thing.
I just feel like crushes are so stupid but a part of me entertains the idea of maybe asking her out but that would be stupid.
What is the point of having a crush and why do we even experience such a thing? I honestly just wish I would never have them. I have never acted on them but they always get in my way.
What does /adv/ think about crushes?
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A crush is the same as attraction. Are you asking what the point of being attracted to women is?
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>>18613511
I guess? Basically, what is the point of feeling those feelings if you aren't even going to act on it? It feels horribly pointless
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>>18613445
Uhh one of the few ways of meeting women to date is through work soo.... Not stupid at all.