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I think you should go with the friend.

Imo, the people I hang out with where it "would be weird to hangout with" often are the ones where I have the most enjoyment, but thats just me.

You're your own autonomous person, you can do whatever you want. Don't wanna go with him? Lie. But consider what I previously said.

>>18610960
Hes not that guy though, I just don't really feel like going with him

>>18610959
Go ahead sport, or don't I don't know at all

>>18610939
Or would you have discrimination against the 2% who are ugly and have bad personalities?

As long as they treat me with courtesy, respect, and kindness.

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I would, because as a nursing student who sees people at their worst, I've gotten used to it, so they're not 'disgusting' to me.

However, I understand that there are dozens of studies that make the factual claim that attractive people are treated better.

Attractive people make more money, get better jobs, etc. etc.

That's how society functions.

In a society where ONLY 2% of the population is 'different,' then yeah, we'd fuck them over immensely. We've fucked over "different looking people" where the population was around 25-50%

With bad personalities though?

Haha good luck.

Atleast the good personalities uglies can get away with having friends and girls.

>>18610938
Only if you have an open wounds on your hands, other than that you're fine.
t. Helped inject HIV patients with treatment drugs

>>18610952
no open wounds in hands.
But you know: Guy took out condom.
I grab his penis with fresh cum.
Feel secs later the cum dries and I get another condom for him.
Put the condom for him with hands dirty.
He sticks it in me.

>>18610976
Yea unless you fucking put them in your mouth then I'll be worried if it doesn't get anywhere in your body through open wounds just wash your hands and you're fine. Doctors have to deal with HIV patients will injections and blocking up their open wounds with blood flowing out and they don't get infected.

If you're really worried go for PrEP, if it's enough insurance for you.

>>18610932
Assuming that you are indeed qualified for the jobs, then the problem lies at the point of failure. For a lot of people it's the interview, but in your case it looks like there's something off-putting (or at least not on-putting) about your CV and letter.

Rethink them. Start from the assumption that whatever you're doing is wrong, so you have nothing to lose by presenting yourself some other way. Look online for samples of CVs and letters, and choose one (or more) that's different from yours.

Another idea: bypass the HR department by writing directly to the head of the department you'd be in. He/she might understand your CV better and see in youy what a non-specialist HR person wouldn't

>>18610928
pretty cringy, yeah give up

>>18610928
She sounds like a bitch.

PUNISHMENT

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Become the Batman

>>18610813
Most crimes are crimes of opportunity because most criminals are lazy. If you put very visible locks on your doors and windows a crook won't bother trying to defeat them, because it's easier to go to the undefended house next door. Motion-triggered lights around your house, one of those steering wheel immobilizer bars in the car, even stickers on your door saying you have a burglar alarm even if you don't - that sort of thing will send the bad guys away.

>>18610812
That someone isn't "perfect", you just want him or her to be because ou obviously don't either know yourself that much or can't get anyone else. Those people are mentaly ill and hormonaly fucked. Don't waste your time.

>>18610822
"Perfect" as in "covers all my (other) criteria for a partner.

1. 16-36 years old
2. Same cultural background
3. Good personality
4. Physically appealing to me (not a necessity but a plus nonetheless)
5. Willing and interested in dating my damaged ass.

You don't find someone like that every day. Or year.

>>18610893
>same age
>same culture
>good personality
>healtyh body
Those are all easy points. I could literally just go out today and find a couple such grils without beeing a Chad.

>willing to be with you
Well, stp up your game instead of settling down with a hormornal trash beeing. Also dude, what the fuck is that with 16-36? Get some self respect instead of just picking up any vagina crossing your way which you are doing.

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I just became desensitized and more self aware I think

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>>18610795
Be mentally strong and this place will only broaden your horizons. Unfiltered wisdom, memes, apathy, anger, basically full spectrum of emotions can be found here and only to make you stronger.

Be mentally weak, fall into one of many echo chambers, visit too much the wrong boards (pol) or too random boards (b) and you will become jaded, maybe even give up on life and slowly become like pic related.

Be curious horny teen and this place will turn you into >>>/d/egenerate.
https://yourbrainonporn.com/

It all depends on what boards you will pick and what memes you will decide to believe to be true. /adv is board for normies and pretty safe. Enjoy your stay, you are here forever!

Never forget what satire and trolling means.

>>18610795
Depends where you go. /r9k/ will make you miserable unless you want to help others (and even then, you better have a lot of self confidence - misery loves company). If you can sift through the antisemitism (some warranted, most not), you'll have your worldview changed for the better on /pol/, but you'll also come to hate a lot of normal shit (I personally see this as a perk). /g/ will make you pretty literate in tech, but you're not gonna learn to code or anything. You'll more just become familiar with linux alternatives to google, as well as what good/bad phones/watches are out there.

>>18610773
You can't help the way you feel man, she used you. I would not lose sleep over it if I were you, just try to move forward.

>>18610743
You know how people say 'it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all'? It's all bullshit. By never loved, you've never lost anything. Losing someone feels like a part of you has been removed.

No gf is fine OP. Keep working out, get Tinder, bang some women and try not to fall in love. You'll be happier that way.

>>18610743

If you're genuienly socially isolated, you've got bigger problems than just the lack of a gf. You're 22, sort your shit out.

>>18610743
>I'm 22 and i never had a Gf in my life
>I think it's over for me,

I didn't have my first kiss (or anything really) until 23
Didn't have my first date until 24
Didn't have my first gf until 26

Yup. It's impossible for you.

There are a number of things you could be experiencing. False awakenings night terrors pre lucid dreams sleep paralysis and a little phenomenon that makes you feel weightless. False awakenings are common and people have claimed to experience it 104 times in one night.Night terrors are also common and cause fear for no particular reason when you wake up. Pre lucid dreams are when you're aware you're dreaming but aren't quite in control. This happens a lot to. The creepy lady phenomenon is something I'm no stranger to. Tons of creepy girls appear in my dream doing all sorts of weird shit.The your senses are irresponsive thing is also something I experience a ton. Me being unable to move or sometimes even breath in my sleep while a creepy sound approaches or a monster still being visible when I close my eye. Usually what I do when I have these kind of dreams is sleep with the lights on. It makes it harder to sleep but certainly helps.Another thing I like to do is go a room away from the perceived danger and allow my ming to fully awaken and remind myself that none of what I saw is real. I would also reccomend reading a book or watching an episode of something light hearted before you hit the hay again. Try doing some light work out before you sleep or try to mentally and physically exhaust yourself so you're more likely to have a dreamless sleep. If you are experiencing sleep paralysis or are having trouble breathing please consult a doctor. If the dreams persist talk to a friend or go to a therapist.

If you are unsure you're awake try hurting yourself. Not too severely but try punching a Waal or something

Sounds like depression to me, I have these exact same thoughts, in fact your whole post was all too familiar. Have you sought any help at all for these feelings?

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>>18610709
I can't reach out for help because nobody is qualified where I live, to cope I drink alcohol and smoke shisha whenever acquaintances come to my house (usually every 3-4 days) and binge watch youtube / tv shows

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>>18610629
Sure. Happy to help!

have fun

>>>/lgbt/

what's so hard about going to the lingery section and buy a pair of panties?

>>18610620
It can be something both tangible and intangible, and it doesn't mean any one specific thing. I think the phrase is meant to make one introspectively reflect whether or not their life situation is balanced and well-off enough to support being in a relationship, since successful relationships almost always need some key components to work. You're emotionally available and depenedable, so you could "offer" someone security and support, which is very important. You can also support yourself, so you can pull your own weight financially too, which is also important, you could call this offering financial security. That's already a very good base for a relationship on your part and covers many of the absolute key areas.

>>18610654
>. I think the phrase is meant to make one introspectively reflect

Pretty much this.

It's not a literal, "I can give her a roof over her head and 3 square meals a day" thing.

It's a metaphorical, "Do I believe in myself, my self worth, and who I am as a person? Do I think I have something about myself that makes me special in some way and would like to share?"

It's similar to the line of thought that says that "You can't learn to love someone else, until you can learn to love yourself".

If you think you have nothing to offer, if you believe that you have no worth, that that means either trying to enter in a relationship to try and derive your worth from your partner, which is needy, unhealthy, escapist, and does not at all fix your root problems.

And in practical dating terms, almost always makes you come off as desperate or like you have no personality.

Even when such relationships do happen, often times there's a level of insecurity or neediness that ends up creating needlessly dramatic situations that do no good for mental health of any of the people involved.