Found out girlfriend of three years has never really enjoyed our sex together. She has orgasms, but no drive and rationalized not enjoying it by saying she doesn't like losing control of her body.
What do, I don't think it's my performance.
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>>18613165
Cuddling. You can cuddle without sex.
Magic wand.
Stop taking birth controll and ssri pills.
Improve her diet. She has to eat fats to produce hormones.
Make her do sport.
Make her fap to gay porn.
Eat her pussy.
Or give up and or find new gf.
>>18613165
just get a new one
ive been there. shes lying about the cause, and it will only get worse with time. cut your losses, and find someone that actually wants to fuck you
All good advice
I've had sex with 58 women in my life and none of them wanted to date me. They'd fuck me for a couple months, but they'd never date me. Why?
>>18613156
You're a shitty person that people don't want to be around?
>>18613156
>>18613156
how did you fuck all those girls??? and did you get an std at any point?
Maybe your dick is weird....
/adv/ help me i cant make a decision. this girl i matched on tinder and have been talking to for 30 hours total is going to this club an hour and half away from me and invited me to come.
main reasons im hesitant is bc i prob wouldnt get home till like 3&4 and i have to be up by 6 tmrw, ive never met her and even though weve been talking about fucking its not guaranteed and it could only happen in a car or bathroom
if you did not have sex with her tonight, would it still be worth it?
>>18613145
thats a good question. im not sure bc i dont know her well. if we still had a good time then yes id say its worth it. but if i dont vibe w her then not really. ive decided to go though
Sometimes I get a strong mindset, a state of mind where I'm not afraid of my fears or my anxiety; however, I can't control it, I can't hold it, preserve it; instead, I'm left with a weak mindset that dominates me and doesn't let me advance in my life socially or professionally due to anxiety and fear. Have any of you experienced this feeling?
I take MDMA every morning to help combat this.
>>18613139
Sometimes I can think a lot faster, like my mind is searching for exercise and is functioning at a higher capacity but it doesn't last more than a couple of minutes then I go back to being lazy. I think this could definitely be our default state if we put our minds to it so to speak, basically just do it, pursue your goal actively and push your limits. But I don't know I've never tried it
P.S: I hate how I have to disable adblock to post on this toast website
I have this feeling all the time! Is good to know that im not alone. One day you think you can do everything you want and than you just think you are a loser and nothing makes sense
Adv I have reached my limitations, I'm just tired of acne. It is frustrating me for some time. I'm 20 years old, I shared my time through puberty in my teen years, I am using creams, I am washing my face 4-5 times a day, I wash my body everyday, I use only clean towels, I had sex, I had my teen love, I changed 4 sets of creams, I took pills. Shit is just never over. All people my age are just beautiful and clean, and I'm here looking like a ghetto pizza.
Help me adv. I stopped eating fast food and drinking soda 6 months ago. What foods should I exclude?
Should I start practicing a sport? I thought of swimming
Should I try accutane or how it is called?
Please people, take me out of this problem I should not have at my age
>I am washing my face 4-5 times a day
STOP
RIGHT
FUCKING
NOW
Stop messing with your face. Stop with the creams and shit. Don't touch your face AT ALL. Let your fucking face breath.
Buy some 3-5% benzoyl peroxide cream (you can find it in any pharmacy). Before you go to bed, wash with neutral soap then wash with the benzoyl. Use as exfoliant/30 second wash with 3% or as 10 second wash with 5%.
After you wake up, wash face again with neutral soap.
That's it. Two times a day, like brushing your teeth.
And remember, DON'T TOUCH YOUR FACE
>>18613130
Talk to a dermatologist and see if you can get a prescription of accutane.
When I was 14-15 years old I had fairly bad acne when I had it prescribed. Literally took a tiny pill every day, had no noticeable side effects, and within a couple months it was all gone. Noticeable change in the first couple weeks. I'm 23 years old now and since then only have an occasional odd pimple on my forehead where it gets the most greasy.
They'll tell you about all the side effects, with the most common one being dry skin/chapped lips so of course your mileage may vary.
10/10 would do it again
>>18613146
Also seconding this guy give your face a break. If you do try an Accutane regimen cut that shit out.
hey if you rub the crease between your nostril and your lip really hard does it secret oil that smells like parmesan, or anything else? because everyone says I'm making it up
When was the last time you showered?
>>18613103
you're just dirty, dude
I've been told my pheromones can be smelled in that area after sex
So my community college offers this game program and i was wondering if it's worth a shit or if I should just go for a computer science bachelor's instead.
http://www.hccs.edu/programs/programs-a-z/digital-gaming--simulation/
>>18613094
Computer science. I'm all for passion but game design really won't teach you all that much. Realistically, you're better off minoring in game design and working on your own projects on the side.
Why do people STILL think video game courses are a good idea?
Ok I'll be honest past year or two I've seen some girls off backpage, I usually never kissed them, gave them oral, always wore a condom, also hooked up with a cute homeless girl a few months ago, she kissed me alittle.
I haven't been tested in 5 years for blood, so I am all paranoid now I may have aids or some shit. I have had a sore throat the past week but I don't know if its related or not. Is it good to get the blood test?
you are retarded. seriously.
>>18613081
no, its a bad idea to get the blood test.because reasons.
True
Do I not like her or am I being a pussy?
There's a girl I work with and I am soon quitting that job and looking for another. We worked together for a year and were always just friends but lately we have gotten really flirty and she has warmed up to me a lot lately.
I am pretty sure she likes me and two other girls I work with cornered me today and asked me what I was going to do about it.
But I honestly don't know, I find her attractive-ish and we get on really well but there is no fire or drive there for me.
When I wonder do I like her would want to her ask her I honestly don't know how I feel.
I am 23 year old virgin who has never had a gf so I am confused about whether I am just freaking out about the unknown since this is my best chance so far at a gf or I genuinely just don't like her that much.
She is a nice girl and I really don't want to hurt her.
>>18613071
Hmmm. It's rather telling that you haven't spoken too positively of her in your post. But as you say, it could be you trying to psych yourself. Self-sabotage. I say go for it. Get sone life ezperience. It may turn jnto something wonderful.
its your chance to get rid of virginity, fuck her before turning into wizard
later can go search true love or waifu
>>18613108
I don't mean to be negative about her.
She is not really my type but she is pretty and personality wise she is great.
We get on really well and like all the same things.
But there is no fire, I have not been interested in women for years since the last time and usually when I like a girl there is a roaring intensity to it.
Unless I have just mature since being a teenager but I feel like something is missing.
>>18613109
I don't want to use or hurt her, this is a person I care about. If there is a chance she has feelings for me I don't want to one night stand her.
I feel like women require men to know so much or be able to do so much. Gotta know how to be a handy man or fix stuff. Have to be in great shape, Have to experienced in relationships and sex. Have to be willing to be a leader.
Its just so much stuff. I don't feel adequate dating any woman because I feel like I am not manly enough. Honestly, I am a quiet dude. I don't draw attention to myself. I have no desire to boss people around either.
What can I or should I do? Do women even want to date someone like me? I just feel like I don't have what they need or want.
>>18613064
>I just feel like I don't have what they need or want.
>Do women even want to date someone like me?
Women don't want to date insecure people that need constant validation. That said, they don't expect you to be everything else you mentioned on your post. (of course, extremes exists, there are bitches that settle for nothing and there are women that settle for any patethic ass).
Work on loving yourself a little more before joining the dating game, mate.
>>18613064
have you just never dated a woman before?
>>18613064
>I feel like women require men to know so much or be able to do so much.
They don't. You're purposefully raising the bar in order to justify not being able to reach it i.e., I didn't pass the test because it was too hard not because I didn't study or I got fired from my job because my boss didn't like me not because I was always late and performed poorly.
Excuses excuses excuses, OP.
How do I get rid of the gigantic bags under my eyes?
>>18613058
You cannot. Go look at your parents, they are a good indicator of what you will look like someday. Accept this, realize you are still young, and go do things you enjoy.
qvery morning wash face with cold water, later put ice cubes for 15sec on eyes - will be less puffy;
start using eyecream
>>18613058
get some fucking sleep you ass fuck
My plan is not working I can't get a bf I actually like as fast I want it to be, so I can potentially use his help remove out of my sisters and now I'm feeling this enormous remorse about leaving.
I've searched her name online and no dice through google,bing,yahoo.
I know her current email and past email and looking at her history which would be more than 12-15 years ago.
Are there any free services that can help for AUS people?
Yes.
Ask her.
>>18612978
who gives a fuck? you should be happy if she had a hoe phase.. that means she probably got it out of her system.
>>18612978
You're pathetic.
What is the physcology of small living spaces. Im living in a room about the size of two full size beds. Almost like the size of a closet.
People are telling me its bad for your health, and I am wondering whether it is. What do?
>>18612962
it makes you feel locked in. its fine for sleep and leisure, but humans arent meant to be in tiny rooms, were meant to be in open spaces.
Hey /adv/, I got a personal problem. A really big insecurity of mine is that I did shit in high school.
I was always told I'm smart and whatnot, but I always blew it off. I got okay test scores (passed all my ap tests, 31 ACT), but my grades were ass (2.7 unweighted GPA). Am I doomed to a life of dumb? or can I actually get into a college with these scores?
31 is really good on the act but you do need to hire your gpa a bit that's all
>>18613011
I've already graduated high school, though. Is there nothing I can do to impress colleges?
>>18612933
Study in Europe? I mean, yeah money and shit, but you can take longer and have a job to support yourself
I can't tell in the US, assuming you're american, but here is cheap af, even for foreigners compared to your system. And I did horribly in school, got into uni, graduated and got a job. Not rich though... yet
If you get into college there, awesome, but there's always that chance, way better than a "life of dumb" as you said