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I'd like some information regarding the ole' running car in the garage suicide method.

First off so you really absolutely need a sealed garage to pull this off? Or could a hose from tailpipe leading in through where the tape deck would be suffice? Are newer kinds of cars less effective for this? I have 96 civic hatch or a subara crosstrek and would prefer the one with more comfortable seating.
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>>18610610
>First off so you really absolutely need a sealed garage to pull this off?
If you wanna be outside the car, then yes.
>Or could a hose from tailpipe leading in through where the tape deck would be suffice?
Probably yes.
>Are newer kinds of cars less effective for this?
Yes, new cars produce little carbon monoxide, no not only will it take longer but chances of you ending up a veggie are higher.
>I have 96 civic hatch or a subara crosstrek and would prefer the one with more comfortable seating.
Try finding out which one has the higher amount of carbon monoxide coming out of the exhaust.

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I'm looking for a good programmer that could develop an app for an idea that I have. I'm a graphic designer so can do that part of the job. This is a golden idea in my opinion! Contact me here: [email protected]
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And what would I receive for doing all the hard work? Assuming I can deploy your app on android and ios at the same time. Also what kind of project are we ralking about, atleast give a rough indication as to the size (amount of screens required for example) also, are you dutch?
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>>18610833
Addendum: if it's the 'new facebook' or some other kind of social media platform you can fuck right off as it's never going to work.
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not OP here, but you could fucking create app for 4chan fuckers like us. I'm definutelly not going to use tinder to find virgin males, though thats my only goal in dating. Here you go free idea.

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How do I achieve comfiness in my small apartment? Is there a way to do it on a budget?

I've always wanted to achieve a comfortable and cozy atmosphere but I've never had much money for furniture. When I was a kid, my room was pretty chill to hang out in.

How do I make a comfortable living space on a budget?
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>>18610577
second hand gems are the way to go. just wait for the right piece
no point in buying cheap garbage you don't like just to sit on it
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>>18610577
deoends on what you're into. I found that having one or two plants around really change the whole look of the room, so does the right light source. Hang up a tn of stuff, random stuff like postcards, banners, posters or cut outs from magazines you like idk. Imo coziness = tons of small stuff placed in organzied chaos.
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>>18610577
-Really comfortable armchair or recliner for reading and watching TV in.
-Couch long enough to lie down in but with arms high enough so that with a throw cushion you can raise your head enough to read or watch TV
-Posters or prints on the walls. There are few things grimmer than bare walls.

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I'm gay, and I've literally met two other people who wasn't into hooking up and preferred closed relationships. And for comparison, many, many people that didn't seem to share those values.

I realize most people aren't gay, but the contrast on /adv/ is surprising. Strict monogamy is by far considered the norm, and sleeping around, or having a history of a lot of partners is slutty.

I'm not saying I disagree, but what's with this difference? It can't JUST be because I'm gay- all my straight friends seem to hook up with people from time to time too.

Explain yourself /adv/. Do you not actually have a lot of life experience? Are you young? Old? If you honestly do know what you're talking about, and sluttiness still doesn't seem normalized, how would you describe the type of people you hang out with?
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I have no idea what you're asking or what you're getting at, so I'll just dump info

Percpetion: Promiscuity: Commonplace; destructive ideal
Perception: Monogamy: Rare; Healthy ideal
Age: 24
Sex: Male
Orientation: Straight
Sexual partners: 0

I'd like be a ho for a year or 5, and then give it up to create a stable family.

Am I typical of /adv/? I kind of doubt it. In general though i swear we're seeing a lot of ideological overflow from that madhouse /pol/.
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>>18610558
>>18610585
I should have said "Strict monogamy is by far considered the norm ON /ADV/"
I'm wondering why everyone gives advice under the assumption that sluts are rare when it seems like it's the opposite to me. There are very few people that don't have casual sex from time to time as far as I can tell.
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All the above average looking people I know slut around.

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I've been reading about attachment styles, and I feel I'm completely the "anxious" type. In relationships I lack trust, need constant reassurance, get jealous, and need to talk with my partner throughout the day, off and on. I restrain myself and try not to let it get too bad, but I don't know if I'm good at that. I just want to throw an example of something that just happened to see what you think:

So I was messaging my bf tonight and the topic led to some of my insecurity related stuff, and after a bit he went quiet. It was about an hour after he usually falls asleep for work, so maybe he just fell asleep. After a few messages and realizing he wasn't responding, I said night and sorry if it wasn't a topic he wanted to talk about. I don't know if he went quiet because he just fell asleep or if he was feeling resentful; I know he doesn't like it when I'm acting insecure, but he wasn't acting unhappy right before. I mostly assume he just fell asleep.

Anyway, a few hours later I more or less absent mindedly message him goodnight again because now I'm planning on going to bed. Right afterwards I realized how stupid and needy that was cause I'd already said goodnight. It would be annoying if anything.

The thing with being anxious in relationships is that the anxiety is a self fulfilling prophecy... meaning there are two stages- being anxious about nothing, and then having that anxiety cause an actual problem in the relationship.

Which stage am I on? Am I pointlessly worrying about annoying him for stuff like having sent that extra (and could be seen as passive aggressive, even though that wasn't the intention) goodnight message? Or would stuff like that really be a red light and sour a relationship?
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Attachment styles? Is there a test for it? I think I've shown some traits like you have in the past and also dated people with them. Not directly your question but, What I've noticed in my experiences on both sides of it is; your s/o can never quiet your anxieties by force. What I mean by that is trust is not earned inherently, it is given when a person decides (key is DESIDES) to be vulnerable with another person And trust them in the vulnerability. You have to decide to trust your boyfriend to have your back, he can never show you enough to force away your doubts if that makes sense. (Obviously the other part of that is choosing people worthy of trust)

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whats up, TL;DR: i need methods to help mother to become more electronically independent so i can kill myself faster


these thoughts bother me a lot. and i do plan on ending myself. HOWEVER. my mother landed a great job recently and needs to use microsoft office a LOT. she needs my help with the finer details and im glad to help, but i need to get her independent so she wont need to call me anymore. this job is huge to her (and me), about 67k a year (yeah its not HUGE HUGE but shoot we didnt come from much ya dig?). id hate ro see her lose it because she cant keep up and her husband does help because hes also old and always working so he'a no help

i'll be going to sleep, but leave responses. thanks
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>be 18
>both parents are mixed (jew/arab/white/pajeet)
>raised muslim
>slowly start developing interest in other religions.
>Judiasm appeals to me the most
>learn the conversion process (its long and complicated)
>confusion.jaypeg
>dunno what to do.

putting aside kike memes.I could convert since im semitic for the most part. But should i convert cuz the opportunity cost is too much?

wat do? i need some good advice
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>>18610447
If you want to convert to Judiasm, just go talk to a Rabbi. He'll be able to help you out. Whether it's worth it depends what you are wanting out of it.
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>>18610447
Why convert formally? Just start going to a temple and living your life according to Jewish ethical principles.

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Buckle up boys
>Start a new job
>work my first few days
>kinda like it,people are okay there.
>days go by and before I know it it's the end of my first work week
>go home
>Get in a fight with gf over future stuff. She's going off to college soon and wants me to come with her but doesn't want me to have A shitty job and actually be able to meet rent. I can but she just chooses to be ignorant and makes a big deal about it.
>get sick of her telling me we might have to break up under circumstances where we have no possible contact while she goes to college.
>tell her these have been just a bunch of "wasted years". By that I meant if she breaks up with me for that reason.
>she really doesn't like that
>immediately starts to cry and runs out of the room, gets in her car and drives home
>I don't talk to her for two days.
>start my second work week
>fucking cutie walks down the grill line
>easily 11/10 compared to everyone there
>looks so out of place
>she approaches me and says she'll be training me today
>feels like a weight has been lifted off my chest
>infatuated with this girl
>she shows me the basics
>she's a really good teacher
>I tell her
>she says thank you and says that I'm a good student
>pervert part of me wishes she could have said that under "bedroom" circumstances
>as we go about our work day, she follows me around,making sure I'm doing everything right
>we get to talking, she likes a lot of the things I like
>can't stop admiring her
>we talk about our cats, interests, I even got a little back story out of her
>says she's going off to college in Japan soon.
>heart sinks
>don't act any differently, just go about my day with her.
>this happens for a couple more days
>eventually talk so much she adds me on Facebook and Snapchat
>constantly talking/ snap chatting when she isn't at work.
>do this for another week
>girlfriend messages me out of the blue wanting me to come into her work to see her on her break
>do so
Cont.
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>>18610446
Type this shit up before posting it, like in notepad, and then just copy and paste it, so we don't have to wait 10 minutes in between posts.
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>>18610446
>>18610459
I'll keep that in mind

>Seeing gf on her break goes okay
>look around some stores and buy her something
>she goes back to work
>go home that night and have the best dream i've had in a while
>11/10 Girl and I are sitting at home, cuddling, then we're on a date, then we're standing in a line and i have my arm around her as she's smiling
>just simple things but it was such an enjoyable dream
>we even showered together which was a little odd but i felt butterflies instead of being that turned on
>wake up and go to work
>she isn't there
>works sucks without her
>come in next day, she doesn't get there till later
>rejoice because we talk and through the day i ask her to cover me as i'm going to the bathroom
>She does and says "You owe me and ice cream, Anon!"
>heart bursts because she's so cute
>tell her that i would buy her an ice cream
>later that day her break comes along and i buy it for her
>she smiles and hides her face, she's blushing pretty hard and lets out a little giggle
>literally feel like i'm falling in love with her on the spot whilst i'm paying
>get the same feeling i felt when i met my current gf

What do i do, my current gf is everything to me but there's a chance it's going to end soon with her going off to college.
Idk if i'm stuck at a dead end or i could actually have something here.
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>>18610511
for more context we've been together for 2.5 years

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I've never used eBay before is it safe to pay with a credit card? I found some great deals.
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Better to just make a PayPal account I use it through my PayPal all the time 10/10 would recommend
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>>18610398
Thanks in advance for the advice
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You'd be better off using a Paypal account, which is more secure. Alternatively, you could put money on a pre-paid credit card, and use that to make online purchases. In the case of the latter, even if your card information gets stolen, the would-be thief gets nothing more than whatever you put on it.

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what do you do when your mind feels like a desert, devoid of ideas?
it feels like I can barely write anymore
everything in life appears at face value and my imagination has been curb stomped into dust
should I just read voraciously, hoping the draught passes eventually?
any philosophies worth exploring that would get me through this mental lethargy?
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Read books and get off the internet.
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>>18610365
Listen the silence between sounds.

Its 2am and I saw a spider on my wall that crawled away. Lavender is a spider repellant. Would lavender febreze work as a make shift spider repellant? I want to go back to sleep but it was too close to my bed and I have high night anxiety to begin with
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Sleep on the couch or a chair but I always use frabreeze to get rid of bugs if it's a really large deal go out and buy some bug spray

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I'm work pretty high up in an investment bank but I want to make cosplay friends. Do you think my company would fire me if I started doing cute cosplay on twitter?
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Probably not just don't go screaming it to everyone at work
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I work*

>>18610351
I hope so

I really don't have anything in common with the people in this place, gets pretty depressing
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I doubt they'd fire you. With how anime, video games, and cosplay have come into the mainstream light in recent years, most companies assume that having a few fans of those things is just par for the course. That said, I'd avoid posting too much, especially if your cosplay is revealing enough to make the company you represent look bad if someone linked you to them.

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I accidentally catfished someone that I like and that likes me but they think I'm someone I'm not, what do?
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>>18610316
why are you so gay?
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Turn into a major bitch, and then drop them on the fake account, and then fix the pieces with your normal account. Make sure to wipe all evidence of the fake account.
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Just clear the air. Admit up-front that you got off to a rocky start. Self-awareness speaks volumes about a person's character. Honesty even more so.

Whenever I'm jerking it I can't stop myself from putting my finger in my anus. I'm not a faggot and I hate the feeling but I can't stop myself. I've tried everything. How do I stop?
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I have had this problem aswell
You must cut off the other hand, there is no alternative.

Or just accept that you have some sort of anal fetish.
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There's nothing wrong with you man. The prostate is an erogenous zone for a lot of people - man and female. It's no different from a guy who likes having his balls played with, or a girl who likes having her tits played with. Some people enjoy it, some don't. You're one of the the ones that does.

My advice? Find a girl that can work with that. They're everywhere, believe me.
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It's not a big deal to have a kink but if you want to stop it duct tape your hand to your desk or whatever or you could jerk off with both hands

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I want to teach myself C++ but whenever I do I find myself either distracted or tired. How do I keep myself focused on it?
This isnt my first programming language, so the concept isnt confusing to me
Thanks!
>pic unrelated
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>>18610274
I think it's a motivation problem that's keeping you distracted. You should know as well as I do that motivation is entirely different for everyone and how one stays motivated varies quite a bit.
Have you tried evaluating why it is you keep getting distracted and exhausted? Does the subject material bore you and are you just learning it in order to be better employable? You need to identify why it is you are even bothering fucking with a coding language.
I hate to use my experiences as an example but for me, the way I stay motivated is by setting hard deadlines for things to be finished. If I don't have a deadline, I will put off doing any work and end up never finishing my projects. Learning theory for the sake of knowing has never stuck with me either, the best way I learn how to do things is by giving myself actual problems that can only be solved with knowledge of the theory. Try get some coding projects going that actually interest you. You're bound to run into some roadblocks that will require some research on your end. In doing this, you'll end up teaching yourself better than just brute force memorizing things.
Just my 2 cents.
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I agree, when I was learning Java I started by making Minecraft mods and shit that way I constantly had something to work through. I generated a problem to solve for myself. When I was in college alot of people in the engineering department where like that, they didn't want to just study something they wanted to build, create, and fix stuff. Guess it's just the way our brains are wired or something
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>>18610274
Same here, i started learning computer graphics in my spare time and since I want my renderer to have as strong a basis as possible, i chose C# despite never working with it before. While my prototype in processing worked fairly well, I constantly have to debug and research with C#.

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