Need something to do besides work?
2017-08-12 05:23:22 Post No.18613865
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So pretty much my day goes get up around 10, go to work at around 1, get home at 10, play vidya or watch a movie for a couple hours or so, then go to sleep, and I feel like I'm getting in "that daily routine" thing, and I don't want that. I wanna break the cycle but really don't know where or what to do. Moved to a new state a few months back, got my license and car, huge change in a short time but now I'm like...sort of confused on what I could do. I've thought about picking up some hobbies other than games, thinking about getting my carry license and go to the local range that has rentals, and other times I think about driving around but I really don't know the area too well yet so don't wanna end up getting lost and freak out. What do?
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>>18613865
a carry license is piss easy usually and shooting guns gets boring unless you're doing competitions like idpa or shooting clays. at least it was that way for me.
you do need some hobbies, everyone does, even if it's only 15-30 minutes a day you can dump into them. or you could try something more normie like a team or contact sport and have a place to go every few days. or mix the best of both worlds and find a local hackerspace barring that, at least learn some life skills on your off time. change your car's oil, cook a few meals, that sort of thing.
one of the big things that helped me was writing everything i could possibly want to do and just run through the list. knocks out the easy or convenient things fast and eventually a few items will stand out.
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I really liked that girl 2017-08-12 05:22:51 Post No.18613863
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Ok, so I'll tell you briefly what happened
>Be me
>Meet one of the most beautiful girls I have ever seen in my life
>She's a coworker
>Begin to talk to her
>She's smart too
>Realize she's unique
>Have a kinda deep connection
>Have interesting conversations
>Like her very much
>She enjoys my company
>Take her number
>Text for about a week straight
>Go out and have fun
>"I think she's the one"
>Second date she invites me to her house
>Have some snacks and then go out again
>Almost at the end of the date she tells me she is in a relationship with a girl for about 2 years
>Tells me not to tell anybody cuz the girl is famous
>Assures me she's not homosexual
>Heartcrashed.exe
>My mind blank
I don't know what the fuck should I do. I really liked that girl (she's a 9/10). I think now she sees me as a friend and that sucks. Maybe if she would have been free I could have had a chance.
She also told me she's not gay. Wtf, is she telling me this for real or is it because she wants me to try or what?
On top of that the 2nd date was dedicated on talking about her gf. Apparently her gf is a bitch and doesn't care about her. While every time she's with me I make her smile and forget about the world and everything else. She really enjoys my company.
Wtf should I do?
Should I keep trying and waste my time? Or try to find another round 9?
Thanks in advance, I know you'll get my feeling
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>>18613863
Find another anon.
It's going to be very difficult but if you don't let this one go, you'll only be beating a dead horse by trying to chase after her, I'd know because the same happened to me
what kind of woman tells you she's in a relationship, then you expect to still have a shot with her? The thing about her sexuality is giving me mixed signals, why haven't you asked her why the hell she has a girlfriend, if she's heterosexual? You NEED to be straightforward when asking her this.
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What you've described is some weird ass behavior. If she wants to be friends, be friends. If she wants to date, then great, date.
If she keeps doing this weird "will she or won't she" bullshit just stop wasting your time. You won't have a real relationship with a person like that, and they make for a shitty friend
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A girl having a girlfriend who's famous and then going on to say that she is not homosexual is actually a red flag in my opinion. Idk what the fuck is up with her but imo you deserve better than a crazy girl who is confused herself. Just move on, you'll find better
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So I have a dilemma;
A few months back I traded with a guy I didn't know personally, in fact I never caught his name. I gave him a lacrosse stick of mine, and he gave me a Notre Dame hockey jersey, a real one. Fast forward to today, money is tight for me so I decide to sell the jersey on SidelineSwap. I get a text message from a staff member of the website, stating "Anon, do you have a minute? We were alerted that the jersey you're selling was stolen from the dorm room of the hockey player from ND". Later, I get a message on my listing from someone associated with the hockey team, while simultaneously being an asshole, that if I didn't return it, "someone" will get involved. I told him if he pays the shipping, he can have it back. But I've gotten no response. What does this mean? Since the member was such an asshole, should I piss or shit on the jersey and send it back? Or would that get me into more trouble?
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Don't do that. Until this point you have done nothing wrong. No way to prove you are innocent?
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>>18613855
I worked ND football games in concessions so I've been on the campus before, but they dont have any evidence that I stole the jersey because I didn't take it. I was just a victim of circumstance. The Sidelineswap member told me that the ND player was "eager to report me", but they said it wasn't necessary thus they message me to tell me whats going on and to return it. I'm already out 175 dollars on what would have been my lacrosse stick that I traded. I told both the ND player and Sidelineswap member that I would return it but I was not paying for shipping. No response from either, but I fucking hate the owner of the jersey
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>>18613869
ND student here. Live in a dorm with a lot of the players. Shit on it so i can ask them about it lol
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I'm so messy- what is wrong with me???
I can't explain it, and i don't know why i'm like it. I'll even amaze myself. i'll go to somebody's house and sit on the bed or something and look in my bag. i'll get up and somebody will go " you've messed the bed up, look at it! you've dropped stuff out of your bag, and your shoes are on the floor, you've trod dirt in!" but to me i wont even notice its happened. I feel like its something in my brain, like i can't seem to do, or see, or act like other people must do.
i find it really hard to pick up after myself, and even if i try to focus on tidying or keeping something clean, minutes later its covered in mess again, or another area is messy. I'm unhappy with the way i am, but i don't know how to change and it upsets me to think that the people who love me wouldnt even live with me. What can i do?
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https://www.pdasociety.org.uk/what-is-PDA/about-pda
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>>18613841
>https://www.pdasociety.org.uk/what-is-PDA/about-pda
>PDA is increasingly recognised as part of the autism spectrum.
>autism
NO.
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>>18613841
oh no i fit 90% of the criteria.
okay so how do i solve the problem
I got a financial aid question.I've completed an associates degree that at the same time was doing another but for a BS. The last semester I had one as told I couldn't get financial aid anymore. I'm now in the process of transferring to a four year to get my BS will I be able to get financial aid to finish my BS?
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not sure, you should ask college staff. mine has an office that specializes in answering questions like this.
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Just got this screen on an NSFW animation, won't let me enable it, or do anything. What does this mean? Usually, I can simply enable flash by clicking it, but there's no clickable area.
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>>18613772
Left of the url click a grey think and do always allow flash for this site
Im pretty sure I got em /adv/ how do I kill the little fucks?
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What do you mean?
With your constipation?
What did you eat recently then?
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>>18613768
OP IS A DOG
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>>18613768
You need a piece of cake, a hammer and a friend
Lie on your side naked. Put the cake next to your ass. When the worms come out to eat the cake, have your friend hit them with the hammer.
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Hey, I have been dating a Korean girl for almost a year now. She moved to my country to learn the language and study at university. She moved into my place about half a year ago.
This summer we made a one month trip to Korea together. During and after the trip I realized I don't love her anymore and want to break up.
I am hesitant to do it though as she is super reliant on me. I still like her as a friend and would prefer not to hurt her as much by breaking up and throwing her out while she is still looking for a university. She is however also realizing that something is wrong with me and afraid I don't love her anymore.
How can I properly break up? Any advice for this kind of situation? My first gf and have no experience with that whatsoever.
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Breaking up with someone always feels awful, especially if they haven't done anything "wrong".
The longer you wait, the harder it'll be, and the more she'll feel "strung along". If you have any mutual friends, talk to them about it. If you care about her (and it sounds like you do, even if you don't want to date her anymore), know that you can still be supportive/help her get on her feet after you break up - but understand if she doesn't want that.
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>>18613746
yeah, i'd be putting miles between me & korea too about now.
you should get her on the phone and be like, "whoa, what is that bright light? hey it's really hot all of a sudden. Hey--!" and just hangup & go no contact. done.
you're welcome
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>>18613746
Since you don't want her, can I fuck her? Me love her long time, five dolla!
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I've had dark eye circles since elementary school and I could never get rid if them and it fucks up my self esteem. I tried sleeping more but it doesn't seem to work. I can't afford surgery for it either
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>>18613732
Nigga just deal with it. If you're a guy, they can usually make you look good. Mine are huge and they make me look dark/mysterious/whatever it is that chicks are into, so I don't mind them. The only downside is that they make me look like I'm a huge drug addict or an AIDS patient, but nobody really thinks of that--they mostly think that you're incredibly sleep deprived.
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I think it looks cool on a guy, and it looks fucking sexy on a woman
but thats me
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>>18613767
Exactly. I don't wanna seem like I'm an AIDS patient or a drug addict. If that look is what you like then by all means. But I personally hate how it looks on me (I'm a woman)
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I want a love like this
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>>18613702
good luck
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>>18613748
Why not? You've never loved that strongly ?
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Like what now?
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How do I self-motivate, /adv/? I'm working as a freelance web designer for some side money while going to college but after I get through with classes, homework, etc I just feel completely burnt out and can barely focus on my work.
How does one focus on something that you seriously don't want to do?
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How much sleep do you get?
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>>18613730
Not very much, I spend a lot of time on /gif/ fapping to brazilian shemales after I'm done with homework and often times it leaves me with less than enough time before my next task to get adequate sleep.
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>>18613691
Nutrition and exercise play a big role, you ought to cut down on fat and do more cardio - pump that hormones naturally.
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I want to kill myself, but I want to make it look like an accident, I don't know how to do it, I was thinking of maybe, accidental overdose, but that seems painful, alcohol poisoning wouldn't be a surprise to my friends, but again, seems awful, time isn't a huge factor as I live with my parents who aren't even aware I'm suicidal. Any advice would help. Except seeking Jesus, fuck that guy.
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Alright /adv/ work your magic here for me.
A long time ago (like 2 1/2 years ago) my ex dumped me- yes it's one of those posts -I, obviously cause I'm posting this shit here, am still attached to her in some way. I sometimes get mildly sad when I think about her because I miss being with her. With that said, I fucking hate her, rightfully. - got bored of typing already.
Long story short- girl I loved and dated for 2 years is now dating my cousin. It's been 2 1/2 years since we broke up. What do to get over it
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>>18613681
personally i find hate to be the best way to get over someone, if you hate someone een tho you miss them it's easier to get over someone you don't respect so I guess remember all the things you didnt like all her bad habits that drove you up the wall ect
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>>18613681
Are you sure you miss her or is that just the penis talking? Nostalgia can be a bitch but don't fall for it OP. She's dating your fucking cousin for crying out loud
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>>18613681
talk to other girls. one of them will make you forget
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Alright so, I graduated high school in June with a 4.0. I'm gonna apply for some colleges, I wanna major in something that has to do with technology (mainly computers because I know a lot whether it's hardware or software). It has to be something that isn't TOO hard but it also has to be something that will earn me a lot of money after the Navy since I plan on commissioning as an officer. Again, I plan on choosing a rating that has to do with technology. What should I major in?
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>>18613662
The rate you choose to commission into will have more bearing on what kind of work you can expect to have on the civilian side than your degree.
If you don't mind the idea of working on a submarine, I would say go for nuclear engineering and become a nuclear propulsion officer.
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So I got this date later, it's not our first date, it's more like our 8th or something (I'm a slow woer)
Our last 2 dates have been magical! Without a doubt "move worthy" dates.
I didn't get it done though, she was leaving for a vacation shortly after those 2 dates so I had sort of decided to hold my move until she came back, well now she's back!
Date tonight but I think my chances got tanked while she was away, I still want to rey something though, I'll see were I'm at with her tonight and if all is good I go for it (maybe the next date though, tonight is for seeing if I'm still in it) if not I think I'll have to drop it... I regret the balls out of not getting it done before she left!!!!
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you kiss on the first/second date
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>>18613632
>(I'm a slow woer)
I don't habe the "blow her off her feet" characteristics,it takes time to get to know me in general, not only for girls.
But I can usually get it done with girls anyway, it just takes some time.