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Land a job.

>>17051687
Consider community college or some sort of vocational school if you don't already have some programming job or a full college scholarship lined up. It'll be hard finding a job with just a high school degree.

>Self taught

Do you have any projects actually finished and published? Otherwise, it'll be very hard to convince others that your skills compare to someone who has done four years of university.

You also should make sure you're fairly active in the open source community. Good companies often look at Github contributions to evaluate programmers, especially those without a college degree.

You can't say "i love you" to someone then go fuck others and expect it to not have an impact. You're a cheating whore and you know it

>>17051015
hahahaha goes and fucks others.
Expects that person to care about him.
Tough luck woman, you've dunn it now

>>17051020
>>17051022
Except he knew that sort of thing was going to happen back then.
We were not officially dating.
He didn't tell me that he objected to it and that I shouldn't do it. So at the time, it was very VERY grey.
I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do now.

You're going to ruin the friendship between them on some level possibly. Being a guy who has never had experience with woman, he's going to be new to love, always hang out with you, have to learn a ton of lessons and.. Man.. Ah whatever lol, I've seen it happen too many times

>>17050240
Simple as it seems, the next logical step would be building physical intimacy. As a female you have leeway to do certain things guys can't generally do, like put your hand on his thigh when sitting and avidly talking, or grabbing his hand or the like. That's what I say would be the next logical step. All it takes is you holding their hand and looking them in the eye and in 5 seconds he'll be thinking about you for the next five hours.


And in the event he's too anxious to ever show signs of desire, which you're worried about, you'll have to be obnoxiously blatant and blunt, social skills are just that, skills, and their lack of experience especially in flirting will have to be accommodated for, by your extra effort.

>>17050240
Options are as follows
A: pursue romantic relationship with
B: maintain friend status

Note: if you want romance and hold back, the friend option will wither and die anyway as you force eachother apart

A is likely best option, realize one way or another, shy of marriage: you're doomed to eventually stop talking to him

>>17049856
Let's see the poster op.

>>17049856
Take it down apologize to your mother you fuck up, if you want to broadcast being a future child watch list suspect move out

>>17049856
>In my bedroom I have a poster or two featuring some lolicon
Bruh. It's bad enough you like that at all.

tell me something anon, why is virginity so important to you?

The Prophet's first wife was much older than him and not a virgin, though she gave him nothing but love and devoted support when he thought he had gone insane after first receiving divine inspiration.

>>17049301

Any woman that would cover herself as part of her religion is a fucking moron. Why be with a fucking moron?

>>17049306
He also fucked a child, so maybe we shouldnt be taking our lessons from him.

>>17048800
>I'm a stupid idiot who doesn't know how to check the catalog

>>17048805
>I'm a fuckwit who doesn't realise the other thread is autosaging

How do talk to PRINCESSES<3?

>>17042729
Nope.

There's no age limit on the V Card. We have cultural expectations that push us toward a specific age, but you're living your own life. Don't let it be dictated by some inane schedule of life accomplishments.

Can't? Yes. Don't? No.

>>17042733
I can vouch for this. I didn't really start appreciating all that I have done and all that I have been through until very recently. And I don't regret having spent so much time absorbed in my passions and my future, that I haven't been in any meaningful relationship for many years now. I don't think I will die alone and unloved, but I have a better understanding of what I want, so "settling" on the first pretty girl hasn't been a real option for me. Cheesy as it sounds, I'm one of those fuckers who waits around for the right girl. She does not have to be a soul mate, but I have to feel a meaningful connection with her, which no woman I've met has been able to maintain. I know men are pressured to do all the heavy lifting in a relationship, but I've stood my ground and refused to share myself with women who don't actually respect or care about me. If I die a virgin because of that, then so be it.

>>17049120
its bullshit from movies, almost every rooftop door has automatic locks

it is however quite easy to pick open a non-deadbolted door with a knife

>>17049128
Don't have knives. 'Straya. What else should I do? I mean, people managing to get up onto the roof of buildings is not unheard of, but don't they usually get arrested?

>>17049120
Planning on jumping?

what advice are you looking for exactly?

Because a lot of stay at home wifes are garbage, in that they stay at home all day, barely take care of the household, and are honestly glorified neets.

That's not to say you can't be a quality housewife that stays productive, but its kind of hard to take seriously unless you guys already have some young children. Then once they get older into their teens you start slipping back into glorified neet territory.

If you're willing to go the extra mile, hey more power to you. A lot of them if not most don't however.

>>17046570
I'd like advice on how to avoid being a lazy airheaded housewife.

>>17046571
I've never seen it that way, but it makes absolute sense. Glorified neets...
Ofc, i would still work until there are kids! And i think i would take it up again when they are older again. Good thing about my job is that there is a whole lot of part time working and it doesn't matter too much if you have a few years away from it.

What would that "extra mile" consist of for you?

For me it would include stuff like actually doing activities with the kids, making sure that the house is spotless, that errands are run and bills are paid, that there's good food on the table every day, that i use the time i have to look after myself and not, yknow "get fat and ugly". Basically, i'd do everything i can so my husband would be able to focus on his work/career and be able to come home to a beautiful home, filled with happy kids, yummy food and a lovely wife. If the kids get older and i find that i can't use all my time in an usefull and productive way i'd take up work again or do some volunteering for a good cause.

Reposting this since I didn't realize the old thread hit the bump limit. Just giving an update on the girl I met at the Smash 4 tournament.

So update on this. We're talking and things are going well. One of my friends is helping me out. She didn't respond for an hour and he told me to wait the same time so I don't look desperate or like I was waiting for her to respond. I think this is going well. Later on, I'm going to ask her to hang out.

>>17044738
Reposting from previous thread since it hit bump limit.

Girl I'm currently with is pretty bad when it comes to responding to messages.

If she's currently online or waiting for a text from me (for example when we're going out that day), then she answers very fast. If neither case is true, then shepretty much doesn't answer at all, no matter how much time passes, until I write her when she's online. This makes me kind of angry, because when I do, I feel like one of those needy creeps who double- or triple-text when girls don't answer them.

How do I tell her about my concerns without sounding needy?

Do girls give a fuck about mild / minimal acne and redspots on face? Plz respond

>>17046625
are you 110% certain the rumours are true? if you answer with anything less than 100% you fucked up.

Congrats, she'll be good in bed. Go get em tiger.

Honestly, think about it this way. If you slept around with a bunch of girls and then fell in love with an old friend and then found out that they don't like you back because you're a 'slut' and 'used food's, how would you feel about it? You can't change shit bout the past, dude, and you can't give people second chances if the past is all you think about

Once a slut always a slut.

>>17044982
I have christianity's morals but not it's beliefs.
I understand the bible and the theory behind it. For example,. atheists always ask: "If god really loved you, why would he send you to hell?"
The answer is that he doesn't, you put yourself there by being an awful person, which is parenting on his part.

But the more I understand and the more I digested the theory that made sense, the stupider I realized this had become.
Full atheist now.

Christians don't bother me unless they're trying to fuck around with the political landscape. Which they are. Moderate christians almost never seem to admit this.
Christians and Evangelicals do their part to reduce our civil rights and try to get rid of the 1st amendment by connecting the US government to religion.

A cute christian girl who I loved very much hurt me very badly and I still cry over it.
Where was your god during that?

Take all kinds of shit but, the reward is in heaven...

Blessed are the poor but, then the vatican is made out of gold.

Get fucked you jesus bitch.

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>>17045019
Adam was a man born in perfect circumstances

Adam was supernaturally created and fashioned by God

Adam walked with God, he talked with God

Yet in spite of all of this, Adam disobeyed God, and was cast out of the Garden

In the beginning, all of mankind knew God. Yet they still chose to sin

Overtime, mankind devolved into sin and grew further away from God

Adam wasn't the first to sin, it was Satan. The devil and a third of the angels were cast out of the third heaven and they now reside in the second heaven where they will be until judgment

God rejected Cain's half-hearted sacrifice and as a result Cain's countenance fell, The LORD said to Cain, "If you do well, shall you not be accepted? But if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door. It desires to dominate you, but you must rule over it" (Genesis 4:7). Yet Cain still chose to disobey God and slew his brother Abel out of jealousy and hatred

I am sorry to hear what the girl did to you. However, the Bible says all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23). This includes Christians. Nobody is perfect. In fact, many so-called christians are worse off than non-believers due to the heavy spiritual attack they face from the devil. Forgiveness is an important part of denying yourself, picking up the cross, and following Jesus

im doing everything againsy my better judgement and silencing it to trust you!

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>>17037949
What a great opportunity to start something online, OP!

Pseudo girlfriend pseudo cheated on me. Roommates had to be kicked out, Lost my job, got a shitter job and lost that too. Despaired for like two months.
Tried to kill myself and failed.
Tried to kill myself again and got interrupted and then decided to work on myself and it seems to be slowly coming together. Therapists and social workers just depress me further. Maybe next week will be the week things get better for me or maybe I'm further punishing myself and need to die sooner then later. Can't quite make up my mind. Feels like I'm not good enough for anything.

I got a crew of about 7 friends, 2 of which Im really close with.

I would say it's extremely important and beneficial. It boosts your self confidence. Allows you to see your own faults and deal with them. Gives you a sense of belonging. Not to mention it gives you funny stories to tell.

it's important. you just have to be able to find that balance where you don't let them distract you from being successful, or better yet, elevate each other to be better.

my childhood crew disbanded, and my college crew lives too far away to actually be a crew anymore.

now i don't have a crew and feel worse off desu.

>>17045043
your question is confusing? your mates who you hang with and talk shit with ARE your crew... no not all of you will want to do the same thing together. and or some of your friends may not like hanging with each other. but thats cool, and its not just lacking in america: its everywhere. blame your feminist movement and the rise of the SJW females. there is no male empowerment anywhere. if you want male empowerment go join the big buddy programme and mentor a kid who has no father and has no one to hang with.

legit question, I don't want to burn my flat down or poison anyone nearby by mistake lol

Then don't kill yourself in such an irresponsible and inconsiderate fashion you autist.

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