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>>17015777
You're both in the right.

But as she said: you two might not fit if she's a little spoiled brat.

Yes. Learning to compromise is part of a relationship. Showing you can't do that is a red flag.

>>17015777

Haha what the fuck OP.

Sometimes I wonder where you guys get this shit, whether it's trolling or someone literally sat you down growing up and said "the man should have the last word in all matters."

A mature, respectable man listens to all sides and compromises in relationships, because it's a give and take with another human.

Not a feminist here, but thinking this would fly with any girl is insane.

*This is the first time I ever confessed my feelings towards someone

please help

"That's ok, thank you for being honest"

Block and delete.

>>17015706
Yeah It is fine. I did it with mine and she was also just a friend. It would be more since to do it in person bit otherwise it's cool.

Don't. At least call her.

And why are you asking her just as friends?

>>17015719
I liked her a couple months ago. She only saw me as a friend. Now I'm over her and like another girl but she has a boyfriend, thus why I'm asking her.

You are fine.

Almost all autistic outgrow it by the age of 21.

Its just a different way of thinking. And requires a different path of learning.

From what you have said i doubt you are autistic. just and introvert. or at the very least very low on the specrum

>>17015626
Are you retarded? Firstly, you can't "outgrow" autism. Second, OP hasn't even described his situation. What the fuck?

I am a special education teacher and work with young adults who have severe autism. The fact that you can even type this means you are leagues ahead of how badly others have it.

I don't know your actual level of severity (but it seems you are high functioning), but in general people with autism function better if they have routines and preplanned responses as they have difficulty reading social cues and improvising. In terms of regressing, I think your team member just means you will become more withdrawn and solitary. That might be more of a personality thing in combination with your autism; I have some students with severe autism who are very much extroverted and enjoy socializing (although they will do so inappropriately without coaching)

>>17015564
It is still a long way away.

Not even on the boat to cross the sea to you yet.

>>17015564

It means its in a postage depot or something. its sitting in storage while they sort their shit out.

These progress reports are bullshit anyway. One time I already got my item and the tracking code still had it under "waiting to dispatch".

>>17015564
You probably tried to mail or ship something abroad and paid extra for it to be followed and reported on. What the Post Office doesn't tell you is that they only do this up to the point it leaves the country. After that it's on its own (unless you attached one of those postcards for the receiver to send back). The message hasn't changed because that's all the PO has to say to you. As far as they're concerned, it's not their responsibility any more.

>>17015554
make a pillow room with and axe spray fountain in the middle.

>>17015562
I heard elsewhere that axe does not attract women

>>17015554
First you get some bricks . . . . . .

>>17015544
This image brings back so much sadness

>>17015544
Say "I'm going to X anybody want to come?" And if nobody says anything tell them to call you if they need you.


It's your vacation

>>17015544
Yikes, you sound really insecure

You'd rather go out ALONE than play some dumb board game with friends??
You should say that you'll play the game wth them if they come out with you. That's a lot less lame than going alone

PMS.

Give space or do something nice for her now or later.

go in there and talk to her, apologise for driving too fast, tell her you wont do it again, ask her if there's anything else on her mind. the never listening to her thing makes it sound like there's something more that's bothering her but she just hasn't brought it up before. talk it out, and then comfort her

>>17015553
and if she doesn't respond and start talking to you after a certain amount of time, say 30 minutes, encourage her to go bed so she can get some rest. continue it tomorrow.

>>17015493
wait for it to pass.

why did you end it? any chance of it working?

Let it pass. Don't look back, OP. You ended things mutually for a reason. Looking back will distract you from the now.

Failed relationships are practice, nothing more. Did you play any team sports as a kid, or study for a test? You don't go back and moon over or reminisce about practices and studying for exams. Your past is practivce, nothing more, nothing less.

How many dates have you been on, anon?

>he actually is turning women down

Git out, normie scum.

>>17015396
just be honest. Just tell them, hey I enjoyed our time together, but I don't see it working out between us, thanks for <whatever>, good luck with your dating life :)

if you think they're a nice person, leave whatever compliments you feel like are appropriate if any, and you know, personalize that generic statement to your needs.

they'll either be like, thanks you too, ask you why not (which then becomes more awkward, you can just be like, sorry I just didn't feel the chemistry, if they persist, ignore them), or they'll just never respond and won't give you the courtesy you gave them. The risk of them being super creepy that you don't wanna date them is there regardless of whether or not you responded, it's just a decent thing to do as a decent human being to give the courtesy of not cruelly letting them wonder when you'll respond.

>>17015368

I'm guessing you're not a guy but looking at a girl doesn't necessarily mean I have a rock hard erection and I'm fantasizing about pinning her down and taking her from behind.

A lot of different shit goes through guys' heads. Some of it is sexual, some isn't. She might have a pretty face, she might have nice hair, you might think the looks like someone you used to know, you might be wondering why she chose to wear plaid and stripes... Don't overthink it.

>Why do men stare at a woman even though she's not revealing anything?

hardwired to analyses all potential mate. sorry its just automatic like walking.

>Honesty can just looking at an attractive girls face turn a man on??
Yes definitely. but be aware that focusing on particular physical attribute will be gunning for sexual interaction with said physical attribute.

Again hardwired. sorry.

it's called "undressin with their eyes"

That's an old phrase that you youngins don't have.

>>17015360
How about you go see her in person and then say happy birthday? Cause facebook doesnt prove how much you care for her.

Cant believe you need advice for this shit.

>>17015389
I am seeing her. I will say happy birthday to her in person. In this day and age everyone still says happy birthday to one another on facebook. She'd be pretty upset if I didn't post anything on her wall on her birthday

>>17015389
I called my mom on her birthday and she specifically asked me to post on her Facebook wall. I agree with you that in person is way more meaningful and Facebook posts are ultimately meaningless, but some people want to look important I guess?

Your friend insisted because of beer. There will be beer, but you'll be drinking beer inside a crowded tent filled with smelly drunkard.

I hope you realized that those girls won't be standing around in the rain ....

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>>17015323
yeah sounds fun

just put your phone in a ziplock bag.

They'll probably have tents you pussy.

Alcoholics typically don't go to beer fests because they're too expensive and they would rather spend the money on cheap booze.

Maybe your judgemental ass shouldn't go then.

>>17015300
Could be anything but i would double check your installations.

Change the power cord for the video card

make sure power source is working

see if motherboard is receiving power

sounds like a video card problem(possibly DOA) but honestly unless looking at it it could be a gorillion things.

>the USB ports did not respond
Sometimes these doesn't work unless you installed all the necessary drivers that came with the mobo installer disc.

>when we hooked the GPU to a monitor with and HDMI cable it didn't respond either
Is it an onboard GPU? If not turn off the onboard in the Boot menu.

>>17015318
>>17015329
We plugged in the gtx 970 and it turned on but the hdmi didn't pick it up.

>>17015253
get over it.

You have your standard or life that you expect people to follow and so do they. Finding the comfort zone where you can tolerate eachother is just a part of life.

>>17015273
>get over it.
How should I go about doing this when it involved physical assault and I am a neurotic person in general?

Just treat them with a cold detachment - tolereate their existence, but don´t go beyond the simple "I still know you exist" most neccessary interaction.

That way you are not being rude in eyes of your family for being a jerk or whatever, but you don´t need to connect with that person whatsoever.

Some family members are great, but keeping all of them close just for the sake of "family" is overrated