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Can someone give me an idea of where I'm at in terms of getting into an MD program? I'm currently entering my senior year. For reference I'm a Texas resident(22 years) and will be applying to state schools in Texas.

>3.2 cGPA
>3.5 sGPA
>no MCAT yet, obviously.
>upward GPA trend, got C's and D's my first two semesters, getting A's and B's now.

I've got basically no shadowing/volunteer/research experience though I plan on doing at least 10 hours/month in an ER over the next year. I worked full time during my sophomore and junior years, managing a large budget and two other employees but got laid off a few months ago(position eliminated, not fired). I'm currently doing clerical work at a doctors office, and will likely be doing a GAP program at the office when I graduate. I'll be shadowing the doctor for a year and learning how to run a medical office while I study for the MCAT.

SDN is no help, from what I read there it sounds like I don't even have a chance at getting into an MD program.
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Consider D.O.
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You must have taken a practice MCAT?
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>>17072583
No. I haven't completed all the courses covered on the MCAT yet. But I'm a good test taker(consistently 1+ standard deviations above peers) so I have no doubt with hard work I can score a 32+

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How do I live in a society that constantly chases money and things that don't truly bring us happiness? I just feel like nothing's worth it and I'm trapped in a system that literally eats us alive. If I die tomorrow it will have all been for nothing.
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YouTube - Joe rogan experience

Duncan trussell family hour

.. do what you enjoy, learn a trade/skill..
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>>17072432
>If I die tomorrow it will have all been for nothing.

That applies to everybody. Everybody dies, man. You're not the only fucking one. Everybody dies. Everything anyone has ever built will collapse. Everything anyone has ever done will be forgotten. Some things will last longer than others, sure, but that doesn't change the fact that come the end it will all mean nothing.

And that's how life works. For everybody, not just you. What you have to do is deal with that fact, and learn to live with it. See there must be shit you enjoy, otherwise you'd have killed yourself already. So focus on that. Focus on doing that and doing whatever can accommodate it. Focus on finding more and new things to enjoy. Life is ultimately pointless. But you're here anyway, so you might as well try to enjoy the ride whilst it lasts, right?
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Hey OP.
Cigarettes are pretty good.
Consider it.

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I stole my roommates alien fleshlight because he was in the hospital and now hes home and i cant put it back. He doesnt know yet. Wat do.

Bitchin chili recipe for repayment
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>>17072225

Wear it as a sock
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>>17072225
>posting shitty meme recipes
I had the perfect solution to your problem but now I won't tell you because of that.
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>>17072229
Thanks. Its litterally the only thing on my tablet that isnt porn. Idfk wether or not this is a sfw board.

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Okay,I've been using tinder for about 6 months now on a daily bases and I haven't given a single person a left swipe,right swipe for everyone.I just want to meet someone kind at my new duty station pic is me.any advice on how I can change myself up to look better?
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I set my account for 100 miles and haven't given a left swipe.not one match
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>>17072039
Tinder is essentially a platform to remind sub 8 men they will never get women
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>>17072035

You look tired/drousy/sleepy in the photo.

If you're going to pull the military card, at least make an attempt to look badass.

Why you're still not believing in the only true redpill, the lookism theory?
Do you think the guy in pic uses "game"?
Do you think your gf will not want to have sex with him if he wants to?
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Wtf is up with his cheeks?
I'll admit when a guy is attractive but the cheeks make his face ugly.
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>>17071457
They'are god-tier cheeks.
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>selfie
>manchild
>tattoo
>piercings
2/10 would not bang

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Hi, thank you for taking time to read this weird and wonderful story about my journey. I met this girl on Skout from Turkey. We got close to each other, and decided to meet each other around Christmas time. We both committed to each other and told each other we loved each other and what not. However, we were both aware of cultural differences and traditions as she was a Muslim. We were meant to meet each other in August of last year, however I didn't have the money to do it, and I felt horrible for stringing her along but I did everything I could do to make it happen but didn't work. So I travelled over for her birthday which was on Christmas day.

From the moment I arrived I felt that something wasn't right and on the second day, she broke down and said we couldn't have a relationship because we lived too far and too many cultural differences. She said to me that she was holding me back and to not wait for her.

The rest off the time I was there we got increasingly close to each other, cuddled each other and held hands. It felt like having a girlfriend and she initiated everything. I have had several girlfriends, but nothing felt anything like the time I spent with her. We left on brilliant terms, and agreed to meet again in the future.

Ever since, I have tried to move on but it's really difficult because she told me that if I started dating someone else, she can't promise that she would stay in contact with me anymore and I don't want to lose her, because I have that attachment still. We still write to each other daily, and there was a phase there where she was really busy and didn't write to me at all, so I was under the assumption that I was annoying her and interfering with her life so I told her that I wasn't going to write to her anymore unless she initiated conversation. She got really upset. I asked her if she had met someone new, or had a boyfriend and she said no and that I should know that. She returned the question to me.
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I said No and she appeared to be much happier. I just told her that I was really confused at the moment, and she said that I couldn't imagine how confused she felt too. I don't how to interpret this situation, or just say screw her and move on, but I don't want to make a mistake I would regret either.

Please give me some advice because I don't know what to do
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Can you think of any way to make it work? Being in a similar situation, I feel for you. ):

Whatever you do, do not press her to turn her back on her beliefs/family/culture/whatever.

A friend back home married this Muslim girl and her parents disowned her. Long story short, she has clinical depression now and he wants to end it but he's afraid she'll kill herself.

If it's just not possible OP, then at least try to explain it to her rationally that if an oppurtunity for happiness presents itself to either one of you, that it would be silly not to take it, as you both deserve it. Who knows, later on in life when you have the means or are better equipped to deal with such a situation, things could change. If I believed in a god I'd pray that you two end up together.
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I didn't pressure her, get mad at her or anything. I told her that I understood and said to her that I hope she finds the right person in her life and she got very emotional and started crying. She would randomly start crying on a lot of occasions while we were together. Before I traveled over, she said that the only way we could be together properly would if I became a muslim and I told her I would do that. I know it sounds a bit much, but I have been with girls and all I worry about is being cheated on and I hated having that anxiety, but I never had that with her because.

She showed me her college work while I was there and everything she based it upon was travelling and working in Ireland and having a life here, I just don't understand why she would change her mind like that. When I asked was it because of what her friends and family were saying to her, she admitted that was one off the reasons because they couldn't believe that I would remain faithful. Would I wait 7,8,9 years to be with her? Yes, I would

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This is nagging at me, and I don't know what to do. Am I wrong to dwell on this? How do I move on?

Knew my GF since begging of college. We were good friends, and in last year of college we hooked up and started dating at end of college. Now wrapping up grad school and thinking about moving in together and taking it to next step.

I can't stop thinking about her past. She was somewhat slutty in college, and definitely did somethings in the past that hurt me - slept with a close friend for example. I keep thinking of stories she told me about before we started dating and even at the very start - sleeping with and making a sex tape with some super hung dude, banging some exchange student behind a shed after just meeting him at a party that night (I fucking still have a vivid memory of her dancing on him and them leaving then coming back to that party). I mean, she wasn't my girlfriend at the time so logically I feel like I can't get mad, but still I can't stop thinking about things she did in the past. She still has these flirty, slutty tendencies, and there was a rocky period where she got super close to some utter, ugly loser from work. I keep wondering if this is someone I want to get super serious with, potentially marry.

How do I move forward? Do I talk to her about my feelings? I've been having a really hard time recently reconciling this.
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>>17070884
There's higher quality girls out there, dude.

Don't be a cuck.
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Sounds like you need some basic talk therapy.

Who someone is yesterday doesn't mean they will be or are that person tomorrow. People change. Their opinion on how to live changes. Their values in lif change. If the current person your partner is is someone that fits very well with you, then that is what's really important.

Now, if she hasnt changed, if she still has more than just a nagging fantasy every now and then about fucking some new guy behind a shed, or getting plowed by big black Darrell, then you have grounds for ending the relationship. That's up to you to decide.

You move forward by accepting the person as who they are. Acceptance and wanting to be with someone is key.

As far as talking to her about your feelings, I would suggest you do so in a way that allows her to tell the truth about who she is now. "I still have thoughts of you making a sex tape. How do you feel about that?" Of course, if she is a different person, it will just come off as insecurity on your end. But, really, it is insecurity on your end.

My advice is that if you believe she's with you and you want to be with her, to stay with her and set her past aside.
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>trying to wife a slut

What could possibly go wrong? Listen to your instinct OP, run the fuck away.

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years, living together for two. It hasn't always been roses, but we love each other and we're willing to try to get better at communicating blah blah blah.
But last month his brother died and it's sent him in to this existential crisis, one that I did not handle well. It seems so obvious what a shit bag I was being now, but I didn't even notice it at the time. He wanted to start going out a lot more and he works in the morning and I work at night so we don't see each other as is. I was giving him a hard time about not seeing each other. I didn't realize how much he needed to be going out.
Anyway we got in to a fight and he left. I was a mess, hysterically crying on the floor and he just walked around me and left. He came back the next day and said he needed time to figure himself out after his brother died. I offered him a month and he took it.
It's been less than a week and I feel like I'm dying. I throw up anything I even try to eat. I'm in a constant state of such high anxiety I don't know how much longer I can take it. I feel that if he wants to be with me it won't take him a whole month to figure it out.
I just want to know if it sounds like I should be moving on or should I be holding out hope? And how to deal with the physical symptoms of heartbreak?
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>>17070764
Let me get this straight. You treated him like crap and he asked you for a month and after a week you feel like moving on?

By all means then, do him a favor and let him find someone who actually appreciates him.
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>>17070764

you sound like spoiled little brat. Its all about you isnt it? Your bf was depressed after his brother died and you were givng him crap because he didnt pay as much attention to you.

Fuck you bitch
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>>17070774
I wouldn't say like crap. I just wanted to spend time together. And no I don't want to move on. I want more than anything for him to come home. I miss him so much it's making me physically ill. I'm just scared I'm sitting at home crying and throwing up and he's out there having the time of his life and I don't want to prolong feeling like this for a month if at the end of it he's just going to break it off. I'd rather find out sooner than later.

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So my fiancee has a steam "friend" who chats with her constantly.

In the morning, while she's at work , while she's at school and basically all through the day.

Basically at least twice as much as we do. I've seen their chats and it's full of flirting and has been escalating to "I miss playing you" and heart emojis.

This is making me uncomfortable but she says I'd be uncomfortable with ANY male friendship she has and, she's right. I view friendship with the opposite sex as at the very least back up partners and at the worst romantic rivals.

But she says she wants male friends recently because"they're easier to talk to and less dramatic than girls".

They're only steam friends and aren't facebook friends or have each others numbers and she doesn't have snapchat. But can I really trust this? Am I just supposed to trust her while she develops a relationship with a guy who most likely is trying to bang her.
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>>17070717
I had a similar situation very recently, OP. My advice? Cut this shit while you can. As her fiancee, you actually have some authority here man, fucking take it. If they're talking all day and sending flirty messages that isn't cool, it doesn't matter if it's on Steam or Facebook or whatever. I had a very, very similar situation to yours OP, and I fucking lost her.
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>>17070777
What happened?
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>>17070717
how do they "flirt"? because i've seen guys who accuse guys of flirting for merely saying "hello :3" which some faggots do to greet girls.

i dunno op, i guess i'm kinda like your girl, except i spam heart emojis to both girls and guys, so its not like i treat them any differently. i only "flirt" with my girl friends though.

but when i do notice guys flirting, i'll let them know my bf wouldn't appreciate that and thank them for whatever compliments they give me. they'll usually back down from there and disappear, in which case, is no great loss since they weren't true friends.

and in the case that your gf denies if he's flirting or has feelings for her; she is likely lying and in pure denial and "playing dumb", which a lot of female friends i know do to get away with attention whoring. i dunno if it'll make you feel better or not, but usually, it's just to use guys for validation/attention and they do not necessarily have feelings for the other person.

let her handle this one op. if she cheats, she cheats... then you dump her. it would've happened in the long run anyway. she will otherwise use the excuse that you're suffocating her, in which case, she is also correct... she should be "allowed" to make whatever kind of friends she likes, male or female, but hopefully have the maturity to set any boundaries needed to respect your relationship.

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Question to the femanons: are you bitter?
I mean lots of guys on 4chan cry about gender roles and how men are supposed to do a lot of shut for pussy while the girl doesn't have to do anything. That world view is jaded and destructive, that's for sure, as adopting it will yield nothing but pain and hate for yourself.
However, there is some truth in there. I see lots of guys in my vicinity completely pussy whipped, doing everything and demeaning themselves for a girl to pay them attention. And they're doing it all the same way.
Now femanons, I guess a lot of you notice that too, do you feel bitter about it, seeing that at least 90% if guys just do the same for your attention? Do you try to evade those guys or just roll with it and get free stuff?
>inb4 tl;dr
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>>17069954
>get free stuff

hard to say no to free stuff

not my fault men are dumb enough to do anything for the chance to fuck
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It's not my fault the guys you know are spineless and put women on a pedestal
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>>17069954
I feel sorry for the UGLY chicks, it's like they don't exist.

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I am stuck in a massive rut. I am 28 years old, had to move back with my parents. Because of my massive debt.

I have $20,000 in Student Loan Debt, and $10,000 in Medical Debt. I currently pay a total of $400 a month to pay this debt

Since I have had to move in with my parents, they began charging me rent and I have had to pay more than my share of the utilities (more than half), and buy my own food. This isn't bad, but the problem is. I only work for $9 an hour. Full time, sometimes I have overtime. I have no money at the end of the month. My job is down the road so I had to sell my car and I walk just to save money on gas and not have to deal with insurance.

They charge me so much, I have little money for food and I normally eat only three small meals a week.

I have little options for new employment. I work hard at my job, but I feel it would be gauche to ask for a large enough raise to get another car and move back away from home.

Very few places in my area pay more than $10 an hour starting out, and I do not have the means to move to an area with better paying job.

What can I do to fix this?
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>>17068609

Got any savings?
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Why are your parents such dicks to you?
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Sucks to be you, should have gotten a good degree instead of the dogshit one you've chosen.

My advice would be maybe you should ask for duties instead of paying that much in rent. Like cleaning, mowing, etc in supplementation to the charge of rent.

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hey /adv/ I'm overweight, what do?
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>>17068364
>>>/fit/
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>>17068364
Recognize that you are overweight. Want to not be overweight. Read Eat to Live and realize that you have a shitty diet. Change your life.
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>>17068364
Eat less, exercise more, don't drink soda, don't eat chips.

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Just what the fuck is wrong with normies in general? I cant fucking stand them.

They are loud, obnoxious and stupid, and this shit is driving me insane.

Like today in Class some faggot brought up the topic of the new StarWars movie and I was on a highway to cringe town when some dude said: ''Yeah I just left at half of the movie I couldnt stand shit XD'', some other whore said ''Lol yeah Like who was that Skywalker guy I looked out for it on my phone'', ''Yeah and that evil dude I was wondering if that was like Darth Vader 2 or smthing hahahaha''.

Jesus christ, this normie generation sucks.

How do I deal with normie behaviour without fucking killing these faggots?
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holy shit shut up. this is so annoying god damn dude. this post is like a guy who won't stop talking while watching a movie.
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>>17068292

So are you here to offer advice or...?
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>>17068284
Wowwow, normies have existed in all generations in the first place. 2nd, you have 4Chan to be with us non-normies. Tells us more about these faggots.

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I can't get over my ex. I left him 7 months ago, i still think about him every day, i still think he's amazing, we were together for 7 years, he is always on my mind, i've tried so hard to get over him, i've tried not talking to him for a few months, ive tried being friends with him, ive tried dating other people, none of it works or gets him out of my head.

I don't know what to do. I can't get back with him, it took so much courage and strength to leave him, i cant go back on that decision.
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>>17068130

Why did you dump him?
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>>17068138
He had become emotionally distant and wasn't there for me when i needed him.

I feel bad because since we split he went to a lot of therapy sessions and ive really noticed a positive change in him. He's the man now i always knew he was inside, but i don't get to have him now. A cruel trick of the universe, after i leave, then he makes the changes..
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>>17068130
so stop being a faggot and tell him your feelings?

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So I went with this guy for drinks yesterday. It was my idea and it wasn't meant to be a date, but he was down with it. He wanted to pay for my drinks and food but I told him I'll pay for myself, we chatted a bit and had loads of laugh, it was a fun evening in general.

Now, we are kinda friends, so it's pretty normal that he texts every othet day or so. But after that evening he writes to almost all the time since yesterday and I was wondering if it means anything? He didn't try any moves on our meeting but now he's being extra clingy (not that I mind) and I just don't know if it means anything at all.

Maybe guys (and girls) from /adv/ could help me figure this out?
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>>17068105
did you explicitly tell him it was not meant as a date?
Otherwise i'd say he's into you and acting patient, but is definitely interested
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>>17068118
No, I didn't tell him that explicitly, but I think it was pretty clear since we didn't go anywhere fancy and I wasn't being seductive or something
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Sure it wasn't a date but you still met someone. It sounds like you might like him back as you don't mind the attention. I would say clear it up, you can't accept the attention positively but jerk him around if he wants to hang out again. Straighten out expectations now.

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