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I have asked this to several doctors and they all tell me it's not a problem, or they just shrug. So I am posting here in the hopes that maybe someone can relate, or have somewhat of an answer.

Often I feel a "pulse" in my brain, like there's a heartbeat inside my brain. It doesn't really HURT, but it's annoying, distracting, and disconcerting, and makes it hard to relax or concentrate. Sometimes it gets worse than others. Today it's really bad; it feels like my brain is pulsing something fierce. Tends to get worse after I drink alcohol.

So does anyone know if this could mean anything? It FEELS like it shouldn't be happening, and yet, again several doctors have told me it's not a big deal at all. But I just can't shake the feeling; it really feels like something is happening that should not be happening.
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It's perfectly normal, I have sometimes too
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Maybe you need to drink WATER
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It's not a big deal - happens to me sometimes too. It happens when you drink alcohol because your blood vessels are dilating and leaving your dehydrated. Drink more water.

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>Be me
>Strike up convo with woman while walking down street, she offers her №
>Opening up new contact window on my phone
>Group of homeless natives on side of pavement, happen to be in direction my phone is pointing
>Homeless woman shouts at me
>"Hey! Hey, black guy! Stop pointing your phone at me. I don't care if you're taking a picture."
>Me: "Oh, s-sorry"
>Point phone away from her even though I wasn't even taking a picture of her in the first place and wasn't concerning myself with them at all.

Did I fuck up by apologizing to somebody I literally did nothing to in front of a woman I was just meeting? I mean, it's not like I could have asserted myself, as interrupting my interaction with the woman I was talking with to get in a verbal conflict with some crazy vagrant would just have been low-class. But I feel like the way I handled it, I looked spineless and contemptible as fuck.

Stupidest part is that I had an actual camera hanging around my neck. WHY WOULD I WANT TO TAKE A SHITTY CELL PHONE PIC WHEN I'VE GOT AN ACTUAL CAMERA.
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The correct response is to say, "Fuck you home bum! I don't respect you!" and spit in her direction.
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>>18729062
this
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I think it just made you look like a black guy instead of a nigger

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
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It hurts me that I'll never be able to call a girl "princess".
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maybe that's not the best thread for it, but what are some good truth and dare questions? I don't really want an orgy, I'd rather have some deep conversations and opportunity to know someone better.
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>>18728968
Dude, you got a handful of replies, women don't share universal opinions. Don't despair. Some girls actively advertise themselves as princesses.

>>18728969
>would you rather turn out more like your mother or your father and why
>what's the most out of character thing you ever did and did you enjoy it
>would you rather travel to the future or past and why
>what do you personally find your most annoying habit and most serious character flaw
>if you could do one thing and get away with it (whether it's illegal, not socially acceptable etc) what would it be
>if you could pick your own fetish/kinks, what would you choose and why
>what's the most hurtful information you withheld from anyone not present here
>how do you think other people perceive you and what would you like to change about that/how does it differ from how you see yourself
>what is your most controversial opinion
>what's the most uncomfortable situation you've been in with someone present here
>in what ways did you turn out the ways you hoped as a kid, and in what ways not

Some suggestions. I'm not as great with dares, I've never really played truth or dare without it just winding up being all truth. The grey area between lame and crossing a line is pretty thin in my experience. Maybe stuff like needing to improvise a dance to a song they never heard before while the rest watches, showing off the weirdest thing they can physically do (like lick a toe or curl up their tongue), tasting different things with their eyes closed.

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I apoligize in advance for the long post but as you can see above, I'm pissed /adv/, I just got written up for the most ridiculous thing ever but ill give some context to it
>worked at this job for almost a year
>every coworker/manager knows me and is friendly
>do like 90% of the work and multi task operate the baler, use pallet jacks, ring people up, put stock out on the floor in one shift
>NEVER late or called in sick
>never talked back to my supervisors or managers and did exactly what I was told
>a couple of weeks ago me and my co worker come back from break and we usually like to regroup in the stockroom to see what we need to do and walk back to the manager for them to tell is what to do
>manager told us that we shouldent work together even though we're in the same department and we get shit done faster
>shrug it off as nothing
>fast toward
>me and coworker come back from break again (we're the morning crew and the managers usually come in later)
>go into stockroom and we decide what to do and split work up between me and him
>manager sees us both again with the merchandise out
>after my shift ends she brings me into the office to talk to me privately saying that when we split up the work it's "reductive" and that we have to wait for the managers to tell us what to do (they, months ago, made a huge speech about "taking initiative")
>tells me she's writing something to confirm we had this discussion (she's basically writing me up) and will talk to me again next week
I've heard from other people this means she'll give me a form to sign to confirm that I acknowledge the warning, so is there anything I can do to prevent this from happening, is there a way I can do a counter write up (write a complaint), or lessen the damage done, this was my first job and I'm very pissed now that I can't use this as a fucking future reference because they can be consistent in what they want us to do, what should I do from here?
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>>18728947
I also would like to mention, that this kind of thing only happened two times, she never warned me or said she didn't like that she just told me and him to split, it wasn't like I did this like 20 times it was even acouple weeks apart
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>>18728947
Explain to your boss that you feel that the work is getting done and that this discussion is counterproductive, and a hit to team morale. If she get's all in your face just take it to her manager and reverse the situation. If they're really really stickler on micromanaging you guys then it's time to quit. Jobs like that are a dime a dozen.
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>>18728947
This is my experience with managers at entry-level jobs everywhere. They don't actually care about the work getting done, they just care about their underlings doing as they're told and not rocking the boat. The writeup is nothing, don't worry about it. But if you think you're going to get brownie points for doing your job quickly and efficiently, think again. Brownie points are reserved for sucking up to the boss in the most comically obvious way possible.

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>NEET
>Crappy job
>Want to make a living off of my artwork
>Can do?
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>>18728925
Is that your artwork? If so, you don't have anything to worry about. If you're a crappy anime artist then you should find a fandom to draw porn for since neckbeards have a lot of money for their diaper scat pregnant furry fetish.
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>>18728950

Not my work, but I am not too bad and have been commissioned in the past.
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>>18728925
It's a lot of work. You don't just need skills to be able to draw, but it's very much also being a social person and being very good at marketing yourself. Any good at that?

Theres an Asian prostitute in my apartment building who has been sucking my dick for free for about a month. The thing is, I'm not sure why, we don't talk much, I helped her out with one thing ages ago. She knocks on my door, I let her in, I sit on the couch and she sucks me off, and then gets up and leaves. Why does she do it?
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>>18728692

Why you complaining?
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>>18728692
She's trying to get you to want more and pay her for sex. She's trying to get you hooked
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I hope you're wearing a rubber for that bruh.

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>be me
>be neet
>somehow I get a job at a local shop
>things go well at the beginning, but as time passes, my inexperience is starting to get noticed by everyone
>every single day I do things wrong, slow or I screw something up
>my boss and my partners are always like "it's ok, we now you're learning"
>feel like shit because I slow down them because they have to help me
>today I get the courage to quit in order to let some better take my job
>feel like crap because I'm a useless piece of shit and I let down everyone that trusted me

Did I do the right thing? I just didn't want to make the others uncomfortable anymore
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You did good, anon.
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>>18728660
What was your job and how long were you working there?
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>>18728664
Can you please tell me why?

>>18728670
I had to do many things. My main job was being in the shop and selling the products (which involves knowing what each product does, their prices, their quality, etc). Then I had to receive the boxes in which the products come (which are really heavy for my standars) and put them in the storage room. Also arranging the products in their places, cleaning the store, etc. Everything you do in a normal shop

I'd been working there every single day for the last month.

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>find a band(I play the drums)
>there's a qt there, 18 years old
>after rehearsal, at around 3 am, she texts me, seems like she's into me
>we start flirting
>friend from the band told me she's a virgin so I flirted more romantically, instead of going sexual
>ask her out
>she says yes, it was kinda awkward but I got her to break the ice, didn't make a move though
>she doesn't stop texting me all the time, we flirt constantly (ie how I'm gonna steal her one night and such lame romantic shit, but she seems to dig it)
>ask her a second time out
>she says yes
>this time, atmosphere is chill as fuck, she looks at me smiling and I go for the kiss

>she freaks the FUCK out, asking me what I am doing
>keep my spaghetti and tell her sorry if I rushed it
>she looks at me all puzzled and tells me she thought I was her friend
>tell her I don't see her as a friend, what the fuck?
>she asked me to remain friends, I told her no thanks and to stop texting me if all she wants is to be friends
>she hasn't me texted me since then

I know I'm kinda autistic but how the fuck did she think this shit was all friendly? She was sending me non-nude pics but provocative as fuck as well

Am I the retarded one here? How the fuck did I manage to get friendzoned like this
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She just doesnt know which way is up man. If you arent willing to be her friend then its pretty clear youre just in it for the snatch which isnt healthy anon.
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This is probably what she does with her friends. Or shes bipolar as fuck.
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>>18728503
I don't think it's unhealthy not to be in the friendzone

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My bf wont have sex with me

He is always too tored from work
I try to be patient and wait until the weekend to ASK for sex.
I get boned maybe* x1 a week

I can't stand it
Is it me? What could be causing him such disinterest?
I am really sad/tired of being rejected..
>What do?
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do you smell?
do you shave?
are you fat?
are you loose?
are you a starfish?
is he fat?
is he eating properly?
is he sleeping properly?

many reasons
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Some details

>He is in his early 30's
>I am 10 yrs you ger than him
But I do not think his libido should be this low for only sex x1 a week?

We work out together
Go places all of the time
Visit friends
Have fun in general

I talk to no other men that are not blood relatives
I will avoid becoming friends with guys so he can feel secure

I take care of hom
(Laundry, groceries, cooking, cleaning)
The whole bit

Why can't I get the D!!
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Wake him up with a bj then bend over and he will get the idea. Do this everyday btw until youre satisfied.

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Is my husband cheating on me?

>used to have sex at least once a day
>he longer seems nearly as eager
>said he was working late last week and would sleep in his office, but his phone tracking app had him in some suburb
>one day he came home late and I tried to jump his bones and he basically ran away and jumped in the shower
>trims his pubic hair now
>asked him and he said he just wanted to, asked my friend who's dating a friend of his and he said his girl likes a groomed man (i never said this)

hmmm?
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>>18726125
Sounds like it but who knows
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Probably. Are you going to confront him about it?
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Yeah, he probably trims his pubic hair for the fuck of it. All my male friends do this.

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This sack of shit 12.9 year old wannabe rapper just slapped the donut I paid for with my last dollar out of my hand when I only took there nibbled out of it do I could share it with my brother who is depressed how do I get my revenge and ruin him
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>>18725424
>>18725424
Anon, you have to act fast, there is little time.

Get to his house and tie his mom up with some rope. Set up a contraption that will force her to drink an entire bottle of lemon juice. Done, leave her there to be found. This will assert your dominance over his parental figure, which is very important in your grand scheme.

After completing your first task, go out to his backyard and dig a pitfall trap. Do your best to cover it enough that he won't notice and place a bling necklace as bait. Any rapper can't resist a quality gold chain.

There's only one step left. Can you finish your revenge quickly enough? Prepare yourself a large bucket of soapy water and cover it with a lid. Load the bucket into the back of your car. Climb down into the pitfall and tie up your prey. Knock him out if you have to, whatever you think is necessary for ease of transport. Throw him in the trunk and drive down to the nearest railroad tracks. Wait for a passing freight train and throw him on the tracks. I recommend eye protection as he will most likely burst. Wash yourself off using the soapy water from the bucket, then head to a truck-stop to take an actual shower.

Congratulations, you've won.
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Don't even know why I asked 4chan for help and I'm not really mad anymore but thanks anyways

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Today I start a new phase of my life, after failing my first university degree. I am moving on to do a degree in another college, but part of me is asking why I had to follow my parent's wishes to continue going to college when my first two years in university have been so unpleasant and depressing due a bully culture by the staff in the course. To me, the entire things that 'college is meant to be the best days of your life' is a lie and since I've been fooled once, I don't want to be fooled again, and I don't want to stagnate another 3 years of my life to just get a degree so that I can aim for a graduate scheme or good paying job that is unrelated to my studies.

I do want to drop out and start my own business importing oriental goods into this country, I know that it will be lucrative given the demand for such things and the lack of suppliers in the United Kingdom, and I do have connections to Asia because I have lived there before. I don't understand all the legalities and paperwork to business yet but I can learn, and I have had 3 years of retail experience being a part time manager in a Waitrose Store, and I've picked up skills such as changing a baler, personnel management, store lock up etc. My parents think I'm too young to get out into the real world, but is 21 years of age too young to start a business or should I just tolerate university for another 3 years to have a degree and then pursue my interests?
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>>18730731
21 is not too young to start a business. But it is too young to start the type of business that you are talking about. Because the business you are talking about requires a large amount of capital. You need a lot of people to do a job like that and with a lot of labor comes a lot of auxiliary people that cost a butt load of money. You could never achieve the capital for this.

I personally don't think that dropping out of college is the right move. In fact, applying yourself to learning about business and economics, accounting then going on and learning specifically about shipping businesses, and mercantilism would be a much more rich and rewarding path in life.

On another note though. Usually when young people make it big, they usually never have a widely widely lucrative first business. Maybe they make a few hundred k or a few million. But compared to the investment in that company sometimes $0 there returns are absolutely astonishing. This is why coding seems to be like such a lucrative market. Many young coders might not make 50 mill but so many become rich from the products they create.

There are other businesses like this, it's not just computer coding you just have to be savvy.
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>>18730731
Do what you want. Not what your parents want lol. You're an adult for fuck sake, take some initiative and self direction here. College is a pure waste of time for 70% of people these days anyway - and only becoming more irrelevant as the years roll by.

Bottom line is, do what's best for you. If you're old enough to be in college then you're old enough to not be following your parents orders.
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Skimmed through your post. I will say, don't do university if you don't want to do it. You need to be motivated to attend your lectures, study for exams, and write/edit your papers -- no one is going to do that for you. The end result, from being unmotivated to do something, is always failure.

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Dude if you're seeing this I fucked up by giving you an e-mail adress that doesn't even let me send messages.

Anyway... does anybody know if there is a way to reply to emails if i created an adress on ThrowAwayMail? I did it on mobile and it doesn't even let me hover over the sender's name to see the full adress. Is there a way to access my inbox on another website?
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And a bump
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another bumperino and i'm gone
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kys

>ugly guy with a fresh tech degree who can't promote himself, lacking self confidence
>Found a job after searching for a year
>work a few months
>pay is shit
>work is dumbing me down
>colleague tries to make me uncomfortable and quit

Looks like I have to quit before this wears me down mentally.

My problem is: How do I gain self confidence and lose this fear that I'll be forever jobless? The fear of a shit future. I need a positive attitude when applying for new jobs.
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>>18730692
Don't quit.
Start hunting for a better job.
Get better job.
Then quit.
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>>18730695
The colleague is well liked and talks shit about me. When I talk to the boss about this, I'll be the liar. But I will talk about the shit the guy did to discredit me, thus totally destroying the work environment for me. Being silent will make me weaker and look bad

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Is there a way to get rid of a tattoo without laser.? I have one. I tried coverups but still didnt work out for me. Lasers are expensive.
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>>18730689
Probably if u rub that area for like an hour a day with ur hand after 20 years it wil lbe really faded.
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You can laser it or cut it off thts about it

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