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>>17213777
I love it in Japan and being there is the fastest way to learn. Im not a weeb tho so if you have an idealized view of Japan you might get disillusioned. The culture shock is one of the toughest things, and manners at times can feel almost stifling. Food there is awesome though and younger people are generally friendly. If you go to central Tokyo there are enough foreigners that you won't feel too out of place.

>>17213794
Not a weeb here either.

I don't know who to ask this so sorry but.. Is it possible to smoke dat dank 420 in Japan? Is it easy to get a hold of dealers and not get caught?

>>17213805
Most of my friends do but it's one of the easiest drugs to get caught doing because of the smell. I'd smoke in someone else's apartment if possible because your neighbors will likely narc on you. The japanese have a very narrow view of drugs. Also prices are like 30-50% higher for weed. If you have a decent network of foreigners you can find weed pretty easily.

Porn and real life are two very different things.

You WILL regret it if you care about this chick at all. Cucking is something you try for the first time with a girl who doesn't mean shit to you, not with a long term partner.

Because even if you do end up liking it, if she decides she'll never do it again or starts thinking less of you, that's equally hard to get over once you've opened that box.

>>17213725

depends on the kind of sharing you get off on.

i get off on the same idea, but its the idea that im sharing my girlfriend. so it has to be a guy i seek out and invite over and feel up my girlfriend in front of him, show her off, offer to let him squeeze or do this or that.

if ur into cuckolding go for it but it sounded more like you were only using cuckolding porn cuz its the only one you could find of that variety.

Jesus fuck man, get the dogs to safety, or go off your nut until your family fucking listens.

Those dogs are being hurt for the most retarded of reasons, and it either HAS to stop or the dogs need to be rehomed to somewhere SAFE.

>>17213711
Yeah I mean its obvious we can't keep them. I really would like to but its dangerous at this point because they wont stop being irresponsible. I just dont understand them. My sister feels really bad about it but it was really retarded of her to be carrying two puppies at once, one of which has a broken leg.

>>17213702
This makes me so fucking mad to read. Give those puppies to someone who will take care of them, I couldn't care less what your stupid fucking parents or sister say. Be a big kid and look for a good home for these puppies after getting them properly treated

>>17213697
>called her the next morning to tell her I cheated on her.

And that was the mistake. Cheating is wrong. Telling your gf is stupid.

stop being a faggot

i really mean that

And when I say she "probably" will sleep with someone else... After I told her about it, we broke up and got back together and she told me it wouldn't really be fair if she just slept with one person, so she'd sleep with a few. Then she said she wouldn't sleep with anyone because she can't imagine finding anyone else she wants to sleep with while she's with me. Then she got mad at me for going soft while having sex with her one night, pulled out her phone, and found a guy on tinder to meet for drinks with right then, and came back an hour later. And last week she asked me if I'd still want to be in a relationship with her if she did sleep with someone, then a day or two later asked how I'd feel if she kissed someone.

Then, today, she texted me to ask if we could talk over the phone. When I called, she asked if I'd still want to be in a relationship with her if she had sex with someone else. Afterward, she also said that she usually can't imagine ever finding anyone else she would enjoy being in a relationship with, but can imagine so on the occasions when she thinks about the fact that I cheated on her.

Trial and error?

>>17213659
Like this.

One way could be all four sides are 60 like a square, then 60•60=360

Or try 40/80/40/80. 40•80=320

So right off the bat you might deduce that squares have the highest possible area with that perimeter but not for certain

>>17213651
A = l*w, P = 2*(l+w)

240/2 = l + w, l = 120 - w

A = 120w - w^2, dA/dw = 120 - 2w

When dA/dw = 0, Area is at either max or min, so w = 60, and A = 3600.

Stretch, stretch, and stretch some more. Stay physically fit so that this kind of full-body "exercise" doesn't tire you out. Do it with an empty stomach. Stop if you feel any pain or snapping sensations. Learn not to regret cumming in your own mouth, you sick freak.

If you actually are lonely enough to want to blow yourself that badly maybe you should start by seeing a therapist

>>17213645
What is wrong with wanting to enhance my fapping?

what loss of personal freedom?

>>17213588
Idk...just doin what I want, I guess.

my situation is: Is a long term relationship with a cute and gorgeous girl worth the fact you have basically no sex...

fml

/g/

>>17213591
All those guys were assholes, but thank you anyway. I'll go search on another website.

not sure if youre still in this thread, but i can help.

Sounds fine to me, as long as you didn't come off as a sperg in your FB message.

>>17213555
> Alright I'm gonna come off as a total creep, but this is botherigng me. I found your profile on POF, and I don't think youve been on it in a long time, but for some reason you're staying in the back of my mind. I'd like to talk to you, here or there. If not fair enough, it's weird I'm doing this but I'm not the kind of person to give up.

>>17213558
That's what I sent her btw

>>17213527
Play Simon Says.

Seriously get him high.

>>17213535
He doesn't smoke or drink. Also he cares about sex less than I do which is...terrifying honestly. He wants it less.

He's a virgin just wanting to get rid of the stigma. 100%

>>17213438
Jesus Christ OP. Get a grip dude. It's just a feature that is included in facebook. Who the fuck knows why she checked boxed it. Stop worrying over shit like that.

>>17213454
Yes. But it wasn't checked before I sent a friend request. My action caused that reaction.

I am unsure why she would feel the need to hide her friends. We are adults, this kind of thing I expect from teenagers.

I don't hide shit. I don't understand why she would feel the need to.

Bump

Please I need some insight into this situation.

Ummm can I see your cleavage? And your face?
Plus in this day and age how are you gonna think of you as a whore when I can gurantee any guy with hormones and a dick would bang two rocks together. Girls are no different specially if neither has had sex. The guy probably thought you weren't serious or he probably thinks you are one of those fake catfish. I can however check how you look and confirm or deny your insecurity, ill be honest as well.

you know that thing about dogs chasing cars not knowing what to do with them if they caught one?

seems like whats happening here.

>>17213466
I don't think I'm brave enough to do that here :s

I rarely even show my face to people online, I just did it because he chased me a lot and kept making sexual advances and I was vulnerable.

> The guy probably thought you weren't serious

Explain please. Serious regarding what?

And about catfish, well he has heard me so he knows I am a woman. Honestly I'm not a gorgeous woman so I don't see why he would doubt that the pictures were me. Things changed after that cleavage pic and I'm not very confident about my breasts, now it's even worse. Also I didn't ask his opinion on the picture, I panicked, deleted the pic and told him to not talk about it. But now we pretty much just don't talk anymore. I feel so stupid for what I have done.

>>17213481
I see.... well the joke was on me and now I seem like a desperate loser.

Kek you done goofed.

>>17213343
I know

wat do?

>>17213351
ignore it since it was probably just a guy setting you up to scam you of money and this is part of his scare tactic.

>>17213334
Not really, but if possible go through the proper channels (start at the bottom/front of house and find out who handles hiring).

>>17213334
It is not weird at all, but do what >>17213339 says. Don't just send it to anyone in the industry, make sure it's someone who works in HR. It's got a pretty low success rate, because the company you're contacting won't necessarily be hiring anyone at that time, but it's certainly worth a shot.

>>17213339
What about asking what their company does and the experience you'd need to land a position there?

by the way, here are some things that my boyfriend (been together for about a year now) is similar to my dad
>easily angered (made a thread about this yesterday, but the anons itt seemed to think he was venting in a healthy way since he never tries to intimidate me)
>5 years older than me (dad might've been 6 years older than my mom though)
>have a tan complexion
>has an intimidating appearance/scary looking
>grew up without parents, and in the ghettos, raised by their siblings and otherwise lived a rough life
>also the youngest in their family
>extremely hard working
>were introverts

where the differ
>dad is extremely conservative; hates gays, believes in women's roles, doesn't believe in race mixing, etc. very strict even about food (family could only eat traditional dishes)
>boyfriend is more liberal (he's white, i'm asian), very PC and open-minded
>dad had no friends that i can think of, my bf makes friends wherever he goes
>bf seems to reflect and think about his actions even after being angry or sulky
>dad never apologized for anything

i can add more but this is what comes off the top of my head...

>>17213355
>easily angered

might be a problem

>5 years older than me (dad might've been 6 years older than my mom though)

pretty standard.

>have a tan complexion

irrelevant

>has an intimidating appearance/scary looking

irrelevant unless you're scared of him

>grew up without parents, and in the ghettos, raised by their siblings and otherwise lived a rough life

irrelevant

>also the youngest in their family

irrelevant

>extremely hard working

if your dad was hard working then what's the money laundering all about?

>were introverts

irrelevant

they don't sound very similar except for superficial stuff

>>17213275
>>bf seems to reflect and think about his actions even after being angry or sulky

That sounds like the biggest thing to look for. People get angry, you'll probably at some point fight in your relationship because you're both human. It's important to know you can get past it though. If someone thinks yelling the loudest or being the angriest, or being the most capable of walking out means they WIN the argument.. that's when things are dangerous.

You can't trust your mom's word, because she's already made it clear she'll say things specifically to hurt you. Just take her messages as a coin flip. 50/50 chance, you're not at fault for listening to her or not. She ruined her reliability, not you.

For your partner, focus on your actual relationship. How do you feel? How does he feel? Are you both on the same page? How do you work through things?