At my job there was a guy I really liked for the longest time. I'm too much of a pussy to do much about shit like that, so long story short one of my friends because his fuck buddy(he doesn't do relationships. She went super crazy over him. He and I became friends after. A year later here we are. We had hung out before this so no big deal. I invite him to my place to watch a movie.
>he sits really close
>he starts rubbing his knuckles lightly against my leg
>after movie he asks if he can kiss me
>went to banging pretty fast after that
Afterwards, I joke about texting him at 3 a.m. that I have feelings for him. We laugh about other crap.
Few days later I ask if he'd like to hang out. So we go eat and end up back at my place. We listen to music together.
>Sit in front of record player
>Tells me I can sit with him
>He holds my hand
>Tells me I can rest my head on his shoulders and taps his fingers along to music
Literally one of the best experiences in my life. We didn't do anything else. I drove him home and we held hands the entire way. I honestly don't know if he likes me more than just a friend/fuck buddy. Like I was prepared for just sex and that made me catch serious feels. I feel like there's no way I'm reading too into it. We've been texting and I feel like I'm already acting fucking weird. That shit is not fuck buddyish right? This is new to me
*so long story short one of my friends became his fuck buddy(he doesn't do relationships)
Be upfront and all him. You know he's a fuckboy, so don't get your hopes up.
>>17214688
I really wouldn't say he's a fuckboy. He's told me a lot about himself to where I think not being in relationship is a safe guard.
>Got the grades back from previous semester
>Got D- for one course
>Coursework consists of group essay and an exam
>Suspected that someone plagiarized as I don't think the exam was that hard
I want to ask the people Ive collaborated with to see what mark they got for this course to see if it was really plagiarism. We created a Whatsapp group for our essay group. How should I phrase my question?
>Hey guys, what did you all get? I think proffesor so-and-so didn't like my essay (or some lame excuse like assignment, tardiness or something)
???????????
Is it hard to ask?
>>17214538
Well it is OUR essay not just my essay
>>17214564
>>17214564
I was being general. For me it has always been discussion on our final essays, which happen to be in class essays or research papers.
Posted yesterday, no advice was given.
I have a profession issue:
I've been working at this dream job of mine (Rollercoaster technician)
Well the job is awesome and it pays well, or well, it should pay well:
I've been doing this for almost 18months under doubble extensions of the original 6-month "try out contract" wich pays me about 1000€ less then my fellow technicians.
I mean at the end of the day, I do the same if not more work then my collegues and I still make so much less money!
The idea of the "try-out contract" is that I work 6 months for a smaller sallary while they get a chance to see me in action: "If Im a good fit for the position".
I should, after those 6 months, get a full time contract with full pay but instead the "people holding the cash" decided to just extend the try out for another 6 months! And then when those 6 months were up they did it again!!
I have bills to pay and shit to buy! + I'm trying to find a better apt and "I don't have a full time contract" usually don't sit well with the landlords.
Anyways..
My current 6 months are almost fulfilled and I really want to get the full time contract this time!
I want to send some pressure up the chain of command and make them atleast think about it.
>What do I do?
Also: My boss isn't the problem, he wants to give me the contract, it's higher up the chain where they're being cheap.
I love this job, I just can't walk away. After this any other job will feel dull so...
I'm sorry to hear that anon. This happens a lot in Mexico too, but sadly I'm not from there and cannot give advice. Any form of legal help or a union to turn to? It's really fucked to get renewed for a contract meant for beginners. I think it's best not to sign, but you could also not be guaranteed a job elsewhere.
so there was a contract involved?
sue. fuck em, you've been fucked three times now and they haven't even sucked you off.
>>17214518
But if I sue them = Very unlikely I'll get the job.
As a guy who usually don't like to work, I've found what I want to do: This shit!
I was so bored working production lines (Original education: Industrial Technician) but I know I want to work with Technologies and it doesn't get much cooler then climbing coasters!
I can't just leave, not when Im this close to getting it, there's no guarantee that I get a chance to work with this kind of thing again.
Last year around this time I met a guy. It was funny because when we talked I blushed hard and I turned away from him after like two sentences. Even funnier he did the same I think. I got this gut feeling to check his pants. We were at the gym by the way. He does the most awkward thing and turns around, lays on the bench, and starts doing barbells. He does 3 or 4 of them. I instinctively get this feeling to check his pants because I felt like he liked me. I swear I saw a nob in his gym shorts But my memory is so fuzzy I can't trust this memory. He tells me his name before I leave towards the end of my workout moments later, I never see him again for an entire year. I did think about him over the year, almost in disbelief if he existed or not, he seemed like my perfect husband, but I was taking it for granted because he wasn't around and I was busy with college. To my surprise this monday, I'm back in my hometown from college, I get a gym membership, and I am doing a workout looking at the mirror. I thought moments before I wonder if I'll ever run into him again. He walks in the door, I can see him in the mirror, I recognize his body shape, but i write it off and convince myself it was not him. He was kind of blurry because I wasn't wearing my glasses. I just keep doing my workout, and I hear him come say "why arent you driving your BMW today". I never told him what car i drove. I mean it was the only one in the parking lot last year when we met, but still how did he remember me, how did he remember what i drove without me confirming it? Anyways he goes into the treadmill room. And i can't stop my body, i follow him. I just casually mount the treadmill right next to his. He talks to me the entire time before I had to leave to get ready for work like i told him. He is turned towards me the entire time whlie hes jogging on the treadmill. I can't believe anything thats happening, i convinced myself not to think anything of it.
>>17214499
give me a minute to post the rest
>>17214499
He told me where he worked, he told me about his car painting hobby. He showed me pictures on his phone. Like was it too much? Should i be suspicious? I guess it was casual enough to not freak me out? Anyways the part that didn't get me was the fact he talked to me for so long especially because I cant think of any other motive for it other than interest. I tell him I have to go, he stops running and actually walks me out a ways out of the gym, not to the door, but like far enough to make me question what he was doing. We have only just met right? I remembered to tell him my name. God I'm such a robot, I wish I had done something more obvious, but playing this stupid gay game is so hard. I hope he understands why I was holding back. Anyways, I am smitten I go home. Then i feel doom because I want to see him again and I can't wait another day. A day goes by and im on the verge of tears and a psychotic breakdown. I promised I would go to the gym every day at the same time so I would see him again. He wasnt there the next day. I knew this would happen, especially since he told me he just worked out whenever his schedule allowed him to because of his job. The second day, I am on my way to the gym. I had diahrea all morning, and I decided to take a detour to the grocery store. I see his car outside and I park 2 spots from his. I run inside looking through the aisles trying to find him. Theres this lady i almost run into she jumps as I'm rushing through the aisles. Anyways hes nowhere in sight, and I just get my stuff and go to the checkout. At the checout i forgot to bring my wallet from my car, I walk outside in hopes of seeing him at his car maybe in case i missed him in the grocery store. I end up seeing the lady i spooked, loading his car with groceries. It was his mom. I go to my car and pick up my wallet, turn around and ask her "did you paint your car". She laughs and says no her son painted it for her. She then tells me
>>17214499
she then tells me about her son how he was in his late 20s, how he did this as a hobby/business. It was so weird because she then starts asking questions about me: like did i speak spanish too? yes. Are you from around here? yes. And then she says do u want his busniess card? yes. she doesnt have one and asks to write my number out of nowhere? like was this too forceful? i agreed. HEres where im feeling real cognitive dissonance. I was so intoxicated by him, i honestly dont remember what number I gave this lady. anyways she then compliments me on how pretty my eyes were etc etc. and the entire time i got the feeling that the man of my dreams might just be gay because of how his mom was acting. it was so familiar. like it was like she was trying to find a suitor for her son with her questions. I am assuming he still lives with his mom because of how she said she was driving his car because she had to pick him up at work later that day. She then asks me "what time do you want him to call you" im thinking really lady? this is sounding more personal and less professional. but inside i was jumping with joy. I tell her anytime he wants i guess. She then asks me if i worked at the grocery store because i was walking back towards the inside of it. i say no, and i tell her where i really worked, etc. And she left. Anyways, it has been two whole days since i met his mom. And i have not seen him at the gym, or received a text from him. I dont know what to think of all this mess, there are too many coincidences. I have been right before about my assumptions, but the fact he hasnt called me , is really fucking me over. I know i will get my answer soon because i will run into him eventually. But what can i assume right now to keep my peace of mind? I cant confirm if hes gay, i cant confirm if he likes me. All i can compare this to is the fact no one talks to me and the only people who have ever actually talked (cont)
For those who have graduated from uni, realistically what's the difference between having "good" grades and just passing if all you're going for is a bachelors?
I'm working towards becoming a Pharmaceutical Sales Rep, and ever since I got accepted into a fairly prestigious Uni, and then it's Biochemistry department I've just...not given a shit about my grades. Talked to counselors and even they tell me none of my employers have to see my grades if I just don't include it in my resume.
It's just a little demoralizing. Here I worked so hard to get where I am now, and now in my last year of school I feel like nothing matters as long as I pass.
They don't have to see your grades but if you graduate with honors that is a bonus. Also don't think of it only as "how will this look to employeers" but also as "how will this prepare me for a future career"
>>17214441
I agree with this. Graduating from a well known school is probably the main point, but if you can add "Graduated cum laude" or whatever to your resume that's just icing.
>>17214441
I don't quite see the difference. I don't plan on changing my career, and promotions/more money will just come with greater experience and my own accomplishments as a sales rep.
Perhaps this is just the case for myself, but I feel like it's the same for other jobs as well. Teachers for example I'm sure are not treated differently depending on their grades.
What do you do if you call a girl and she blows you off?
The first time I called she seemed pretty into it and we set up a date. I got busy so we cancelled and left it for a few weeks. Then I called again and she basically tried to hang up as soon as possible. It hurt.
When is it too early to call again? Or is it too late, and should I give up?
>>17214422
>and left it for a few weeks
That seems like a long time. Was she aware you'd be leaving it that long? It sounds like she's over it and not interested anymore.
Been there. Actually, AM there. I don't want to tell you to give up because I wouldn't want to hear that right now.. but your time is running out if it isn't already.
It's been almost two months and we haven't even spoke.. she just watches all my snapchat stories and favorites my tweets
>>17214431
>>17214436
>Was she aware you'd be leaving it that long? I
Nah, that was a fatal mistake. I should've said something.
Do you think the interest can come back? Or am I just gonna be that creepy stranger if I keep calling?
I don't understand people man, why are there time limits on these things?
The woman that I'm currently attracted to and want to make my girlfriend it a massive slut, and there is no way around this. I don't fuck around with casual sex or frivolous relationships, and I know when I have a connection with a woman that will lead to a long term relationship.
How am I supposed to reconcile her slutiness with my desire to be the man in her life? I feel like I'm only setting myself up for something horrible.
possibly you're going to need to get to know the sexual health clinic really well
>>17214406
That's one of my biggest concerns honestly. Fuck, I just know I'm going to have to undergo so much bullshit just to get this woman into my life and honestly, it makes me mad. In addition to going through all this medical shit, I'm going to have to dedicate literally all of my effort into breaking her sexually so she doesn't want to fuck anyone else but me.
Right,
CAN /ADV/ TELL ME WHAT THIS IS?! IT REEKS LIKE SHIT AND IT'S RUINING THE CARPET HELP
>>17214295
Take a closer and better picture.
>>17214295
Looks like shit, boss. That or someone has been ejaculating in that exact spot for months.
>>17214295
It's shit OP
Girl i was dating just cuts off all contact with me. We would always text each other, Staying up all night talking, checking up on each other and i really thought she was someone i could have a serious relationship with. Then she justs stops and i can't get a hold of her. I don't understand.
Did something change the last few days you were talking?
its just a form of breaking up
its called ghosting
>>17214261
She met someone else.
I love you all
i love you too anon
I love you all too.
I'm gonna leave some music for ya'll to feel to.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Z-l9IUBOqM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A_2HaVGvXdg
My balls itch really bad even tho I showered and cleaned them
How?
Yeast infection.
>>17214206
But that happens to girls
>>17214214
Jock itch is caused by a fungi, you should take a bath with epsom salts and lemon juice
18 years old, enrolling to a new high school to do my senior year, except this high school is extremely dero, kids don't care about learning, sluts caking themselves, 14 year olds acting like lads, teachers impose a fixed mindset - Should I be worried? I like school but i'm worried that my average will be dragged down by those kids. Also, this school seems to have such a high concentration of dipshittery that I'm worried that there won't be that one group of kissless virgin/autists I can befriend to help scale my grades up towards outlier territory. What do?
what?
it's your senior year, who the fuck gives a shit what the school is like. shouldn't you be more worried about college?
stop being a faggot
>>17214153
>seeking out the autists and losers to hang with
Haha what
Any medfags around? I took some blunt force to the chest at work on Monday and this is the aftermath. Its not even painful, its numb and itchy at this point. Do I seek medical attention or should I be ok?
>>17214128
Did you report this to your supervisor? Yes, seek medical attention.
>>17214130
Yeah, we filed an incedent report. All those bases have been covered.
you're bleeding internally idiot go to the hospital
How do I get over my anxiousness at the gym. When I go, I'll do my workout that my /fit/ friend wrote up for me but I feel very self conscious when I'm besides a guy who is benching more than I weigh.
He doesn't care. He's to busy lifting to make fun of you. If anything hes glad more people are trying to stay in shape.
If he actually thinks otherwise, he is an asshole, and it is legally acceptable to punch assholes in the face.
>>17214085
Lol dude I can't even bench the bar for more than 10 seconds
no one cares about you dude
literally
you know why gyms are wall-to-wall in mirrors? it's to look at yourself. people are way too busy dealing with their reps or looking at themselves in the mirror to notice the guy benching 5s
Last night I learned from my girlfriend that her ex was an abusive piece of trash. He forced himself on her several times. There was a time that they thought she was pregnant- She wasn't. She then said she wanted to break up and he beat the hell out of her.
She might not be able to have children.
She didn't tell anyone but me and another ex. I want this guy in prison or dead but I have no name and no real evidence. If I found out other exes of his that had similar experiences would there be a chance of putting this guy behind bars?
What the fuck do I do...
>>17214043
How long have you dated your girlfriend?
>>17214043
>If I found out other exes of his that had similar experiences would there be a chance of putting this guy behind bars?
yes
>What the fuck do I do...
get name, stake him out, beat him with a crowbar when he's coming home from work, feel satisfied.
>>17214043
If she didn't go to the police herself, it's because she was scared of him or the justice system, and doesn't want to relive it. I know it's bullshit but you're gonna have to let it go, and hope she heals. Doing anything to him might make her fear retaliation.