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How close are you? I suggest just plain ol' communication. But what specifically do you love about the woman? Is it personality or pure animalistic urges?

>closeted transfer woman who likes guys

Nigga you are just a gaya guy, specifically the foggiest of the fans.

>>17213469
>gay
>faggiest

Fucking new phone's autocorrect is a shit

hes just not that into you

Leave him and find someone that wants to spend time with you.

You are simply a fuck toy to him.

Are you sure you're bf and gf?

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>>17212813
btw I initiated the breakup a couple years back. she was shy and rather depressed and I left like a jackass because she never wanted to do anything or go out and be under the sun. A lot of common friends said she was really hurt by it and I felt bad, but I felt like I was being selfish and demanding a lot out of her at the same time, but I was also worried about her.

>>17212837
Wait until you see her in person to catch up. It'll hopefully give you a chance to say what you said after your first post

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>>17213059
That's the thing, we've hung out in person and have talked about hanging out again but it's really vague.

A couple months after we broke up I hung out with her once, and I could tell she wanted to kiss me, but I kind of turned away for the same reasons I stated in the OP.

When we hung out today I felt she was still attracted to me in some way, but I don't know for sure if she's interested in being in a relationship. I know I can onlyou ask but I feel like I ought to entertain her interest more before pursuing a relationship.

>>17212763
>I want to succeed in not doing, let alone achieving anything
Don't worry OP, you're already doing great.

>>17212763
>What mentalities do I need to keep?
>What should be my thoughts?
>I want to succeed.
I assume that by "succeed", you wish yo starve yourself to death.

This is not a matter of mentality. If you wish to actually starve yourself, then you need some way of ensuring that it is completely impossible to get food for about a month.

Impossibility is the key, because mentalities won't do you any good. You WILL break. Instinct demands it. You must, therefore, make sure that you cannot get food even once you have broken. That means no access to anything that can be eaten: food, yes, but also pets and garbage.

I fasted for nearly a month once. 22 days.

You're going to want to let go and forget any ideas of success. Living in a void is the way to do it.

>>17212492
You either ignore it or fool yourself into having faith. But really it doesn't matter if you can accept the reality and finality of your death because it's going to happen no matter what.

>>17212525
There's gotta be some means of finding, at least, mental peace.

>>17212492
A hallmark of science is accepting the fact that you really just DON'T know some things, and until new information sheds light on ambiguous processes like death and consciousness, you're better off saying "yeah I honestly don't know" rather than latching to any firm belief be it religious or cynical. Rather than focusing on existence as a whole, research smaller aspects such as consciousness, death, patterns in the cosmos ect. Exestinstal theory is mainly philosophical with knit-picked chunks of sciences scattered in. Look at the smaller pieces before the bigger picture or you'll be confused, depressed and overwhelmed. Also I would recommend talking about this kind of thing to a community besides 4chan

Suck his dick and you will have him around your fingers.

Dress like shit and dont wear makeup

>>17212429

Project a professional attitude. You're likely doing it anyway, but that's my first choice. You've got it clear in yojr head that you don't want anything more than the relationship you agreed to. You provide a service and he pays for that service, and that is all that should exist. Doesn't mean you can't be friendly (as you are living in the same house, so it'd be weird not to). I also reccomend you trying your clothes on in front if a mirror. See what you feel and look most attractive in, and try not to wear those clothes often if you think it could draw unwanted attention.

Not sure OP. I learned from an early age that some people aren't "allowed" to flirt. Getting /fit/ doesn't seem to change anything

>>17211605
try it on your sister/mother as like a test then flirt with a real girl

>>17211642
this
if you happen to be succesfull, you could also get some kissing/sex practice with them

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>>17211550
You might as well beat life campaign mode.

>>17211557

But what does that mean?

>>17211561
It means do your best while you still have a shot.

>>17210768

My gf said sometimes it takes me a long time to cum

>>17210749
I don't want to go to college. I did one semester, I hated it, it was stressful and depressing. I don't want to do 4 years of it and jump through all their hoops so I can get an boring office job and have a kinda big house in the suburbs, a slightly newer car than my neighbor, and extra tv channels

I don't want to do trades it's for retards I can achieve better than that

There are no good career paths

>wanting to fuck a bony angular skeleton
how the hell could anyone enjoy that, you should stick with the soft and plush fat girls

>>17210223
but it was so different. I do like bigger girls, but her tits were literally bouncing, and her legs were tight and her back felt so smooth and contoured.

>>17210241
Yeah fat chicks are gross

They smell bad probably and you would feel your fingers digging into fat the whole time and they're body is all lumpy

>>17214818
>I enrolled in school because I thought going to school would snap me out of this but it didn't really help.
probably because most people in school want to just party and smoke weed. maybe getting a hobby and decent friends would help? but that is easier said than done.

If you want to move away from a negative behavior then start by limiting it.

>>17214839
And use friends and money as my new coping mechanism?

fucking hell, why is life so gay familia

Do it, endure the weird, grow a pair in the process.

Fuck man, why do people care so much about what other people will think of them?

Be yourself! Be yourself around her too, and just have fuckin' fun. Instead of some peice of ass, try having something substantial for once you turd.

Also, fuck you anon for thinking you're better than her.

>>17214670
What if I don't want to walk around with her in populated places? This society is shitty af and... ffs.
Will I really grow a pair?

you guys do not sound compatible. try explaining to him how serious it is to you. if he doesn't even try to understand that, he isn't gonna be good for you.

What does he pushes you to do?

>>17214650
He wants to go to a new restaurant that just opened in town. I can't do it yet because it will be so new and busy and outside my comfort zone. It's so selfish, I know. I just can't do it.

>>17214619
Masters in what?

Why do you feel like killing yourself? This needs elaboration.

Yes it is. Just keep going with the flow for a while and don't think much. A year or two at work and you will get the feel of it

well you have pretty much ended a chapter in your life, take some time off and have fun doing something else, like drinking away your life or eating junk food until you no longer can move---

also congrats on your masters!

Be observant.
Go to a good college with a lot of jews.
Don't leech off your parents you worthless neet.

>>17214613
Fuck you my parents made me I can leech off them all I want as long as I don't have kids of my own, which I can't since I'm still a virgin

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>>17214599
you stupid Jew, you're probably a mizrahi

Just hang out with rich Jews aka Ashkenazi