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What to improve/change regarding appearance? I feel like I have no fashion whatsoever. I was considering buying like a snap back or something but idk.
I'm a big dude if that makes a difference, 6'5" and kind of chunky
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Pluck inbetween your eyebrows, shave your face, start some form of exercise, and get some new clothes to wear when you're out of the house.
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>>17227598
You got good eyebrows
You just need to wax em.shave.get a nice haircut.start doing some running and cardio.
Fashion doesn't matter. As long as you radiate confidence people will be attracted.
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Shave, you don't have "rugged 5 o'clock shadow". Or grow a proper beard. No in-between.
Pluck your unibrow.
Smile.
Wear a well-fit shirt that doesn't have dumbass graphics on it.
>kind of chunky
Then go to the gym.
You're 6'5 and don't have a retards haircut, you're already 60% of the way to being attractive.
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I've been having night sweats for the last month, I can't sleep more than 4 hours without waking up completely drenched. I've spoken to my doctor about this and she is clueless to the cause and supposedly can't give me any drug that will prevent it from happening.
I'm on remeron, effexor, carvedilol and valium. I take them for mental issues I have no physical problems and have been on all of them for longer than I've been having night sweats so I feel these can be ruled out.
A friend suggest benadryl but it did nothing but make my sweats worse..
Yesterday I was furious and decided enough was enough, I stripped my bed, blasted the A/C took 20mg of valium, 600mg of lyrica and 120mg of oxycontin, within half an hour I was a slurring mess and passed out as soon as I hit the pillow, I woke up 17 hours later in a puddle, my chest and stomach had a dull stabbing pain and my whole body was quivering, I got out of bed, threw up almost immediately collapsed and passed out for another hour.
I'm on my last straw here, I now despise sleep and it frightens me because I know I'll wake up in a puddle so it's like what's the fucking point? I'm lucky I didn't OD on all that crap and all it did was allow me to get a long sleep, it changed nothing.
Someone out there must have experienced this, what am I meant to do here?
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stop being a fat fuck
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>>17227605
I'm 47kg fuck off back to r9k you virgin cunt.
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Get a small fan and put it on your bed to help circulate air.
Don't eat any carbs before bed.
Make sure you have breathable sheets and comforter.
Make sure your room is DARK when you go to sleep. It helps release more melatonin which helps lower core body temperature. It's the same reason you wake up sweaty from naps.
Also talk to your doctor about it, being on that many medications might be causing some side effects, or your body might just be constantly sweating them out.
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Why can you not jerk off when you have a crush?
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Oww, how cute, are you a guy
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>>17227524
most people can, you might be some fucked up moralfag
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>>17227524
You feel like betraying her i guess
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Am I being a buzzkill or am I doing the right thing?
For the past six years, my friends and I have done a 4th of July beach vacation at our friend's condo. We want one of our best friends to come that hasn't made it in the past couple of years. But, my friend always has me make the arrangements for the trip for her. Its her parents' place, and they have a limit on how many people are allowed to come. There's a front desk person and cameras - we can't just let anyone in.
I cannot get this guy to commit to the trip. He's whining that we want to fly. His friend is "bringing a cute girl to town" that weekend. He wants to know why we "really" need to know right now and why he can't just say yes or no a few days before the trip.
His spot could be filled by someone else. We need to make plane reservations, because we don't want to drive. The girl who owns the condo has given me 100% control of all plans and all invites, but people are anxious to book flights because we're less than a month away and they're getting expensive.
Am I a dick if I tell him the offer for him to come on the trip is revoked and we're going to take someone else or possibly not even fill his spot, but he's out?
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>people are anxious to book flights because we're less than a month away and they're getting expensive
There's your answer. The trip isn't about him. If he can't commit then too bad. tell him he has until _____ to give you a yes or no answer, then his spot is up for grabs. I doubt anyone is going to give you shit for saving them money on plane tickets.
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don't even tell him if he is being non committal I doubt he really cares
just book his spot
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>>17227534
This. Fuck that dude and all the flakey cunts like him. So entitled and selfish.
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What do you think of dragon tattoos? Are they for try hard faggots?
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>>17227491
looks fine. just don't get something straight outta DBZ and make sure you REALLY fucking like dragons.
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>>17227491
That type of dragon only looks okay on an Asian with a good body. Anyone else is a try hard faggot. Unless you're into weird new-age shit and you like Euro-style dragons, but then you just look like a fruity faggot.
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Well, wut do u think? Its all up to u m8 u got one life.
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I really love my live and how it us going now but my shity character don't lat me be happy.
When I tired I have bad mood. But I can accept bad mood without reason and I find it. Than this reason by itself lead to bad mood and psychosis. I try many sedative meds but nothing helps. Maybe some how I can train my character?
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This type of abstraction requires concise communication. If english isn't your first language I suggest you talk to someone who speaks what you speak.
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>>17227483
I talk with lot of people. The only solution that I find. Is to discuss the new reason with some one how can disapprove it. But it takes only few day's maybe week to create new one. I hate this. It is like all free time that I have I try to find reason why I can considere my life as shity.
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>>17227526
therapy
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>in many years of 4chan, that's probably the stupidiest thread I ever thought of making.
So, there's this girl in college, who's younger than me and she isn't quite attractive or popular. Thing is, she seems to be living a late teen angst and is alone most of the time (when she isn't on classes), sitting with her head down, headphones and hardly aware of her surroundings.
Should I talk to this girl? If so, would it be reasonable if someday I just came by and sit near her?
>i perfectly understand she is trying to restrain herself by having the headphones
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Go for it. Maybe she's lonely, maybe she wants to be alone. You won't know until you talk to her.
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>>17227467
she doesn't secretly want to be bothered. She pretty overtly doesn't want to be bothered.
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Give it a shot for sure OP.
>>17227486
Got it right spot on.
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Hey /adv/ i need your help.
A year ago I joined the Navy thinking it would change my life for the better. A year later im depressed,suicidal and now have constant anxiety attacks.
I havent talked to anyone about it. Not even my parents for fear i will look like a total pussy loser. I was a loser before i joined and now my parents are really proud of me.
Im also afraid if i go seek help. I'll get discharged and have trouble finding a decent job ever again.
What should i do? I want to tough it out but im afraid this is only going to get worse for me.
>pic unrelated of course
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>>17227428
>im depressed,suicidal and now have constant anxiety attacks.
Is this an issue you had before you joined?
>I havent talked to anyone about it.
Not good, you need a way to vent and have support.
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>>17227428
Whst about the navy caused this?
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>>17227441
I had minor anxiety attacks after a motorcycle accident. It got worse when i started smoking weed to relax myself.
After i joined they went away. But for some reason they are back and i cant really talk to anyone. Its giving me really bad insomnia.
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Mostly me being on my own. I also work in the medical field so its added stress for me since i have someones life on my hands
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I've been reading adv
I want to know
Are you people adults
Like you are 18+ right?
These people are adults?
Is this what adults are like?
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Psychologically a significant part isn't, but note, there is no distinct line between an adult and non-adult.
Maturing is a process.
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18+ is really a poor and arbitrary marker of adulthood, it should be more like 28 for men.
Women don't really matter.
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>>17227401
I dont have any problems to post here, but i am interested in offering my 2 cents on random things from time to time
Anyway, if you've ever worked at any restaurant in your life, you'll soon find out that "adult" means nothing. Absolutely nothing. I'm still astonished that 30+ year old men throw tantrums in public like they do.
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Have an exam in a few hours but I've been awake for 24. I don't drink or know anything about coffee, would drinking a cup before my exam help keep me awake or would it ruin my concentration?
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Just go to any local store and get some caffeine pills. Way cheaper and more effective since all you want is the rush to keep you up and focused.
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Sleep, if you make sure somebody will wake you up.
I would refrain from coffee, its effects are personal, though.
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Coffee isn't gonna do anything at that point, get some meth.
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Newfag, here. I'm circumcised. How do I masturbate correctly? I've tried hard, with every method, yet I give up as nothing happens. Other circumcised anons, what do you do?
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>>17227384
Congratulations. This image has never been more appropriate. I hope you're proud of yourself. I'm proud of you.
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>>17227354
As far as i know, you're screwed, just gonna have to get a fleshlight
How can I become a paladin in irl
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Max willpower, strength, and dexterity.
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Go be a white knight on /b/, you get to put in all the effort with none of the benefits.
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>have class with a guy last semester
>become friends as school lets out
>I stay in town, he goes back home 8 hours away for summer
>lately he's been texting me, I realize I like him a lot
>find out he has a bad living situation and needs to find a new place to live asap
>I'm moving into a new apartment that has room for one more
How awful an idea is it to offer him a place to stay at my apartment, until he gets on his feet? It sounds awful what he's going through, but I don't want to come off as clingy, desperate, or crazy. I just want to help him out somehow and can only think of this way.
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>>17227303
do it
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>>17227303
>How awful an idea is it to offer him a place to stay at my apartment
You cool with hearing him fuck someone else through the walls? Cause that's your worst case scenario.
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>>17227391
Nehh, worst case scenario is he kills her.
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I just put in my two weeks at my current job, but I just scored an interview out-of-state that I will have to travel for before the two weeks are up. The date is inflexible. I told my bosses about it and they reluctantly agreed to give me a couple days off for it. They were pretty pissed.
To make up for it, I offered to work a couple days after my two weeks. My fiancee strongly disagrees with this move because the way she sees it, verbatim, "You're done there, there's no reason to give them anything else." However, I want to make sure I leave on good terms, because I don't want to leave them with a bad taste in their mouths because we're on really good professional terms.
My fiancee has never had a full-time job like this before, so I don't think her decision is well-informed. We're both being pretty stubborn about this, though. What do you guys think?
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>>17227257
It depends on how soon the new job wants you to start. Don't work the extra 2 days if the job wants you to start by then. If the job doesn't start right away then there is no harm in working the extra 2 days. 2 days more of pay, right?
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>>17227316
They said they will hire someone within the next couple of weeks. My boss says that if they really are a good company, they would honor my two weeks and interview me afterwards, but that's cutting it really, really close to their timeline, and I don't want to push anything.
My fiancee wants to start the move ASAP though, so I think that's why she's being pushy with me being done with this place. She's telling me I'm flat out wrong about how quitting works, but I just don't feel right about it.
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>>17227257
if you have PTO this shouldn't be an issue. you have the days(presumably) and they've been approved.
Jesus /adv/, I am so lost and mindfucked right now. Green text time:
>Know friend for years
>Recently she moved back to my hometown
>We meet up, hang out, have fun
>I'm just used as a distraction though
>Her Job demands 70+ hours a week regularly
>She's Going through a divorce
>Ex still argues constantly on the phone to her
>Moved back in with parents
>Stress and shitty time for her
>I ask her out months later
>She says its too complicated
>Month later she kisses me
>I think I'm finally going to date her
>Suddenly, no contact for a month
>She does this sometimes
>Finally she responds
>She had a nervous breakdown.
>Her step-dad hit her
>She was being stalked by some PIs
>She needs to get out
>Spend all of yesterday helping her, calming her, doing my best
>She's got a friend who works for mental health with a spare room
>She's got the plan to go live with him, 3 hours away.
>Help her, but worry she'll get settled down there not here
I just feel so drained from the whole experience. It was scary seeing her so nervous and on-edge. She's always been so confident. I still live with my parents, so I can't move her in here. And I'm planning on moving out asap, but it might be too late if she gets settled down there.
I'm just so tired and drained.
I will support her in everyway I can. Visit her, let her come stay here, talk on the phone, whatever.
I guess I just needed to get this off my chest. She's sworn me to secrecy and I can't discuss it with my friends.
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I'd go into a full length heartfelt dialogue here, but seeing as I can't get any responses on whether or not I'm dying or just experiencing some regular constipation I can't do it. /adv/ is a lot like the predicament you're in now. It's a one-way road where you give and others take. I'm really feeling like a kindred spirit to you right now. I'm supportive to the point in which it hurts, but I'm helpless to change my own situation and improve it because the other half isn't putting forth what they should. Goddamn I wish I could just shit.
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>caring about someone this much
you're just being selfish through your 'selflessness' from what it seems
so forget about her
>being friends with someone you want to love
you're setting yourself up for disappointment
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>>17227296
She likes me as more than a friend, that I know.
But it doesn't matter. I'm there for her as a person. Not as someone to get my dick wet in. I'm not asking how I can make sure we date or whatever.
I just need to talk about it. It was a scary and draining day. To see your friend who is normally so confident and happy, be such a scared and anxious girl.
There is obviously what I would want to happen. But greater than that, I want my friend to be better.