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Did you eat something out of the ordinary?

>>17229761
I've been drinking Lots a lemon juice but that's about it.

Have you eaten anything with beets in it? It colors your urine red

>>17229724
No, you should not. You will taint the relationship if you unload that kind of burden on your woman. Women gossip, talk about their emotional issues and sympathize with other women, if you join in she will subconsciously see you as "one of the girls." In a healthy traditional relationship emotions flow one way; off of the women and onto the man. She unloads her emotional baggage onto you, and in exchange she lets you put your dick inside her. If you have any pent up emotions, you get to "unload" it into her pussy, ya' know?

>>17229740
This is clearly coming from someone without any successful relationships under their belt.

Just be honest. Always. The more secrets you keep the less likely you are to keep any woman.

Thats not to say you should burst into tears and tell her every dark thing that you have ever thought in your life, just parcel out the damaged parts of you when you feel it is appropriate.

Anyone who can't handle you when knowing that is not worth being with.

>>17229740
wow you have a sad attitude about women

yeah you should tell her. my bf told me he was raped before we started dating, and im glad he did. it helped me understand him better, be kinder, and more sensitive (not touching his butt unexpectedly)

she will probably kiss you on the forehead and give snuggli

if you wait too long with telling them, they will be pissed so better do it in the first 2-3 month.

Also you are now the man in her life, her parents will only be interested in knowing: will you provide for her, will you marry her and will you be a good father for their grandkid.
Everything else is between your GF and them. Show them that you are capable of those things and you wont have a problem. if they become overbearing get a bit of distance its your baby after all

>>17229712
You're a kid. You shouldn't have kids.

Do you both have a stable job that pays well? A house? Savings? Is your relationship stable?

>>17229712
LMAO wew lad
A baby shouldn't be a symbol for your love to your SO as it probably is since you're just a dumb kid. Seriously, a kid at 19? Bruh.

I know starting a family with your girlfriend sounds great and all but having to raise a non-fucked up kid takes a lot of time, responsibility, and most importantly money. Don't waste the your probably limited resources and the best years of your life trying to raise a child.

sounds like a good encounter ask her about herself more and find out what she is doing there and what she is doing aside from work etc.

>>17229717
>sounds like a good encounter
Yeah, but I'm not sure that's how it actually happened. Maybe I'm remembering it wrong.

I have, against better judgement, decided to try talking to her again. I'm bad at talking to most human beings, so talking to a girl I may(?) be interested in is extra scary. Is it wrong to see if she wants to hang out/etc next time I see her, to invite her out for a drink or coffee or something?

>>17229708
>I'd be sure the girl seems interested, but it's me, and I happen to not be a desirable dude
Well it's pretty obvious someone desires you. Shed that mindset asap

>>17229705
Bump.

>>17229705
It's easier to land a new job if you didn't just quit one. I think the answer is easy.

Work there and keep searching for a better job. Once you're hired there quit the subway job. Keep searching and sending in those resumes.

If that's your first job or all you have are subway-type jobs then make a cover letter with your resume.

>>17229701
>Anyone else feel like this?
Yes. You need to change things up and take leaps of faith while you can. This is a pretty vague thread so that is why not many people can help you much. The more you say what is on your mind the more you know what you are desiring. Then you are closer to getting rid of this feeling.

>>17229701
War is coming

>>17229762
>>17229762

I'm not desiring anything in particular. It's an obscure feel of missing someone or something that doesn't exist. I fill this void by contacting old friends, old flames, or having meaningless sex.

Even in a relationship this feeling of missing someone that doesn't exist is still there.

I don't really have a meaning to my life. Everything feels really empty. This is probably why I feel like that

you proceed on a friendship level and talk to her more about this topic once you are both tippsy because that taken part of her was obviously fabricated.

she might have been raped or molested in her childhood though, so get her to a psychologist if she tells you something like that and you will be fine.

tldr: go on but less outspoken, give her compliments find out what she likes etc.

>>17229707
You really think it's made up?

That fucks me up.

>>17229693
She told you she's with someone. If you're looking for a girlfriend, pursuing her is a waste of time.

If you can't be friends with a girl without having "feelings" then don't bother trying to be her friend.

>>17229671
that depends, how old are you

How big is it?
5-6 inches is the average. Also only men give a shit.

>>17229671
About the same time as everything else. If you got a tiny pecker, I'd suggest loosing weight. You can gain quite a bit if you remove the fat at the base.

right

>>17229642
you again ? fk the b&w pics man, even though you seem so fixated with them.

>>17229642
Left looks like a softy, right looks like a dude. You decide what you want to be seen as.

Religion (n): The belief in and worship of a supernatural controlling power, especially a personal god or gods.
You're looking for a philosophy, not a religion

>>17229638
>does not follow a god
>doesn't deny logic and science

So basically you just want to hang out with a group of people who aren't morons?

What do you mean 'Buddhism was like that long ago'?

Look into Thaoism.

How about you dont do anything and just ignore what you think her feelings for you are?

>>17229609
She isn't. You have just been on 4chan too long.

>>17229648
We just had one of these thrrads yesterday. Children can be very sexually active at young ages (whether or not they know what they are doing is another question entirely.)

Ignoring the problem is the absolute worst option. Tell her parents. Explain that she needs to be talked to, and if she keeps doing it, tell her plainly that you aren't interested.

Depends on a country.

Europe - practically does not matter.

Murrica - isn't it a must?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8MHZ3GwPRqA

If you're in a big city then it doesn't really matter as long as you're able to pay for the taxi ride back to your place.

>>17229602
I do live in the United States.

>>17229603
I can afford a taxi, but not too often. I have a budget and the taxis around here aren't cheap.

Women always seem to get weird when I tell them I don't have a car and bike to work and what not.

bump for interest

You'd prolly be better off asking on /d/.

I am not extremely into it, I don't like humiliation and I'm more for a gentle femdom thing.
What I like about it is the idea of being in charge and having everything the way I want it, feeling sexy and desired, being in complete control of his pleasure.
You feel like you're not interchangeable, like you're goddess for him and you can get him off more than anyone and anything else.
I kinda found out about it reading online, but I already did most of the things with my boyfriend, it happened naturally.

What the fuck. Don't cheat on her. That's inexcusable.

>>17229559
I myself never understood the whole craving other sexual experiences because you've only had one woman. I suggest you focus on the beautiful qualities of your gf, and then you fap whenever the urge comes up. And you'll realize sex is dumb and not worth losing the one.

Pfft, dude, just break her.

You're literally almost already there, you just need to create some circumstances where she is too horny to say no.

When you're both on top of one another, completely naked, and wrapped in pleasure, taking the next step isn't hard.

Of course, it's pretty disrespectful, but.. You're thinking about cheating on her anyways, I suppose.

>>17229540
>strange
no

just for the sake of humanity, never ever think of doing long distance relationship, because it will break you like anybody else.

>>17229546
Why do you say that ?

>>17229546
>never ever think of doing long distance relationship
Oh I don't have feelings for him. He swears that he doesn't have any feelings for me too so I guess he was telling the truth?