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She thinks it was sudden and went full autismo over you and is too embarrassed about how she acted.

No one can tell you what's going on in her head other than the girl herself. If you want to know something, ask her. Speculating is only going to damage you.

>>17225628

lul. I had my best friend basically do this one night.

Except she's gay.

Drunk+horny+lonely+feeling shitty about the life situation you're currently in+more alcohol = you say shit you don't mean and drunkenly connect dots that are nowhere near each other or make any sense when you're sober and rational.

She's still definitely gay. We both have girlfriends, we're both very happy with them.

Go ahead and talk to her if you want, but other anon is right, speculating ain't going to get you anywhere except further behind.

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Do you see where I'm going?

Hey, OP, everything is going to be okay. You aren't autistic, you're different. Who cares about people and friends, they wont get you anywhere. Find solace in things that actually make you happy. Good luck.

>>17225636
I kinda suck at school and don't have hobbies

>>17225616
Fantasy is different from reality.
So, no- although it can be awkward when you see them IRL.
I've masturbated to weirder.

completely fine, when I masturbate pictures of EVERY girl I am close to passes through my head

>third cousin
dude you have different fucking GREAT GRANDPARENTS. go back much further and you're going to end up related to most every person in an entire country

Ask him. Where are you from?

>>17225583
In a country were there is no political persecution, yes.

But why the curiosity all of a sudden? What are your pretenses? You sound like somebody who is about to trash is bf just for political reasons.

Bring it up as you're curious and want to hear his perspective

And then NEVER use it against him in an argument

You could ask one of your brothers, one of them who you really trust, to do a dna test with you.

>>17225582
you really should just bite the bullet and ask them.

>>17225586
Wait, can't I get one myself? Do you think I can compare the nationalities of my parents and what comes up on my 23andme or whatever it's called?

>>17225595
Absolutely out of the question. You would have to know my parents personally to know what I mean, but that is a very very very bad idea.

Perhaps. Or perhaps something you came across during your day shared a similarity with a memory you associated with her, so those neural pathways were reacessed and contributed to your dream.

Or both

>>17225532
>I keep having dreams about my mom who passed away last year. I'm I still grieving?
Quite the opposite: it means that you AREN'T grieving. Not fully, anyway.

Dreams are, in and of themselves, nothing more than your brain trying to go back and sift through all the random crap it didn't have time to deal with immediately over the course of the day. In the interest of time, it tries to do this all at once, often mashing things together in ways that don't make much sense to the conscious. And so isolated dreams don't mean anything.

But this same phenomenon has implications for recurring dreams. They indicate that something is on your mind a lot, and that you aren't fully processing this thing in the moment.

I am sorry for your loss. But you need to get these feelings out where you can process them, and, when they are done, to let them go. I suggest seeing a grief counselor; they're trained to help people do this sort of thing.

>>17225532
I still have dreams about one of my best friends that died back in 2011. Shit sucks, but there's not much to do about it. If nothing else, enjoy the short time you get to be with her again.

>>17225498
Not all courses will transfer between schools. Those that do must average to a 2.0 or better

Bump, someone help please this is probably easy to understand but im just an idiot today

>>17225515
So hypothetically I get an A in all my transferable courses, except for one class I get a D in... I will still be ok to transfer? (The sentence I posted is a requirement)

>be me 2 hours ago
>do photos at parties as a work thing
>packing up for the night
>3 girls approach, lets call them N, R, and D
>N and R are attractive
>They just ask me random small talk shit
>"Do you go to this college?" "What highschool did you graduate from?" "What year?" etc etc...
>They seem really chill and R actually somehow knew what college i was going to, she also went there
>Don't recognize her at all
>They leave, I finish packing
>Before I dip out, decide to try and get N's number
>Motion to her to come talk to me real quick
>She comes
>I ask if she has a boyfriend
>She gets all flattered and giggly and says something like "Who me?"
> "Yes!"
> "Almost..." still smiling and stuff...
> "Ah well I wanted to get your number"
> Not sure exactly how it went but she basically said I can just add her on facebook
>So I get her info, go home, it is about 9:30 something when i add her
>She accepts about 10 minutes later

So what do you guys think?
How do I continue this well?
What should I say when I hit her up on facebook?

One thing i figured could be the case is that she's seeing someone but also thinks im cool so didn't wanna say no but also couldn't really say yes... coz i mean she did say "almost" when i asked about a boyfriend... which idk... kinda weird answer lol... but anyways... figure it might also be possible that she just wanted to be nice and not fully reject me, but wasn't necessarily interested...

It's a rather ambiguous situation and I'm not at all intimidated by it, but I'd really like to date this girl if I can so I'm trying to make the right moves....

Another thing I've been generally wondering about is her friend, R.
R is really hot and N is just super cute... I liked them both but obviously don't know them well enough to really have a preference... so its weird for me because my position is i really dont care which one i get; if i could date one or the other i'd be just as happy as far as i know...

Would it be weird or wrong to somehow try to pursue this R girl as well? I mean even If I try them one at a time I feel like it could be weird... idk... someone halp me lol

>>17225568

The way you described it... it sounds like you're the "almost" boyfriend... if you don't fuck things up that is.

She was just being cute and playful with you.

Take a deep breath OP. I kinda know how you feel. But listen, you need to stop thinking (if just for now, not permanently) that you love this girl. Go to sleep, play some vidya or whatever you do, but quit thinking about it. Obsessing over her will not help you no matter what you decide to do. Keep her as a friend, and if her relationship ever ends, then let those feelings sprout again and go in for the kill this time. Otherwise, all is not lost. There are plenty of amazing people out there OP. Don't waste your time waiting on one girl.

You are not in love with her. Its called infatuation.

What happens to her when you "break up" with her is not your responsibility. If she claims that she is suicidal, or won't stop harassing you, call the cops.

Judging by the fact you felt the need to rate your cousins GF, you already know what you want to do anon, you just want validation.

>>17225434
That's the whole point of rating her. It was relevant to point out I found my Gf hotter. There's no way she would sleep with me anyway if I wanted her to

>>17225431
Tell the 7/10, cut them all out of your life, move on.

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>>17225397

my main source of entertainment is writing scripts / filming the videos / editing the videos / hating the videos then starting over

in my down down time i like to give advice on 4chan.

but i recently had brain damage and decided i needed to do more fun and active things and meet people. i now host a horror meetup where spooky fans just get drinks and talk about scary movies.

i also went to an anime meet up and hosting my own anime party with cosplaying qts and the pokemon movie.

i also do dodgeball now.

i also like lasertag, and board games.

also exploring nudism cuz thats fun

>>17225401
OP here. I appreciate the list but I could have done that with a google search. I am looking for what other people on 4chan do for entertainment and some insight as to why, akin to what >>17225409 said. But thanks for contribootin I guess.

I used to be a textbook embarrassing loser faggot and now I'm just a faggot

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>>17225344

depends on the definition but id wager yes.

i was a NEET for quite sometime. maybe i was technically in training in my own way, but nothing noteable. I got agoraphobic for a year (long story, different thread) and lost a lot of friends cuz i was making them do my groccery shopping for me and of course never left my apartment. i had horrible acne, ate nothing but pizza and chicken alfredo, and was drinking half a bottle of vodka a day.

now i manage a small business, completely turned it around, acne free, dating extremely regularly, eating healthy, having fun, making friends, playing dodgeball, hosting horror meet ups. right now im living it up on a business trip. pic related. its even better than my fucking vacations.

and most importantly of all im taking the time to live my dreams out.

>>17225383
How did you save yourself?

>>17225336
Its possible, but anything is possible.

She wants your wangdoodle deep inside her cootchy. Trust me. I'm a scientist.

>>17225336
just hang out and see how it goes

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Dump him

>>17225299
Sometimes I just wonder how people become exclusive with people like these. Like, didn't you see it coming beforehand?

>>17225319
OP here.
Not really? This shit only started about 4 months ago. We've been dating for about two years.

>>17225288

do whatever you want. you dont seem to care about your wife at fucking all so why not?

>>17225288
Do her and make your kids watch. That's a responsible adult right there.

>>17225291
desu this anon is right

OP you don't seem to give a shit about your marriage so why not go for it? you've got nothing to lose that you actually care about, otherwise fucking her wouldn't be an option.