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Sometimes it's hard to get motivated, guys.
Fuck. My expectations always get the best of me.

I'm broke as motherfuxker right now.
No whey or money to buy. Too proud to ask dad to do it (he buys me every week but I always ask him to do it and give him the money even though he hates taking it)
Dad is a irrational deadbeat with fucked up values
Mom is a crazy bitch with daddy issues who says hurtful things in arguments and act like she never done it;
Living in a shitty house right now so I can't have pseudo friends or GF over.
No laptop because I broke the fucking charger.
Tryna start a website but too unmotivated to do so.
GF had to move back to her city and won't be here for the next year, unless her dad get convinced to pay for that.
I just got an internship in one of the best companies I could get but they want me to start in 10 days, aka I won't get no vacation. Aka I might not see my girl for sec, Aka I'll miss her birthday.

I know I sound like a bitch, I just don't have anyone else to tell this to.

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Is anyone else talented at something, but feel closed in by it because of how others in your life put pressure/expect you to pursue that thing?

I've won some awards in the past and even found a really qualified mentor who let me move in with them for a year while they taught me, but I can't help but feel depressed.
Part of me wants to spend my life doing things that makes me happy, but if I did that I feel as if my talent and therefore life would of been a waste.

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>have crush
>ask her out
>she says yes but it doesn't work out
>date someone else semiseriously until she moves away and it ends kind of badly
>do some soul searching traveling the world
>hook up with a good friend in another country
>amazing sex but nothing serious or anything since don't wanna go through long distance after last girl
>back home again, crush has been asking my friends about me
>I decide to reinitiate contact
>things are going a bit better this time
>friend from other country wants to visit me for a bit

Feel like I have to choose between them and crush burned me once, but also I want something more serious and long term and friend can't offer me that.

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How do I look?

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ITT: Post picture of yourself. Everyone suggests what do to improve your physical attributes.

Pic related. It's me. Give me your worst.

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>3 year ex left me for someone else
>still fucks me on the side
>almost lost the pussy this weekend.

today

>came to see me
>we go drive around
>tells me that when i told him i was still fucking her he was screaming at her and she was scared he was going to hit her
>he wanted her to bring him to my apartment
>she didnt and he got up in her face
>he wants to fight me now
>i fucked her today
>came in her mouth
>she just left to go see him
>told her hes a piece of shit
>she didnt say anything
>she said she ended up lying to him and he believed her after her crying

should i beat his ass? if not, what do?

wat do

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I'm 23, I just graduated university (with a liberal arts degree, I know they're useless, I failed out of engineering at first and I'm ashamed of it), and I have a post-grad paper-pushing internship in the healthcare field. It's paid (quite a lot actually), and could lead to full time employment- it's a way for me to legitimately support myself financially.

But I hate where I am, where this job will lead, and I'm alone.

My whole life growing up, I wanted to be 'a creative', a designer or a creative director for a fashion company, an ad firm or even in entertainment media... something 'fun'- I never had the balls to take a risk and go to an art school, or take unpaid internship/slave jobs.

I just listened to my parents and took the 'safe STEM route'. I left a major major metropolis city filled with opportunities to go to a middle-of-nowhere podunk town for a good college on the opposite side of the country where I'm working now, and now I feel trapped. I also feel isolated as fuck. I'm into 'artsy'/alt/libruhl shit for lack of a better word, and I live in a good old american football town where not driving a pickup truck means people question your sexuality. It's a different culture, no way do I intend to put it down, but I really can just not fit in here.

I have difficulties connecting with people where I'm at now, and I feel that I'm going to be trapped in a cubicle looking out the window at highways, trees, and deer instead of pic related for at least the next few years of my life doing work I don't and won't give two shits about. Fuck it, I'll say it, I'm scared.

How do I cope? Is this just what adulthood is like? Broken dreams? I'm thinking of taking a risk, driving back to my home city after the internship is over, and pursue my dream there- but if I crash and burn I'll either have to live off my parents or be homeless, both of which will probably be worse for me than if I stayed here.

>inb4 hurr durr entitled millennials

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How should I approach this...
My wife and I have had some problems lately. They have gotten bad and we are tying to work it out but it is not going well.
I just got a phone call from a blocked number from a girl, she said hi and used my name.
She said "I know you don't know me. I have been hurt before. Ask her about him. Ask her. I will not say more." And with that she hung up.

No on top of anxiety and stress I'm flipping out.

What do?

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What's a good birthday message that involves dog memes?

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hey /adv/
I'm a very empathetic person and really love other people. I can tell my friends really cherish my friendship and I feel the same way, but the problem is when it comes to relationships.

I'm not capable of being in an uncommitted relationship, I end up falling in love with the person and getting my feelings hurt. But it's weird, I feel like I could fall in love with anyone that I care about enough to be friends with, if we spend enough time together. That intense feeling that comes when it stops being "just friends" causes me to make hasty decisions. It always feels like that's the ONE person and for a while I feel truly grateful and complete. Of course it doesn't last forever, I end up feeling trapped in the relationship because I want to leave but at the same time I feel so miserable just thinking about breaking the other person's heart. All my past relationships always reached a point in which it just felt like a friendship because those initial feelings just drifted away with time.

When I break up a relationship I feel so torn, so tricked by myself, that I don't want to fall in love ever again. It came to a point in which I started to distance from people who were getting too close to me, but it eventually felt ridiculous to run away from something when obviously feelings were mutually. Like before, it felt like that was it, but then the feelings passed.

I really don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to hurt anyone, but it feels like I'll either tear a person's feelings for putting a relationship to an end or by fleeing a possible one because I'm scared I'll end up getting tired. Guess I've been deceived into think "the one" is real. Maybe I need to accept there's no such as thing as strong feelings that last forever. Is it all really a lie, /adv/? Should I just commit to something when I find someone I can live with even if it feels dull compared to the things I felt before?

Sometimes I just want to run away and hug the true one tightly.

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Hey /adv/,

So I hooked up with a guy for my first time (bicurious) and he blew me for an hour, but I couldn't cum even though I was hard the entire time, so we stopped. It was really fun, we talked afterwards for two hours and he texted me again the same night. Should I text him today if I want to do it again later? Also during the hookup should I kiss him or not (we didn't)?

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So, me and my bf have been in a long distance relationship for a long time, I generally see him a couple times a month. Because of time constraints we didn't do a lot of what I want, and aside from a handful of times, PIV hasn't been good because my g-spot doesn't like to work. Except I've found recently that the right voice and words do wonders. So recently I've had someone over the internet essentially dominating me, telling me to hurt myself and deny me orgasm. Bf is moving in soon, so I'm stopping, and I feel like I should tell him, but I don't know how it would go. I was essentially doing it to fill the one hole I feel we have, that hopefully we'll work on when he's living with me. And it wouldn't be so bad if a few years ago I hadn't gotten confused and thought I liked someone (I wasn't used to attention, and hadn't seen my bf in like two months and this is the only guy I've been with so it was like "Do I even know if this is what I'm supposed to do? Who I'm supposed to be with?". Since then I have definitely had an easy time differentiating between love and lust, and the guy doming is nothing beyond that, though I like him as a friend. It hasn't gone beyond voice/text, no faces or names or videos, just him telling me what to do and me doing it). I know it's shitty, but sometimes it's frustrating, and I'm so sensitive to voices and control, it kind of started off as an accident and then just kept going.

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Ok so i feel like this is really wierd

In real life i have no problem talking to people what so ever.

But here on the internet i seem to have some sort of social anxiety. To the point where i just end up lurking for hours but cant seem to post.

Why is that and how can i fix this.

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I've been changing my IP to access Internet. If I wanted to delete the history of my IP changing, how would I go about doing that? I don't want my IP changes to be seen

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18 y/o virgin. why do I have a lifelong desire to be mothered by women and treated like a child?