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I have a balcony facing the south, its 1.2m * 3.7m (d * b)
What could i fill it with?
Anyone got some good ideas?
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drugs and vaginas!
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small table, two chairs, vertical garden, bird bath.
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Singapore flag.
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>Met this local girl while travelling Asia
>Took her out just looking for a fun night and a hook up
>Everything went as planned
>She told me the first day she had a boyfriend
>I was like well if you're okay with this not my problem
>Met her a few more times, started doing stuff daytime too
>Turns out she's an amazing girl
>We ended up staying together for 3 months, she basically moved in already
>Her boyfriend comes back from overseas
>She's in tears telling me she really loves me and she's so sorry but she has to go and stay with him
>I'm like wtf girl you dont even like him
>turns out he's an old dude who's taking good care of her family (thisisasia.jpg)
Now we obviously both wanted this to be more but thinking about it rationally it probably never would have worked. I tend to stay in her country quite regularly but I can't stay there forever. We are great friends and we got a good thing going, she's really into me and I know whenever I go back there she's waiting for me at the airport eager to spend a month or two together. That's an awesome deal for me and I should accept that's all it's going to be.
Anyway, my question is how do I proceed now that she's staying with him (for probably around 2 months). On the one hand I'm pretty disgusted by the thought she's staying with this old guy just for the security of her family and I really want to say to her I'm going to cut contact until her "boyfriend" is gone - which would drive her nuts.
On the other hand I have to admit she has never done anything wrong to me, she has told me the deal straight away and she has not once lied to me about anything I asked her or tried to hide anything from me. It's neither her nor my fault that we got involved too deeply and maybe it's time for me to shut up, grow a pair and just talk to her as the good friends we are and go see her again when she's "free".
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I understand that you're disgusted by the idea of her being with him just to support her family, but you need to put yourself in her shoes, maybe that's the only choice she's got, or maybe the easiest, stay friends with her, have fun, have your moments, and don't overthink about it, good luck buddy.
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>>17226274
Thanks anon. It sounds weird but you made me a feel a bit better already.
Hoping for some more input.
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>>17226331
Can you provide for her family too?
Would you feel comfortable giving her an ultimatum like that?
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Yo quick question:
I'm too lazy to talk to any actual university representatives about this so I came here instead
Anyway, I'm registered for a community college near me. And while the cost is great and all of that, literally all the classes I have to take are full. The college has multiple classes, but the ones that are open are too far away from me.
There's a much better university with higher cost near me, but I can definitely squeeze into some of the classes (since I've been there before).
I'm already registered as a guest student at the community college.
Do you guys know if it would be possible to register as a guest student at the university? Do you guys know if I can withdraw my registration at the community college? Is it worth all this trouble?
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>>17226178
The college has multiple campuses*
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>>17226178
Check with your guidance counselor at the community college, really. You don't have to unregister from a community college. There are probably online versions of the classes you want, even other community colleges that offer them online.
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>I'm too lazy to talk to any actual university representatives about this so I came here instead
Yeah, no. We don't know how this particular university works.
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someone who is experienced with acid and MDMA please help me
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>>17226161
Here
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>>17226161
Not a veteran but um here too
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So the manager who interviewed me for a job on Friday said he would call today. But it sounded like I would only get the call if I was hired.
Is this a common thing, or should they call even if they aren't going to hire me? Would they maybe email me instead?
It's around the time he had called to arrange my interview now, so I think theres still plenty of time for him to call, but I am a bundle of nerves right now.
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>>17226137
He hasn't called yet? Are you sure you didn't say anything wrong at the interview? What about your body language?
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>>17226198
No, no call yet, but the work day is far from over.
As for the interview, I think it went well, I answered as clearly as I could, was as confident as I could manage, and I did my best to use confident body language (straight back, eye contact where appropriate, firm handshake, smiled, etc.)
I feel I have a decent shot because I have experience working in the same company in another country, so it feels like my biggest downfalls would be my age (I am older than the average employee by now) and the fact that I am not completely fluent in the language (I passed exams and had the proof on hand but he never brought it up. I fumbled on a word or two but for the rest I was very understandable.)
It has been a while since I got to the interview stage (the job market is harsh here, interviews are generally only given to the best candidates) so I am very confused and nervous.
One thing that has me very worried - he didn't ask me many questions. It boiled down to "tell me about yourself" and "what hours could you work". Is that a good or bad sign?
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Call and ask about your status tomorrow. Distract yourself in the meantime.
It's not uncommon for a workplace to call you with good news later than they said they would.
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Get ready for a thread that is not about relationships, /adv/.
So, I need some help. There are bots that are scripted to record and upload everything that is streamed on camsites. Little did I know that they literally record /everything/-- private shows included. I thought it was just the free shows that were capped.
My question is this: are there any sites that have a safer interface that doesn't allow bots to capture non-free streams? Feels completely unfair to any viewer paying to see me naked, only to have that show reposted everywhere thereafter. Even sadder, the sites that have capped these shows have you go through a paywall to see them. In other words, they are earning money off of MY content, and the people who have paid to see it.
This wouldn't be an issue if it was the camsite that I use that posted these things, but they are not the culprit here. Neither are paying viewers. It is purely done by bots.
I appreciate any suggestions, both from fellow male and female cammers. Are there any sites that don't have bots recording private, paid shows, or am I yearning for the impossible?
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Interesting post.
I think your best bet is to group up with your fellow cammers and demand that the site you operate on fixes the problem themselves. It really is their responsibility and you're the ones getting shafted for it. Demand better service.
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>>17226131
I've already sent a message to the camsite, criticising the security. It's been a few hours, no response as of yet. People who make free apps for the site have also criticised that they can't do their job to the fullest due to some "API limitation" that won't allow them to create, for example, true "hidden shows" (paid shows) without the possibility that just about anyone can watch it anyway without paying.. however, I'm not too tech savvy to reference this in detail to the camsite to encourage them to fix it.
I've yet to make any connection to other cammers on there, and so I'm unsure just how many people are aware of these sites. The most I (and others) can do now is try to get a DMCA takedown, but sites tend to ignore these.
The whole situation is just a real shame. I have the option set for private shows to be recorded by the buyer-- and again, it's just not fair on them if bots are recording these shows and uploading them for free.
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>>17226149
even if you set it so private shows can't be recorded, if a bot can view the video, it can record it and re-upload it
i'm assuming you mean cb or mfc or some other high-profile site here
there should be no way people can watch private shows without paying, and it's absolutely the site's job to prevent this
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I´m looking for an android app that prevents me from wasting time with certain apps on my smartphone. An app that lets me choose which apps to put on the blacklist and for which time period these will be blocked.
So far I just found apps which are easy to trick or enable.
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Bump because I´m a fucking faggot
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Delete the apps you're wasting time on
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deletes these apps or "focus" on Google Play
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How do you get a guy to like you?
So far my plan is:
- To be as attractive as possible
- To be as interesting as possible in conversation
But I don't know what else you can do other than those two things
I really want to have a boyfriend, please help
Female/24 btw
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lose the second point, guys don't care about interesting conversations
not the guys you're after anyway
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If you're interested in someone let them know, they might reciprocate and ask you out.
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[spoiler]be yourself[/spoiler]
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I will meet an online friend when traveling abroad. Is there a way for me to verify his identity?
>have known him for a few years now
>met when an rpg game based on an anime was removed from its server. creators no longer had a copy so it was supposedly gone forever. he asked if anyone had a copy on the fan wiki and i replied and we kept in touch
>i am now 19 and he is 18 (just left high school)
>has video skyped with me before - appereance matches photos he sent me a long time ago and Whatsapp profile pic
>Says he hardly ever uses it ever since we met many years ago but gave me his Facebook anyway when I asked for it
>Only has two girls there whom he has met online
>Googled his full name
>Can't find any info except for how he won a competition many years ago in his province
How to verify his identity? I know that if I go out with a friend or go on a date with someone I know or something, there is also the chance that I will be raped or killed or something, but hey, at least it is easy for the police to search up his info based on where he works. This guy? Nothing. I know which high school he went to but I cannot "verify" that.
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Sounds like you're paranoid.
Are you traveling alone? If not, just have someone else come with you.
Or, meet the guy in a public place and if he doesn't seem legit just leave.
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>>17225972
Have you never Skyped or seen him face-to-face? For your own protection, do so before you travel.
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Not you again. Why do you make this thread every day on multiple boards? You have been given multiple answers already.
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. This is something that cannot be explained. You either have learned to intuit this or you have not. If you have not, the only way to learn is experience--there are no shortcuts. So it comes back to: Just ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online. Don't complain that this isn't helpful; stupid questions deserve answers like this.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't fucking know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>Brandon, that one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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For girls, how do you feel about your date paying for you? Im 22 and this girl Im seeing and the past girl I was seeing both don't like me paying for them, as they don't want to feel like Im owed something etc. etc. Which I understand, cause guys can be pieces of shit. But I actually enjoy paying for them and taking them out?
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>>17225779
Not a fan. I don't know if I've been here too long or what, but I don't like the idea of a guy going behind my back later and whining that I didn't kiss him or put out or whatever and how it's not fair because he bought me dinner and that somehow entitles him to sex.
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>>17225779
>cause guys can be pieces of shit.
I'm a dude, but funny/sad story
One of the dates my gf went on before she met me, guy came in for a kiss at the end of the night, and she turned away. His response, "What the fuck bitch. I paid for your dinner. You owe me."
That combined with the fact that she comes from a poor household growing up means she wants to feel she has control over her own enjoyment.
Consensus from all my female friends:
It's nice to offer once, but if they decline, don't try force it, because then it becomes sketch.
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I finally got a good job, I'm making good money, I'm fit, love life is pretty easy, my life seems pretty good.
I have no desires for anything and I am bored and sad because of it. What do?
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Take up something that's competitive. Competition is rarely boring if you're competing in something that you enjoy.
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>see ayy eyy
If you want a thrill, do something risky. You lack excitement in your life
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Sure you do. You just lack the push to do whatever it is. Isn't it there something you've always wanted to do but haven't?
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It dawned on me earlier today that most of the things that make me feel really anxious involve trying new things.
Whenever I'm about to do something I've never done before I'm not excited, I'm terrified. All the "what-ifs" fly through my head, I constantly tell myself I don't want to go through with whatever it is.
Isn't trying new things supposed to be exciting? This is really holding me back, because a lot of the time when the opportunity to do something new comes up I just....don't because it makes me so nervous.
What do?
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>>17225520
Had this same problem and what I did was had a friend (someone you really look up to during rough times) go and do it with you. Even if its trying new foods or getting on a "scary" rollercoaster you gain your confidence. I did this and I'll try just about anything now. The whatifs still pop in my head but I only think of the good things that can happen
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>>17225550
Trying new foods is one of the biggest for me.
Having friends with me helps a little I guess, but not enough. I'm starting to think this is something I should talk to the doctor about. My friends all think I could have some serious anxiety issues.
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>>17225577
I am a very bland person
On my burger I only put meat and cheese on it
What you need to do is instead of trying new exotic food like sushi or something go to your favorite restaurant and try something similar to what you would usually get. You will love it 9/10 of the time.
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I'm addicted to porn and masturbation. How do I stop?
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as with all addic(k)tions, you have to commit to it. the fact that you made this thread is a sign that you haven't committed to it yet. if you're masturbating four times a day, try masturbating twice a day for a while. do it for long enough that it becomes normal. repeat the process until you're masturbating to the levels that you think are okay.
or you can completely abstain from it in general, if you want. may be harder to commit to, but if you're up to it, go for it.
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>>17225465
Learn to control gratification
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>>17225465
remove internet from your home. you can answer emails on your phone.
consider taking the door off its hinges. kind ahard to masturbate without privacy.
put your computer in the main living area. kind ahard ot masturbate without privacy
get porn blockers installed.
masturbate daily if you want, but only right before bed. ideally you should jack off twice a week, befaore bed, no porn.
chances are you are going to think this is too hard for half of the suggestions and say 'id just find a way around that' for the other half.
so good luck
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I just moved into my first apartment and I have literally nothing. I'm sleeping on an air mattress and that's it. No chair, table, etc just an empty apartment with a mattress on the ground.
I make a decent amount of money so I will be able to afford furniture, but my job just started. What do you guys think is the best order to buy things in? I need:
>table
>chairs
>bed frame
>nightstand(s)
>lamps, kinda dim in here
>TV stand
>desk
>couch
Also where should I be looking for this stuff? There are thousands of sites online and I have no idea what to use. Please respond
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What country OP? Don't you need a fridge?
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>>17225456
http://www.search-for-apartments.net/rentalguide/apartment_supplies.php
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Don't know about anywhere else but my city area has a store where people dump their old shit and they sell it. Some non-profit type thing. Look for stuff like that. You would be surprised by the quality of furniture some people with throw out.
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So got together with a girl recently; we had decided we'd be exclusive. I knew that she had tinder prior to this. She said she deleted her account but I noticed she had the app still on her phone weeks later. I put that on backburner and thought I'd devise a way to confront her with it, but things were going well and kinda forgot/neglected it.
Now I see that she deleted it as we got more serious. How can I ensure she wasn't using it to cheat before? I should have confronted her earlier when she still had the app, now I think she'll just deny it. I was happy to see it was gone but now I realize there goes the proof, and I never did get to see what the story was like I had intended.
What should I have done; confront her earlier? How would you have tactfully, what can be done now?
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Relationships are about trust. Let it go.
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>>17225379
I know, but it eats at me; this is the most involved I've ever been and its proving more difficult that I expected to let go and trust.
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>>17225385
I would add open honesty to trust, just tell her exactly what you've told us, you shouldn't conceal parts of yourself from her.