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Just do it. If they refuse I'm sure you can threaten to sue or something.

>>17271583
Google "European court orders Google to forget people" It won't apply to you directly, but you can cite it as a precedent

>>17271617
That was part of my inspiration, but yeah maybe its worth mentioning in the email

>>17271581
Why would your old friend want to harm you?

>>17271619
dunno, but when i start to think about it, i imagine crazy, almost impossible conspiracies

@OP

Did you use to, or do you smoke a lot of weed? (serious question)

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Why is she looking at her phone?

>>17271546
Pretty much the same things time and again...single, financially secure (or with the potential to be soon), reasonably attractive, has his own place, possesses confidence and basically has their life together except for companionship...

>>17271549
Because shes female.

>>17271537
*Past, fuck this phone

>>17271537
Wherever you run, when you get there you'll still be you.

>>17271537
Bump

>>(she usually begins to cry, apologizes and I comfort her then

what a clever way to stop you from speaking your mind

instead of comforting her, speak your mind, boo-hoo, she'll cry because she's an autist/shut-in, but in the long run you'll do yourself a favor if you can express your feelings and let the bitter built-up bile out of ur system

if you can't talk with your partner about (any serious )things, well, that's a shit relationship right there, don't you think

>>17271531

you're absolutely right, that s why i intend to have this serious talk and i'm determined to go through with it. I will tell her, that it's okay for me if she cries, and we can take our time for that discussion but that i wont comfort her till we're through with my issues.

I'm just afraid that if i don t find the right approach that she'll "switch off" emotionally, wont get what i'm trying to say and i will appear more complaining than ever. The next problem i'm afraid of, is that it may become a monologue. How do i get her to open up and speak her mind? I assume that the main cause for her misbehaviours that she's afraid that i might get upset and argue with her. (the main issues were about communication; too rare, she seems to withhold things about her local friends because she might fear jealousy or that i might disagree because i'm a quite "traditional" guy). She seems to really fear arguments of any kind.

>>17271548
>>17271548

you seem to be in a pickle, all I could think of is to speak your mind in a way that she doesn't feel that it's an "attack" on her (because of the fear of conflict) - just be calm, loving, tell her why you feel what you feel, do whatever to make sure that this conversation wouldn't feel like a conflict - but you can't babysit her all the way and if she cannot evolve as a human bean and meet you half-way...

>>17271496
Maybe ask someone else who can be objective without being cruel. We're often our own worse critics...

>>17271496
What do you do for a living?

>>17271496
>I literally can't find any redeeming quality about myself. What should i do?
Make one.

Month break between MDMA use MINIMUM, I'd recommend at least 3. You're going to be flirting w/ a little condition known as serotonin syndrome otherwise. I wouldn't bomb over 100mg in one dose, plus make sure that shit is clean w/ a testing kit. Stay hydrated, but not too hydrated, etc.

How to ignore the desire? Have nights out without drugs (including drink), focus on your professional/personal/hobbies, see drug use as a treat as opposed to a need.

Check out the website Erowid in future/if you have more questions.

>>17271574
you are a fucking retard
serotonin syndrom happens when too mach serotonin is released (e.g. when you combine mdma with a serotonine reuptake inhibitor). taking mdma too often depletes you serotonin reserves and causes depression.

you could at least read the fucking wikipedia page on the terms you use before your start spouting your bullshit

>>17271601
s/mach/much/
dunno how that typo happened

>depression
>anxiety
you are going to get cucked son. my advice is to just be prepared for the worse so it won't hurt as much if it happens

>>17271417
Can confirm through experience.

A lot of girls who say they have 'depression' and 'anxiety' try to justify cheating by thinking it's 'their depression/anxiety becoming too unbearable'.

It's quite low that she'll remain faithful, so if you wanna take that risk go for it but at least from my experience anon is right

Honestly I think you'd save yourself a lot of hardship if the two of you just decided that the long distance thing isn't going to work and go your separate ways amicably. That's what I did with my HS girlfriend since we both went to different schools, we hung out a lot over the summer then had a last date and went our own ways the next morning.

We've both changed a lot in the decade since then and moved on to bigger and better things. You're 18, why are you tying yourself down like this?

You'll find out when you go back to the doctor tomorrow. No one here can tell you shit.

I was just wondering would you be able to walk on it with no pain if it was broken. Has anyone not experienced pain and it still was broken? Thanks

You've most likely just strained your ligament.
I strained mine + fractured my shinbone three months ago. Had to walk on crutches for three months, but no cast. It hurt more than anything, and I could not walk on it.

Do you see yourself as a natural leader? To be humble, patient and understanding are good virtues. You are doing something good in the world by accepting how people are different from you.

>>17271382
I find i am the same way. I moved around a lot as a kid so without realizing it i just stopped letting friendship get deeper than acquaintances. Married with kids, but no friends right now.

I would say just try to be more empathetic. Women tend to wear their emotions on their sleeve so i find them easier to read. Guys not so much. I can say that guys don't like it when you change things up too much.

>>17271382
You sound borderline bro

>>17271374
Dest to cut right through the crap and ask her. Did you want to get back together.

Otherwise who knows what she is up to. Does she want to get back together? Is she just lonely? Are you being used as an emotional crutch until she finds someone else? She may not even know herself, but save yourself some time and hurt by asking.

>>17271377
Jesus fuck, would you guys stop already

Asking/telling is lame, and is likely to make her second guess. If you want someone back you got to look forward and show her that you're doing well post breakup, and at the same time remind her of your good qualities, and as with any other relationship start-up: build attraction.

>>17271384
>If you want someone back you got to look forward and show her that you're doing well post breakup, and at the same time remind her of your good qualities, and as with any other relationship start-up: build attraction.

Well i guess he is doing well without me.........i gave up a good thing.... i wish he wanted me back.....i can't be around him anymore......its too painful. i should move on and date that guy at work that asked me out.

>>17271341
Also am I too late to change my area of IT?

You don't seem that bad.
You already have a BA or something if you are going for a master's.

Shit could be worse
>5'5"
>fat
>ugly
>work a dead end job as a security guard
>just an AA
>only thing I was good at was being a soldier
>too fucked up to be a normal, not fucked up for autism bucks

First of all stop thinking about a gf, and sex. Yeah, the lack of is saddening but that feel is a waste of time and energy. You need to keep chugging along.
Fuck, I too want to kill myself, but I'm too much of a pushy to end it now. So I'm working on a slow suicide, it's called life. In 30 to 40 years, I'll be dead, in end it doesn't matter man.

Dude, I just finished an MSc in Comp Security. DESU I'm having problems getting into the market right now, despite reading a lot about huge demand. The ads i've seen mostly want experience already in cyber security or want you to be security cleared. I've been out the country for the last year, so getting clearance is a problem for me. There doesn't seem to be a tremendous amount of "junior" or Entry level stuff going on.
I spent 2.5 years working part time to get the MSc and about 15k sterling. I will be bloody pissed off if i can't cash in on all my work and dedication.
Even with a MSc i can still recognise that i have to add additional skills, Linux Kali, Ethical Hacking, Python etc. I have IT qualifications coming out of my ass, MCSE, CCNA Security, Comptia Sec, ITIL etc. But i'm still struggling, I'm finding it all very unmotivating now. One advantage i think i have is that this MSc can be applied to any work in IT. It makes you a better support person or developer because you have the mindset of security implications.
I think any course of self improvement is worthwhile, so If you can afford it, go for it.

Are rehab centers out of the question?

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>>17271295
depends. it's a maybe if you'd asked further up the road. the thing is that i was recently forced to move back to my parents for various reasons. they're really conservative/christians in every regard so it wouldn't be too weird if they disowned me if they found out their son fucked up his life and became a decadent drug addict. and as a friendless neet it is kinda hard to come up with an alibi for x amount of weeks or however long it takes.

i expect to be moving out again in two months or less though.

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>>17271310
Yeah because I can understand that attending a rehab center sort of lets everyone whatsup. But depending on where you live you could perhaps attend a rehab center further away from your community once you move out? That way you'll at the very least run a lower risk of the word getting out?

This is now the stupidest OP I've ever read.

>>17271261
Kek! This

>>17271261
Thanks for the bump

>>17271258
Yes.

>>17271258
Yes, this is how all gays are. This is why they often have sex with strangers and coordinate in public. This is also why there is often polygamy in gay relationships and lots of organized group sex.

This is why they have such high rates of STDs and why gays are so repulsive to interact with. They're not trying to be likeable, they're just trying to signal their homosexuality so they can get dicks.

>>17271258
Pray the gay away op