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Abstinence and loneliness

>>17272242
That's what I do anyway.

I wouldn't mind no sex but not being able to share my life with someone is crushing.

How important is sex to women?

>>17272234

not really. conversion therapy is known to be shit.

that being said, you dont have to be a fucking faggot. im only out to one of my friends, and the only reason im out to him is cuz we met by me asking him out on a date. hes straight but we hit it off so yeah.

outside of him no one needs to know. my sexuality is really no ones business and i dont intend any of my other friends to meet a partner til i find someone worth introducing them to. but im more homosexual than homoromantic or whatever so it hasnt happened yet single for four years.

but i digress. my point is that your sexuality doesnt have to define you. you dont have to be a career gay like all the tohers. you dont have to make a gay joke every five minutes. or ever. you can just never acknowledge the gay discussion.

the only time i ever seem to is with my parents (god i regret that) and here on 4chan

>>17272223
>I really want to avoid being fucked over by student debt
Could you not get any scholarships? if you weren't good enough in High School maybe you shouldn't go to college, they practically throw money at you if you are at least average

>>17272223
College is worth it if you can pay for a large portion of it out of pocket. Private universities especially aren't worth it for the common person - you pretty much need to be independently wealthy to justify going.

Trades are a fantastic idea, school is shorter, far less expensive, and you'll probably end up making more than those fresh out of college with a degree.

The problem with trades is the glass ceiling, and the only way to make a LOT of money is through a labor union - and a lot of people choose cheaper labor than unions because of their high costs.

It's really up to you.

If you really want to be a hands-on, fixin' shit type of person, trades are pretty much the way to go. But if CS is really your passion, then don't pass it up.

Keep in mind too that you can go back to school and complete a degree online, or from a local university. If you're really looking to become self-sufficient as quickly as possible, this is how you would do it.

>>17272223
Join the fucking military for 3 years and get the GI Bill. It pays for your entire schooling and books plus a housing allowance.

V/r,
Anon who got 2 AAS, 1 BA, and 1 MA out of the military.

Nobody here? Should I ask /pol/ or should I ask /b/?

>>17272224
ask /pol/

>>17272133
24 year old in a very similar boat here, minus the girlfriend. Don't have an answer but I'll be monitoring this thread.

seeing as canadian farmers feed people to their pigs, and now that beastality and suicide are legal, what's the cost and fees associated with starting a pig brothel/health care clinic ?

>>17272145
You'd have to come to my office for a full answer. Cost: one pig. Do you have any close family that would miss you?

interesting recipe. do you drain the blood (jewish lawyer) and keep it on ice during that two weeks?

I'm so sorry to hear that... can't imagine what to do.

Are you referring to a terminal illness or just death in general?

Ignore it. You're not going to give a shit when you're dead either.

Rational time.

It's Tinder. She matched you. You matched her. You are both attracted to each other. This much is fact.

You talked with her. She talked with you. You both enjoyed the conversations and decided to meet. She likes your personality. This much is fact.

She likes you. This much is fact.

>>17272118
Well I know she likes me, just trying to figure out in what way is freaking me out

>I kinda lead all our conversations, she never really asks about me
>Responses to everything tend to be short "dammmmn" "lol nice" "I have geez"
>Always message her first (she tends to sleep in) because I've convinced myself if I wait for her to get to me I'll never hear from her again

I must be autistic or something. There's no way anyone normal can overthink this much

I used to play Dofus 2 with one of my girlfriends back in the day. It's pretty fun if you like RPG's plus it's got a "cute" look to it that girls usually like. It's a turn based RPG by the way which gave it extra plus points for me.

>>17272077
TF2
Girls love that game.

you could play twister and the one that loses has to drink a bottle of bleach

>>17272060
Check fb before asking maybe.

I did everytime

>>17272060
have you taught maybe they are lying to you? also, rookie mistake, always find out if they are tied before asking, unless they are obviously flirting with you in which case, fuck them

You're not going to find any cushy jobs that don't require any qualifications because they're already in high demand from other lazy shits like you. Try actually using your artistic skills and freelancing. It's not too easy to find a "freelancer needed" site for your area. What can you do?

>>17272026
From the hundreds of job threads I've read on advice, security guard (graveyard shift ) seems the best choice for you.

From what I know, you just sit around for hours on end.

You could also work reception at a small business and sketch in the downtime.

Watch this. And entry level fast food/retail/service industry work is going to the easiest work you ever find because the lack of one thing; responsibility.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CVEuPmVAb8o

your a dead man...KEK

jk..il give you a pro tip:
> buy some seeds
> bury them blow your dick
> grow some balls
> ?????
> enyoj GF and friends

>>17272019

Things like can seem like they get harder over time, but they're the furthest thing from impossible.

Believe it or not, self help books actually do help.

Even though it's not necessarily a self help book, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance has helped me a lot with shit. Puts things in a simple and optimistic perspective. You can start anywhere, that's what makes it so hard to start for some people because they're too concerned about where to start.

>>17272113

aren't girls going to see the virgin thing as a huge red flag and take off?

good stuff attracts more people.
the more people you have, the more chances you have of finding the wrong people.
more wrong people, more chances of fucking it up.
people are more likely to turn stupid than smarter and are easily influenced by the majority.
once it's fucked it's fucked.

All the good oldfags left and now it's flooded with 18-22 year olds.

>>17272018
This desu baka senpai. I can barely tolerate coming to 4chan entirely.

take saw palmetto. Stop eating food that makes you horny like chocolate and mangos.

>>17272006
the best way is to distract or exhaust yourself. are you a worhless loser that spends all his free time in front of a computer screen by any chance?

go somewhere you would never fap (backyard, the kitchen..) and and focus on things you actually like until the feeling goes away. boom.

She sounds like a bitch lmao.

>>17271995
She's also very sexually inexperienced, if that helps. She's cute, but she barely knows how to kiss, let alone do anything else. At least I know her intimacy issues aren't just confined to me - there's no way to be that bad if you're getting any sort of regular practice.

>>17272002
>being this naive.

I refuse to believe that this isn't bait, but just on the off chance that I'm wrong: consider going on dates with guys you already have some feelings for. Or do you refuse to make a move even when you've got a crush on someone?

>>17271990
Those guys don't like me back, I've failed whenever I've tried seducing them I've failed

>>17271964
It's better to be alone than to pretend you like someone who likes you.

Most men aren't going to be competent to become a husband or interesting to you, only interested in sex with you. That's just life.

>>17271955

If you're really interested in a relationship with this girl, wait it out.

If you're not, move on.

Risk and reward. Thats it.

>>17271965

She told me she got dumped three weeks ago. Could it be that in this time she warmed up to me? Because there have been subtle hints (i think, i still have a penis and could be reading it totally wrong), like "i'm going to watch the footy after my exams" while she knows nothing about it and she knows i like it.

and

"i'm going out wednesday, thursday and friday"

Fucking conflicted m8. I guess i'll wait and see

>>17271955
Dude just be open about it. Ask her basically what you asked us. Is she over it? Is she ready for something? My advice is just wait. If she friendzones you then she's not right for you and she was using you as an emotional buffer