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1: Definitely.
2: Because if they were upfront, they wouldn't get the sex?

Such a simple question, and no answers.

t-thanks, /adv/

>>17273234
This.

>>17273236
>Such a simple question, and no answers.
No, I'd say you got your answer.

>>17273061
Uh, are you referring to initiative? I don't know.

>>17273061

integrity

>>17273065
That's it. Tip of tounge etc

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>>17273037
It depends on the person, not all macho looking lesbians behave exactly the same.

>>17273037

Same reason faggots act like drag queens sometimes.

They can act all they want, we know the truth

I'm female and by listening and interacting with other girls I think it's more because they want to be in men's position, not because they're necessarily afraid. They just want what they can't have. I use the word 'they' because I'm alright with Woman activities and don't care.

>>17273020

im lucky enough that my life is exciting. not marvel movie video game exciting, but a lot of the stuff i dreamed of doing as a kid im doing now.

join the army if thats what you want, but as soon as you hear army you'll cringe and be like 'THATS NOT SAIVNG THE WORLD' as if thats a real thing, and you know theres no magic fantasy adventure waiting for you.

even the paranormal adventures arent really glamour, you just end up with temporary brain damage til your boss performs an exorcism on you, then you go back to doing paperwork and catching ghosts in jars.

>>17273020
You cant.

I wish i was lying but this is why games exist.

>>17273026

mostly this. life can be exciting but its never going to be a little story book. you gotta remember in the story, the character isnt having fun. sometimes what you are enjoying is the characters darkest moment.

unlesss your playing sonic, hes the only character i know thats happy from start to finish.

most people in your position just write.

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>>17272997
Bumping with cool pics.

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>>17272997

>>17272997

im not sure why you're making this such a big deal. just pay em both off in cash. you got 160 til your next payday (which i presume your next payday will handle your upcoming rent) and ur fine.

im so confused, why is this an issue

>>17272972
Maybe he was just using you for sex and pretending to care about you just to get it.

>>17272976
That doesnt sound right because our relationship was long distance for quite a long time and he hung on

>>17272972
>is it safe to say they never really loved you all that much?
hard to say. he probably didn't care very much at the end, or he'd have at least called you.

you'll never know for sure, so you might as well believe whatever helps you move on. then continue the process of moving on.

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>>17272936
How old are you? Everyone is going to tell you the same advice you've ignored your entire fucking life. Talk to people next to you, discuss various assignments, find common ground.

>b-b-but it's hard and I'm weird

Fuck.

>>17272942
The thing is I do that and I make "friends" that way, but when it comes to actually doing stuff outside of class they sort of fall off.

I was friendly with this one girl for a coupla months last semester and we made plans to hang out after finals. Now I've hit her up like twice and she said she couldnt the first time and the next time she just didnt respond.

This happens with multiple people, when I think we are cool and nothing ever happens.

I am venting a little bit, but fuck is it that hard to just either say no or not led a person on?

You have no aspirations and no wants beyond what you can literally reach within arm's length.

Everything you want is provided for you and so you have no need to go outside and work to get more. Whatever it is you have right now is what you feel to be the best your life will be and requires no improvement.

>>17272927
Holy shit, that's me.. How can I abolish this mentality?

Nobody works for the sake of working, they do it to pay bills and rent for a place to live and for life necessities. Then they use whatever is left to fund entertainment, hobbies and save for later.

I don't know what your living situation is or how you fund your lifestyle.

Isn't pol filled with dindus now and completely ruined?

I left that tainted shithole along with the rest of the migration.

It's like panning for gold on a hill of shit.
For every good fact there's a bunch of horseshit to put up with.

>>17272906

sometimes pol is satirical. often times its not. many things that start satirical become not satirical because there are lots of people who are dumb. i know it sounds pretentious but trump has proven that there are people out there, a large large large group of people who are dumb and ignorant. now that isnt entirely bad they are not bad people for it, but it shows you that these concepts are not outdated, they are not even just dying. they are just facing competition.

if you feel taht you are influenced by pol id leave. i was influenced a bit by 4chan in general, we all are.

but if at the end of the day you can say 'a persons value is based on what they bring' then there isnt anything bad about what you believe, fact or not.

i do believe there are differences in the races. some are stronger than others. some are smarter than others. i dont believe that these differences magically balance out to amke us equal. im not educated enough to know with certainty what the rankings are. if i had to guess blacks are a bit inferior.

but at the end of the day there are many many many blacks who surpass me in many many many ways. being white did not make me who i am. even dumb white people can be respectable and 'educated' simply by putting in the effort and trying harder.

so i try to judge people based on how they act and what they bring to the table, regardless of race gender or orientation.

if someone wnats to live up to the negative stereotypes of being a nigger or a faggot, well tahts great, they can fuck off.

but despite my feelings about the gay community as a whole, theres a lot of ince gay guys. and black guys. and middle eastern guys.

etc.

>>17272877
I miss it too and i'm 42

I miss it because of the forced socialization. It's impossible to meet people or make friends now, and as I get closer to 30 it only becomes harder and harder. Everybody just wants to stay at home with their SO or go on double dates.

>>17272915
This. High school was a great time. Now my friends have moved out of state or are married. It's really hard to socialize.

*ever been

Call a hotline or get yourself checked into a ward.

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>>17272682
You'll either grow up or you won't, i bet its over some pussy

Try finding someone to express your feelings to

no, that medicine is only for single people with good jobs, breeder poors aren't allowed.

get an abortion.

>>17272696
y u do dis

are you here to give or ask for advice, senpai?

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>>17272656

>>17272656
It's not a myth. On average asian men are smaller and not impressive in anyway.

>>17272648

I just moved 2000 miles away for nearly nothing.

>$200 plane ticket
>$200 for parents to ship my shit to me, or do this yourself if you already have an address, about 4-5 standard size moving boxes (I used assorted size boxes usually much smaller, but if I had packed like that it would be 4-5). One box camping shit, one box bedding, one box clothes, one box shoes and assorted stuff, and then some other shit that maybe would be half a box. Use parcel post.

It's cheaper to get rid of all your shit. Read the Lifechanging Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo. You can kill it in one day and I highly recommend it.

Get rid of all furniture, kitchen items (except maybe a good knife and a few high quality teas/spices), all books, cds, dvds, bds, and most other stuff. i started paring down months in advance and managed to sell most of it rather than just dump it at goodwill. You said you only have weeks...you already fucked up. However, think penny wise pound foolish. If you're too much of a scrooge to donate something you could have sold for $20, and you pay $40 to ship it instead, you're a moron.

Also think about the time spent driving. Days of your life in a very stressful and exhausting situation. Just fly, it's faster and easier. I ended up living out of a duffel bag and backpack for two weeks, it was actually pretty awesome.

Buy new shit secondhand and it's dirt cheap.

Think about it: is your fucking shit even worth $800? Could you buy it all again used for 800? No? Less? Then it's not worth moving.

>>17272862

Also I say $200 to ship my shit, I don't really know how much it will end up being. I told my parents to use parcel post but the fuckwits used 2-day priority which is exorbitant. Then they refuse to take my money for it all... I also had my bike to ship which costs 70 (bike is valued around 1400 as is, 1600-1800 new, I bought it for 200.)

rent an SUV from a car rental company

>>17272634
you have an ideal in your head. face the reality.. maybe hes not the one

>>17272664
that's how i'm feeling. it's not an ideal, because i didn't take him or men's supposed feelings seriously, precisely for this reason. yet again i am correct, meanwhile he tries to make me feel like, when i feel uncared for, that i am irrational or something, when he straight up ignores me. why do men try to sell a narrative of deeply loving someone when they truly do not? why do that? why?

>>17272634
Same position as you but a man, and I would love nothing more than having her care like you do. There's nothing you can do unless you get in to manipulation which likely isn't something you want to do. A relationship is a fit for both people, there are probably ideals you do not fit for his preferences and obviously it goes the other way too.

Personally, mutually returned love is something I've been longing for for a long time now, and I doubt I'll ever find it.