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So bit weird I guess.
But would a electric razor for women be any different than one for men if they need it for shaving body hair?
I have really shitty leg hair and was looking into some razors for it. But for obvious reasons it's typically a woman only market.

Are electric women razors worth it for a man? Anyone have experience or recommendations about it?

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What do people mean when they say they "have" friends?
Can you "have" another person? I don't think you can. That person is free, you don't have them

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>be me
>be yesterday
>be forever alone
>prom tonight
>she actually asks me
>yes
>don't know for sure if I like her in a special way
>we slow dance
>yes so much yes
>butterflies don't exist just fucking Apache attack helicopters flying in my stomach mixed with the Manhattan project
>no doubt in my mind this should not stop tonight
>few friends take me to another room
>say I need to go outside with her
>be outside
>we like like eachother
>very awkward kiss
>night goes well I guess
>what now
>still in high school
>Monday's coming
>only one lesson not in same class
>I don't what to do
>I love her
/adv/ I do not want to fuck this up

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I want to get a girlfriend and figure out what they like/ just be attractive to them.. what do? Bonus points for something other than "bee yourself"

tfw no gf

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>texting a qt girl over a few weeks
>we seem to like each other, we have multiple-text-long convos with each other
(This isn't the sort of thing where we met online and never actually met irl, we know each other from school, and used to hang out at lunch)

>I say we should hang out again some time, she says she likes to go to the park and a bookstore
>no actual solid plans made, but she said she'd be free next week
>think I'm being a little too pushy, I'm the one who started the last few chats, decide to wait for her to text me
>that was a week ago, no replies since

Did I fuck up? What should I do? I don't want to make her feel pressured to hang out with me, but I also don't want her to think I don't want to.

Also;
If I mange to fix this, how do I make it clear to her I want a relationship? I think she might only think of me as a friend, but I'm not sure if it's because she doesn't want a relationship, or because I haven't really made it clear what I want.

Thanks for any help

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So sometimes, I get some really fucked up thoughts of me killing myself or another person, for some fucking reason
I don't know but lately they've just been coming in my brain and storming in and I just feel fuckign awkward, how do I stop having such thoughts, is there something wrong with me?

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I bumped into a car last night. We exchanged info and went to the police station. It was closed. Guy said he would go back in the morning. He did. The cops told him to take care of it ourselves. He wants me to pay 200$ to take care of his damage and so that he doesn't contact insurance.
I didn't see any damage but I didn't have a camera and it was dark.
Should I pay ? He wants a check but should I insist on cash?
If I contact the insurance company will they automaticly put it on my record and up my rates.
It was my fault.

I have no idea what to do. I've been bumped a few times before and I just say no worries.
,it happens and I let it go.

Advice!

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Hey /adv/

This girl is really fucking bothering me but I don't know what to do. I'll try to keep it short:
>good friends for two years now
>she fawns over me a lot--at the very least I know she wants to keep me around because she genuinely enjoys my company
>fall for her, of course
>she leads me on, but she drops (trust me) obvious clues that she wants no relationship
>at the same time she treats me as close to a boyfriend as you can get--she stole me away to talk to me last time we hung out in a group of friends, she hardly spoke to anyone else, breaking touch barrier and the like
>this happens often, it's obvious there's that sort of chemistry between us

I actually made a decision on my own a while ago. I decided that she just wanted attention from a boy but wanted no commitment for her own reasons, which would be fine if I didn't develop a thing for her. So I decided to cut contact. I lasted a solid four months of ignoring regular calls from her. She didn't give up /adv/. And when I finally broke the silence, she was just happy to speak with me and joke around, no bullshit or drama. It kinda broke my heart. She was like a puppy that didn't even know it had been abandoned for a while. I feel like it's selfish to rip away a friendship she cherishes because I'm too much of a bitch to get over her.

Will my feelings and frustration eventually fade? Should I tell her to cut any bf/gf behavior out? Ignore again? Or just suck it up and realize that this is a third-degree friendzone?

Thanks guys, I appreciate the help

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I'm 21 living by myself and outside of work I dont really leave the house. I havent had friends since 12 and I really don't know what im supposed to be doing at this age outside of my job. I need general life advice anything from hygiene to social skills because I am completely ignorant.

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Is it possible to be friends with someone who disagrees with you politically? I have a childhood friend and since we've grown up, we've had very different opinions on feminism and what not (they can come off as outright radical sjw sometimes honstly). I don't think they're a bad person and I really want to stay friends but I've had several friends before where we begin to disagree with each other on those fronts and they'd get mad at me and in some cases, even successfully manipulate me into hating myself (I'm obviously not friends with them anymore though). I know the whole "never discuss politics if you want to keep friends" argument but it's impossible not to discuss politics with anyone in this day and age anymore. Pic related, I shared it on facebook and they commented about gender neutrality being good and something about me "stroking my male ego" or something along those lines.

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My family has had an exchange student for one year now, a girl of 18. I stumbled some hidden pictures on my fathers laptop, and they seem very shady. They show her sitting on the toilet and smiling nicely at the camera. I've censored her face, so you can get an impression. The question if they've been screwing each other. I can understand he is tempted, because she looks good. I know they've had the house for themselves at times, so it's not like they didn't have the opportunity.

How should I approach this? Confront them? And If it proves to be true, what should the consequenses be? If my mother gets to know, I can technically cause a divorce. At the same time I feel she has the right to know. And I suppose the organization that arranged the student exchange in the first place forbids this kind of behaviour.

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>hey anon, you're hot
>H--hi
>oh what? You're cute why are you so awkward.... Bye

>see another cute girl
>decide to be direct and make a move
>introduce myself
>"lol you're a fuckboi get away from me"

>sulk home from the bar
>go on tinder
>bang a random desperate slut
>few empty inside afterwards
>never texts me back anyways

I'm fucking done. Milennial women can go get fucked.

>inb4 you are the problem

Strength is the law of life. I'm pissed. I'm going to take my strength and anger and go on a raping spree and make my mark on these whores one way or another, this is me taking life by the balls and working for why i want. YOLO.

Give me 1 reason why I shouldn't wreck havoc on society.

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Work related issue anons. Sorry for the long read but it has me frustrated and I don't like feeling that way about work.

There's this fucking cunt who I work with and even though she works at a different site she still manages to piss off everyone who interacts with her.

She often makes mistakes and other people have to fix them in front of clients at the last minute. She's usually 'too busy' to get back to her clients and when they get through to me instead all they do is complain about her. Bad impression of the company because of her incompetence.

So I changed departments and got a new role. I monitor the existing process that has been in place for over a decade, and change it so it's more efficient, among other things. When I was getting trained by my predecessor I noticed he would sigh whenever her caller ID came up, and he wouldn't answer. So it's not just me who fucking hates her.

We had a meeting once when she and her manager flew to our site. I presented the new procedures I was working on and asked if they had any suggestions. She asked to change a couple of things so that my clients would come to me directly instead of wrongly thinking they can go to her.

I made the change and she is going against it doing things that are meant to be done by me and fucking them up. Again... clients are having bad experiences because of her and it reflects on my department. I asked her to follow procedure but now she completely keeps me out of the loop with things that involve my department and it ends up falling on my head at the last minute.

My department superior also hates her. She ignored a request from him recently and ended up creating a whole weeks worth of work to get pushed aside to deal with the issue she created.

I don't want to act like an immature unprofessional cunt by actively ignoring her to make things more difficult, as she is doing to me.

I just want her to go away.
What do?

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I fantasize about punching, torturing and humiliating people, it doesn't matter if they are strangers or not, i get enjoyment from it, i have never hurt anyone in real life, is there something wrong with me?

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I kind of live in a bubble, so wanted to understand a bit more about how more normal people frame their relationships. Specifically, what do people consider 'cheating'.

My girls friend just broke up with her guy, and I personally don't get it. She was hanging out with us and a hand full of other friends last wednesday, and we had some sexy fun together. The one who would later go on to break up didn't do anything but watch. Yesterday she goes to her guy in tears and says that she cheated on him at that gathering, and now they're broken up.

Is this what normal people consider cheating? Just being in the proximity of fun with someone other than their strictly monogamous partner? Seems pretty crazy to me, but I don't have a lot to base it on. Where do people in normal relationships draw the line?