Pretty sure I was screwed over on a recent college exam I took for a silly excuse of a dumb anthropology class I had to take. I got a 5/100 which is absolutely absurd. I didn't know much, but this grade is absolute horse shit, I'm fairly sure the professor didn't even look at what I wrote down.
I will not let this pass, so I was thinking about emailing her about it.
How would I go about it without fucking my own ass any further? Is emailing her about a grade complaint a bad idea to begin with?
>>17277827
You should ask to see your graded work, and complain if there is anything specific that was graded unfairly. Just crying that your grade is bad without substantiation is fucking retarded.
>>17277827
What was the exam about and what did you write about? I love anthropology.
>>17277827
A fucking 5/100
Hi /adv/,
This girl and I used to date freshman year of college for about 2 months. I got drunk one night and ended up hooking up with her friend (I'm a dbag) and she cut all contact with me and started dating someone shortly after. Almost a year and a half later, she started messaging me things like "I miss you" and we started snapchatting/texting regularly. I found out she was still with her boyfriend. She would be extremely flirty and cuddle with me, brush things off of my face, hold my hand, etc. She would also never bring up her bf. Despite this, in our messages and in person she'd occasionally call me her" best friend", but then the next week be saying how she is still attracted to me. This has been going on for almost 5 months now and has been on my mind a lot. What the fuck is she trying to pull /adv/?
>>17277826
You're plan B if her relationship goes to shit. Possibly even a filler between her relationships.
>>17277830
Seconding what this anon said, you are her plan B
>>17277832
>>17277830
But keeping a plan B for 5 months? That's a long ass time
Hello, so I've been reading lately about existentialism and what not
It's really fuckign depressing me right now, that people just come and go without being noticed sometimes
I want to live a nice life, I'm still very young
I just want to be fucking happy but I'm going through rough times right now, I don't know if this is called being anti social or a loner, but I don't have many people to hang out with and whenever they've asked me to come hang out with them I've denied it. what the fuck do I do?
Please give me advice and I'll stop browsing this shitty site
>>17277802
Not browing this shitty site would actually be a very good start.
>>17277811
/bread
>>17277811
Being opened minded is the best start, don't stare in the abyss
Do girls really like "london style" or works too with cargo shorts and sandals
Heeeeeeeeeey, sexy ladies like Gangnam Style, not London Style.
If you wear clothes like pic related, kill yourself.
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>dated my housemates best friend (mistake, I know)
>things are semi long distance but it seems to be working
>out of the blue, for reasons unknown she breaks up with me over the phone
>whatever, start no contact and remove her from social media
>few times after breakup she drunk texted me that she wants to be friends, ignore all
>about 2 months after breakup, she messages me on my birthday, stupidly have a conversation with her
>she messages me a couple of times a few days later until I make it clear that I don't want to talk to her
>2 months later (now) she's moving to my city
>some friends hang out with her, don't really care
>she starts messaging with some dumb shit again, multiple times eg 'do you want your sweater back' 'im not going to x event I said I was' etc
>she even invites me to her housewarming party that some friends will be at
What's her deal? And how do I deal with this situation without losing all of my friends
Considering just getting new ones
This could be a lot worse. You could just hang out with your friends without her? Why would you lose your friends over this? Who's making them choose sides?
But also, dude, let go of your anger. I know it sucks to be dropped, but harbor in resentment unnecessarily sucks more, and you're doing that one to yourself.
>>17277804
*harboring resentment
>>17277804
Yeah better to be a beta cuck who puts himself in uncomfortable situations amirite
I fucked up.
>parents are Americans
>have never told me because I never asked
>turns out I'm first generation Australian
>sitting at dinner, whole family is in lounge-room watching tv
>little brother even bothered driving over to parents place to see us
>parents talking shit about me not leaving home before younger brother
>I go on a rant how American TV has brainwashed them into thinking it's right for children to be kicked out of the house
>they bring up that I'm 26
>lose my shit
>throw food at them and tell them to get fucked
>tell them if they like American ideas so much to fuck off to America
>they said they were thinking about it and that's why they invited my little brother over
>they're thinking of moving back to take care of their old wrinkle ass parents
>they need to sell this house to do so
>they were going to give me some of the money from the house so I can survive but now don't care at all
>they think this will be a valuable life lesson
>ask brother if I can live with him
>he just laughs at me
I don't have any friends IRL and I have no job, and the house is in a pretty desirable area and will sell in a month or so. How do I get a job that will pay enough for me to not end up on the street?
Do they shit their pants in public?
You sound like a real winner.
>>17277724
Your 26 and sperg out at your parents, and somehow never knew your grandparents lived in America?
This is low tier bait, even for you Australia.
Damn I'm disappointed why could you be like the Canadian Muslims turk talking about how good sjw and feminism is.
Take a pointer straya, you've been thrown off the shit throne.
I was addicted to porn however in a long battle I got porn substituted by a platonic love in which I only masturbated to her.
Slooowly I got my ejaculation disorder healed and started feeling a lot better.
The problem starts here:
Platonic love has started to eaten myself like porn did. I cannot stop thinking about her. It generates a lot of anxiety knowing it is almost imposible for me to get her.
At the beginning the idea that I could get her even at the most significant posibility was a healing idea that pushed me throught my day to do things.
But now this all has turned upside down, the idea that I could ever meet her and even don't know how to react, all my insecurities started attacking my platonic love turning it into a source of anxiety.
I cannot even eat properly like in my porn addicted times if I start thinking about her I just cannot continue eating.
Even at work I am starting to feel I cannot concentrate.
Please help me someone how to proceed I want to love her like the old times, because HOW CAN I DROP HER WHEN SHE WAS MY SALVATION OF PORN.
I CANNOT LET MYSELF DROP HER.
Please Help
>>17277684
>her
>her
>her
>her
You could stop being a gigantic beta faggot
>>17277685
How should I proceed? Are you saying I should drop her?
>>17277684
If you build your life around any girl, you are going to end up very fucking unhappy.
As far as "addicted to porn," nigger please. If I stood by you with a cattle prod and branded you each time you searched, you'd stop.
you get addicted to heroin, not porn. As far as GF...you're born alone, you die alone. you live in Spain. Get a fun hobby. Steroids are legal there, find a fun gym.
Can a normalfag guy or any guy like a girl who is nearly autistic or ocd about her interests? I don't remember any people ever liking that thing about me, so i usually never bring it up and behave normally.
Is it bad i have this trait defining me? I've been like that since preschool.
>>17277654
Ya, I would be down, charmed even, but I'm only really a normalfag pubicly/externally. In private, I'm fairly ocd about my interests as well.
>>17277654
Shut up, cunt.
>>17277654
how autistic/ocd are we talking about here? give some examples
I'm 18 years old about to start my senior year of high school. I'm a kissless virgin who is too awkward for the normal people and too mature for the weird people. My main problem is crazy social anxiety. How do I get over this and learn to talk to girls? How do I meet new girls? Is it possible for me to get laid? Pic unrelated.
What happens when you talk to girls? Do you spazz out or something?
>>17277608
Pretty much, I just get nervous around girls I like/find attractive. Think Michael Cera.
Two ideas for you OP:
1. Go fuck an escort/hooker. Find one on AdultWork in your area with a good reputation that'll provide you with a good experience. This should hopefully get the pussy off the pedestal, and you'll lose some of your anxiety from interacting with women.
2. Imagine that the females you talk to her actually dudes. Don't treat the interaction like if you fuck it up you'll never get to fuck her. Chances are 99.9% of the time, the female you're talking to isn't going to want to fuck you anyway, so just focus on making friends. Use the FORD framework to talk to people, Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams.
To be completely honest, women enjoy it when you ask them a lot of questions; and make it seem like you're interested. If you feel like you don't have anything to say, ask them something.
What's the worst that could happen?
Is it too late to get out of the friend zone when she calls you her "best friend forever" like do I just accept this or what?
>>17277567
You're not friend zoned until you've been rejected.
Go for it desu.
There is no such thing as the friend zone.
There is only rejection.
>>17277567
work on your neck muscles to make you look more dominant
it works srs as fuck
I was with someone for 5 years. We lived together for 4 of those years. We talked every day, laughed, learned from and supported each other, had great sex.
Six months ago, she told me she wasn't happy anymore. She immediately left the house to go have sex with someone else; I later found out she had been setting it up for weeks, waiting for the right time to end the relationship. Then, in the following days while I looked for a new place to live, she begged me to go out for the night so she could have a guy over. I hadn't even packed yet. I can't even describe how much it hurt to hear her ask me that. Not that I'm bothered that she will fuck other people, but that she seemed so totally over it, and had no regard for my feelings at all. We bought the bed and all the furniture together. What the fuck happened?
This is the first time in six months I've collected my thoughts about it. It's just been streaks of misery and suicidal thoughts. Not just because I lost my best friend, but I let my life dissolve around that relationship, and came out with nothing. I slept in my car for a few weeks, then I got in an accident and totaled the car.
Now I live with my mom again. I quit my job because of how far it was. And to be honest I couldn't get out of bed. I still have trouble with that.
I don't know what I want from you guys. I just keep struggling with these feelings of worthlessness or apathy at best. I don't know what I want to do. All I've done for months is play video games and sleep.
I don't think I can ever be in a relationship again. I've had messy breakups in the past, but this was by far the most brutal soul shredding anything I've experienced.
There's nothing to do than to give your best to deal with it. When something as terrible as this happens, then it's normal for people to feel terrible about it and to take a long time to deal with it. Try to do small positive things, to contact people, to find someone to talk to again and to be open with. If you're in a slump for such a long time, it can be good to seek out therapy in order to deal with your negative feelings and get back on your feet again. Ultimately, if you hold on and try your best to find purpose and an emotional equilibrium again, you will be alright.
Take "TheRedPill"
>>17277548
Try to come to terms with yourself. Humans are going to be humans. We are all just animals with a facade of decency, which always melts away at some point.
Don't blame yourself for it OP. It happened, there is nothings else you can do about it. Use this as an oppertunity to work on yourself and focus on how you can be happy by yourself. Don't start with anything big, just do small things.
Good luck on the recovery/getting out of the depression
Hi /adv/! So, I'm turning 19 in 2 months and my parents finally allowed me to get tattoos! Thing is, I want some on my back and chest area, since my work doesn't allow me to have any tattoos showing. I need ideas for tattoos with some meaning, pic related.
>>17277540
Get the one in your pic related.
It's has about as much mean to you as any other suggestion we will make.
belly tattoo.
When I woke up this morning I could see trails of movement. It did not last more than 5/10 mins of waking up, but it still freaked me out a bit. Is this simply because I was verry tired? Or something else?
>>17277536
Do you drink?
>>17277536
You probably slept in a bad position that restricted blood flow.
>>17277539
Not last night. Had a J before bed though.
How to stop having feelings for my friend?
>>17277533
So you want to stop being friends with them and just have a neutral emotionless connection with them?
Probably some medication out there that could do that.
>>17277554
Not really, rather I just wish I could be content with the friendship I have with her and not have to experience the inevitable soul crushing that's going to occur when she does eventually get a boyfriend herself.
But I doubt that's possible so I'll look into these meds.
Meds are sort of like those engine oil and gasoline additives that claim to clean your engine, repair blown gaskets, and clean your injectors.
Yeah, we want them to be true, and sometimes they appear to work, but deep down inside we know that they're all a crock of shit.
This is such a stupidly simple problem, and drugs is the first thing you hop on? You're hopeless.
Understand that your experience is entirely subjective, OP. It's not that you can't change, it's that you don't want to change. Deep down inside, you're holding some hope that you will be able to get together with her. Resolve that.
My girlfriend wants me to dominate her hard.
We have cuffs, a collar, a leash, a mask and a ball-gag.
I have no idea what to do though. Any advice?
>>17277530
Just tie her up during sex and call her degrading shit. Maybe rape roleplay
https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/13tu08/my_howto_guide_for_men_on_how_to_dominate_a_woman/
whats most important is you do what you want to do to her. You gotta have the mindset that its about you and what you want not her.
>make her eat your asshole
>fart in her face.