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>>17278954
It's called a will, ask a lawyer.

Are you ok anon?

>>17278954
if you care a lot about her, don't kill yourself. It's horrible to outlive your child.

>>17278959
I thought about something rather personal, something selfmade you know? I'm curious whether it would be positive to leave something like that behind or if the people affected by it would feel worse or whatever.

I hate life and want to die.

>>17278961
I'm so sorry, but so powerless. I feel extremely selfish, but can't do this any longer

>>17278910
What the fuck

>>17278910
Hes probably at the movie with a guy so better just stick with the original plan and break it off during the lunch

>>17278910
what did you argue about?

>>17278886
*from people that are selling them ridiculously cheap and probably dont know any better

No. Fuck no. Profiting off the ignorant is the staple practice of 99% of good businesses.

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Chances are they just want to get rid of it.

When I worked at Goodwill people donated expensive stuff all the time. They just didn't have a use for it, and the money wasn't all that important to them.

>>17278829
How sensitive are you? I'm pretty sensitive to noise, sleeping on a plane didn't really give me any rest when I tried it (I also skipped sleeping the previous night)

>>17278833
A little but I could probably do it. How'd it go, did you have to just suffer through a day without sleep until collapsing?

>>17278829
Well what's the time difference between where you're going? Judge by that if you can't get your sleep schedule back on track or you can't just take a medication or something to get over being a sensitive cunt with no self control.

>>>/b/

>>17278798
To be honest senpai, you do look a little odd, but not creepy maybe it's just your expression.

>I personally think I am at least an 8/10
Your face is too long and droopy. 5/10. 6 if you had a better haircut.

those people actually make enough money to pay for a manager?

>>17278793

yeah i make 15 an hour. but hes not one of those 'walk in, ten dollar reading' types. we dont do anything flashy with signs, our office is very private and he charges 360 an hour. since ive been here we never had one official 'business consulting' client, most people just work those kind of questions into the regular readings. but this guy is willing to pay us regularly so not passing us up.

and by manage i mean i manage the whole business, not like i manage him specifically.

>>17278791
Good luck with designing that front page to look attractive but not too unprofessional.
Make the contact us page easy to find.
Ask the psycho if the testimonials should be the center of attention when you visit the page, and if not, what will be?
>A little bit about the psycho
notable clients, I don't know if this was your idea or the psycho's, but that's not the greatest idea. That info should be private. And if I see who else this psycho is killing, I don't want to fit into that group of people or I could start making negative presumptions and kill myself instead.

>>>/b/

Bump because OP is right.

>>17278782
>So in this world we can literally have almost anything that we want. Money, power, fame, grades, possessions are all 100% obtainable with enough effort, determination, and will. If you want it bad enough, you WILL obtain it. This is a fact.

That's a blatant lie, you haven't lived enough if you think that's true; you're hopelessly (and dangerously) naive if you actually believe that.

Is she thicc?

>>17278753
lol
fuck u senpai
but yes

>>17278751
A giftcard to a mani/pedi place.

A lotion, shower gel, bubblebath basket from a place like bath and body works.

Offer to take her out to dinner to a nice place, dinner with wine, cook for her, do stuff with her.

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>>17278734
>not doing well at videogames

>>17278742
Yes, I know, Mr Frogposter. I feel autistic as fuck. I swear like a sailor at simple things going wrong around the house too.

>>17278734
Focus and perspective are needed to overcome stress. Whenever something goes wrong and you feel yourself falling into that habit--STOP. Take a few breaths. Ask yourself: What am I really upset about? Is it really under my control? What will my getting worked up over this do to help make things better? What IS a better way of dealing with this kind of thing? Seriously--a little pause and reflect might save you from stress related health and social issues later. GL!

>>17278682

you're already gonna fail, because you're already thinking that its about hand to hand fucking combat.

this isnt walker texas ranger mate. good luck tho. get your jollies whichever way you can.

>>17278693
congrats on a dumb ass reply, I don't think its about hand to hand, but good assumption

And mate? what are you 12?

>>17278682
Haha, oh man. Do you have any criminal connections? Any detective or cop Experience? The hard part about hunting bounties isnt fighting, its finding a hoodrat in the middle of the Detroit without getting shot at and making sure your loved one doesn't get his ass kicked by his nephew when you bring the hoodrat in.

sounds like you've got great taste in men!

>>17278643
Haha, I know right? A pedophile and a rapist!? I miss him so much.

Wait so you knew he was a pedo and he actually raped kids and you let him close to a kid?

You should do a murder suicide including him and his mom, you people are fucking crazy.

don't get too drunk

>>17278628
yeah but the kind of people you meet will obviously be determined by the clientele.

shitty bars = shitty people, typically. most crap degenerates flock to bars to begin with.

>>17278638
i dont plan on having more than 3-6 beers

>>17278617
Just refresh yourself on things that you did at the prior job and have a few questions to ask the interviewer to show that you're interested in the new position and their company. Try not to bring notes--they might fumble, get out of order, or otherwise be a distraction. Smile, maintain eye contact, and try to project confidence and enthusiasm. If they like what they saw on your resume/application, then the interview is really about putting a face to those words, so look your best and act like you belong there! Dress like you already work there as well, if possible! GL!

>>17278617
My uncle did all the hiring for a decent sized company for like 10 years?

I asked him once what are the most important things he looked for in interviews he said (1) was their shirt tucked in and (2) were they on time for the interview.

Sounds simple and basic but that was his job to l decide if people were worth being hired.

So just dress nice and show up maybe a few minutes early just to be safe.

>>17278641

Funnily enough, I'm going to work in the morning anyway then I'll be driving to my interview so I was thinking of wearing my standard every day attire (a fitted skirt and a shirt) but didn't want to look like I hadn't made a specific effort for them. I am a stronger interviewee, so I'm not too concerned about my ability to at least manage during the interview...I just don't want to end up with too much in my head or too little! I'll leave the notes at home I think :)

>>17278651

This is a very good point. I'm always early for interviews (although nothing else) and hopefully I'll look presentable.

Caught her on tinder one day. She said she wasn't sure if I wanted to make the relationship work because I almost never called her (we texted all day long)

Things got really bad. Both of us lost our jobs. She always took care of me. With or without job. I will always be grateful, she made sure I was fed and well all the time.
She got quite drunk a few times and wanted to break up with me.
I talked about my (only) ex to her. The third time she wanted to break up, it was because she saw I talked to her on whatsapp. She got mad and asked her what was my need to talk to her. If there was something my ex was providing that my girlfriend didn't. I told my ex it was best to part ways again.

She eventually met my family. We talked about getting married and names for kids.
We fell in love for each other.
Last night, after I picked her up from work, she mentioned sending a text message. I glanced at her phone and saw an open conversation where she was trying to send pictures of herself (facebook, bikini) to someone.

And the most painful one. I'm at work, trying my best not to cry. Feeling really bad (physical, mental and emotionally)

I confronted her. She said it was a friend of her roommate's, which gave them weed. But, he started doing it for free, asking to go out several times.
I checked her phone. Before the worst part, she mentioned something like "I started dating someone from (random) ethnicity", of course, not mine. According to her, it was sympathy to get help to get a job.

She had calls and conversations with her ex, last one, the one she always mentions.
Sexual talks, nude/dick pictures of him, things she would like to do to him, phone talks, going since we started talking to yesterday. She said she still loves him.

We both agreed that our relationship was never going to be the same if we continued.
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After that, she said she understands if I want to break up, but said that she never cheated physically on me. She used to date a lot before, but that she was faithful to me and really loved me.

I mentioned, once I'm gone, it's going to be like if I never existed.
Deleted all of our pictures together on her phone and facebook, conversations, my contact, everything that I could.
She got mad at the next morning, saying I didn't have the right to take her memories, and that she has no one.
After that, she went out for a smoke, I checked her phone. She sent a message to the dealer saying to go to her place, that I had broken up with her.

That was after she got mad. Before that, she asked for a second chance, that she loves me and wanting to have sex with me.

She said she just wanted someone to buy her smokes and alcohol, but went directly to other person before me.
She said that if I do that, she won't meet up with the other guy.

I dropped her at her place and came to work. Here I am now.
On a mediocre job, no friends, no longer a place to live and I owe my last 3 payments of my car.

I'm sure I skipped details, mostly because I'm sad, heartbroken and stressed.
I considered suicide. You might say, suicide over breaking up with someone you dated for almost 3 months? Well, I was in love. I asked her "why would you do that to me? Why hurt me?", especially after the scene she made when she saw I was talking with my ex (about life, nothing sexual)
I'm starting to feel somewhat better after writing all this.
Thanks for listening. I will appreciate any comment.
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>>17278607
There's not a lot anyone can say that makes this any better

It was a whirlwind 3 months by the sound of it, and it appeared to be a fairly unhealthy relationship. She seems to smoke and drink a lot, whereas you don't. That can be a huge mismatch

It was just 3 months. It was infatuation, not love

Hang in there

>>17278518
I'd try to leverage your existing experience into something profitable. You have record of making 55k so you can ask for that when applying to similar work.

If that doesn't pan out and your unemployment benefits are starting to expire, consider college.

>>17278518
Try to get a job, preferably in an government office again, but set a time limit to how long you will search. If you get that job, consider taking college part time or in spare time so you can have a degree. If you don't get a job reasonably soon, consider what you want to study and see if you can take courses and work on campus or get job assistance/referrals while studying. I hope that this is helpful! GL!

See if you can get government grants and go to school for free. It's called FAFSA. The best thing you can do is invest your 10k (if you want to do it safely put it in a mutual fund, if you're feeling a little risky then look into the stock market). You're at the perfect age to start investing in retirement. The 10k you invest now in a mutual fund would be worth 320,000 by the time you would turn 55 years old. Get a part time job if you go to school.