Alright ill make this as short As possible.
Girlfriend of 4 years doesnt want to use the pill and it could take up to 2 years at ny age to get the snip.
I cant cum from wearing a condom anymore and im starting to have dreams and even daydreams of my exes when wed fuck without a condom.
ive discussed this a little with gf but not part of being unable to cum with rubber on.
Do i tell her the sex is shit for me. Or do i keep it to myself.
She refuses pill.
Conversation. Very fucking important. Also there are other contraceptives besides the pill.
>>17279804
Definitely tell her about your issue, but not fantasizing about your exes. She can get a non hormonal IUD or you can use sponges or some shit.
I am in the same place with my current FWB and we are just using the pullout method right now which isn't great but we usually only fuck drunk anyway so it seems like a good idea at the time.
Fug. I don't know. Someday valsagel will be approved for use.
I would tell her how you are feeling. I would tell her about the dreams. I know this is gonna make me some like one of those shitty relationship type of person. But if you really wanna make it work with her then you have to be honest. If you don't tell her about the dreams it could lead to some problems down the road. It may be hard for her to hear but at the end of the day she will be glad you told her and it might have saved your relationship. And there are other options other than the pill.
I like a girl. I don't know how to approach her.
I met her in a CS class back in December and hit it off well then. We've been talking since we met through FB and have kept that close contact.
She's awkward, with no curves or anything, but she's a cute brown Mexican girl. That being said, she does not receive much affection from anyone due to physical unattractivness and socially introverted. This shows when she communicates in essay-long messages, she stays at home playing video games mostly, and never had a boyfriend.
She's not flirty, she's just cool. I like her. I like her a lot. And I'm 100% sure she is not aware of it. How do I communicate that I like her? How do I propose we hang out, so we get more physically comfortable with each other? What are the chances of her liking me back, given she doesn't talk to many people?
Ask her on a date you dumbfuck.
>>17279970
Elaborate.
>>17280037
Hi, would like to have a coffee with me?
Have any men used to hate women, got over their hatred/disgust of them?
I know most men don't hate women, but I don't care about those peoples advice.
I care about the advice of people who used to be repulsed by women.
Hate their soul, and just wish they didn't exist.
How did you get over that feeling?
Also, please no pretending that you used to hate women. I really don't want advice of people who haven't experienced this, your advice is worthless.
Also, I don't want a womans opinion on this. Don't pretend to be a man, I can see right through it.
>How did you get over that feeling?
Therapy
>>17279778
I had therapy before, but it was for other problems. But I was poor, so I had low quality therapists.
Did you just grab any therapist? Or did you pay top dollar for people with masters degrees (if you're telling the truth, because I had therapists.. multiple and they didn't improve my life.)
>>17279778
I'll stay suspicious of your post, I think it might be possible you're just lying or faking to me, just to send me to therapy (that I already have spent 5+ years of my life on. and quit cause lack of improvement.)
Maybe if you could go into detail I might think you're not a liar
I really need to get my life started. I'm 25, live at home, and am a bartender. I have approximately $1,500 saved up, and my only previous experience is in retail/customer service.
Some people have suggested that I go work for a bank, for the benefits and advancement possibility. You guys got any suggestions?
Stay out of new debt
>>17279726
which is?
Take up an apprenticeship. Electrician pays a lot. No experience for some, they teach you. Sometimes you gotta buy your own tools, but you got money for that.
Stop telling yourself that you are a wortheless piece of shit every day .
Your room is a mess , dirty as hell , just like your mind.
You repeat every day you have to change , you have to stop thinking and start doing
But you cant.
You regret loving her , trusting in her , making love with her , SHARING your life with her .
Now that she is gone it seems like your life is now empty , she left with a part of it .
Sometimes you think it is not worth living anymore , it is not worth hoping that things will change , it is not worth living thinking in the " what if " ' s . Because what if nothing changes at all ? what if life will be just as shit as right now , forever until you die ?
Life owes nothing to you .But you lost so many things you lost yourself.
You lost your grandma , your father , your mother , your whole family and the girl that could have been the love of your life .
Remember , you are worth everything.
Maybe there is a girl waiting for you in the future
Maybe there is a lot of happines in your future
Maybe you are predestined to become someone important
But its not worth living while you hope in the " what if 's "
Good luck buddies , you are worth way more than all that shit.
Tonight im killing myself.
Tl;dr: op is an angsty teen
Nothing to see here
>>17279709
Ah okay thx
Hey, op. I felt like shit when my wife left me, but my dog died two weeks later and realized he was better to me than she ever was. It's been a year and a half and I am glad to be rid of her now, but I miss my dog everyday.
>Live in The Netherlands
>At young age had bad grades
>My school desides to secretly register me to this thing called "Wajong"
>few years go by and I'm 17
>My mother gives me full access to my bank account
>Wave of sadness when I see 29,78 euro Mother apologizes and blames my father for taking all the saved money
>Yet another few years go by and have never had a job only gaming and chilling with friends
>I'm 23 now and my bank account has 6,853,00 euro no debts only freedom
>mfw I became careless and bought 50,000,00 golden eagles worth 228,00 euros for war thunder its the most expensive thing I ever bought for a game for all my mother knows she thinks that 29,78 euro is the only hope I got. I'm writing this on my gaming laptop worth 1,400 euros
How fucked am I for not working/having a job? I'm sure this wont look good on my resume right? This thing is going to stop paying someday
Doesn't wajong mean that you get money forever for doing nothing? So basically you don't ever have to get a job?
OP your post makes you sound like a complete retard you probably actually qualify for this wajong thing. I literally cannot understand your post it's so stupid.
OP is a faggot.
>>17279695
>giving money to WarThunder
>Gayjin
NIGGER WHY
YOU'RE JUST ENCOURAGING THEM TO NOT FIX THEIR GAME
hey guys
does it turn you on if a girl has acrylic finger nails?
one time i was in bed with my ex, and while i was on hik cow girl style he grabbed my hands and interlaced his fingers with mine. i had acrylic nails at that time.
should i get them done? i will if guys get turned on by it
>>17279661
Looks really bad and fake. You sound like a whore though so I'm sure it won't matter much in your case.
I think it depends on the girl, and only if it's done well. The nails in your picture are really tacky.
Personally I think they look fucking stupid but that's just me. There's no what "guys" like as an entire group especially with stuff like that and it's more than likely most men won't even take notice unless they really like or really dislike them.
>get fired from good job 3 months ago
>had like 15k in the bank because i dont do anything anyway
>play runescape, dota 2, cs:go for 12-16 hours a day
>get shitfaced drunk every single day, aprox. 10-12 liters of vodka per week
im thinking about just quitting computer/internet and getting some shit temp job or something. being neet is seriously making me consider suicide
anyone else here /pathetic/?
hate life
yeah. being NEET is the worst thing in the world.
>>17279536
>being neet is seriously making me consider suicide
Maybe it's got something to do with you getting fucked up on vodka every day.
Just sayin...
Can you guys help me with an interview question?
"Tell me about yourself."
All I can think of saying is that I'm a hard worker, very punctual, and am good with people. This is a retail job btw. I'm only asking because the last interview I had I choked really hard and it was super demoralizing and embarrassing considering it was in the middle of a starbucks store with a couple listening in at a table nearby. I have PTSD from that memory I can't deal with social situations that well so any tips you can give me I will greatly appreciate. Even if I don't get the job I will be content with just not embarrassing myself.
>>17279529
>I have PTSD from that memory
No, you don't. Go to Tumblr to talk about how you're triggered and shit.
Fuck you
>>17279534
I don't mean it seriously lol, just that I sometimes will remember it and cringe and start to hate myself.
Why don't you just tell them about yourself. It isn't magic or rocket science.
Hey guys, serious advice needed. I'm a guy who a little stoned right now so please understand things that may not make sense. i have my prom tomorrow. I have a date and had it planned for about 3 months. The girl im going with is kinda cute, maybe a 6/10. I am not putting myself above anyone (Im not atrractive as so i think). Ive suspected her of being a lesbian (FYI I DONT CARE IF SHES GAY I AM A SUPPORTER OF THE LGBT COMMUNITY) and didnt really think much of it. She then told me she was gay about a month ago. Again i dont really care she my date, shes not a butch type girl so i didnt care. The day before prom i find out shes wearing a tux to prom. I understand its just clothing but really? I just dont want to be the only guy with the butch lesbian date. Am i being overdramatic?
>Am i being overdramatic?
Yes. Prom is overrated.
>>17279505
... Why date a lesbian though?
If you wanted a real date in a real dress, you should have cancelled plans with her and taken a straight girl.
As it is, you're taking a friend to the prom. Deal with it. She can wear whatever she wants.
You should just wear a dress anon stop being a drama queen
>Girl invites me to her place.
>Making out groping in her backyard.
>asks me what love is like
>says lots of people in her past she wouldnt care if they died.
>asks if that makes her an asshole.
>says she talked to her therapist about being a sociopath and therapist says no she's not one.
>Wants to know what love feels like.
>was smoking a lot of weed before and is kind of giddy and excited while asking rather than sad or upset looking.
Help? What do I say to her now? Should I bring it up again? What do I do when this kind of thing happens?
You need to work on your ability to structure a statement or question/learn to greentext.
I don't have a fucking clue what you just asked me.
>>17279426
Its really simple. These are things she's said. What do I do in response to said things?
>>17279428
Isn't it too late to respond lol or are you typing this shit while she's sitting there outside wondering where the fuck you went. Anyway when people tell me edgy shit I just say "damn." It doesn't warrant any sympathy from me unless they care to go deeper but they usually don't because they're just saying that shit because they like to hear themself say that shit.
What do you think of hair like that?
Since this board is mostly male, do you find it more attractive when it's straighten? Do you care?
Thx
>>17279377
depends on the face. is pic related you? looks good in that one, keep it.
>>17279383
It's me, I don't really want to show face. I'm asking cause a few people made fun of my hair, it was probably a joke but it made me think
>>17279377
Don't ask men what they like, do what you like and what suits you. This haircut is perfect for you, don't destroy it by straightening it...
I'm 24 and haven't had a relationship since I was 19. I am so drained from being alone with no real intimacy, and it kills me.
My friends aren't really helping me, and whenever a girl does show interest, one of them usually takes her first. I'm 5'8, bald, and skinny as hell. I'm in shape and I look pretty good, but need to gain weight.
The ways to meet girls are money, through friends, or by looking good; I have none of that. I can't win over girls with my personality because my friends just don't connect me with girls. With that, I've bought steroids and I'm going to take them to get big and look good.
Is there any reason I should turn back now? I just can't keep going at this life without intimacy. I've had sex quite a few times this year, but I'm miserable still. I just want real intimacy and connection.
>>17279310
Eat a bag of dust.
>>17279310
>I can't win over girls with my personality because my friends just don't connect me with girls
This is your issue, don't depend on "friends" to get a girl for you. You need to go and approach them by yourself, talk about whatever and just be cool. Don't do steroids, that shit will actually turn girls off.
>>17279310
>skinny as hell
>im in shape
what
>i look good,
>the only way to meet girls is by looking good
>i have none of that
what?
>bald
>i look pretty good
what?
you are a walking contradiction. just post a frew pictures of yourself and we will go from there. if you cant do that then we cant help you. start on the surface and work your way in.
How the fuck do I get a job? I have a M.S in mathematics but I am autistic as shit.
>>17279229
Apply for jobs in the field? Or if you're really smart and not a fat slob, go be a military officer. As much as I hate to say that's a quality option for those with degrees and no jobs/low earning potential.
>>17279229
What did you hope to work as with a MS in Mathematics? You took that degree with an idea as to where to go with it, right?! talk to a career counselor at the university/college or maybe a professor that you got along, with if there was one. Math is a broad subject, with many branches and different types of practical applications. Google "Math Careers" in your spare time... GL!
>>17279229
You have a BS in math lol. You can be a school teacher or (not very likely) get into academia. Anything else you'll have to keep studying. Actuaries need statistical background. Programmers need code. Financial analysts need some sort of business background. You can try for internships but you should've done that long before graduating. Good luck OP.
Hello. My doctor has me taking 9 ibuprofen a day (3 at each meal) for a back injury I sustained at work. Can I have a couple beers after work? There seems to be mixed opinions online. Any medical professionals here?
>mixed answers
No m8, you cant. You're just reading it incorrectly. You can't drive k and take iburpophen on a schedule like you are.
>>17279168
Pharmaceutical Chemist here. No you can't have a couple of drinks after work. Just water. Unless you want your stomach lining to absolutely disintegrate and you enjoy the prospect of shitting blood. Also, liver issues will definitely occur and you will be more impaired than you normally would from the drinks. Generally an all-around poor choice to drink when taking that high of an NSAID dosage.
>>17279168
Absolutely not. Taking a single ibuprofen and then drinking later isn't the worst thing in the world as long as you don't make a habit of it (I mean, it's not great, but you're not gonna die), but you absolutely cannot drink when you're taking 3 ibuprofen with each meal, like, at all.
Be sensible. Heal first. Beer will still exist later.