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I had a dream that I should move to Milwaukee. I know nothing about Milwaukee.
Should I do it? Pros? Cons?
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Only if you live far away from Milwaukee.
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>>17276673
It's soggy and cold, smells like beer and has a lot of niggers.
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My boyfriend does a few habits that kinda irk me, like letting his wrists limp when he lifts his arms up and keep it close to his side and bunches his knees and arms together when sitting. He puts his hands in between his legs too. Sometimes when I see him do these things I can't help but see him as a wuss or pansy. Is this normal for guys to do or am I just looking too much into this?
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TOO HIGH
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Your boyfriend has effeminate habits. That's okay. If it bothers you, communicate this to him instead of us. If you don't want to hurt his feelings, if he's overemotional, then maybe he doesn't possess the masculinity you're looking for. Maybe you love him in spite of it, he recognizes his behavior irks you, and changes. Not for himself, but you. Because you asked him to. He's not man enough.
I'm glad that's the most of your problems. You've never had your home burned down. Never known the fear of being robbed. Your life, your entire being, put in jeopardy. I'm glad you've never experienced that.
Your boyfriend has limp wrists. His arms are too close to his sides.
You never experienced having a knife pulled on you, knowing no one would be there to save you, let alone find your corpse for hours. Days. Months. What if he dragged it away, and you became another missing person? Your body isn't identified for eleven years, until the someone checks the most innocuous of places. Then they find you, or rather, what's left of you. At this point your family has given up hope and accepted the worst. Then the news hits them.
Your boyfriend puts his hands in between his legs.
You were never surrounded by a group of people, people you know, who you have interacted with on a daily basis, to be overpowered and raped. Your stomach churning, tying itself in knots unable to fathom how this happening. Not knowing if you would ever get to see your family again. As a result you're terrified of other people and can't form meaningful connections. You've never stayed awake for days too afraid of falling asleep for fear of being vulnerable. You never seek the comfort of a romantic relationship, because you're afraid of what you might do to them.
Your new boyfriend enjoys putting his hands between his legs out of comfort. I am so sorry.
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>>17276659
Trust me. You do a few things that irk him too.
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Long distance relationship down the shitter
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I'm a UK guy who fell in love with a BPD, schizophrenic girl who lives in the US. She constantly hears voices and is on a massive regime of drugs. We have known eachother half a year and we started off talking while we were in relationships. She is a little girl submissive and had a Daddy Dom. She kicked him out after professing her love to me and for a few months we have been happy and planning meeting and a life. I have taken on the role of her Daddy. I plan her days, her outfits, her meals, when we play.
For the last few months she has spent all her time at work messaging me and as soon as she finishes we spend 6 or so hours on Skype and even fall to sleep on Skype. I wake her up every morning a couple of hours before work to talk. She is moving to a new flat so I can visit her in a few weeks and is changing so much about her life. She has isolated herself from everyone and when she has freak outs, every one or two weeks, with bad commanding voices she has to call her ex over to help her not kill herself. She swears she loves me that she wants me and that I should trust her. I believed her but feel reservations when they meet.
We spent Friday afternoon and all weekend in constant communcation/calls. Last night she went crazy and had to call him. He stayed over and she messaged me while she was at work all day. She said she'd go out with him after work to relax and get out of the house. She messaged me out the blue saying "we're breaking up" and deleted me off Skype and our couple apps.
Is this it? She has mood swings lots but I have always believed she was genuine. I should probably sleep and hope for the best but I'm sure it's over. It pains me. How do I get over this? Do I even entertain the possibility she's not just gone back to him? What do I say if she says she just freaked out and had a mood swing?
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Millions of healthy chicks in the world....
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>>17276652
You know, you don't even deserve advice, OP. You want to get into a LDR with someone who is schizophrenic, has BPD and hears voices and expected things to go smoothly?
>Help me /adv/ something went wrong with this scenario
No way, really?
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>be britbong
>dating BPD schizophrenic girl
>who lives in the US
Stop being 16 and get a fucking grip
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>want to be with people when I'm alone
>want to be alone when I'm witch people
what the fuck is this
it's messing with my mind
get me off this fucking ride
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u gotta figure out what u want and stuff. like really everyone needs company every now and then you just have to sort out some inner feelings. maybe ask yourself, what is it on your mind preventing you from enjoying the company of others? maybe you have some unresolved deeper emotional issues, maybe you don't trust others because of past experience. that needs to be confronted
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>>17276647
That's normal for middle schoolers.
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>>17276665
what am I missing to stop being /middleschooltier/
>>17276658
a big majority of it is that I can't feel anything toward the people I hang out with
probably have to sort that out
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Hey /adv/,
How bad did this go?
I had met this girl years ago in high school, and we met each other while out drinking on Saturday night. We spent almost all night heavily making out, and she told me to ask her out the next day.
>pic related
I'm not overthinking it when I say that it didn't go too well am I?
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Ask her out next week after her exam.
If she still avoids, move on.
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>>17276677
This.
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>>17276626
Dude she has exams to study for. If she were trying to ditch you she wouldn't have answered "yes!!!!" when you said you'd hit her up again later
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Gf and I fucked without condom, but i didnt cum inside her. her period isnt known to be late, but it is a few days late, and shes worried because she doesnt feel it coming like she usually does. she has previously taken the plan b pill so i was thinking that may have thrown it off. Advice?
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Relax.
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>>17276607
if she's on birth control, you're probably ok
If she took bc <48hrs after sex, you're probably ok
If neither applies, I would be concerned
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Plan b messes with your cycle so that's probably why it's late. She should go ahead and take a pregnancy test just to be sure, though. And she might want to start thinking about birth control, since y'all are too dumb to use a condom.
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i'm having trouble breaking up with my bf for a few reasons
>has my nudes
>has anger issues and tendency to be violent (has never been angry/violent with me though)
>suffers from depression; will abuse alcohol and drugs if it gets bad enough
>depends on my support a lot
>i'm already integrated with his family and friends
i don't know what to do, he loves me so much and has technically never did any wrong to me, and keeps telling me that i'm the reason why he keeps trying in his life.
and to be honest, he does make me very happy. he is extremely considerate of me and hasn't directed his anger at me yet... though i saw glimpses of it when i didn't get his jokes or if i try to offer advice. i just feel like i have to be on my best behaviour at all times, but i feel even my best isn't enough sometimes.
at the same time, when i saw him chimp out because the tv remote wasn't working and screaming at his dog for licking itself, i just felt afraid of him and felt like he's not the person i want to be with for the rest of my life. also, he got in a physical fight with his co-worker last friday for chirping at him... he told me he was trying to stop his violent behavior, but i don't think some name-calling should get a throw down... plus the guy was obviously stupidly drunk.
his family and friends love me because i make him so happy and his behaviour improved a lot... they were worried he was going to drink himself stupid and kill himself with his drugs. i feel like they also kind of depend on me and will blame me if he hurts himself.
how can i break up with him safely? or is there any way i can word this so he could understand?
pic kind of related, what i want to avoid in the future lol
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Whatever you do, do it in a public place for your safety.
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>>17276617
i was thinking of doing it over text once i move to my new place in about a month... is that bad?
he and i are already kind of in a long distance relationship, i will have a harder time going back home if i go to his town after a break up... and he will be angry as hell to be brought to where i live just to be broken up with...
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>>17276604
>is that bad?
There's not gonna be a good way to do it with this guy.
How do I tell if a guy is good in bed or not? Is there like some visual cues or some way to tell beforehand? Trying to weasel off a guy you're already invested in is a nightmare and I don't want to do that again.
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you are a cunt
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If this is bait, you're a whore.
If this is not bait, you're a whore.
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you will literally never know
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Hi /adv/.
Today I came home and found a note on my apartment door informing me that I was two months late on rent. It was handwritten by my landlord. The shit of it is that I know that I'm not - I even physically handed my landlord my last check and have obsessively made sure every check I write him has been cashed.
I went to talk to him today, but there was a note on the door with a phone number to call for emergencies. So I didn't contact him (figuring something must have come up, I didn't want to ring him if say, his mom was in the hospital or something) but now I'm stressing that I'm going to come home tomorrow to find my stuff gone or sold off or something.
I printed out the copies of the past two months rent checks from my bank, and both have his little stamp from the apartment complex. I plan on talking to him immediately after work tomorrow, and maybe calling during my break at 9AM to let him know I am not negligent on my rent.
Am I going about this the right way? I feel so blindsided by this, nothing was ever mentioned or said to me when I talked to him face to face, and the checks are being cashed, so if that money isn't going towards MY rent, I'd really like to know what the hell is happening with it.
Has anybody ever had this happen before? I'm really freaking out about it.
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>>17276521
he's only human, maybe he put the notice on the wrong door or perhaps he has someone living with him that stole the checks.
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>>17276547
Well the notice wasn't on the wrong door. My apartment number is very clearly written on it.
I'm just worried because I know when a tenant gets evicted or moves out, if anything is left in the apartment, he sells it and gives it to other tenants. I've only lived here since February, and have never had any other apartment. The thought of coming home to him going through my stuff or getting rid of it terrifies me.
I didn't get an eviction notice or anything, but I'm not sure if he could be like "oh well, anon hasn't paid me and I put a notice up on their door yesterday, so...time to kick them out!"
I know I'm probably over-thinking it, but still.
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>>17276567
>I know when a tenant gets evicted or moves out, if anything is left in the apartment, he sells it and gives it to other tenants.
This is completely illegal, unless we're talking about the tenant just abandoning his belongings and not attempting to retrieve them within a certain period of time.
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This girl is going to send me to jail. What do I do?
>Me 25 M
>Get integrated into this whole existing friend group, almost all of them women
>Through them get a lot of new friends, again mostly women
>This one girl is super flirty with me, is exactly my type, has a killer body and is very pretty
>Problem is she's just barely a minor
>Damn
>Months pass and it's her birthday
>I text her, "Hey, what's it like to be 18?"
>She responds, "Ask me in a year."
>Try to move on because obviously, but keep comparing women to her
>would be almost 30 before I can date her without it being creepy
So what the HELL do I do about this?
pic related is how I feel
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If she'd be interested and you can make her happy I don't see why not. You can still date, just don't do anything sexual and you should be fine.
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>>17276518
What state are you in OP? Could be legal
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>>17276518
>would be almost 30 before I can date her without it being creepy
is she 10? what the fuck?
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I lost my father 2 years ago in January to Cancer. I was 18 at the time. It's cliche, and I didn't really understand the meaning of the cliche until he died, but he really was like superman. Any time I needed help with anything, I knew if I went to him everything would be okay. He was in the millitary for over 5 years, and taught me and my older brother lots, and was an amazing story teller.
I still haven't accepted losing him. I logically know everything, but its like no matter what I say to myself, I end up sitting the corner of my room on my laptop playing whatever I can to feed my escapist tendencies.
The littlest things make me throw a tantrum now. I used to be proud of myself as a disciplined man, who kept a cool head, and now even if it's something small like hearing the mention of the word father I freak out. Or if anybody is even slightly critical of me, I shut down.
I think I probably need to see some kind of psychologist or counselor, but I've always been very prideful, like my father was. I can't bring myself to ask for help or admit how much this is destroying me to anybody in person. I tried seeing a therapist once and I just basically sat there and made jokes the entire time because I couldn't talk about my feelings. Every time I tried to talk about my feelings it was like my throat closed in on itself.
Somebody help me. I don't know what I don't know, maybe there's an alternative or something. Please.
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reply somebody damnit, there's a million dating threads a night.
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hang out with your brother and talk to your brother about it if you can. Spending more time with your family and talking to them about your father if you're close enough is a great idea. A really-really-close-person-that-I-super-value's father died last year (to a disease I believe). and when they started spending more time with their brothers and cousins they started to get better, with conversations here and there.
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>>17276702
Thanks for the advice. Unfortunately I don't really get along with my brother, and we've never connected the way most siblings seem to, so that doesn't seem like an option.
I've never really connected with any of my family.
since i quit school, i dont have any contact with other humans i dont have gf or friends, in all day i say only 4 or 5 words cause i have no one to talk, i go outside occasionally to buy things, sometimes i wish have friends and meet people, but i remember im not made for that and i feel bad,i just wanted to say that /adv
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>since I quit school
Funny you say that, I feel the same way, yet I have a job and full-time school. I am still a social outcast
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>>17276488
no one is made for socializing, it's a skill you have to learn and improve on
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>>17276818
>no one is made for socailsing
what the fuck are you on about?
How do you know if you're a lesbian?
Porn doesn't really do anything to me either way, I get maybe mildly wet whether it's a guy or girl, but I can never get masturbation done either way.
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If you constantly cut your hair short and cant go 5 minutes without talking politics or how much you hate men. Then youre a lesbian.
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>>17276497
What counts as politics?
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>the "what kind of snowflake am I guys?"-thread
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So 2 days ago I shaved my pubic hair while I was taking a hot shower. I think the drain is backed up or something. Ok, it is backed up. Have you ever made this mistake and how do you fix it?
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Pic related lets you pull the hair out and it's cheap. I think there's also a chemical you can pour down the drain to dissolve it
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>>17276480
Pipe snake
Drano
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http://zipitclean.com/
I swear by these things, man. Cheap, easy, ludicrously effective, and not bad material for making shock sites. I do recommend double-bagging the bezoar you pull out of the drain, though (not so much because of the bezoar itself as the strip: those things are sharp).
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For all of those who got bullied in kid years, some fags are partying at my house. (Younger brother) They invited some kid just to make fun of him and bully the shit out of him. Help OP get back at these fags. OP is thinking of something online, nothing physical, what is plan? Okay, fag bro having gay teenparty, how do I get their info from wifi connect?
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Just hook them in the jaw.
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>>17276477
OP here, kind of pussyfag, they are all stronger than me.
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>>17276486
Go out and party only with poor kid being bullied, make him feel king and get good comeback at all the other kids who try to humiliate him etc.
Get lil kid on your team and bully the shit out of anyone who tries to bully him, no violence necessary.