Ever notice how only men experience unrequited love? It must be amazing being able to get a relationship literally whenever you want it.
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>>17274746
That's bullshit.
Maybe 10/10 girls don't experience unrequited love (even if I doubt it's even true in all cases), but anyone average or uglier than average experiences it.
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>>17274746
Men and women have different goals.
Don't go pity party on yourself.
Men have lower standards because their primitive instincts are tired to pure sex and women need someone who will take care of them and the kid if they get pregnant.
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>>17274746
Men and ugly women* for the matter.
This has been discussed countless times. Someone will now say "but girls get desperate guys that just send them dick picks and cat call etc." to which we reply "but amongst the 1000 desperate guys a few will be decent".
Women have higher standards because they have babies and stuff. Yah life sucks.
By the way, some 10/10 women do experience it when they are after a 10/10 guy who's for example already married.
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ive been having a problem with getting sex from my girlfriend when I want it, and only when she wants it.
Last night she said were going to have sex in the morning. Upon waking up i got her all excited and ready for sex, then decided that i wanted to take a shower. I invited her, and we got washed up.
>she gets dressed
>lays on the couch like a lazy cunt
>i get her cereal cuz im taking the highground here
>suddenly shes not feeling well, and shes tired
>raised her voice at me for seemingly no reason
What would you do? Ever seen something like this happen before?
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She is fucking someone else better start packing boy
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>>17274713
shes not, i know for sure. I just dont think shes attracted to me anymore. i showed her too many weaknesses.
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She's probably in search for a better man
op is probably a little bitch.
gl with ur shit relationship kek
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Fuck I only come to this board in desperate times...
So I accidentally fell in love. With my best friend.
We have conversations a lot where he indicates that he wishes people, and himself, weren't so sexual... that he "falls prey" to those feelings like anyone else, but he wishes they weren't a part of his life. He's never had a female friend before or besides me, just girls he's hung around because they were a buddy's girlfriend. He brings up this girl that kinda flirts with him but who wants to hang out and get close, and he says "it's like she has ulterior motives". Fucking fuck. But he seems to be... quick to ask about the guys in my life, other male friends or guys that give me unwanted attention. This is probably not the kind of information that will help, I'm just rambling.
I guess I'm 'friendzoned'? I haven't made any attempts to ask him out or move this in a relationship direction, because he's someone that I want to keep in my life for as long as possible- probably because I'm in love and love makes me so stupid. But I've dropped hints, I've flirted, I've many times gone out of my way to do things for him. When I'm around him I have this suffocating rush of chemicals and I just want to hold him and suck on his neck and touch his skin. My base instinct is to care for him. You know, love stuff. And it wasn't always that way, I definitely wasn't initially attracted to him. But here I am.
[Cont. I'm just typing and getting all of this out of my system. I've never put it to words before]
[pic related it's me, just some inb4]
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I've been in love once before, with my ex. but I fell in love while in that relationship, not before it.I was able to act on that love. I think in hindsight it was one-sided- maybe he cared for me a lot, but he didn't love me. I don't mean to be all cliche "I guess I just love too hard, too fast" but is that it? Should I just get a fucking lobotomy? When I love it's so fucking overwhelming and it makes everything else hard to do, like I'm constantly multitasking. I can't focus on myself. I'm in college, I'm working on my career, but I abandon people and obligations for this person. How do I make this less toxic, how do I become less toxic...
Fuck I'm so lost. This hurts, I've never had this before. I don't know what to do. I think this love feels this way because of the pain of it being unrequited, and knowing he probably doesn't know, and burning to tell him but frantically afraid that he'd find out and he'd leave me by the wayside- I can't lose someone so important to me, not again. I guess the main question I wanted to ask was "guys, have you ever had a female friend that was in love with you or crushing on you, and did you know/did you ignore it/could you work around it/was it just completely obvious and embarrassing". But I threw a lot of other questions in there. This whole situation has made me very upset and jaded towards love- it aches in a cold way that closes up my throat and tightens my chest. It's simultaneously the best and worst feeling when I'm around him.
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You suck at story telling.
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>>17274374
I guess thanks for the honesty
wasn't really trying to tell a story, just hamfisting a keyboard. What else would you want to know
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the girl im seeing kind of weirded out and left the room when i refused to eat her out today, any advice?
We haven't really done much sexually apart from some touching, last night i was down to have sex and she said she needed warming up, so i fingered her and she promptly asked me to eat her out to moisten things up. i declined because frankly its not something im comfortable with nor do i enjoy, i dont expect blowjobs in return so its not like im being unfair, but after this she kind of stopped and ignored me and told me not to touch her and eventually left the room.
whats the deal? am i in the wrong?
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>>17274309
>any advice?
Eat her out.
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are you gay?
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As a woman, fingering does almost nothing for warm up. Going down on her does BIG DIFFERENCE, so basicly you refused to make it enjoyable for her. What did you expect. Also you kind of insulted her, imagine if she rejected doing anything so youd get hard, then expect you to do everything.
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. This is something that cannot be explained. You either have learned to intuit this or you have not. If you have not, the only way to learn is experience--there are no shortcuts. So it comes back to: Just ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online. Don't complain that this isn't helpful; stupid questions deserve answers like this.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't fucking know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>Brandon, that one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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What temp do I pre heat the oven for my pizza?
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>>17270795
200 C
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Girls, how do you deal with height differences in relationships?
Girl I'm interested in is 5'0" flat, and I'm 5'9". I would have to stoop for everything and many sexual positions don't seem possible. Plus, 5' is only 2" above legal dwarfism so I'm concerned for her genes.
I know this is a shallow train of thought but it's important to consider everything I believe.
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We're here to listen.
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My wife has finally come to understand I am an introvert and I think she secretly hates me for it.
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Holy shit I hate my husband. A couple hours DOES NOT MEAN 8 HOURS, THAT'S 4 WHOLE COUPLES
i'm going to cut off his hair in his sleep and then i'll wipe my ass with one of his rare foil mtg cards
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>>17267906
kek
Do these tattoos prove my ex girlfriend is a whore?
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>>17276560
wtf is with you dumb niggers thinking tattoos mean anything?
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it proves your girlfriend likes tattoos and wants attention
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A whore? Not necessarily. Trash? Definitely.
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Is it possible to get a girl like this, pic related, to like you? And how do?
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They don't experience romance and have no sex drive, but you want to date them?
...why?
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>>17276418
The girl has been my friend for awhile now, and I honestly think there is no better.
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These things are made up. They are either fucked in the head or ugly.
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How do I last longer in sex if I can only have sex like once a month?
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Masturbate
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>>17276393
masturbate
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>>17276399
>>17276400
Yall dubs are lying to me. I masturbate like 3 times a day and I can't keep myself from exploding once I get a bit of that sweet puss.
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Okay, fag bro having gay teenparty, how do I get their info from wifi connect?
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>>17276385
Suck their dicks
It's easier this way
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So, op, what's it like, being 13?
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Wireshark, requires knowing how the internet works.
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hey
having a career crisis here
can somebody give me a summary of what actual
1. chemists
2. architects
and/ or
3. physicists
do on a day to day basis
tips on which career is best would be appreciated
thanks
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self bump
guys i need help
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Well as far as physicists or chemists go it depends on whether you want to go industry or academia, or even some non-traditional career with either.
I can't comment on industry, but getting to the "final stages" in academia takes a long time. First you have to go to grad school obviously (~6 years), then post-doc (anywhere from 3-10 years depending on the field), then a job at a university. The whole time you're doing research, presumably on something you're interested in. Once you're a professor you also get the added fun of teaching classes and mentoring students through their own graduate studies.
No one can tell you what career is "best" except for yourself. What are you looking for in a career exactly?
Also 4chan doesn't know shit about having a career in academia, so take whatever they say with a grain of salt.
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>>17276351
meant industry
thanks either way
i dont know shit about this either- thats why I asked
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>Live in small town
>Nothing exciting to do around here unless your over 50
>Friends are either working or spending time with their girlfriends, never really have time to do things anymore
>Spend most of my free time sitting around smoking weed and playing video games
>Bored as fuck and want to go out and do things, but there's literally nothing around here to do
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>>17276315
>Friends are either working or spending time with their girlfriends, never really have time to do things anymore
You mean they don't have Ave time to spend with a lazy fucktard who does nothing but smoke weed? I can't blame them from avoiding you.
How about you get a job?
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>>17276321
I have one, but it still leaves me with way too much free time.
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>>17276315
>nothing exciting to do unless you're over 50
What could you possibly be referring to?
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How do I stop being fearful of doing things I'm not comfortable with?
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>>17276242
By doing them anyway. You've got it backwards, you don't stop being afraid and THEN do something. You do it even though you're afraid, and then you lose your fear.
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>>17276242
what kind of things? explain yourself
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Habit and exposure, it sucks but it is the only way.
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Recently I and my girlfriend broke up after years together. There's this girl on college who currently has a boyfriend, she's very nice and talks to me sometimes.
My friends used to tell me she was into me, even though she has a boyfriend and all the contact we have is basically some smalltalk we make every now and then. I never took it seriously but now that I'm not engaged anymore I'm thinking about that.
Would it be weird if I began to hit on her after? She's a nice girl and as I said she currently has a boyfriend, so the thing is, would it seem weird or creepy if I began to talk to her more constantly and shit, considering the whole situation (I just came out of a long relationship and she is currently with a boyfriend - since January as far as I know).
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you dont hit people
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Are you looking for a relationship with her?
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>>17276249
yes, I'm not into meaningless things, she's a nice girl and I would like to know her better and eventually be in a relationship with her. I'm just afraid my friends got it wrong and she simply likes to talk to me
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Im 18 and moving to California on my own have no job and barely any money saved up, Where can i work or what can i do to support my self preferably not 9-5 boring shit.
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>Support yourself
>Not 9-5 "boring shit"
>No job
Your only option is to sell drugs.
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>>17276202
Why the fuck are you coming to the most expensive state in the union with no money or skills? This state blows fat cock anyway, good luck faggot
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>>17276202
Have you considered sign waving?