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>>17308605
Agree with >>17308606, but to answer your question: it's bretty gud.

>>17308605
>Maria being a smug for Poussey

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so like this is a good thread to post things in.

also i was really hoping to sleep with him, and possibly break up his marriage. crazy daydreams maybe.

this isn't too important for the thread but it's true and i hope it gets someone to post

i'm feeling sick to my stomach now and don't know how to make the bad feelings stop.

>>17308594
Retail is a better career.

Stick to what you know.

>>17308600
Retail is not a career and I doubt you have any experience with anything else.

Do it OP. Pays like 14-15 bucks an hour around my neck of the woods, and our minimum is 10.45. Know two guys who do it, they get bored but like it more than customer service. Realize you're getting paid to ask drunk people to stop whatever it is they're doing.

>>17308600

It's not a career and plus I don't give a shit about keeping my area clean and up to standards when I close the store. I don't give a shit to clean up after people and be disrespected constantly by retards. I'm fucking tired of my managers giving me shit because I forgot to move up that one product from the shelf.

I'd rather work a job where I can to sit there and spend time how I'd like to spend it. I have a lot more important things to do.

>>17308607
That's what I thought. If there's any hint of crime (which by the way would be extremely unlikely since I live deep inside a high middle class suburb in a rich city) I just have to call the cops or some other security to handle that shit.

I just want to be there as a scarecrow basically.

Eat shit, drive around, repeat.

Now I want to ask people that have experience in this, however, if my perception is close to reality.

>>17308589
That and being heavily medicated 24/7.

>>17308591
Will therapists deal with getting me medicated after a diagnosis? I'm not opposed to trying something that drastic because this is gotten to the point where it's tearing my life apart. There is literally nothing I haven't tried except professional therapy, and meds.

A free first therapy session said I definitely have problems and would benefit from more sessions but how much do these things work?

Is this like a "you'll be seeing changes in a month" kinda thing or a "you'll be fixed in time for your third marriage" kinda thing?

>>17308589
It does. A good therapist is more of a tool to help you get through things yourself.

Talking to a good therapist is like wearing corrective lenses for the first time. You forget how distorted and clouded your perspective has gotten, but in time you should be able to identify the source, or sources, to your problems.

Worthlessness leads to Hopelessness which leads to Helplessness which in turn leads to more worthlessness and the cycle continues. My therapist told me that no one is helpless so that's where you have to concentrate your efforts.

nah feed her some cock

Then let her go >:}

>>17308582
That was in fact a sample of things to come. You can get back together with her, but set a no illegal substances at my place rule.

The missing her part generally comes later and you probably will. Not telling you if you should or shouldn't get back with her, just a little advice from someone who's been there a few times.

>>17308619
Thanks, anon. It happen a little over a month ago and it hasn't really bothered me until I started second guessing myself earlier.

>>17308556
There are many degrees of being a vegetarian, you don't say how hardcore or vegan you are.

Nobody says you should tuck into a steak if you haven't eaten meat in ten years.

If you're "vegan", then you can feel free to consume some animal protein that's produced in an earth friendly way. I'm sure you can get some advice from your local health food store.

If you haven't eaten meat in a decade, and haven't paid serious attention to your diet and protein intake, then you need to start slow. Like with milk or yoghurt, preferably organic, and some free range eggs fried in real butter served up on toast.

Having said all of that, isn't /fit/ the place to ask about this, seriously?

Start with some meat you are intrested in and work your way up

>>17308556
>social pressure is a real thing

Being a cuck is also real. And you're one!

>>17308541
I really wanted to give you an advice, but then I'll be controlling you, therefore making the advice for your situation useless.[justified bump].

>>17308541
I can't really say much about how to move on because I have the same problem, but after a year of cutting all connections to the people who harrassed me, I understand that this control issue is really more deeply rooted with caring about what other people are saying.
You're constantly worried about what they think about you, and in return, you just start becoming unconfident with everything you do because so many people are saying you're terrible at some stupid thing that they think is important. And because so many people keep saying those kinds of stuff, you begin to doubt your own self-worth and let their voices echo in your head over and over like a broken record.
Those people who kept picking on you wanted a response. Usually, when you get picked on for some dumb thing (example: "You're just some wimp I could beat up"), you're supposed to respond the opposite of what they say about you. So in the example, you'd just get /fit/ and beat the shit out of the idiot who said that, because fuck them. They don't know you. You took steps to make them realize what they said about you was wrong.
If you didn't do anything about what they said, then those people would keep running their mouth about dumb shit just because you let them.
Getting over those kinds of thoughts seem to be more about doing the opposite of what all those people have said about you. I can't really say if it works, but it does lend a small hand in bringing a peace of mind. If you need more help trying to stop those thoughts, see a therapist about it. I'm starting to forget I'm just recently-minted NEET instead of a person qualified to talk about this.

>>17309006
Fucking wall of text. I didn't mean to type out this much.

tl;dr: Doing the opposite of what those people said might help, but if it doesn't, seek help.

>>17308513
>Grow a pair of balls and face life like the bitch it is.

Easiest, non-bloody way.

>>17308529
Trust me I've tried my intense panic attacks will not stop tried everything there is no other way

Have you ever try cyanide?
Then it would help you a lot.

>>17308487
People don't respect them when they bite/growl, which encourages them to be yappy and bitey. If you want to own a small dog, treat it like a large dog.

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>>17308487
But, but they're not. The tiny dogs are the bestest.

>>17308512
LISTEN TO this post

>>17308463
You're a freshman, don't shit buckets about what you're gonna major in right now. Officially pick up 4 classes in all categories you're interested in, and just visit whatever other classes in that category you're interested in. For most colleges, the first week is a free add/drop period, so make use of it. See what you feel comfortable in, and try focusing on it. If you don't like it, you've got a second semester.

>>17308523
I don't think the American university model works the same as it does in my country. I'm meant to pick a set course, it just so happens that this university also does a two-subject degree where you can pick and choose (which is what I'd be doing if I want to do maths).


I hear it's true that you can go in early on and switch to a different course though, which is why I'm not getting too stressed over it yet. Really I'm meant to have my mind up by Friday though, the other stuff is through unofficial channels.

>>17308547
Oh, I heard British colleges are essentially the same from a classmate. Or are you from elsewhere?

If you want to quicken the choice-making, there's a couple of options.
First would be to go to a forum specific to Math or EuroStud and ask about what they do. For example, I had a choice between mech engineering and math, and I chose math because I found an actuary forum and found the area interesting.
Second would be to go to someone you know that pursued knowledge in those subjects. Maybe ask your parents if they know anyone, or your friends.
Third is to go to some central area (for example, NYC for me) and attend a job fair or whatever there is. There should be something like that at some point in the year, look that stuff up. Go there, ask questions, learn things, etc.

If you can't think of anything, though, I'd say to ask your parents. They've been through all this shit already, so they probably know what works.

Find out why you need validation from strangers?

Point is gou dont know where you csme from before you were birn and you font kniw where youre gonna be when you die.
.the time you spendn living is a tiny amount of time ine the scale of the universe.

Other peoples opinions matter sweet fuck all in the end.
Stop listening to others who put you down. Stop wasting your time on those who dont matter.

>>17308456
You should first recognize that /int/ is full of shitposters. You should then remember that this is the internet, where there is minimal risk in making fun of people.

After you have acknowledged those two, you should also note that people aren't perfect, including you, and that mistakes are about as common as the amount of times you scratch your balls.

That's part 1, anyways.

>>17308475
The result of fat fingers on a small phone screen.

>>17308440
Shave the rest.

Hair follicle surgery. But you really should just learn to accept it. Don't get tricked into wasting money and stupid shit that doesn't work.

Wear a fedora


Memes aside, what does your face look like? You could pull off being bald possibly

>>17308437
We're gonna need some specifics there bud.

>>17308437
Easy! You make a choice based on what's best for you (taking into account what's best for your loved ones, but you come first) and you stick to your guns and you power through it!

What else are you expecting? You've said nothing about what you are facing.

>>17308505
Well I'm finally decided to get my sex change.

Go to OpenStax - it's a website that makes free college text books, and they have textbooks for all basic mathematics, from pre-algebra to several calculus text books. Spend a hell-ton of time reviewing the text books, and you should be golden.

khan academy is okay

weird that one class make you stay an extra year

>>17308436
That looks nice, thanks
>>17308480
>khan academy
Weird, I just got an e-mail from them. But yeah, thanks for the pointer.
>weird that one class make you stay an extra year
I'm pretty sure I was told that under a rhetorical situation in which I don't take the extra class during the summer. I'm pretty sure that was just to light a fire under my ass. But yeah, if I don't take calculus this year, I will have to take pre-cal instead, which will just hold me back.

>>17308398
are you fat? With effort and commitment you can easily fix that

Be skinny. Get a sense of style. Be artistic. Dress right. Make lotsa money. Find better friends or make fun of them in mean ways as well. Hopefully you can master at least a few of those. Good luck!

>>17308402

I'm not fat, in fact I do gymnastic since i was 14 years old and i have an athletic body

I kinda don't show my body too much because i already know that i'm ugly so showing off means being a douche (i'm so ugly that showing off isn't effective at all)