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So I recently turned 20 and I would like to ask your opinions. Should I try to find love? I've never had a girlfriend, never even kissed a girl. Never felt weird around them, but for some reason I just don't have the desire to put in the effort for a girlfriend. I'm confused, because most males my age peril over these problems but I can't seem to find any fucks to give. I'm 100% straight, I enjoy the female body immensely and really like the idea of finding a compatible mate to spend my days with, but... Should I?
I feel like I could very easily live my entire life single but I'm afraid of missing out on some important life events by not finding a gal.
So, I ask you; should I try and experience love, or should I continue not giving a fuck about love or lust? I'm sure there's some kind of point of no return. What should I do? (Oh, and please no "Just try it and see if you like it" answers. I know how they work, I've studied this extensively. I just want opinions.)
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>>17309339
I'd start at the age you're at personally. Once you hit 23+ you'll start having to date women with kids already.
>inb4 younger girl
They'll be hard to come by and your maturity levels/life experience will be on a whole different level for the relationship to be worth a shit.
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>>17309339
I think you should continue your life and if you realize a girl who is interested in you, go ahead.
My advice is just wait, theres a lot of people like you and at the end everybody find somebody
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>>17309344
Once you hit 23+ you'll start having to date women with kids already.
Do you live in the middle east or something
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Broke up with gf about a month ago because she cheated on me and now she's like I still love you and she wants to fuck me. Should I go for it or tell her to fuck off
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Just fuck her
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>>17309322
mind your emotional stability.
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Fuck her right in the pussy
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Why live? Bc fuck you. 2016-06-30 11:18:21 Post No.17309318
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I overheard some people say bad things about me. These are people I can't just avoid, so I need to find a different solution.
Won't confront them, won't be passive aggressive, because neither of those options will be fruitful. What I need to do is act like nothing happened.
Any further advice?
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If you beieve they are right in what they say (e.g. they say you are a lazy piece of shit), improve yourself.
Otherwise it's clear you already decided not to do anything about this.
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What did they say?
I find a lot of times with these sort of things in my life that it is best to not say anything or act any different. I store that information and maybe at some point in the future can use it to my advantage. Any time you know a bit how someone feels, without them knowing that you know, it can be used toward your advantage.
The more you let people know where they stand, the more they can prepare and use your feelings against you.
I'm not trying to be an edgelord or something, although I know it can sound that way, I'm just trying to say that if you confront people on those sorts of things, there tends to me no advantage to you. If you want them to like you more, change your behavior and show them you are changing. If you want to screw them over, on the other hand, knowing their assumptions about you can let you catch them off guard and sting them pretty hard.
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>>17309318
Living well is the best revenge. Be happy and let them envy you.
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Hey gents. Fiance recently left me after almost 6 years of dating. Finding it really, really difficult to get over things and move on.
Compounded with the fact that I lost my job soon after because my numbers weren't high enough, I'm at the lowest point in my life so far. What did you guys do to get over bad breakups?
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>>17309315
i'm so sorry.
When it happened to me, i started dating other people. whoever wanted to. it helped a bit.
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Time.
Focus on other things. Job, hobbies, seeing other people. Try and change things up by adding something new to your life. This way you might miss the old stuff less.
It will get better.
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>>17309315
You let time pass and talk to girls in the meanwhile.
You don't have to get with any of these girls, literally just flirt here and there. Eventually it'll stop feeling different that it isn't your fiance.
Got out of a three year relationship myself earlier this year. I invested in a practice girlfriend. A girl you don't expect long-term and may very well cheat on, but will get your head in the game again.
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Am i the only man who doesn't enjoy sex without feelings?
I just dont like to fuck some random girl. I am a very horny guy, its not about that. I have fucked a random girl for couple of times and even though its not bad its also not particulary good. + condom-sex or fear of stds doesn't make this better. Those random fucks have almost begged me to fuck them again, but for me it was no biggie.
It feels stupid to be like this when it feels everyone else is fucking around using Tinder. One of my ex gf is already fucking half of the town like this. To be honest, sex was somehow empty with her, she is stunning looking but it was lame and i felt like jacking off desu. Propably she meets some guys and fucks them in a car.
Is there something wrong with me not liking random hook ups? Is this because i have used to have passionate sex in one of my past long relationships? The sex was mindblowing and hot.
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>>17309313
You're Demisexual.
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>>17309313
i think anyone who has had sex with someone they have feelings for, knows that it is way better than casual sex.
Getting casual sex from a club or bar is shit because you're drunk or the girl is, and that kills orgasms. casual sex from tinder is ok but the girl often expects you to go to her, and fear of stds.
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>>17309313
funny i got to think that men ike you couldnt exist. i'm pretty sure all the men who want to know me do it just to have sex with me. and im so sick of that. wish i had a friend like you to prove myself not ll guys are jerks.
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>be me, living with parents (because i can't leave them)
>huge financial problems
>My mother start crying in front of me
>she says she's sorry they couldnt give me a better future
>i'm sorry too, because i couldn't repay them for their sacrifices
>i can't say nothing, i stand awkwardly in front of her
I love my parents, we know we love each other, but we very seldom hug and show affection phisically. I used to be very emotive in school but it caused me problems. so one day i stopped.
I wish i could do something for them. to comfort them.
I already have a job in the internet (i am a translator) but i don't earn enough to change things.
Little town. no car. little opportunities.
What would you do?
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>>17309311
Sorry, but can you talk more about your job as a translator? I find it interesting.
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>>17309316
I mostly work through upwork and similar websites. I also translate visual games and apps for "donations". I also am a skype tutor for languages lessons.
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Honestly all you need to do is make your mom a really nice dinner one day and surprise her with it. A homemade, hand written letter telling her how much you appreciate her-- things you couldn't say out loud to her face would mean so much to her.
Clean up around the house, do extra chores...You know, anything to make her life easier. Just spend time with her.
Also, start saying "good night i love you" every night. If you're shy about the I love you part then just say it and then close your bedroom door and sleep :)
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>tfw one of your legs doesn't work 2016-06-30 11:13:38 Post No.17309310
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>tfw one of your legs doesn't work
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>>17309310
use the other one
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>>17309310
Buy a new one
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>>17309310
Try restarting it
I was walking my dog today and this girl asked if she could pat it. She came over and was like "okay thanks, bye!" How can I keep accidentally bumping into her without it seeming creepy?
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She's not interested in you, she's interested in your dog
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Fuck you buddy, 52 confirmed kills
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>>17309308
this op. use this to your advantage and tell her she can fuck your dog if she gives you a blowjob at the same time.
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Hey anons,
i will start my military career next monday, though i have no idea what it will be like or whether it was a good idea because i have family. I join the german bundeswehr as officer or officer contender. I never served in any way so i am not familiar with military structures nor do i know what it will be like to be a soldier. One of the main reason i joined is that i can be a provider for my familiy currently i am studying and would also study at some point at the Bundeswehr.
Do i fucked up?
What ist the best branche of military service?
Will i end as divorced cuck?
I would cosider myself as pretty intelligent and i am very interested in politics so i try to analyze and reflect what is going on, hence i am not quite ok all the time with being an extendend arm american foreign policy nor NATO anto russian propaganda.
Can you be a military leader and being redpilled?
Hey just want to here some experience, some opinions. Is it worth it to become a weekend daddy? Can i do any good at the armed forces because i also the the future conflict potential and would like to help?
TL;DR Was joining the Bundeswehr a bad decision? Also share your military service experience...............
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>>17309281
i bump for you because i'd like you to get some answers but i can't give them myself. good luck
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>>17309281
You can be a military leader AND redpill indeed, IF you keep the RP philisophy to yourself.
Remember the laws of power.
I would place my money on you getting cucked though.
I don't know shit about having a family, so can't really answer anything there, nor about the Bundeswehr.
I am ex norwegian military (army branch), but I left due to BP politics in the entire fucking system.
Also got cucked by onitis gf. Glad I'm out of that shit now.
With RP knowledge, I'm not sure why you'd want to join some army though..
ask me anything, will be here for about 30 mins before gym time
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You will probably just end up babysitting refugees when they're the majority in a few years, so it shouldn't be a problem unless you Harre refugees. You're not a racist, are you?
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/adv/, I think my attitude from work is crossing over into my social life a bit too much. I'm a doctor (occasionally pop up in med-related threads) and at work I'm required to be concise when talking to people, and ask the same of others when they talk to me (handing over etc)
It's now getting to the point where even talking to family or not-so-close friends (none of which are doctors), I become inpatient when they tell me something and draw it out. I can already guess the ending of what they're going to say, so save the middle part and finish it for them, before asking them to confirm that's right
It's not really an issue with close friends or colleagues outside of work
Is this rude, or reasonable?
Can I accept this is just natural, or am I on the path to being an insufferable twat?
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Both. The ideal would be for everyone to cut to the chase, but linguistic education is headed to downfall. Since people won't bother learning to speak better, you won't achieve nothing but annoy them.
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>>17309271
Yeah, I guess you're right
I also wonder if it's me just not being able to switch off from work too... As it doesn't bother me when I'm around closer friends, which is when I can switch off. But then they tend not to draw out two sentences into two minutes
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It's not rude. If anything, they're rude for wasting your time. They may do it unintentionally, but don't most rude people? You just need to cut them off politely.
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Don't know where to ask, but:
Is there a language-learning service that points out your grammar mistakes and unnatural wording?
Like a chat or skype teacher.
Need that for English.
How do i learn to articulate my thoughts as an English person? I've never visited an english language country yet.
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Why pay for a service like that when you can just talk to people on the internet for free?
Just meet some people on discord/skype/videogames and talk with them all the time. I know a few people who have perfected their english by just doing that.
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And just posting here is very good too :3
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Just post on /b/. If you made a mistake, edgy teenagers will correct your grammar before even thinking about the content of your post.
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Whats the best major to learn how to write well?
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Write well in what sense? Learning to write comprehensive texts? Good calligraphy? Vocabulary? Interesting and engaging writing?
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if you can't write well before college nothing you major in will change that. take a writing class and shut the fuck up
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English - Composition
Sadly, English Literature and English Creative Writing have pushed all other English majors aside and bastardized the whole concept of majoring in English. Not many school Composition as it's own thing anymore as a result. Or you could just do technical writing courses.
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Cyber-physical systems 2016-06-30 10:17:25 Post No.17309254
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Help me out /sci/. I can't decide whether I should choose Cyber-physical system, Civil Engineering or Mathematical Statistics. What do you think are the future prospects of each of those specialities. I think that safest bet would be statistics since mathematicians do everything better than everyone else. I have worked in Civil Engineering field for years, but I am really intrigued by Cyber-physical systems. What do you think of these specialties or are those shit tier?
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>>17309254
>mathematicians do everything better than everyone else.
Ahahahaha.
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>>17309512
In terms of general problem solving skills from best to worst
Mathematicians
Statisticians
Physicists
Computer scientists (not code monkeys btw)
Chemists
Biologists
Difficult engineering fields
Mechanical engineering
Civil engineering
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>>17309517
Or maybe it depends on the person, because I hardly think that anyone who worth a shit can be categorized into a field.
>>17309254
So, OP, maybe you should simply choose what interests you, because that will give you better motivation and you can (should) study other things, especially related to your chosen field, on your own. It's not that hard to open a math book for example.
Every degree only worth as much as you put into it.
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I don't get this girl? 2016-06-30 10:06:42 Post No.17309240
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Does she like me?
Does she hate me?
She has a boyfriend, so I can't make a move unless something good is out there.
Day 1 of class: Extreme flirting, but it was to get notes from me for previous year.
Day 2 of class: Also flirting. But started acting pissed, may have been because I gave her too much attention or I was nice to the other girl.
Later: Starts ignoring me and staring at me angrily.
I stop giving her attention. Asks me for a pencil and stupid shit like that. I try to talk to her but we keep getting interrupt by another girl.
Another day. I sit right next to her but she acts bitchy, pretends to use her phone and makes me move away from her. So I start giving my attention to the other girl, help her with things etc.
Next day, she is staring at me constantly, then comes close to me and pretends to pick some things up around me while brushing into my arm etc (being close like how I tried to be to her last time, when she was acting like a bitch).
But, there's always this godamn douchebag guy following her around and last night I saw them walk together after class
Wtf is going on?
1- She never speaks to me in private, or when we are alone - only speaks to me when she needs something around others.
2- Usually gives me a long blank stare, never smiled at a joke of mine but every now and then she giggles at my sillyness. But, in private she acts like she doesn't know me almost. But I act the same way to her (I am shy as fuck).
What do /4chan? tomorrow is last day of class. I act the same way she acts with me but I do however smile alot to her etc, and she has made me feel like shit before. I fucked up one time, while she was talking to me I got hit by nervousness and looked away / completely ignored her lol.
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>>17309240
There's nothing.
Move along.
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>>17309242
I figured. Thank you.
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Ide ask her out anyways.fuck the douchebags feelings,not like he has any anyways.
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Fapping with lube ok?
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>>17309223
Fapping with toothpaste Yes!
Mix with some water or it will be too dry as a lube
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>>17309232
What about lubricant?
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A lubricant is a substance introduced to reducefriction between surfaces in mutual contact, which ultimately reduces the heat generated when the surfaces move.