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Girl I had a huge crush on just went back home with this guy who is always sleeping with different women. Fuck it feels like my chest is going to explode =/.... good thing though now I lost all my anxiety and fears. Throwing my fucking PC out tomorrow and going to leave home. None of this shit is worth it.
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Lmfao. What are you 12?
Fuck me thats a funny post.

Btw this is /adv/. You didnt ask anything.
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Reported for underageb& I hate summer.
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Guys what do I do?

I told her my penis was small.

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Hey, Advice.

I have been working as a pizza delivery person for the past couple of months.

The checks I got every two weeks used to be between $400 and $500. But now, I am still working the same amount of hours and days, but my past two paychecks have been like $300 or so.

On the checks for the past two weeks it has had a section for "Tips- Cash". I think they are taxing my cash tips now, but holy shit, are they really taxing me almost $200 for my cash tips or what? Can someone explain to me why I am making less money?
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Check your paystub?
Do the math?
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How do they know the amount of cash tips you get?
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this depends on your state and the laws about tipped employees

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How do I stop over thinking/over analyzing shit? I literally over think everything, even simple shit like if I am short a dollar and my friend lends me it, I'll sit there thinking about it for the next 2 hours. Or if I shook hands with someone and my hand was sweaty, I'll fucking literally obsess over it for a while. Another example: If I meet someone new and I introduce myself, I'll fucking obsess about it worrying if I sounded retarded or awkward. It's fucking ridiculous as this point. I realize it's all trivial bull shit that no one should even think about twice, but idk what to do about it at this point.

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Dude are you me?

Bump because I have the same issues.
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>>17308153
I was this way for a while. You probably have anxiety. See a doctor and ask about counseling and meds. Otherwise try meditation once or twice a day and see if that helps at all.
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I'd research mindfulness, there are some good guided meditation apps for it. It's not eastern crap it's about alert meditation and training your minds thought patterns. Rest is up to you and hard work.

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So i am in a very confusing situation.

I have grown up a god fearing well mannered young man. Iv had numerous girlfriends and FWBs have played tons of team sports and my hobbys consists of motorcycling and hunting. With the occasional video games.

Iv served 4 years in the Navy and am now using my GI bill to further my education.

My whole life has been considered pretty normal,until recently.

I just turned 24 And for some fucking odd reason im starting to slowly become attracted to Femboys/cuteboys and traps. I have no idea what the fuck triggered this, but its gotten to the point where i have no intrest in my current girlfriend. Im considering breaking up with her. Im slowly losing interest in my old hobbys and its fucking scary, why just the other day i couldnt get this blonde twink that i saw in the dry cleaners out of my fucking head.

If my family finds out the shit i have been attracted to. I would be a pariah. Disowned and never talked to again. I try fighting it. But its just getting stronger.

I am seriously considering getting on my bike running away, go on a trip to god knows where and become some sort of nomad in the woods for a bit.

What the hell should i do guys? Please help!
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Dude, your bi curious or maybe juat even fucking curious... i say find a nice fag and make out a bit, see where that leads .. if you like it then persue it.

1 TIP from a fellow faggot (not gay but i am a user of 4chin....) dont worry about how the world sees you and your actions. Your only concern and goal in life should be to be happy and content within yourself. Thats it. If you can acheive that your doing better then 99% of the world.
Fuck your family if they hate gays. Its 2016 not 1970's.... homophobia and racism shouldnt wven be a fucking thing any more. The onky reason it is is because it gets passed down to younger generations. (You being a prime example). Also, all religion is baseless and flawed. SOME of the ideals are worth noteing but nit much if them (be kind to others etc). You have a chance to have a great life dude, your trained, young, disciplined and ambitious. Dont throw all that away because you were raised by religious bigots.

GL annon.
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Were you interested in her beforehand? Are you sure your lack of interest in her is because of these feelings, or could it be for some other reason?
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>>17308166
Thanks man, im just hoping this is just a weird phase. Id hate to see my family torn apart over this. Specialy after all the hard work iv put to make em proud.

And if it turns out to just be a fling,is it worth it? I also feel like if i do go through with this ill regret it right then and there.

>>17308172
To be honest i was mostly interested in her looks, we shared some interests but at this point i no longer feel much attraction to the opposite sex.

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The fafsa online applications must be submitted by "midnight Central Time, June 30, 2016".

Is that tonight or tomorrow night?
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Tomorrow night at 23:59 is the deadline.
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>>17308139
Tonight
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>>17308139
Tonight.
It becomes the 30th the moment the clock hits 12:00:00 AM. The next time the clock hits 12:00:00 AM, it will be July 1st.

>dropped out of community college 2 years ago to work
>haven't done any school related work since then
>have opportunity to go back to school
>sign up for classes where I left off
>math class is Calc 2
>semester starts end of August

Planning on hitting the books every day for at least an hour plus my breaks at work to refresh my knowledge before I start class. I still have my old algebra, trig, and calc books I can work from.

The question is: Is 2 months enough time to get enough studying in to be prepared for calculus 2 after not having done a single math problem in years? Or should I wait another semester to go back so I can be fully prepared to pick up where I left off?

I'm nervous about it and need advice.

Thanks
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Just do a bit each day and you'll be fine. Make a set time when you do it, like working out.

When you get to school check go see if there are tutoring programs as well. Good job going back to school anon, good luck with your studies.
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>>17308126
End of August? You have loads of time. Find out what the textbook is, get it, and get working at it. If you're lost, go back to your old calc book and work through that whole thing and try again.
Calc is actually easy, if you have a math brain. It makes sense. When in doubt, derive that shit. Limits as x approaches infinity? Easy, keep deriving until you find the roots not affected by the variable. Practise your graphing too.
I was a math major at uni, so I know what you mean. Don't get intimidated. It'll just take some extra work for you to remind yourself of what you already know. You'll be fine with some work, anon! Don't look at is as wasted time or work, it's all about solving puzzles and decrypting codes. It's actually fun if there's no pressure and you have the right attitude.
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Thank you guys, you calmed my nerves about this a bit.

I have a problem. I jerked off WAYY too much and WAYY too often when I was younger.

Now that I'm older and have moar secks... I have a problem with getting off. I'll fuck for literally hours before the girl dries up and it'll start to hurt her unless we use lube and I won't get off, with or without a condom.

Sometimes, if I really focus, I can cum successfully. But that's like 30% of the time. The question I have however: is this a turn off for girls? I'll date girls, have sex with them, and then never hear from them again. I'm wondering if it's because I don't cum at all and it weirds them out or something

>inb4 small penis, some girls have complained about the size
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>>17308119
yeah, that's a turn off. do nofap and abstain from sex for a few months.
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>>17308119
Youre a fucking idiot
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>>17308165
Gee thanks for the advice

Fite me IRL

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Is it possible to have "peaceful sadness"?
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no.
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Define it.
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I think I'm there. But it's not peaceful for the people around me.

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>my oneitis snapchatted me
>anon I miss you
F U C K
Literally as soon as I was getting over her she pulls me back in.

How do normal people do it?
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>>17308096
block them and that'll never happen again
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>>17308096
Either go full retard and try to get it together again or block her and don't communicate with her in any way anymore
Everything inbetween is endless pain with a slight chance of irrational hormon-based optimism
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I'm sorry buddy

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For example, if I'm friends with person A on FB and they are also on Tinder, is it possible to be matched with them? Or is there a setting to avoid matching w/ FB friends?

Any way to fix?
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>>17308095
kek. bump for interest
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>>17308095
Yea, Tindr tries to match you with FB friends or friends of friends. There was once a setting to turn this off.

I also have a question. Does Tindr shadow ban for botting, or did I actually go unliked after swiping right on everyone in my city?
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>>17308283
LOL
Screenshotting this shit.

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>live honestly
>be forgotten

>commit mass murder
>be remembered

Are these really the choices
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>>17308073
mass shootings/mass murders are forgettable now. you'll have to make it extra theatrical now or else you're just going to bore people.
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>>17308073
Eh, you missed your boat on being a famous mass murderer. There's too many of them now, it's honestly getting old. Unless you do something particularly crazy or unique, you'll be flavor of the week and then forgotten about pretty quickly.
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>>17308076
>>17308087
These. There are so many shootings in the US that they don't really make the news anymore except locally.

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So i recently got assigned to guard duty.
Im going to stand watch for about 7 hours. No lunch and no sitting or playing on my phone.

What can i do to pass the time? What should i think about?
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Where you went wrong in life.
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Be glad you're not an SS soldier in the Ardennes?
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>>17308085
>>17308054
Gee thanks. Totally going to help me when im bored af saluting officers all day.

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Tried to hang myself
Woke up in a hospital bed
I can hear people shuffling outside but I'm alone
Found my phone on a shelf opposite the door
Nasty bruise on my neck, I can see in the mirror
The date on my phone says it's been 3 days since I tried

What the fuck do I do now
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Try, try, try again!
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http://lostallhope.com/suicide-methods/hanging/drop-hanging

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hangman%27s_knot
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>>17308042
>Tried to hang myself
No you didn't.

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Guys is it gay at all to fuck a girl that identifies as a guy but is physically 100 percent girl? I believe that she's actually trans, because she has a ton of anxiety issues.

She knows I'm conservative and she doesn't push the "boy" thing at all, but obviously she has it on her social media and such. She's cute, sexy, and fun to talk to so she'd a perfect fwb/lover. Plus, she's absolutely into me and has been for a long time before I approached her; so much so that she gave me a skype show like 3 days after I dm'd her and started talking to her again.

An important thing to know is that she has a "boyfriend" who's "aromantic". AKA some even more tumblr-ey prude girl that has no "romantic" feeling, so kissing random people on the lips is fair game to her, yet she can get jealous when my girl does the same. The girl is so naive that she tolerates it, but obviously it is total bullshit and tumblr girl is a nutcase.

Another important fact is that she's a virgin, and I'm concerned about her losing her virginity to a guy like me who plans to get a whole lot more pussy besides her in the coming year.I don't want her to be super attached or even resentful because I took her virginity and didn't fully dedicate myself to a relationship. I really just don't want to say "I'm gay" when I'm not or "this is my boyfriend" to people, so that is definitely not an option.

Worst case is that she wants to date me, and I have to refuse her. We have some mutual friends and I don't want her telling people about this, but she probably won't because I doubt she wants to tell people she lost her virginity to an absolute prick like me.

Best case is that she's okay keeping it casual and we are fwb for the future.

Let me know if I need to clear something up, cause I know I'm shit at explaining things.
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It's only gay if she fucks you wiht a strapon.
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>>17308019
bro nobody gives a FUCK that ur in a tumblr love triange
look it's not GAY to fuck a GIRL ok
so ye i didnt read the rest of this aids filled post :-)
jesus man how desperate can u be for pussy to do this to urself
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>>17308019
>messing with a potential trans
>wants to have casual sex
>conservative

You absolutely are not what you think you are.

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Do I have a shot at dating east asian girls(Japanese, Korean, Chinese)? I'm Cambodian and have dark skin. I hear that east asian girls aren't into guys with dark skin, and I've met literally only 3 Asian girls in my life since I live in the white suburbs. Is it true, will it be harder for me to date east asian girls since I have dark skin?
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shameless self-bump

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2dYOw_Rd2VM
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by default all asians are inherently racist
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>>17308017
Poop skin pig-nosed asians are pretty ugly, sorry anon.

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