I've got a phone interview type this coming up and I don't know if I should call them or they call me?
The last phone interview I had they called me, but this time she's saying "please call me a ##########"
Aren't employers supposed to be the one to call? Would it seem rude to call her first at 3:00?
Just nervous about the interview.
You need to call them, as that employer specified. It can work both ways, i've had ones where i dialed into a conference, and others where i have my thumb up my ass until they make the call. Just follow instructions, and you'll be fine.
As far as nervousness goes, i like to take a walk, be in motion while i phone interview. Treat it like a normal conversation, and smile; they may not see it, but they will hear it.
>>17309840
Don't be nervous if you have a stsrting date. It means they are deciding on you and just want to make sure you're not an autist or something.
>>17309868
>>17309900
Alright.
Is it ok to ask during the interview what I should wear my first day/what the dress code is like?
I'm going into a manufacturing/automation job, but I don't know where they'll put me on the first day.
I can't tell if a girl is playing games, or I'm being a beta. She comes over often, likes to rip the bong and play board games with me. So im like ok, she is dtf.
So she goes, "oh my back hurts"
And i say "you want a backrub?" She says , no thanks. So later on, shes kinda laying there on my.bed like shes waiting for me to make a move, but then when i kinda lock eyes with her she goes ok, im gonna go. Whats the deal? Am i supposed to leap on her? Everytime we hang it usually ends in a hug, so i know there is something there. Ive asked her what she thinks and she says she isn't sure. Yet when she sees my social media, she asks "oh whos the girl? Are you a thing? " and i catch her looking at my snapchats like minutes after theyre up. Im so confused. I try to get her to stay over and she doesnt want to, and she doesnt respond to innuendo. The fuck is the trick to introverted girls?
Can't you just be her friend man ? Rather than tolerating her cause you might have her in your arms ?
You should either get to know her better and understand why she's with you at all or just be her friend
She likes me the same everyone does. Im funny, impulsive and weird. We have some laughs, and such. I just don't understand if im supposed to take her under my wing, or if shes the one to tell me when
>>17309816
poor girl just wants a mate
Hey guys, I'm depressed and I figure rather than feeling sorry about it, I might come here and ask for some solutions for this depression.
Luckily for me, it's not about a girl, but it's still about being lonely. I'm not quite single, but I still feel like I don't have any friends. I just got back from college, and am facing a year here again with my parents and have very little to no money. I'm in the process of getting a job, but I don't expect much social life from it as I'm looking to work a toll booth/security rather than meet people.
I'm just not quite sure how to make and meet new people, and I'm looking for free ways to do so. Money is tight enough now that I couldn't afford a drink at most bars. Parents are helping me out a little bit financially but I know they don't have much so I'm not about to go back to them (plus, I'm old enough now that it's about time that I actually take care of myself).
So what are some of your suggestions? What are some ways, post-college that you guys make friends? How do you get yourself out there that you find really work?
Any advice is appreciated. Thanks guys.
Bumperino
>>17309740
don't have an answer but virtual support for you, OP. you can post your kik and have lots of online friends. it's something
>>17309763
Thanks man. I should probably think about reactivating my kik now that I'm back home that's a good idea actually
Been texting my girlfriend about some random shit (ceramics or sometime), and then out of nowhere in the middle of the conversation she texts "I can't wait to feel your mouth tonight", I'm not seeing her tonight. Her explanation also seems convoluted, am I crazy or am I getting cucked?
>posting the exact same thread over and over
Why do you do this?
RED FLAG
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Time to have an intervention. Suit up to dump the girl
>>17309744
I posted yesterday because I never got a decent response.
Alright guys wondering if anyone has any legal expertise they could help with.
I rent a property with a friend (originally 4 of us lived here but now only 2) and we both smoke weed. We've had an email saying the landlord is pursuing legal action and police are coming round in the next few days.
I've opened all the windows and sprayed shit and everything to get rid of the smell. Should be gone in time but I still need to find a place to stash the weed. No idea if they're going to be searching or what.
But I just need ideas for a story and how to get out of this without implicating myself. I have asthma so I'll be playing that up but could ai get away with saying that friends of friends sometimes come over and they smoke cigs that may have weed in them? Anything would be a help
If they find nothing in your house, they can't do anything
Fucking get rid of it ya dummy. You'll buy some later.
Also get rid of all your dealers numbers and qhits like that. Erase all trace of dope from your life and start anew, but smarter next time ya dingus.
>>17309722
don't say anything. You aren't obligated to answer anyone's questions. You probably don't even have to let them into your apartment.
>Wanker parks car in front of gate
>When I come home have to roll over the hood to reach the gate
>When I wake up is gone... at night is there again
Whoever the fucker is he's not gonna force me to go downstreet knocking all doors at late hours just so that I can get inside my own home.
What can do /adv/?
Caltrops? Potatoes/rags up the exhaust? Superglue the doors shut? Paint remover? What?
get it towed. blocking a gate is probably illegal and a fire hazard.
>>17309678
Leave a note telling him to stop parking there. Next time he does it call the tow truck. The driver might not know they're causing any issue since it seems you get home late at night and they're gone in the morning.
>>17309733
Honestly this. It might seem passive but that is pretty much the only way to get in touch with them. Don't accuse them of anything but make sure they know it is causing a problem and to please park elsewhere. If they still do it 2 more times, tow the fucker
What is it that made women into such natural leeches? I'm friends with one at work, and despite us being very solidly locked in as Just Friends (coworkers, she has a bf), she still sometimes asks me to buy her stuff. I never do it, of course, but it's incredible how the baseline female point of view makes it seem perfectly reasonable to them to think
>I don't really feel like paying for this coffee, maybe I can get Anon to buy it for me
This is a completely separate issue from romantic involvement or family to them, they just think that any male they're affiliated with in any way is obligated to give them free stuff.
Probably something to do with how they're raised
I think guys tend to have it drilled into them as they get older "Earn for yourself, buy your own thing, dont rely on other"
Whereas women see their stay at home mums living of their dads earnings and feel it as normal
>>17309670
>it's a "why are all women maligning blanket statement" episode
>>17309670
don't do the same mistake as I, convinced all men are jerks that only want to have sex.
you can not put everyone into the same basket
Thinking about trying to completely change myself . Sick of my nerd self and thinking about being a cliche Chad
Anyone have any tips on this ? Any specific hobbies / interests that I can go try and explore that are "normal "?
>>17309668
Normies don't have hobbies. Their hobbies are their friends. Watch sports but don't get too into it, have fun talking to girls, be with your bros, and keep vidya to a bare minimum.
>>17309704
Thinking about leaving vidya behind anyway . Rarely play it .
Also I hope to plan to play football when I quit being fat.
Also , I should leave my bf right ? It's going to be hard because he is EXTREMELY attached
Chad's don't have hobbies. If you want to become the"normal" you perceive, then expand on what you do. What are your "nerd" hobbies?
Does anyone have any outside input on this?
I'm 24 now and extremely naive and sheltered and inexperienced. Female. I just got out of a 2 year LDR in which we never met before, and now I think I have a "real boyfriend". Like one that can actually hold me. I'm really scared, not of him, but all these experiences are so new. I've never been made out with before. I've never had someone on top of me. I've never had someone feel me up.
I still feel really sad about my LDR boyfriend. If there was anyone I wanted to lose my virginity to, it was him. I am honestly terrified of losing my virginity because I know I won't be the same after. And it's the closest you can get with someone. I'm scared of fucking up. I'm scared I physically won't be able to handle it (I'm so tiny and fragile, and I don't think my hips can open wide enough to accommodate my irl boyfriend). Also he has a really big penis (he claims its 8 inches). Terrified here. Afaik I don't want to lose my virginity ever.
Thoughts?
Just wait until you're ready and don't worry about it until then. Might as well consider waiting for marriage at this point.
you don't have to take his entire penis in.
he can go slow, start with fingering increasing number of fingers to meet the girth of his cock so when he inserts it is already pretty open
>>17309640
Three things to know about losing your virginity
1. It will only hurt if you have an intact hymen or he is really, really bad at it.
2. It probably won't be wonderful (but might) the first time, but good enough to make you willing to try again, and it will get better.
3. The fact of losing virginity looms larger in advance than afterwards. Your response is likely to be a bit of a letdown just because your life won't change instantly and radically.
>Start talking to girl on tinder
>Im 22 she's 17 (Bongland so its cool)
>Things going well, hella flirty,
>Talk for like 5 hours
>Convo gets dirty
>Talk tons about sex
>We're talking about sex so much its almost a given we're gonna fuck without actually saying anything
>Then at one point randomly she says "You look like a sub, like quite shy and quiet"
What does it mean
Apparently this is a vibe I give off
Im nothing of the sort, I like to be in control in bed, but I'm polite ya know let everyone do what they wanna do
But, is this like an image thing? Im
>Skinny
>Look young for age (Based Germanic Genetics)
>Blond
>Not really a dickhead till you get to know me
Is this something I should be concerned with when I talk to other girls? Should I be acting more 'aggressive' and 'dominant' so I dont give off the wrong vibe?
God damn people are just monkeys arent they
I mean its chill with this girl, I'll show her a sub. But I worry that this might give off the wrong vibe to other girls as a first impression
Who cares? It seems like you are doing just fine even if she thinks you are a "sub", whatever the fuck that means.
She is also 17, so I wouldn't take anything she says too seriously. In hate dating younger women because they are often immature, stupid, self-centered and use "I'm still so young" as an excuse for everything.
>>17309636
Have fun getting pegged.
Just fuck that teen whore and show her who the Dom is faggot
How do I tell my mom I want sleeping pills
>>17309628
"mom, i want sleeping pills"
Just tell her you cant sleep and its affecting your mental/physical wellbeing and that you need something to help
>>17309635
5 mins too late
Anyone doing nofap? For what reasons and what are your results?
desu my boners arent as hard as they used to be
it might be a problem in the future so im trying it out to see if it works
>>17309609
Stopped watching porn a few days ago, to me porn was mostly the issue, as a result I fap less often because I take like 30minutes to an hour to cum with my imagination
>>17309649
Why exactly was porn an issue for you?
How do I hire artists for a project on the internet? What website should I use? What's the process of making a deal and working together?
Hey whatbdobyou need I have some good people in mind.
And basicallynits just looking bad their web portfolio
>>17309608
Tumblr or devianart.
>>17309608
More detail please. "Project on the internet" could be anything.
>tfw you realize all those normies doing drugs are only doing it because they feel alone what with their sociopathic lifestyle
Damn... really makes me think.
Now that I know their diseased minds inside and out, how do I defeat them?
>>17309595
>>>/r9k/
>>17309595
>people that do "thing I don't like" are only doing it because they feel alone
>>17309595
you encourage their drug abuse and let them self destruct. failed normies are really fun to laugh at.
always encourage drug abuse, even though we both know it's completely retarded.
Is it paranoia to have a sudden realization that all the weird shit that I've ever googled is held in databases and now tied to my identity. What about potential effect on my future if they ever became compromised?
>>17309570
This could only harm you if you tried to work at Google, and IF they went through the trouble to try and track every action you've ever done. Which would be ridiculously difficult, because they don't know every address you've ever been at.
So yes, it is paranoia. What isn't paranoia and what could actually hurt your future, is if you have wildly inappropriate things on social media. Anything that could possibly be interpreted as racist, illegal, sexist, hateful, irresponsible, etc. Pictures, comments, all of it. If you have even the slightest thought that your name can be googled and returned to social media or other forums that have bad content, you need to get to work on getting rid of that.
>>17309575
Different anon here.
Is it also paranoia if you tape the webcam on your laptop?
And every post you've ever made on 4chan.