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I never had sex until this year (I am 24). I hooked up with 2 girls at Uni, both situations never lasted more than one night.

When I returned to my home city, I met a girl on tinder. We went on 2 dates that went VERY well, and we started having regular sex, going out to bars, walking in parks etc...

I had told her that I never got out much (which is true) and I enjoyed getting out and doing things. The sex was also fantastic. We were very honest and open with one another right from the get go.

Anyway, she had mentioned on the first date that she did not do well in long term relationships, and that I was going back to school in September. After a few more dates, she wanted to start looking at houses, talking about kids... etc.

She asked me where I saw this going in 3 months, and I said I didnt have high hopes because of what she had mentioned. She had also been with 15 other guys before me (she is 19).

I left town for two weeks for work aabout 2 weeks after we met, and she texts me that she met someone else. Did I fuck up by not committing early, and not giving it a chance, or did I dodge a bullet?

tl,dr. Met slightly slutty girl on tinder, who said she wanted to be in a relationship. I told her that I didnt think it would go anywhere because of doubts over her ability to maintain a long term relationship. She hooks up with another guy when I leave for work.... Did I fuck up by not committing and giving it a chance, or did I dodge a bullet by avoiding being hurt during the school year?

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How does one get a girlfriend? I don't have any human contact and am scared to use tinder because of the people I'll find. I'd be willing to start by making female or even male friends but I don't know how to start a friendship. I'm not even autistic I just have no idea what activities can be done to have fun or be around others. I've had friendships before but it was mainly based off of getting fucked up together.

Help me I don't want to die alone, I'm not even desperate for sex I just want a companion.
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Is /adv/ still capable of actual advice or are the golden days over? It seems to be just memeing, white knighting, insulting the op while refusing to give advice, calling each other virgin, boner boy, whatever these days.
Do you have any other internet source of free advice?

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If someone has cheated on someone else in a previous relationship does that mean that odds are they will also cheat on you? I'm interested in this girl and she's into me but she admitted to me that she cheated on his baby daddy while he was in prison with the guys best friend.

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I feel like I was forced into something and I'm not all that happy about it.

My friends and I do a big trip every 4th of July to a beach condo owned by my friend. It's a great time, actually my favorite place in the world, but my uncle recently killed himself and I've been having a hard time dealing with it. Last night I expressed that I was probably going to back out because I need to just get my life back in order and get some rest.

Our friend, who owns the condo, let me know that if I canceled, she was going to cancel the trip for everyone.

I didn't want to be the person who ruined everyone's time, so now I'm going, bit I feel like my hand was forced. What do I do about this?

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>last year
>start dating a girl
>turns out she has commitment issues and her self-esteem isn't the best
>ends up dating another guy
>decide to stop seeing her
>she stops seeing him and tries to date me again
>give her a chance
>things get serious
>she ends up seeing the other guy again
>end it again
>date another girl
>guess who's messaging me

I know this girl isn't doing this to spite me and I'm sure she genuinely likes me. She has her own issues that she deals with in her own way. To be honest, I might still have feelings for her. Not defending her though, I'm not obligated to help her with her problems especially when she's hurt me so much. Things are going well with this other girl too. I'm just confused, /adv/. Like I'm tired of dating at this point but at the same time I don't wanna lose something good if it might be there. Should I just take a break from dating in general?

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I'm 33 and my wife of four years just left me.

I remember when I was about 26, everyone was using okcupid and plenty of fish to get laid.

Nowadays, I have heard of apps like Tinder. Not sure what everyone's using these days. Do people still use okc?

halp

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Hey, guys.

I wanna get good at sex. I'm not really good at making girls want to fuck me, but I got a girlfriend recently.

She's probably gonna leave me soon cause I can't provide quality sex. But I want to get as good as possible before she's gone, so the next ones don't leave so early, and, if I can, make her stay.

So, I'll try to fuck her as much as possible, but it wont be enough. The lack of experience is too big and I want it to shrink as fast as possible.

I'd appreciate any tips, guides, videos, tutorials, whatever. Anything that will help me fuck the brains out of the girl I love so she wont cheat on me on a heartbeat with the next big dicked guy in line.

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How do I transition from being a nonfunctioning alcoholic to a master of kung fu?

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Hey /adv/, so I really fucked up. Last July I received a text from my stepsister asking if I would come over and bring a bottle. I knew from the get go that it was a terrible idea, however she is hot as hell and I wanted her way before our parents ever got married. So I come over with a cheap bottle of vodka, one thing leads to another and before I know it I'm carrying her back to the bedroom. 3 weeks later we find out she is pregnant, and I'm definitely the father.
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>WARNING: bad english ahead
Guys, this is bad. I'm gay and I live in a town with not a lot of gay people. I'm in my third year of college and I met a guy. For the first 2 years we became friends and chat mostly in campus. He never said that he's straight (nor he denied it) but I get this feeling that he's in the closet (actually I spotted 2 guys in my classes a couple months after I started and they came out recently). This year I found out that I have fellings for him (like REALLY WANT to spend more time with him) but the problems are:
>he lives an hour away from my city and travels everyday only to go to class (rarely stays more time than that, so we don't chill much in bars or places like that)
>and I don't know if he's gay, but I want to keep being friends with him if he's not, but too afraid to make a BIG move (already did somethings but doesn't seem to reciprocate)
I'm loosing it, like matching zodiac signs and shit, what should I do? If you think that I should stop, how do I do it? It tears me apart inside not knowing if he's gay or not, but I also feel horrible that I'm kinda a creep for doing this things.

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So, there's this girl I like. I'm 20 now and we met in history class when we were 15, and I couldn't stand her. She was loud, obnoxious, and just plain annoying. But, as time went on, we spent more time together with mutual friends and became good friends and she became far less annoying. We would sit together at lunch and talk and we had our own little group in art class. In eleventh grade, she made badges for all whole group for Single Awareness Day (Valentine's Day) and seemed a little bummed when I told her I had just gotten a girlfriend over the weekend, but not being into her and having a friend that was I didn't really pay much notice at the time. I practically ignored her in that regard, honestly. That Summer, I was Single again and finally asked her out, though she didn't realize it was a date. We went to the movies, both of parents driving us separately because we're geeks, but it was nice. That fall I asked her out to homecoming, again she didn't realize it was a date, but when I was front with her she didn't seem to mind that it was. Her parents didn't want her to be driven by a stranger and I was carpooling with some of my friends, so we met there, talked about Disney all night, and that was it. For Prom she went to the movies with her friends, and I was invited, but I went to Prom instead. We still talked and hung out, though it lessened a bit after graduation, but nothing ever really happened. This past February we got in touch and I asked her out to a movie on Valentines Day, again she didn't realize it was a date and invited her sister, who brought her friends (one who happened to be my best friend). My friend promised to talk to the Sister and find out whats up, but all she could get was 'The girl is new to dating, and the concept scares her.' It's been about 4 months since then, and we've talked once or twice, but I asked her out to the movies again this weekend. Advice on how to make this work with this really shy girl?

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I am going to take my Divers Permit test. I failed the first time and I want to pass. Any tips?

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what is the best antivirus/firewall software? free or otherwise.

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Tell me about crisis hotlines.
I'm in over my head and I've been randomly sobbing and hyperventilating.
> how could they even help me?
> are they normies?
> who do you recommend?
> inb4 the suicide hotline in the header, I don't trust them