I haven't seen a doctor in about 6 or 7 years.
Lately I'm having periods of extreme lethargy. It's interfering with my performance at work.
Should I see a doctor?
If so, could you run me through the steps to see a doctor in the USA? I was 13 the last time I went.
>>17308014
do you have insurance?
>>17308015
No idea, lmao.
Maybe. My parents had it for me when I was a teen. Maybe I still have it?
>>17308021
you said last time was 13. its been seven years. so im guessing you are twenty. you may sitll be listed under your parents insurance plans then. call them and find out. they are the ones you should have caleld to begin with really.
if you have insurance its as simple as calling the nearest doctors office and asking if they take your insurance. they scheudle you, you go in, you get checked out, boom. if they dont take your insurance you call the second closest doctor.
if you dont have insurance get on obamacare before you get taxed for not being on obamacare. for the time being you can go to a free clinic but they arent bound t o help soemoen who feels 'lethargic'/
>Be 20 living in a shitty small town
>Go to college but programs on break, drive back and fourth to school
>Wanting to make more out of life, go out and do fun shit, try new things, etc.etc.etc.
>There isn't fuck all to do in my town
>friends all work full time and are in relationships, so they don't go out much
>Sit around playing games and watching cartoons all day
What can I do? There just isn't anything for a 20 year old to do around here. I want to spend my summer making memories, not this.
>>17308005
How small is town?
Maybe there are art exhibitions, theatres, nice museums?
Go to library man, or educate yourself online.
>>17308005
Get an internship. Don't you want to actually have a job after you graduate?
>>17308005
Get a gf/fuck whores
So, I just found out that, as of two weeks ago, my whore girlfriend has been using an "arrangement" "seeking" website to whore herself out to guys twice my age for hundreds of dollars.
I was using her computer, noticed the URL, went to the URL, typed in her email address and password and there's a bunch of convos about when to meet up.
That whole time she kept making me give her really granular plans about when we can hang out.
We had been dating for 6 weeks, and things had definitely gotten serious. She had set a few things up for last week and then went radio silent on that website, so it's possible she had a change of heart, but the complete silence makes it seem more likely she just got spooked for some reason and did a different account.
My brain is telling me to drop her immediately.
My heart is telling me to see if I can more information and trying to figure out how much she'll lie before I make a decision.
My dick is telling me to ask you guys.
What do?
>>17307977
>questionlady.jpg
just talk 2 her
u been with her for like a month
tf u gonna lose Senpai
Bail and find a woman who isn't a literal whore.
>>17307982
> "just talk to her"
> just give her free reign to make up whatever and talk you into not doing what you already know you should
I already know she's enough smarter than me to get away with a bunch of lies.
Actually, thanks for making my path pretty clear.
And I'm not the one who loses here, I promise.
I hate sex trafficking and live in a poor area of Phoenix and there is a motel 6 on the interstate. All the time I see black men with young white and Mexican girls. While I'm coming back from shopping at the Kmart the other day I was with a friend. I saw this shady black dude who was in his 40s with a mexican girl who looked like she was in high school. They were along and they were smoking near the entrance of a room. I pretended like I needed cigarette and asked if I could buy one to get close to get his room number. Then I walked away with my friend back to my house. My friend was suprised I called the cops when I got inside. He says I should ignore shit like this. What do you think?
>>17307974
More than likely they are keeping track of this shit. The feds are probably being patient to bust a ring.
These things take years though. Leave it to the professionals
>>17307974
bro
if not wit that chick he'd fuck some other girl
dont try and change the world it wont work
if u dont like what u see focus on getting the fuck out of there not trying to change it
I see it all the time. Unfortunately I don't think our "system" is built to handle things like this without sufficient evidence and probable cause. I know it hurts to see shit like that. There's evil shit that happens every day... I don't know what to tell you other than: if you want to make a real difference you need to devote quite a bit of time and energy... I'm hoping to do my part but shit sucks and you gotta be willing to ignore it and focus on the good stuff if you're not willing to make a real difference, and I know that's probably the last thing you want to hear...
B'awwwwwwww
Kill me, I deserve to die.
my imaginary gf dumped me
>>17307960
I'm sorry to hear that you're hurting, but why do you say you deserve to die?
Riddle me this /adv/
I keep screwing myself over and over again. I know what I want to do with my life, I know how I can achieve it and why I want to achieve it, the goal is not simple but perfectly doable. Yet I'm sitting here browsing 4chan, watching porn and asking for any advice on why am I asking for an advice all the time.
I think I am getting the wrong kind of crazy.
>>17307896
Make a plan. Write down everything you want to do.
Get off the internet and get some motivation.
Procastination.
>>17307896
what are these goals?
btw big SEL fan here
>have started dating my friend whom I've had chemistry with for years
>made plans to stay over this weekend
>last minute, a different friend is suddenly available for a road trip we had been planning for months
>tell my girl this, she is upset and says she's always secondary
>she's got me there, it's fuckin true because I am scum
>don't really feel like road tripping, but this is a really rare opportunity since my friend group is never simultaneously free
What can I say? Or what should I do?
>>17307889
i dont get why you consider yourself scum. granted shes not the 'flavor of the week' considering you have history here but id take the road trip any day.
namely cuz road trips are rare fun occasions whereas a girl staying at your place can happen... welll every night for the rest of your life.
>>17307907
It is true though, she hasn't always been my first priority. I've canceled plans on her for my friends more times than I care to admit.
>>17307933
i still wouldnt say that makes you scum tbqh. i wish i had friends like you. but im permasingle so good friends like that are my preference.
try to break even and see if she can come with if they'll allow it but honestly id just take the raod trip. i dont know the context of the other times you ditched, but you are a good friend who doesnt want romance to get in the way of that, cuz even if she is more special than the flavor of the week type gfs, but ultimately what you are doign is a good thing imo
Long story short, I've likely caught herpes from my ex. I'll know definitively within a couple weeks, but I'm pretty sure. How do I accept having to step out of the dating scene forever?
Assuming I don't become an asshole who sleeps around and infects other people, how do I accept having literally everyone's deal-breaker?
>inb4 an hero
Wouldn't be able to hurt my parents like that. Gonna have to deal with this for at least a couple decades.
>>17307856
Raw deal, dude. I feel you. same thing happened to me. The good news? I only had 1 breakout, the initial one. That was ten years ago. I haven't had any breakouts or symptoms since then. I'm not on any pills for it, either. I've had unprotected sex with my wife for 7 of those years and she has not contracted it.
If I ever DO get a breakout, we'll stop having sex until it's over. Minimizing the breakout is as simple as going in to the doc to get a few days worth of pills, and it clears right up.
Will you be as "lucky" as me? Maybe. Some people break out constantly. Others, like me, go for seemingly ever without one.
Either way, it's not as bad as you think. You need to use protection until you've met your "forever" partner, and only if they're cool with you not using protection at that point.
>>17307872
Thanks man. I appreciate your optimism, but I don't understand how I can find a "forever" partner without scaring everyone away the first time we get intimate.
I didn't notice any symptoms with my ex, and I wore a condom every time, but I still seem to have gotten it. Knowing that, I wouldn't be comfortable sleeping with someone without letting them know the risk. And that early on in the relationship I can't imagine someone being willing to look past it.
>>17307856
How do you know you have the herps? I'm also concerned I got it but don't show any of the classic signs yet my research on the internet has scared the shit out of me.
I've only dated 1 girl. She was kinda promiscuous and had been w/ other guys before me... We were together for 3 months and then I dumped her for my own reasons. We had sex during the entire relationship and during the penetration I always used condoms, but I gave and was given unprotected oral sex.
Few months later, I started to regret not being w/ her anymore and at this time she started to date another guy. But for the whole time she said she still loved me and would leave him to be w/ me. I was very tempted to get us back together, because I still have feelings for her. We still talk to each other on fb and there's a real chemistry between us
At that moment my life got super messy: SIX MONTHS after having sex for the last time, a genital wart appeared on the base of my penis (right where condoms don't reach), and I waited to go to the doctor and see what was going on because at first I thought it was nothing... You know, after so much time :(( Then I went to a dermatologist who explained nothing to me and simply burnt the wart away.
The wart was gone and left a scar, but I was OK w/ that. Everything was going fine till few weeks later some other tiny warts (these ones do not look like condylomas) showed up. I got afraid and this time I decided to go to a real urologist which said it might not be hpv and gave me a pomade to apply over the warts. They pratically disappeared after a week applying the pomade, and I got happy again. 4 days ago I was shaving the area and think I accidentaly cut one of the remaining and now they showed up again, which made me worried one more time. I haven't go to the doc yet
It has to be HPV. Now I feel guilty and like a terrible human being who will never be capable of dating again :( Seriously, this is destroying me. And the worst part is that I still like that girl and I'm so mad at me for having dated her but at the same time I still want to get back together w/ her. Wtf am I supposed to do with my life?
Fun fact, if you are sexually active by age 40 your odds of being HPV positive approach 1. Everyone gets that shit. Your life is not over.
>>17307829
treat your wraits, literally nothing else happens.
Now you know not to date sluts. This conversation should help right your path.
Somebody did me and someone I love wrong /adv/.. He raped that someone I love.
How would I go about beating the fuck out of this person without getting in trouble with the law? I'm going to put in the hospital.
I know where he works, and roughly his schedule for work.
He usually gets off around 9:30pm, so at night.
>>17307818
>How would I go about beating the fuck out of this person without getting in trouble with the law?
You don't. You gently -always gently- urge your girlfriend to go to the police. This is all that you have any standing to do while remaining on the right side of the law.
>>17307859
This. With just a bit of proof you have a guaranteed conviction. Let Bubba do the rest
>>17307818
I'm getting the impression that you're trying to be a white knight for the person who was allegedly raped.
First off, you weren't there I assume, so don't get all worked up as if your loved one is telling you the absolute objective truth. There's such a thing as "morning remorse".
I'm not saying that your loved one is lying, but you don't really know and you never will. All you can do is urge them gently to get into counselling and to contact the authorities. You can't fight this battle for them, and if you really want to then it's time to examine your own motivation.
How much public hair do females prefer on males? Totally shaved? A little bit? Do you shave your balls guys?
General /fit/ consensus is to trim, but not shave. Keep it neat and tidy for the ladies.
My lady likes the fuzz
>>17307806
this, basically. i like them neat and tidy. maybe even shave it into a cute little shape but not hairless. the fuzz is nice.
>>17307806
I shave my balls but trim everything else to the 2 or 3 setting on my trimmer. That hair length makes a huge difference for my gf if she's cowgirling for example. Besides, full shave everywhere makes you look like a kid, a Brazilian, or a Brazilian faggot
i've had enuff of living in the US. want to immigrate somewhere, need to GTFO this shit hole. anybody out there whose done it? i need some good advice. IT guy here, 20 years experience. need a cheap good place to escape to.
>>17307780
What's wrong with the US?
>>17307780
Move out of the projects
If you're Jewish you can go to Israel, but other than that unless you're fabulously wealthy or have family ties to another country emmigration is quite difficult. The French foreign legion is an option as well, but that's a hard road and untenable if you aren't much for the life of a soldier.
Hey I got a text and emails offering a job opportunity to be a "Secret Shopper, as well as a check for $2,000 in the mail. I'm pretty sure it's some kind of scam, what I'm wondering is if there could be any potential legal repercussions if I were to cash the check successfully, assuming this isn't a real "job opportunity".
It'll bounce and you'll get a fine
>>17307761
What do you think is the best course of action is at this point? I haven't cashed it.
>>17307767
Personally, I'd contact RBC about this. They're using their name, after all
So, I just moved into a new house. Had a barbecue, invited some friends and the neighbors for a couple of houses down on either side and across the alley over. Everyone is having a good time. Good beer, good food, good conversation. Giving a tour of the house to one of the neighbors and he sees an empty holster sitting on a table (I was drinking so all the guns were locked up). He asked what it was, I told him, suddenly it was like I'd fucked his dog in front of his kids. He lectured me in my own home, made a scene, gathered up his wife and kids, and left. His wife called my wife the next day to apologize (they'd hit it off). Should I try talking to him? I can't think of what I'd apologize for but I can swallow my pride in the name of neighborly relations.
Part of the issue is that I genuinely cannot see his issue. I don't really know anyone who is stridently anti-gun.
>>17307735
Tell that carpetbagger scum the south will rise again
>>17307741
Dude, we're in Chicago.
>>17307743
Tell him you need to defend yourself against yard apes
>kissless virgin
The problem isn't that I'm too unattractive, I just fucking sperg out when I have the chance and someone obviously wants me to kiss them. I just can't take the initiative. The only thing I can imagine is getting hammered, then I'd have half a reason to be a slobbering, bitey mess.
I feel like I'm gonna fuck things up with the girl that likes me unless I get out of this beta shitpit.
>>17307655
Cool story.
>>17307673
In case you don't get it, he's asking for help :)
>>17307655
You're going to be disappointed when you actually do get your first kiss. I was pretty underwhelmed. Sure it was nice kissing a girl and all but... If you've ever pushed your own lips together then you know what 80% of kissing feels like.