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>>17310101
you were just nervous you faggot.

the nerves and self-consciousness will do that to a boner.

>>17310113

So, is it even worth asking if he wants to fuck again, or will the same thing just happen?

Is it normal to not get full erections when you masturbate? I'm getting close to my 19th birthday and I've never gotten anything more than a half-chub in the 7 years I've been able to get hard. Does the physical stimulation of a real sexual partner make the difference, or is my dick broken?

>>17310073
Every time I see that picture I wonder why she's wearing two pairs of panties.

Anyway, sounds like it's either a problem with your fiancee's tightness (tell her to do kegels, should resolve in 1-3 months) or you have death grip. Are you circumcised?

it's just that you're having sex very often and it becomes routine and boring

Do it less often and put more passion into it.

>>17310073
death grip probably.

if you masturbate at a high frequency with a tight grip then her vagina probably doesn't feel tight and/or the sensations are too subtle to be deemed pleasurable.

it probably feels like nothing if you've got legit death grip.

solution is to stop masturbating/lower frequency drastically.

marry her you need to make an honest woman out of her OP.

That's not subtle you all you idiot. Man up and invite her over for Netflix + chill, or continue jacking off to the fantasy of it

Also she seems like a good girl, so when i noticed the subtle flirting i was suprised. Im pretty confident she is crushing on me but confused with what she wants because she has no time for boyfriends or casual hookup.

Looks like a cool well dressed guy to me.

You're that same Asian who posted that thread a few days ago about not being popular anymore, aren't you?

And yes, you do.

What's a fuckboy?

Must be underage b&

Make a couple artillery shell shapes out of cardboard and chuck them around or something.

>>17310058
Scale models and proportional weights dingus

>>17310039
welcome to the job market for the perfectly average applicant.

>>17310051
Oh, I absolutely understand that. It wasn't like I wasn't expecting rejection through this whole process or for it to last as long as it has, but I'm still finding it a bit harder to keep going as the rejections start to stack up.

I just need suggestions on healthy ways to keep myself motivated and active in this rather than letting it get to me.

>>17310051
Yeah, if someone isn't approaching you directly about a job then expect a lot of rejection or silence until you finally make a cut.

>>17309980
seriously considering*

>>17309980
Give us your evidence because you sound paranoid af right now

>>17309980
>complete failure
>28

wew lad. the denial phase and anger phase should have been years ago.

>>17309945
That's normally the nature of conflict, two sides of a story means your gonna look like dick no matter what, all you can really do is avoid it

>>17309945
do you actively seek out conflict? are you prone to escalating issues?

if everyone is calling you an asshole then there's probably a reason for it. conflicts have sides and people align themselves to a side if they're in the audience, if no one is ever on your side then maybe you're just retarded.

the good ol'e "if it smells like shit everywhere you go then it's time to check your shoes" may apply here.

>>17309948
What I mean is that every time I have a conflict a large group of people think I am the arsehole and never take my side...

For example I just had a fight with someone because I was up at 1:30 am, and saw someone else online and said to them "go to bed, does your mum know you are up this late"

Clearly a joke, but they took it seriously...

Now if this conflict goes on longer, and I stick up for myself people are going to think I am the arsehole...

and I don't know how long I can ignore it because I have always found it difficult to take shit from people.

>>17309938
Your life sucks more because you don't understand grammar

>>17309938

>My life sucks worst because i lost my hearing due to a failed suicide attempt.

Explain. What did you do?

My life sucks because I live with my parents at 21.

>>17309930
make your passwords less retarded?

these companies don't just hand over your account cause you died.

>>17309930
This seems like an unnecessarily paranoid line of thinking. I don't think this is a thing.

>>17309930
why would you even care? you're dead, none of it matters anymore.

This is generally considered bad advice but when you have a crush on one person you can usually drop the crush on that specific person by conciously getting a crush on someone else. It's not a real solution because you'll still have a crush.
Anyway you said this girl liked you back at least at some point so good luck!
I'm going through something similar and yah it's super shitty.

>>17309909
Yeah the girl I was after told me she was in a relationship but they broke up like 2 months ago. I didn't even know. She was very secretive about it.


Now I am scared because I don't want to pressure but I am worried because now I feel like that dude had something I didn't because he was able to get the relationship with her.

>>17309904
The fastest way to stop a crush is to ask her out and have her decline.

Dude you'll never be able to enjoy a sandwich or a cup of coffee again if you kill yourself.

>>17309897
Go talk to someone and get help. The world's not hopeless, you're just surrounded by people who aren't helping you, whether it's because they don't want to or they can't.

Call the suicide hotline and make sure you get counseling/therapy. You might have a hormonal issue that's preventing you from seeing the positives, medication can help with that.

And get a hot meal. You sound depressed as shit, depressed people don't eat. You'll feel better when you eat. Make sure it's got protein, carbs, and vegetables.

>>17309903
I have little interest in food. My fiancé has been lying straight to my face about cheating on me... I just found out. He is my only and best friend. I can't do this anymore without him. I wish I was just being dramatic, I haven't slept in two days.

>>17309864

>>or for anyone to throw it back in my face

Do you do this to other people as well? As in, you'll say "yeah? Well what about all those things i did..."

Personally i think you are mistaken. Its not that you are "too independent" (which honestly is just a humble-brag), it's that you don't trust people, are afraid of being vulnerable, and that you don't want to be burdened by other people's social expectations or contracts

>>17309882
I never throw things back in people's face because i find it childish and rude and absolutely hate when people do it to me.
That's what everybody calls it, being "independent" so i assumed that's what it is. But you might be right... I have no clue how to overcome it though. It makes me SO uncomfortable when people do things for me

>>17309917
Not that guy but honestly it's fine to treat your boyfriend so don't think that's a bad thing, however I agree with him, take small steps to let people treat you, maybe ask a friend to buy you a drink next time your out? And see how it goes , good luck

>don't want revenge
>i just want to bang her best friend or mother
OP, you are extremely angry, and rightfully so. But maybe you should let it go, and just walk away? I mean, what's the use in causing all sorts of drama, that you will inevitably end up having to deal with? Why not make this divorce as smooth as possible?

What about the finances? How does that work since she cheated on you? Do you keep everything? That would be the BEST revenge, I guarantee it.

>>17309861
Most women don't care if you've been married. Once you get to your mid twenties everyone has a marriage under their belt anyway.

>>17309872
I really don't want revenge. I could absolutely fuck her over though, I haven't had a job (on paper) for about 3 years. Almost the whole time we've been together. I work, and make money, but legally she's been taking care of me, which entitles me to alimony. This state takes that very serious too, which means I could easily get it. But I don't even want her money, I want her to get two months down the road and regret this whole decision, and then I'll come back every once in a while and fuck the shit out of her. I don't even care if she's with some other dude. I'm heading back to my house (we own two houses, our finances are pretty split) and getting back with a few girls I used to roll with.

>>17309853
Question. Are you a virgo?

>>17309869
You mean the star sign?

>>17309877
Yes