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I need some serious help here /adv/
>Be me, 23
>Always been awkward and ugly as fuck
>devote the previous year to improving myself and start to get attention from girls
>one of these is my friends sister who I am really attracted to
>be at another friends going away party
>me and her find ourselves alone like we usually do but nothing ever comes of those times
>we make out that night and she confesses she always liked me since she saw me and that she's really attracted to black guys (inb4pol)
>friend tells me she's off limits
What am I supposed to do here? I don't want to just fuck her because I'm also really lonely but I know a relationship would never work out because... She's 17 and AoC in my state is 16 so even though it'll be legal she'll be way too immature. On the other hand what if she's the only girl who likes me, I'm bad with people I mean really bad and what if I never find something like this again. I know fucking her behind my friends back is as wrong as it gets but I don't just want to let this opportunity slip, what do?
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Well, that depends on the situation. I'd suggest trying to meet someone new and putting this behind you
This is kind of a tough one because you said yourself that you weren't very good with girls. However, I'm sure that you could find someone else if you just put yourself out there. If one girl can end up liking you, why can't another? Try going to a bar and meeting girls (even if it's just talking to them) or asking some of your other friends to introduce you to someone they could match you up with.
HOWEVER, If you're absolutely sure that you like this girl, however, there are plenty of ways you can handle this situation maturely. If you both have feelings for each other, you and her could have a sit down with your friend and explain the situation to him, or you could just wait until you're both responsible enough to make your own decisions, like adults.
This might sound a bit morally dubious, but if you have genuine feelings for each other, then a relationship, sexual or otherwise should technically be fine. Your friend is probably super protective of his sister, but he also needs to know that he can't control her love life forever
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If your friend is the overprotective type, he's not going to like it no matter what you do. But you should do it anyways
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Is it bad if I just choose to disregard women for the rest of my life. Focus on making money, fuck escorts, and when the tech is ready, recreate that one girl I still can't get over after all these years as an Android, and live a life of bliss?
Call me pathetic if you like, but it's a bit of an odd situation.
It's a girl I met online, and got real close with. We cammed a lot and etc... and had an "online relationship" for a couple years. Absolute waste of time, I won't deny it.
But this girl was gorgeous, and this is the closest I ever bonded with another human being, and combined will all the stuff I would project onto her because of the online barrier, it totally fucked me. Especially since I never got with her nor met her irl.
Now, 7 years later, and several relationships behind me, and I still can't get over this chick.
And no, trying to rekindle shit is dumb, she has her own life, and had a lot of issues, what I imaged through our faux relationship would never compare to her real self. Not only that, but she's obviously gotten older, and wouldn't be as attractive as her 21 yo self.
It's weird, I know.
But over the years, I became more and more disillusioned with women, and even more so with the rise of feminism, and reading red pill literature like Rational Male blog and such.
I just don't know another way out of this, but I have needs, not just sexual needs, but emotional needs as well. Emotional needs that I genuinely don't feel any woman would ever be able to fulfill.
Sometimes I do just wish for that tech to exist, so I could have someone who fulfills that role in my life, in the way I want it to be fulfilled
Does that make sense to you?
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I very much relate to you.
Escorts can be good.
They have cuddling services too now.
Go for that money and make it happen fuck what others think do what makes you happy.
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Thats what im doing. If something doesnt improve my life, its not a part of my life. Dealing with women is not worth it.
I fucked up in my quest for money though. Chose a fairly valuable stem major but got 100k in the red doing it. 2 years after graduation my networth is still -50k and I find myself supporting a few relatives on 65k/yr.
Dont make my mistakes.
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my gf turned me into a bitch. 2017-08-16 11:16:13 Post No.18627798
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my gf turned me into a bitch.
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Please try to not use the word Chad.
I have fucked dozens of girls after getting fit. Never dated until I came across a cute girl who happens to be my girlfriend now. She made me cry during the first time we had sex. She made me wait months because she was a virgin and she wanted to be ready. After a few times she wasn't in pain and it was great and I felt so close to her and cried. The other girls were cum dumpsters but my girlfriend is perfect. Is this normal?
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>>18627798
Normal but dont get used to it. Inevitably she will want to see what other guys are like and cheat/leave. You don't expect her to stay with you for life do you? So prepare yourself.
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>>18627798
You have found your future wife. Congratulations. Just make sure if you have balls to risk her getting hurt if she finds out about you cheating her and following break up.
>is it normal
Yes. Now move together, talk about dangerous questions like
>number of children
>who will work
>household duties
Dont marry until you both know you are compatible with long term goals, both age 23+ (fully developed brain) and lived 1+ year together (you both seen the others bad moods and moments and still dont mind).
Have fun and instead of expensive useless diamond ring spent money on house, car or hoolidays. And do her a favor and never talk about sluts you fucked before.
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>>18627798
If you have any male children please god teach them to be men. You aren't but a bitch with balls so do some reading or find a real man and use his behavior as a template to raise male children. If not there will be no white male men left.
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I woke up too early and I'm sleep deprived but I tried keeping my eyes closed for about 10-29 minutes and I couldn't go back to sleep.
What should I do so I can more easily head back to sleep right now?
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How much time do you have before you actually need to wake up?
If you don't have a time to wake up, try taking some anti allergy meds. Those will knock you out.
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>>18627793
What specific meds should I take?
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So I have a couple of moleskine books that have been given to me over the years.
one is A4 sized with lined paper which I have opened. I have a couple of pages where I just practiced my signature. I also keep cash in this one
the other is A5 with blank pages which is still sealed
They've just been sitting in my drawer.
What should I write in them or do with them?
Like what do people generally write in them. I don't want to jot anything down that I wouldn't want others to see if they stumbled across it or any cringey shit.
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>>18627768
well i use them as sketchbooks cuz im an artist
but yknow you could always use it as a dream diary or a regular diary
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not op, but what are some good ideas for diary entries? I mean how to make them more meaningful, more interesting?
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>>18627936
>You get more interesting,meaningful life lol
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Question
If I need to be a student on paper, Does anyone know if there is an easy and cheap way to do that? (Australia if it matters).
I imagine I could apply for a course, get accepted, defer, do what I need to do then drop out and it won't have any affect on academic record or any cost. But idk, and I guess you could only do that during the period before semester starts and you're only considered a student once the course starts I think. Is there some other way?
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>>18627718
Get a job instead of trying to scam my tax dollarydoos you prick.
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>>18627734
It's not for that
I'm already on neetbux :^)
But nah it's for a very specific visa that requires you're a student.
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>>18627747
>I'm already on neetbux :^)
Reeeee.
Anyhow, can't you just start a tafe course? Easy as fuck, get a student ID card or whatever you need, then cancel the course.
Also, how can you even get enough cash for overseas travel on neetbux?
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I discovered i am gay at the age of 10, i have all the genetic predisposition (like index to ring finger size ratio) but still, out of respect to my family and the laws of nature i wish to be str8, note however that i am an atheist, so "turning to god" wont really help
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>>18627693
>note however that i am an atheist
I guess you're really a fag huh.
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>>18627693
You manage to contradict yourself in the course of a single sentence. You express belief in the genetic cause of homosexuality but then ask for help in changing. If you believe the first half of your sentence, that's like asking for help changing your eye color. If you believe it's a matter of choice or determination, stop measuring your fingers.
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>>18627693
You mean your dyke parents are trying to convince you that you are gay at 10?
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>meet someone
>think they're pretty cool, wanna become friends
>manage to befriend them
>start losing interest in them
What's wrong with me and how do I stop this? I do want to have friends and I don't want to be a dick, but as soon as I befriend a person I'm already slightly less interested in them and the more time progresses the harder and harder it becomes to maintain contact. The only exception is a handful of online friends. What do I do?
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Happens to me too, my man. You just have to find the right person to keep wanting to hang out with. Just keep at it. I'm rooting for you.
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how to get rid of opioid nausea please 2017-08-16 09:31:52 Post No.18627632
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how to get rid of opioid nausea please
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please it been since 1 day that I have that sick nausea, I've already vomit but nothing get better. It's like i have parkinson's disease, it seems i have now tachycardia, please
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i have 126 beat/min and i feel weak
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Take more vics
But seriously, try immodium or put yourself into the hospital.
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>>18627632
Don't do opiates. I don't and never had opiate nausea.
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I haven't masturbated in nearly 2 months (since 28 July). Not because I believe in attaining super powers like NoFappers. No. It's because I have a higher than average libido. I was masturabting atleast 3 - 4 times a day. Also, I'm 27 now, have been unemployed until recently for the past 8 months. Living with my parents and I just weirdly find it disrespectful to masturbate in their house (even if I did it as a teenager).
I don't want to masturbate until I find a partner. I haven't even stroked myself. The only thing I've done is watch those bite-sized porn clips in gif forms or whatever.
Interesting points to note:
My libido fucking TANKED for the first month. No motivation to touch my dick or think of anything sexual. The past couple of weeks is when I started to feel "something" again. Haven't had any wetdreams. Just the past week, I've noticed that I've been in scenarios that could've lead to sex but I got cockblocked by something else even in my fucking dreams.
My question is - How can I keep myself sane until I find a partner?
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>>18627620
Don't nofap, just ruin your orgasm every now and then and once in a while you fap.
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>>18627620
28 July is not even 1 month ago
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>>18627620
Fap once per day before sleep.
The porn is the poison, fapping is just like streching.
https://yourbrainonporn.com/
As far as getting gf or job goes, you need to first try to get some.
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Vocational Rehabilitation
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2017-08-16 09:21:40
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Does anyone have any experience with this program?
I get Disability so I automatically qualify for it; I have an appointment with the benefits coordinator.
From what I hear, you discuss what type of career you want, if it's realistic and in demand and if so, they'll pay for you to go to college/trade school/start your own business.
Not a lot of info so I'm hoping someone here has some experience.
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it's a sweet deal. the problem is that something came up that prevents me from going into criminal justice. I have been trying to get ahold of my advisor for three months now. It is some new guy I have never met. My advise is to keep copies of all paper work and keep in contact with the advisor
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How do you build up references, contacts, and associates? I'm 20, recently fired, trying to get back into school. I pretty much floated through my life until I was 19 as an apathetic delinquent and only recently started taking an interest in furthering myself. How do you build contacts and a social circle of good people? I have one irl friend that has a record, and my grandparents. That's basically all I could use as a reference at this point. I have 3 years of job experience but either company policy doesn't let my past bosses be references or the boss was an ass and I wouldn't dream of using them. I don't understand rapport or trying to make contacts, it all feels so phony and shitty like a bunch of politicians with fake smiles.
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It is phony and shitty and it doesn't get any better. Take it from a guy that's about to put a bullet in his head.
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>>18627622
Same desu.
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>>18627622
Hey man, I don't like the shit like that but I still love life. I recommend you don't, I can't stop you but I can tell you life is beautiful. I've been through the wringer and back my entire life but it's because of that I know the sun shines much brighter. What is it you're considering it for? There's always hope my man.
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>take a 20mg adderall XR
>do maybe 75mg of coke 30 minutes later
>I was drinking and smoking weed and cigarettes a lot before then too
it has now been 4 days AFTER doing cocaine and adderall together and my breathing is still off, having trouble getting a full breath. It's kind of like I have to keep yawning.
Should I see someone about this or is it normal? First time doing coke, done adderall a few times.
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>>18627588
If you feel that you have to consume alcohol, cocaine, adderall, weed, and smoke all in the same day, then yes, you probably should try to see someone about it, and yes, you deserve everything you get.
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I just wanted to share this and vent out.. any advice would be great too.. 2017-08-16 08:55:44 Post No.18627576
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I just wanted to share this and vent out.. any advice would be great too..
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A week already passed. It was the happiest week of my life (we just got married). Being with her, living with her, spending every little time together, waking up seeing her face, hearing her snore and do awkward positions while sleeping is the best thing that ever happened to me.
This tuesday, everything changed. She decided to snoop on my phone.
Before all that, here's a flashback. It was that time that I am in a very rough patch. I am seeing someone while at the same time trying to get back to her. Something happened with me and that "someone". Time passed and I was in a situation that needed a very tough decision.
And it struck me.. I love Her. There's a lot of those moments that made me realize that.
But I am still seeing that someone while patching things up with Her. Why? "Someone" and I are at least friends. "Someone" tried to understand my situation. She's the one who listened to all my mindless rants about my past relationship. Gradually we got into an understanding that things between is just a fling and we parted as friends at least. I really respect her for understanding that.
I lied to her. The day came that she knew that I was still seeing "someone" and it became a very long argument. We became okay but it was brought up multiple times. I broke her trust for the nth time and it sucks. We talked things through and came to a decision not to bring it up again. But I left one specific detail, that something happened between me and "someone".
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..continued
Now going back to the present, the moment where she snooped on my phone. I tried to shrug it off but I felt really annoyed about it.
One thing you need to know about snooping is it's a lose-lose situation.
She's telling me that if she didn't snoop on my phone, she wont know the "dire" secrets I didn't told her. That if I told her the truth in the first place, we will not come into this argument.
Yes, I could've told her about it. I could've come clean. But why did I lie and didn't tell her about it in the first place you ask?
Because I don't want to get into this same exact argument that I know she wont handle properly..
Now she sees me as someone dirty. Someone low. She constantly mocked me that day. That I am a dirty person. That I fucked someone else. She sees me as someone that she shouldn't have married. To be honest, It really hurts hearing it from someone you just happily married last week.
So, I still tried to tell her that she shouldn't have snooped. If she wants to trust me. That is not the thing to do. She should've told me what's bothering her. What is making her think of look through my stuff. But as stubborn as she is, she wont listen. Telling me that I am making it seem like snooping is such a bad thing (which I think is). That I am the one that did a bad thing of not telling her the truth.
Which I did. I certainly did. I lied a lot of times and I would give everything to make it up to her for all the lies and sins I have committed. I would gladly kill myself just to be a good husband for her..
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..continued
I remember someone told me that if you are going to snoop over someones private stuff, be sure you are prepared to what you are going to see. Everyone has secrets, may it be small or a big one. it is still same thing. a secret.
She wasn't supposed to know about that. It was a thing of a dark past that I myself also have a difficult time in forgetting and I don't want to share that burden to her.
Now we're so indifferent about each other. Aside from having that same feeling of having a hard time forgiving myself about what I did. I also feel so low and dirty just what she told me that day. I feel like I am a stupid person and that I dont deserve to live. I feel trapped and depressed.
She doesn't even wear her ring anymore. This morning she have looked on my phone again. Reading conversations about me and my close friend. If there's one thing that snooping results in, it breaks the trust of that person. Yes, I broke her trust too. But just like what she said that day..
"I am actually already slowly gaining trust in you again"
I wish she didn't break the progress we are having..
If I told her that, she would probably just tell me that I should've told her that secret before. I don't think that justifies what you did..
Now, I am having a hard time to be around her. I feel I should be guarded always. That every step should be calculated..
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>>18627576
You're blaming her for finding out you cheated and lied? Got to be plain with you anon. You fucked up and tried to present a polished up version of yourself...plain and simple and you got caught. Doesn't matter if she would've reacted bad before or now but covering up makes it much worse.
If you're serious about working it out quit trying to justify why you withheld it and accept you are shit for doing it and know it's going to take literally years to get the trust back. Then be an open book. No secret passwords, passcodes, etc. Dealing with a cheater or someone who was weak is tough but not impossible to get over.
Quit being a faggot and telling yourself you were protecting her from being sad by being a sneaky shit though.
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I want to quit my job for another. How do I do it? 2017-08-16 08:44:46 Post No.18627564
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I want to quit my job for another. How do I do it?
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Ok so here's my deal. I want to quit my current job because of location issues. If you imagine a line, at the far left is my college, 1/4 in is where I live, and ll the way to the right is my job. Classes are about to start so when they do I'd be going from where I live, to my class, to my job and to my place again.
Alright so I'll be moving back and forth, wheres the problem there? Well it takes forever to get to my job. I don't drive, it takes an hour to get from my apartment to my work by bus, AND if I work past 7pm I can't take the bus back home because there aren't any buses that go home past that time.
Anyways that's my problem. Luckly I found another job IN my college that I can take, so that will solve all my traveling issues. So how do I give my manager a 2 week notice but at the same time letting her know about my situation in a manner that won't make her ape shit angry at me?
P.s.
Only had that job for about 2 months, I guess you can call it a "summer job"
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Another thing to note, I enjoy working where I'm working rn. It's a great place with great people and flexible hours. But those flexible hours won't help me with my distance problem. I need a job that won't waste my time in a bus for an hour while I can be doing homework at the college library, you know?
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>>18627564
Give her the notice, and say you are having some logistical problems, if she asks, expand on those problems and tell her what you wrote here. If not, she is cool with it and there is no need.
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>>18627575
Alright, thanks. Sounds simple when you said what to do..