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In case no Russians reply, according to google translate it has something to do with network problems.

let's play? (?)
I don't know what to do anymore
if you want
-I don't know either
I need to spend some time with Sofia
-I'll probably take her somewhere
-No problem, if your plans are okay, we'll come tomorrow
-I don't have any plans, I don't know what to do, I had a fight with my girlfriend
-You had a fight with your girlfriend?
-Yes
-That's bad. It isn't serious, is it? You'll make peace?
-Yes
No problem
-That's good then, it's going to be alright
-She's mad with me because I'm not spending enough time with her
-Well, you should spend some time with her, then
-She doesn't have so many buttons (?). I'll try though
-ahaha blyat

>>18625571
>I'll probably take her somewhere
That should be "you should probably take her somewhere", actually

Find peace in God

Psalm 91

1
Whoever dwells in the shelter of the Most High
will rest in the shadow of the Almighty.[a]
2
I will say of the Lord, “He is my refuge and my fortress,
my God, in whom I trust.”

3
Surely he will save you
from the fowler’s snare
and from the deadly pestilence.
4
He will cover you with his feathers,
and under his wings you will find refuge;
his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart.
5
You will not fear the terror of night,
nor the arrow that flies by day,
6
nor the pestilence that stalks in the darkness,
nor the plague that destroys at midday.
7
A thousand may fall at your side,
ten thousand at your right hand,
but it will not come near you.
8
You will only observe with your eyes
and see the punishment of the wicked.

9
If you say, “The Lord is my refuge,”
and you make the Most High your dwelling,
10
no harm will overtake you,
no disaster will come near your tent.
11
For he will command his angels concerning you
to guard you in all your ways;
12
they will lift you up in their hands,
so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.
13
You will tread on the lion and the cobra;
you will trample the great lion and the serpent.

14
“Because he[b] loves me,” says the Lord, “I will rescue him;
I will protect him, for he acknowledges my name.
15
He will call on me, and I will answer him;
I will be with him in trouble,
I will deliver him and honor him.
16
With long life I will satisfy him
and show him my salvation.”

-Look into stoicism
Start
-Meditating
-Jogging
-Working out
-Learn a new language
-Learn a new skill
-Read books

>>18625475
Alcohol works just dont overdo it

>>18625458
>20 years old
>failure

Pick one. You're taking life too seriously. The only people I've met that consider themselves failures are those who are not happy with what they have. Count your blessings and focus on them. Believe it ir not, self criticism to this degree is counter-productive.

>>18625552
If I don't do it, my family certainly will.

>>18625568
fuck em.
you didnt chose to be born, why feel any obligation towards them?

Set an alarm

>>18625413
Set the clock forward 2-3 hours.

Please

>>18625353
She probably assent interested man. Girls are shitty like that and will lie if they don't like you as an easy way of turning you down so they're not an asshole to any degree. If you want to know the truth ask her if she's free on like Tuesday or something. If she's interested she will be free.

>>18625353
>some days later she said she did not want to go in a relationship

She doesn't want to be in a relationship. It's over mate. Move on.

Kinda, I just switched to Facebook.

>>18625271
Begin by doing 25% of what you dont want to do every day for the next 2 weeks without fail.
Then increase to 50% for the next 4 weeks.
Then to 75% for the next 6 weeks.
And so on until you hit your goal.
By doing it like this you are making a habit, that is you are not putting much conscious effort into it, it "just happens".

>>18625277
I don't want to do it, in fact, right now the highest desire I have is to write this 4chan post. If my highest desire was to just do it then I'd be doing it. I don't know how to fix that and that's at least partially why I came here.

Just do it later.

>>18625260
Nah man. A friend of a friend of mine killed herself a few years back and he's still messed up about it.

>>18625260
One of my best friends killed himself 5 years ago and I still get horrible nightmares about it.

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Best mate killed himself the other week. I shut off how it feels because I can't be fucking arsed to go through another round of howling, miserable grief, but everyone around me is in bits. I'll feel it one day.

I can't blame him, he was hopelessly bipolar. But his life was pretty good otherwise, and it makes me wonder whether the ethical thing to do is drug him up to his eyeballs so he feels stable or just let him get on with what his sick mind wants. I dunno, he's not suffering anymore.

Do what you feel you need to do. You won't be around to see the mess you leave.

Just ask her dude

That's pretty rude so why not ask?

>>18625233
Yeah I will next time she does it. i just want an external opinion of the situation. Im old enough to see the funny side to it

Just block her already, why do you faggots make things so much harder tahn they have to be?

It's her fucking job.
I think she knows more about your issue than you fucking do, faggot.

>>18625199
She just tried to undo the disgusting failure of a person that your parents wrought. Cant blame her really, to be honest.

This. Its a common massage move called 不貞which basically translates to "retroactive abortion".

>>18625196
>orbit her for 3-4 years
you are an idiot, you should have asked her out the moment you started liking her. Now it's done and lost

You could find a girl working somewhere else.

>>18625196
I hate orbiters, it's just a fucking girl, get over it.

You probably won't get along for a year if you are together, and you won't ever trust her and think she dates other guys if she looks so good and seems to be interested in other guys.

Why bother? If you really want to, tell her that you think she likes other guys but that you always liked her, just to get it off and move on.

Yeah insect bite can do this

Any other feeling? Like "sand in your eye"?

Also does your eye hurt? Can you move it in several directions without pain?

If you feel discomfort or pain when your eyes moves, it could be a sty. They're small points of irritation that occur on the inside of the eye socket sometimes.

Apply a moist warm compress to the eye a couple times a day.

Could be an allergic reaction, if it's not improving get yourself to a hospital in case it gets worse.

>>18625181
Lame of A not to talk to B and ask if you can come imo.

Personally in cases like I'd just ask A to ask B if its ok if I come so I dont show up like an asshole.

Apply for any job available and work towards getting a license. When you apply, walk in with a resume and hand it to the manager and introduce yourself. Plant yourself in their mind baby and mind fuck em

>>18625165
You dont get your diploma by being impatient and switching degrees faster than slut her boyfriends.

You were supposted to ask this question before youvstarted. Now grit your teeth and FINISH YOUR COURSE FAGGOT at all costs!

https://www.mcdonalds.com/us/en-us/careers.html

>>18625189
Fuck you then, nigger.

>>18625255
you're not going to make it in any STEM field with an attitude like this and inability to use google. I recommend something like walmart or grocery store management.