Two days ago I attempted to cut my wrists. I backed out of it because of how it would make my girlfriend feel. I showed her what I had done and she wasn't supportive, she told me not to speak to her, that I needed to get help, that I'm sick and I did it to torment her. She's 2 years younger than me (she's 17, I'm 19) she's rough around the edges, makes it all about her but no matter how childish she is. She means the world to me. I forgive her for her attitude towards me day after day because I know she loves me. I've gotten professional help and starting today I'll be taking remeron and Valium and taking one to one councilling. I want to know how you guys would diffuse the issue with a rowdy unforgiving teen.
I would also like to know how you cope with the "Low" that supposedly comes with starting to take antidepressants.
I should add that I have a fever coming on to do with stress, I'm pretty sure it's stress flu. So yeah can't really cope with much in the near future.
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She's right. You are doing this to get attention from her, you just don't realize it. Admitting that to yourself would make you a shitty person and mean that you can't get that validation, so you skirt the truth.
>rowdy unforgiving teen
You're the one with the problem, not her. Her reaction was surprisingly healthy for a 17 year old, usually the impulse is to comfort crazy people who cut themselves.
>So yeah can't really cope with much in the near future.
Not with that attitude you won't. No wonder your thread had 0 replies and almost 404'd, you sound like a disgusting self-pitying leech. Get your life together
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Guys I need some help my gf of 3 years just admitted to cheating on me. I don't know what to do, I still love her but I can't forgive her I've been cheated on before, although not by her, and I can't take it again. With all the other shit on my plate I just wanna die. Please anons Im in desperate need of some help.
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Just forgive her and let her fuck her hottest friend or sister or cousin or aunt the ball is in your court if she wont agree to the terms just leabe her she wasnt worth it........... my girl cheated kinda and i told her the only way for me to forgive her was if she let me fuck her cousin tottally worth it and i know that if anything goes down we have eaxh others back pic relayed its the cousin i got to fuck the shit out of
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>>18627254
Don't forgive her you stupid cuck cheating is unacceptable.
There are literal BILLIONS of women on this earth, she is almost infinitely REPLACEABLE, so don't settle for a fucking cheater. On to the next one, have some self respect jesus christ kids today.
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She has no attractive family members or else I would. There is a hot chick at work that's been flirty with me, but I don't really wanna go down that road
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So /adv/, I'm in a bit of a problem situation right now.
I'm 26 and I have a B.A. in English, which I received in 2014. I went to college purely out of pressure from my family, getting really good financial aide, and my well-off grandpa fronting the money. I only really went with that major because it was the only subject matter I could bullshit my way through.
I have no real prospects or skills, and my resume is just retail. I currently work at a grocery store, but I realized way too late that I basically fucked myself over by being too emotionally immature for my age and not choosing something that could get me a comfortable living.
Now here are the upsides to my situation:
a) I have no debt.
b) I'm about to inherit roughly 60k from said-Grandpa who is now deceased.
c) I have a degree, and therefore my core requirements are fulfilled
Yeah, yeah. I know, I'm a spoiled little shit, but my immediate family is far from financially secure and my parents have been in debt up until quite recently. My point is, I want to use this money to finance another degree while I'm still young enough to do so.
I'm trying to narrow down my options of economically viable majors, and the two that stand out to me are IT and Accounting. Now, I know fuck all about the intricacies of how computer technology works, but I'm willing to learn seeing as how I wasted 90% of my life idling in front of the internet. On the other hand, accounting seems easier to learn, and from what I can tell, a career in IT requires lifelong dedication to keeping up with changing technologies.
Every other source I go to always tells me to pursue something I'm "passionate" for, but I'm not passionate about anything that isn't childish bullshit (gaming, anime, etc). I just want something that could give me a viable living and support my lifestyle. I just don't know which of the two options to pick. Is there any way to get an idea of how each field functions first?
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>>18627303
Seriously fuck the fuck off with your spammy bullshit.
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My girlfriend doesn't get wet when I touch her. I don't know what to do. I want to jump off a bridge. I'm used to women going insane after I fuck them. I have been told I'm very good in bed. Normally women are obsessive after we fuck. This girl is the only one I've ever loved and sex is a problem. She says she loved me but her body does not respond how other women's bodies do when they are into a man. It's not my first rodeo you know? I must be doing g something wrong. She says I'm not but again her body tells me different.
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Does she have any kinks she isn't telling you about? Maybe she only get turned on one way
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you were lied to, you are actually shit in bed
time to learn, do you even know where is clit is?
but this is like mental ED, lay off the sex, just cuddle and be intimate, eventually shes gona stop stressing shes not performing (not wet) and start to ease up, eventually will be in need of a bucket
takes some time, just dont pressure her (like you wouldnt wana be asked every day if your willy still couldnt get hard)
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getting letters and numbers mixed up 2017-08-16 05:55:02 Post No.18627206
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getting letters and numbers mixed up
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I'm not dyslexic, and I am a quite intelligent person but I will often read a sentence, think it said something else, and come back to find out I mixed two letters/numbers around in a word, changing its meaning completely. I also find it somewhat difficult to understand what people are saying to me in real life or in movies as well, and often ask people to repeat what they said. I am diagnosed with the tisms but I'm not sure it's a symptom of that. Any thoughts?
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>>18627206
What you describe is the very definition of dyslexia
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>>18627229
No, it's not. I don't look at a block of text and see "a jumble of letters".
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What?
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>>18627229
this
that is dyslexia
source: i am dyslexic
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My Girlfriend hates how overly clingy I am and It's a problem for myself as well. How can I fix it?
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literally just stop
dont message her first, dont call her, let her initiate everything even if it takes three days. you have to let her miss you or shell leave
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Restoring ios 7 bookmarks 2017-08-16 05:44:54 Post No.18627189
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I am a total autismo about my bookmarks, and today they all disappeared. I didn't do an iCloud backup of them, so restoring from the ipad is the only option. I've tried some software but all is the same shitty cloned program that doesn't get past the iPad detection phase. This has happened before, but they restored on their own that time. Now, closing safari and restarting the ipad(including hard reboot) did not fix it. My history is still there from before safari crashed and it was cleared, and there is website data under safari in settings. This leads me to believe it's just the bookmarks file that is corrupted. Any help?
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I'm literally shaking, all the results this last half hour are a bunch of shills shilling the same indian scam product. Free trial that lets you see the program's GUI, and pay $60+ to actually use it.
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bump for op :(
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I destroyed part of my life being depressed and doing drugs.
I have some math skills, but no money, and I'd like to study software engineering. Should I stress that I have no money?
All I have is some free time and free internet.
Where should I begin?
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>>18627171
You should begin by googling "jobs near me" you goddamn moron.
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>>18627190
Ooh! You could also whore yourself out on backpage!
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>>18627190
I have no money to go back to school. I'm already working.
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Is Depression fucking temporary?
Can I actually see an end to this cauldron of shit feeling?
Or is Depression something that everyone gets and there's nothing to fucking end it other than a bullet and 6' of Dirt?
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Depression is not something everyone gets.
There's two types of depression. Situational depression is caused by some sort of life circumstance. Stress, lack of sleep, lack of stability, lack of a social life, lack of exercise, lack of healthy food, lack of sunlight, and lack of fulfilling hobbies or interests can all cause depression. Getting enough of these things or getting out of problematic situations can cure this kind of depression. By fixing the problem, you can get over the depression and be okay.
Then there's clinical depression. Clinical depression is at its core a chemical imbalance in the brain that literally makes you incapable of being happy, since your brain doesn't produce the compound it needs to feel happiness. The above things can make clinical depression worse, but if you have clinical depression, it can't be "cured" by any of the above stuff. It can be improved, but not cured. This is the kind of depression that benefits the most from medication, as medication treats the problem at its source, which is the lack of proper chemicals. It normally takes a few tries to find the correct medication, one that doesn't have side effects such as "making you feel like a zombie". Once you find one, it's like magic. You regain the ability to be happy.
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>>18627147
You forgot existential depression
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>>18627147
you forgot that we dont have any kind of imaging to track those neurotransmitters in the live human brain, that psychiatric medications are a total crapshoot, the chemical imbalance myth is perpetrated by a billion dollar industry, and that CBT/DBT and Internal Family Systems are extremely effective therapies to address the kind of thinking that causes depression. Thoughts cause emotions, period. The sooner you learn to get in touch with what you think and believe at your core, the sooner you can get over being depressed.
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Is it so hard to say that its not racist to say that its wrong for the US government to take down confederate statues on the basis of not forgetting history? I dont want the usa to be like germany who totally ignores the years of 1939-1945.
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They don't ignore it. It's taught very clearly in schools.
I don't like their laws, but Holocaust denial is illegal, and it's illegal to display/collect/whatever nazi stuff.
They don't pretend it didn't happen. Most of the statues and whatnot were gone within a few years of the war ending, not like here.
As for the statues here, a significant portion of them were put up decades after the fact, between the 40s and 60s, as a dickwaving reminder that 'hey we owned you, and were still better than you.'
I'm all for putting them in museums, no reason to destroy art, whether you agree with the subject matter or not.
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>>18627125
It's not forgetting history. Confederate flags are in museums and historically accurate reenactments. They have no place being on the capitol building
What would happen if Germany's capitol had the Nazi flag because of muh history
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>>18627125
There is a big difference between acknowledging the dark past and celebrating it or, worse, using it as a mask for modern extremism.
Moreover, time and cultural changes can invest symbols with meanings they didn't originally have. In the 1970s the "patriotic right" pro-Vietnam War side kidnapped the American flag, making it a symbol of anti-hippie, anti-protest, anti-youth anger, and it took a while for the flag to regain its meaning of unity and patriotism of all forms.
The Confederate flag may mean "pride in heritage" to some, but you can't escape the fact that it also signified "continued racism" to many.
Personally, I'm not as bothered by a statue of a Confederate general as I am by KKK robes, but I can see that many could be.
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Do you guys have any idea as to what is going on here?
>Got rejected last year by this girl I was friends with
>We're still friends but I haven't seen her for a while because we go to different universities
>I'm back from college for the summer and wanted to meet up with her
>About a week ago, I asked her if she wanted to hang out, and she agreed and we decided to meet up this week
>Get a text from her yesterday saying she has to go to a funeral in another state, and when she gets back she has to leave for college, so she can't hang out with me
>Today I was out running some errands, and I happened to be near her house, so I decided to drive past it
>I didn't see anyone, but I saw her garage door closing, even though her and her family are supposed to be in another state
So what gives, /adv/? Do you think she is lying to me for some reason? If not, what explanation is there for the garage door closing? Normally I would talk to one of my friends about something like this, but I don't want anyone to know that I was randomly driving past her house, since that's kinda creepy.
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>>18627120
She's not into you and is too much of a coward to just tell you, find someone else.
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What if a family member stayed for whatever reason or someone is housesitting...? Why would she go to these lengths to avoid hanging out with you when she could have just declined your invitation?
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>>18627138
I already know she's not into me romantically, but she has always been friendly to me, and I don't understand why she agreed at first but then changed her mind instead of just saying she couldn't when I first asked her
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This makes sense. She doesn't have any pets or anything, so I'm not sure why she would need a housesitter when she's just gone for a few days, but I guess that's a possible explanation
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What can you do on a PC / PS4 / smartphone, but not the others? 2017-08-16 04:50:17 Post No.18627100
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What can you do on a PC / PS4 / smartphone, but not the others?
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I'm thinking about minimalizing my life, and mainly want to convince myself that I have no use of anything but my smartphone (currently OP5).
What sre your thoughts?
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>>18627100
Phone and pc Is all you need
Pc master race check in
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>>18627872
I mean sure, PC is the objectively superior platform for gaming in general, but I want to not sit by my PC all day every day, I want to fix my life.
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I'm lonely. I can keep myself busy enough during the day but at night when it is time to settle down, thoughts of her. Except her doesn't exist anymore. The person I love is nothing but an afterimage. Her voice nothing but echoes. The memory of what is was like to hold her is fading. And I have nothing. I am nothing. Just a sad story. A cautionary tale.
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>>18627062
Stop being edgy and explain if you want any real advice faggot
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debt & no pussy struggles 2017-08-16 04:27:31 Post No.18627039
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debt & no pussy struggles
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19 year old dude, skipped straight to a university out of high school, 2nd year in univ starting the 17th. debt is off the fucking charts, i live with a sweaty bearded roommate, lets call him beardman and me and him have a pretty good life as of right now, but things just havent been going good. i have severe social anxiety, super lazy, and my mood swings are pretty damn bad where sometimes i'll be estatic, and other times i'll be fetching the rope and ceiling fan. also have gotten no girls/pussy in my entire life, yeah im 19, but thats pretty old to be a virgin :/
all i do is post on 4chan and play cs:go
advice on how to get out of debt and get some pussy
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>>18627039
Nice larp fag.
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Lately I've been feeling discomfort in the area above the belly button and below the rib cage. It comes to the point where I can't sit for long hours, so I have to lie down and wait till it goes away. It sometimes lasts for hours and it interrupts things I'm doing. Someone said I have gas, but when I try to fart no thing comes out. Someone help me please.
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sit tight omw
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>>18627030
You are having an heart attack
go to the emergency room
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>>18627030
Here's a really bizarre, off-the-wall idea.
Instead of asking an internet board of teenage dweebs, consider seeing a doctor.