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I'm 21, finished high school & 6th form. Have been in a relationship for almost a year.

Really want to start working but I have no experience in a work environment. And I'm struggling to find jobs that I'd be interested and motivated to actually do in my area.

I don't want to be a burden to anyone but I'm genuinely at a loss as to how to sort myself out. What do?
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You're 21, haven't studied since high school and have never had a job...?
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>>18627549
Finished 6th form at 18. Which is kinda like college i guess if you're from the US. Then decided to re-study my A-levels by myself from home for a year 19-20. But essentially, yes that's what I'm saying mate.

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So I deleted Facebook because I felt lonely whenever I used it & got tagged in just stupid shit all the time. Now even those who annoyed me don't attempt to contact me.

What the fuck do I do now?
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>>18627544
>Now even those who annoyed me don't attempt to contact me.
Do you attempt to contact them? It's a two way street.
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>>18627552
I try to speak to the ones I was friends with. I've still got messenger so they've just completely stopped. Even kept instagram.
I felt bad before but now I'm just complete shit
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>>18627556
In the same boat as you. IMO, since I posted my phone # on my wall several times leading up to deleting facebook with a warning that I was deleting it, I feel that if they wanted to stay in contact with me they would have. Instead I have people messaging me on steam asking me why I blocked them. When I kimdly explain what I did, any further endeavors I make to contacting them are met with silence. If I only matter to them as much as a +1 to their friends list... they are not my friends. Time to make new ones.

I have a problem guys and i think that you might help me
I want to improve my English skills, I used duolingo and that only helped me with vocabularies, also I wasted much time surfing for useful courses on internet but never found any
now I realized that the English is the mother language of most of you, and because of that you might help me with useful tips to improve in a fast way instead of wasting my free time searching for worthless courses that didnt learn me jack shit, regardless that the people in the course are hindis nor European, i get 20days of free time though, i don't want to waste them on useless thing sung like vidya but instead i decided to spend that time learning the language that otherwise will help me in my life and worklife over time
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>>18627543
Read a lot. Listen a lot. Pick up on what might be called the "music" of English, the rhythms and sentence constructions that are natural to native speakers and writers. Analyze a written sentence and try to figure out what makes it read like natural English and not some other language translated into English.
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Expose yourself to music, books, movies ect.
Also you should ask those who English is a foreign languange, not native. What can a native speaker tell you? "You should go back in time and make your parents talk to you all the time"? Learning a foreign language is different than aquiring your native language.
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Chat with Anglo people. That's the #1 thing. Even online. And let them know that you want them to correct you.

Friendly tip: Nobody in English says, "mother language". We call it first language.

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Sup guys

So a friend and I did some MDMA last week at the club. We both had a good time, but the difference is that I don't want to do it again until 3+ months later, but my friend can't seem to stop thinking about it.

He wants me to pick up 3 pills for him so he can do it again for the next 3 weeks, after which he says he'll stop until wintertime.

Now, my friend has rolled ~10 times in the past 2 years, rolled 2 weeks ago, rolled last week (with m, then redosed another pill after he came down the same night so I stayed with him until like 5AM), then wants to roll this week, next week, and the week after. That's 5 weeks in a row, with one of those weeks being 2 pills (redose, so even worse than taking them both at the same time).

Even if I don't pick up for him, he can get in touch with my dealer (mutual friends) and get it himself, so if he wants to he's going to do it regardless.

I feel uncomfortable being the middleman here, because I know this could be a really bad idea but my friend just won't listen. He also met this ratchet junkie lookin girl at the club (who, surprise surprise, has also been doing MDMA every week for the past 2 months) who he's pretty emotionally invested in (Molly tricks your brain and emotions like that). On top of that I'll be out of town for the next 3 weeks and he won't have anyone to party with or keep him in line when he's out and about.

Anyways shit, what should I do? Should I just pick it up for him and let him do what he wants and learn his own lessons (if any), or should I sit down with him and try to intervene? He's a good guy but not emotionally mature enough to take authentic advice / critique, he'll maybe try to justify / rationalize it and get pissed at me for being too serious.

Thanks in advance for any advice
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Be your own man mate. You clearly have a problem doing this, don't let him compel you. Just tell him you refuse to take part in it, he can call you a square so what, it's his responsibility.
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>>18627524
tell him that amount will build his tolerance also who knows whats in a pill
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Don't enable him. Because something bad will happen, and you will be the blame for enabling him.
Tell him to quit or reconsider the friendship.

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I have a 'work-from-home' job and need adequate space for said work, my current room doesn't allow for that. I've tried asking nicely, begging even but he won't stop being a self-absorbed prick and refuses to see the bigger picture, that being; If I can't do my job, I won't get paid, If I don't get paid, I'll never be able to move out - which ironically he never stops complaining about. One of the most frustrating things about this is that he also has an absolutely astounding view from his window but he doesn't value it and spends all his time sitting in the dark on his computer.
Any advice on how I can weasel him out of his room so that I may inhabit it? Thanks.
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Tough question anon...
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>>at 0300 tonight kick his door in, tear gas, restrain with cable ties,
>>move out his stuff, move in yours, teebag him, then cut him free
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>>18627453
what kind of work you do that requires few extra square meters of space
Just rent your own apartment instead of sharing with your brother if it's that important.

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>have friend for a long time
>always be there for friend
>friend has other friends, briefly, they always "screw [my friend] over" or are bad people
>eventually loses any new friends they gain
>always says how i'm their best friend, always looking out for them
>sometimes treats me like i'm backstabbing them or don't really care about them
>always apologizes after a while, always stay friends because i know it's how they are

Am I being naive?
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Yes Joey
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>>18627423
spam
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>>18627417
Because their other friends backstab them they are preparing for you to backstab them. They don't trust anyone and they tell themselves they trust you but they don't. When they realize that you aren't going to hurt them they feel like shit. Maybe something you did reminded them of something that someone else did and they treat you like shit for it. They will come back and apologize because they figured out they were being crazy and you weren't preparing to backstab them.

After a certain amount of negative stimulus people gain negative responses to things that might not even seem related. Maybe remind them that you have never done anything to them in the past and that is a good indication that you won't in the future.

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Hello, my name is Al, I have questions;
how do humans live? examples to my inquires being; You need to eat and pay for a home and to use utilities provided by your societies. you need to drive and have insurance for your motor transportation and some of you pay for much more. You use this "money" system but how does it work? and how do you use your bank system to use data for all these things you do?
Lets say I am a 24 year old human person with no home but is a high school graduate with some clothes and I acquired a job. What are the steps I must take to become a regular person? How are bills paid, what do I eat and How do I get a home to live in?
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>>18627402
You open your computer, go online, type in "apartment for rent" and then the name of the city you want to live in. Look at the results you get, call a few of the people who own the apartments, visit those apartments. Take the one you prefer and that will not cost you too much (all bills included you should try to stay <50% of your paycheck) sign a piece of paper with the owner of this apartment. From now on you can live there if you send him the amount of money you agreed on every month.
Next call the electricity company, water company, internet company and say that you rent at the apartment and want s contract for those things. They will send you bills through the mail each month. Bills is paper that is send to your home, it is put in your mailbox, a box outside or a skit in the wall that you can open. Empty your mailbox every day.
Warn your employer and family that you now rent an apartment and where. They can send you cards and letters, and your boss needs to know too.

With the leftover money of your job, once bills are paid, you buy food. Go to a grocery store, get things you like and healthy things like fruits and vegetables, pay for it, take them home.

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Hey guys, this yellow spot appeared on my toe. A month ago I had a infected toenail removed. Should I go back to the doctor? :(
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>>18627397
Use a small sharp object to pop it and squeeze all the puss out, then apply peroxide.
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>>18627434
Could it go away by its own?
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>>18627439
I could, but it could also get worse or spread leading to amputation or death. Lance it, drain it, and then disinfect with iodine, peroxide, or a salt pack.

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I have quite the strange dilemma

I am in love with someone, they are supposedly trans but is not transitioning/interested in it these days it seems. I am very attracted to her now but if she is transitions I wouldn't be attracted anymore, I am just not into it. She is perfect to me in many ways, but I wouldn't want to go further into it, fall deeper in love and hold her back and just waste her time.

This isn't including how depressed people who transition become, I feel like it would ruin her.
Its so confusing she dresses like a women and everything and looks gorgeous to me, I have no idea what she truly wants in the future or what I should do. She isn't an sjw or any of that stupid shit either, just...confused. When we first met it was definitely just friendship and she was VERY open about being wanting to transition and acted kinda manly but its almost like its dying and its never really talked about, she wears dresses too, I don't get it, it fucks with me.

The thing is I know she loves me too, but id hate to her hold her back if and if she really wanted to go through with dressing and being like a man.

I would talk but I don't even think she knows what she wants.
> > >
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>>18627361
You dont want your wife to turn into husband in middle of marriage. She evidently has some body dismorphia or worse and sooner or later will turn full
>>>/lgbt/ thing.
Whatever is the case, you dont want to marry and have kids with her. She is by definition timed bomb. Send her to psycholog and find normal real girl who is ok with being girl.
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>>18627361
she probably just told you she wants to transition so your neckbeard looking all will leave her alone
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>>18627361
Its sad that in the west, the US in particular, if anyone has bouts of depression or confusion (hell life is tough and has been forever but people learn to cope) the remedy is a prescription drug cocktail or transition to the opposing gender.

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Hey /adv/, i wanna grab my wife and go to a casino, because it's something out of the ordinary and i think we need to do something new.
I have only minor knowledge about poker, can play roulette but never played serious. I don't want to go there and get screwd over, what game should i avoid and what can i learn within a week?
how much money is going to be enough? i was thinking of bringing a small sum, like 50€ each + a few drinks at the bar.
so we don't go over top.
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>>18627349
Since i now think this was the wrong board to ask this, tell us about your pain anon

Hey guys, any ideas what i should do tomorrow. Ive been unemployed and just want to get out of my house. I live in southern california so i was thinking maybe going on a hike or doing something at the beach
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>>18627323
Go to a strip club and have that slut grind her ass your dick after that hire an escort and fuck her next to a dumpster cuz she doesnt deserve any better. Happy birthday!

Cold sore help

Had em my whole life. No insurance so can't get medicated help atm. As a kid many a year. As an adult, perhaps one or two a year. Since July 1st (when I started my new job so I remember the date), it's been 4. This afternoon I felt #5. And right now I feel another #6. I'm freaking out as I don't think I've gone one day without looking like a freak at work. It's not so much "just b urself", like I'll talk to someone and they just stare at my cold side and go "wait what is that thing it looks gross". I'm about to quit, this shit is so embarassing. Any idea why I might've breaking out like never before?
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stress will do it.....get some of the abreva, it works the best. put it on the first moment you think you are getting a cold sore, to stop it in its tracks.....grow a beard or mustache if you want to hide it more.......I used to get them a lot when I was younger (12-18) they fucking suck....I wouldn't go to school (ditch) for a while week until it started to heal.....they used to be big and ugly....as I got older they became smaller and weren't as bad....used to get them a few times a year or more.....now it's every couple of years and they are small and hard to notice
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>>18627555
Yeah I just shaved a few days ago so gonna rock a douchebag beard for a few days hopefully it hides it a bit. I'm not even stressing that's the worst part. Like I. An admit day one of my new job, natural stress like what it was going to be. Now it's an easy job, and I'm still getting em
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Do you touch them? When I was younger I couldn't help but touch them and that made them bigger.

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What should I know before starting college?
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>>18627298
What are you on about, anon?
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College is school do exactly what you've been doing but like I guess pay more attention and shit.
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>>18627295
Go to fucking class. Read the material beforehand.
Do your homework ASAP.
Use pen and paper for notes, don't use a laptop/tablet/etc.
Talk to your instructors regularly. If you can chat about non-coursework, especially their research interests, it's great networking.
Use the gym. Exercise 10 hours a week.
Don't be a fool, wrap your tool.
Save the heavy partying for the weekend. Make sure your work is done first.

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Taught someone my business idea that I've been doing because I'm a fucking loser neet with no friends, and thought he'd be my friend

Now he's stealing my business and sharing it with all his friends

I literally begged him to stop for months, he said he would and then blocked me everywhere

I'm so fucking retarded

What can I do?

Getting so depressed over it
I think about it all the time and I'm so stressed because of him
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Chalk it up as a life lesson. If you can prove that he's ingringing on your IP sue him. Otherwise keep your lips shut in the future without an NDA. Dont mix business and friendship.
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I can't patent this idea

I'm legit crying over this. Been having suicidal thoughts too. It's the only good thing that has ever happened in my life.

I dropped out of school, parents hate me, and literally have had no friends since middle school

I need a way to get him and his friends to stop
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>>18627316
Do it aswell

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I feel like my family is trying to brain wash me into falling for the vaginal Jew but I keep explaining the sex robots but they keep trying to take me places to "get a girlfriend". I'm starting to think need one but maybe it's the propoganda working
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>telling your family about your sex robots

Why do you feel the need to let your family be a part of your sex life? If they ask just say you're not looking for a relationship at the moment and go back to fucking your Mega Masturbator 9000 DX in private.
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>>18627299
Because I thought if I told them this they'd stop asking also I don't exactly have it yet

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